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Beautiful beautiful piece

RoyalRoy, I can't post on the family section

Happy Sunday

DanielGb:
feminist wants equal right. Automatically means equal power. Is dat possible? And if it is, den d place and relevance of man is lost.

Women are created like men nt as men. Nd dats why, God make d man rule over is own woman and his entire house hold.

You want CONFIDENT, BOLD AND BRAVE DUDE, didnt u? All because you believe 'Men are to be In-control, be in-charge.' >don't u Wonder Y most ladies wont marry short/dwarf guys? instead she will prefer tall, physically good looking guys with a fitted body Because, in a short/ dwarf man, the woman could not see a sign of 'AUTHORITY'

Feminism...
Since women are like men, then they cn act like men, may b nt as real men. A good man will support his wife as d woman wil do but, wat d man can't stand is d competition.

#MY BELIEVE#
...She need not to be TOO ambitious. Nd if she make a great success she must submit herself. Watch Beyonce and Kim Kardashin.

All men loves to be IN CONTROL.

A wise and rich women will stil allow her husband to control her.

Read more@:
www.globalexploit..com

OK and thanks

However will not read that link.

Have a blessed Sunday

5minsmadness:
Your sarcasm is noted but useless in this matter. Bride price is symbolic and a very important part of our tradition. You can read it any other way you like I don't care.

Throwing whites into the mix may help you because they are your standard. They are not mine.

Saying men tie everything to finance are your words not mine. And yet a woman won't go near a man for marriage if he is not financially stable. Funny ain't it?



Hahhahahhaaha! So you agree they search eh? Then you think it is name change that will make them lose such men when they find them? I think not!
And its interesting you mentioned rich maga And yet you think its men that tie everything to finance

Goodnight

okotv:
okay. Monday after my examinations. Fellow feminists are all invited too.

No problem

okotv:
that's for you both, it's even biblical to pay bride price but as for the name taking, its up to the couples. like carefreewannabe would say, 'to each is own'.

As for my question, can you just point me to were I. iulf get answers, links or quoting on a separate thread. I could learn a thing or two you know.
.

Please open a new thread, I will respond

Thanks

cococandy:
Na lie. Every thread on family section is about feminism. Whether it applies or not.

As long as it is a thread, just give it a minute and the whiners will find a way to link it to feminism and start whining.

Even those that can't explain what feminism means:

I honestly do not see the correlation between name change and feminism

Well well

okotv:
we would hold onto our manliness or would that also be cut off

by the way, what do feminist like you want am serious cause I need real answers...

This thread is not even about feminism (to me)

I am just telling him that paying BP as a reason of women adopting Hubby 's surname is off

Some people do not pay and wife still adopt.

5minsmadness:
For your first statement YES!,that is how it is here and I don't give a hoot how the whites do it cos u am not white.

For your third statement it is you ladies that tie everything to finance, if your man is a Dangote am sure you wont have any qualms dropping your name for his own!

Abeg go siddon. If you are already married am sure someone paid your bride price and you didn't object and if you are single am sure someone will pay your bride price and you'll be smiling like a Cheshire cat in your room instead of standing up against it.

Interesting. So ladies, demand your family does not collect bride price and you can bear whatever name you wish

I threw whites into the mix because last I remembered, they don't pay bride price and they still adopt their husbands' surname so BP is definitely not the magic.

Men tie everything to finance... heard it is my house and so A B C etc. etc.

@Marriage, not all tribes collect bride price. And brides do not smile like cats because bride price exchange hands; it is because they are marrying their lovers/rich maga / after searching etc. I assure you that if no BP is paid, as long as the wedding takes place, perfect

5minsmadness:
Now I know what the term 'Troll' means, I agree.

Haba. What kind of question is this 'is it compulsory to change your name' as if they are forcing them. They shouldn't change it na and remain single god abeg o. They talk as if they are being forced into marriage when in fact they are the ones looking for men up and down. Man is not their head, man is not their head yet they will go and hide inside room when the man is paying their bride price...They'll wait for man to ask them out and then become irritable when the man doesn't notice them; they will never take up any of the responsibilities of men but are quick to rake and take offence when their responsibilities are being questioned. Rubbish.


Its the men who agree for the woman to retain her name after paying her bride price that I blame. Rubbish.

According to you, if a man does not pay bride price, the woman has the right to retain her name?

Do whites still pay bride price?

You guys should stop tying everything to finance, money, payment etc. Else when things go south (God forbid), you lose the supposed grip you have on your women

See mentioning bride price like it is enough to buy a human being. I do not know why the whole bride price nonsense is not cancelled so we see what next the men hold unto

Tallesty1:
It is funny how you expect me to answer that question.

I am serious here

I can't seem to see it

Thought you will break it down for me.... please

cococandy:
Women still help them to till the soil for food.

Literally and figuratively

Tallesty1 has not answered me yet.

crackhaus:
Bukatyne so you are still parading yourself around as a feminist when you didn't even know that feminism has a timeline which categorizes/separates it's ideologies into waves?

What wave of feminism do you support/belong to? Is it also post-feminism like your uninformed friend?

Go and sleep

Do not have time for clueless back and forth

Feminism is not about changing surnames and unhappy wives etc.

Tallesty1:
Nobody said we should pay tithes............

I don't pay tithes.

Cause I am not an Israelite.

BTW, What exactly is your point?

Sure about that? Will dig up the Bible verse later

My point's what does the punishment of memergency translate to?


I was thinking over some days back and I can't seem to see it

Women experience pain during child birth et al; what exactly happens to men?

MarvellousGod:
90% if not all took on their husband's name.... I pity females that listen to these feminists here.. Most of them forming feminists kiss their husband's a$s at home..... Again, If they married lovely men, had wonderful marriages, they wouldn't even be talking about gender equality and stuffs. Most people talking about gender equality are those suffering in their marriages hence the call for gender equality in order to relief their burden. ...

Family section is becoming so boring with these gender fights, most people are biased...

I only come here to read objective posts from the likes of aisha2, Chaircover, etc....

yeahh, I'm female. ..

@Bold,

Interesting

And Jeffrey has finally turned Sansa from a simple minded girl to a bitter woman.

That Sansa will be the death of him

Tallesty1:
Nobody said we should pay tithes............

I don't pay tithes.

Cause I am not an Israelite.

BTW, What exactly is your point?

Watching Game of Thrones now

I think the Stark family lack common sense especially the parents

Tallesty1:
Are we living in a new/different world?.

Yea

The Israelites paid tithes with crops; we are with money

Different times, same principles

Tallesty1:
Genesis 3:11 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life

Please help me translate into today's world

Tallesty1:
So disgusting when women talk about child-bearing and its pains.

That was their punishment for eating the forbidden fruit.

Do they expect us to share the punishment with them when we have our own?


Nansense

What is your punishment?

Besides it was the consequence of the fall...

Exjoker:
My dear you should be happy that the ladies were given only the house chores to do o. If we are to go by your definition of HELP MATE, ladies go suffer I tell you. And by the way do expect a man to go hustle for money outside and still come to do the house chores while he have a help mate

Women doesn't hussle also?

Chores are not 'only chores' especially for a working wife.

So what is your definition of a helpmate? I think the right word is helpmeet

knuckle01:
Nice thread. Here is my simple dinner

This really looks yummy

cococandy:
Lol@moin moin.

You probably didn't add too much water because
It is always sticky like gum. I wonder how you guys manage to cut it to eat. I don't eat it. Only tried to learn making it because it is one of my hubby's favorite.

The eating would have made a good episode for a comedy show Him cutting it here me cutting it there and the starch comes off the plate into our hands and I need to use a second hand to hold where I want to cut...

Hubby obviously doesn't like it

This is a standard case of looks can be deceiving... it looks so exotic

This is

trekkie:
here's raising my glass and wishing you the best that 2015 has to offer.

Thanks a lot

cococandy:
hard work . Tried it a few times

I thought the beautiful pictures I see on TV is moinmoin

I added too much water and the starch was sticky like gum.

Hubby's dinner (Yesterday's... )

Made Starch with Banga today

To make the Starch na Anyways, I have been cured of my craving for starch

Yungwizzzy:
have you heard Of folurusho alakija, ngozi okonjo iweala etc etc

they have homes too

They do not fit the ideal version of a wife

Yungwizzzy:
thank you Bros



They should instead focus their energy in becoming rich

Hmmm

How does a woman combine focusing her energy to be rich and taking care of the home the way NLers want it?

If she focuses her energy into riches while single, won't men say she is not a wife material?

@OP:

Very funny

okotv:
thank you


happy boxing day

Enjoy the holidays

You are one of Nairalands best especially in the family section to be a feminist.

Thanks a lot

Enjoy the holidays too

EfemenaXY:
Thanks dear.

And Merry Christmas in arreas to you & yours.

Same to you

bebe2:
merry xmas to u hun,

na d washing up bad pass the coooking

Pele

I try to clean up as I go