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coogar: ask ileoba....
she provided the juju i used to dazzle 4 women to marry me.



why are you asking me this?

I like to base my discussion on a common ground. For example, a Christian and Muslim cannot agree on polygamy or the definition of marriage. The Bible treats marriage as a covenant; Muslims treat it as a contract

hensben: u guys re far from truth about ds issue God created man in his own image did he say waman?n He(God) created woman 4rm rib of a man,man n woman is not equal in anyway follow d scripture our creature stated d difference in many ways so don't let self esteem affect our taught about ds issue

1. Fellis is not a Christian
2. The Bible says 'God created man in His own image,... Male and Female He created them... read Gen 1 : 26 - 31

If you want to follow the scriptures, endeavor you follow it correctly
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biolabee: if ur man asked u he wanted to marry a second wife, what will u say
And lets assume he means it whther you accept or not(he has even impregnated the said lady)

My man or my husband?

How can my husband decide to marry another wife? It means we were never truly married in the sense of the word. If he wants to go, I let him. I can't tie his legs, can I?

coogar: yet another expression of religious/cultural prejudice!

Are you a Christian?

CAMEROONPRIDE: and what's the purpose of marriage?

Marriage is for

Companionship;
Check against adultery;
Children

A man who is truly married to a woman in spirit, body and soul CANNOT share that same 'union' with another woman

biolabee: what is your opinion on polygamy....

Do u think a financially empowered woman should stay in a polygamic union where she is being taken care of wella with her kids

I thought you were waiting for feminazis

It depends on the woman

biolabee: i am still waiting for the feminazis

if a man brings a second wife into the home, you are at liberty to walk out if you are not satisfied
#marriageNobeByForce

Why are you always waiting for feminazis?

It's best you make your points and move on. Waiting for feminazis, cabals and co only waters down your points.

Polygamy defeats the very purpose of marriage

hegelian: if life and spirit are the same thing then what is a dead material body (spirit??).

consciousness of soul after death cannot be seen as life cos life is described as material consciousness (and materiality is a compositions of matter as we know it)

From Christianity,

Spirit means the Spirit of God. God breathed the breathe of life (Spirit) into man and he became a living being. Note that Man had a body and soul but was not alive. At death, the Spirit goes back to God. 'He gave up the ghost' so to speak

Soul is our mind/conscience. This is where thoughts originate from. This is the part of man that is judged for his actions and inactions.

Body is the physical covering that helps us interact with each other. It returns to the dust when man dies i.e. the body decays.

As for the issue of reincarnation, there is nothing like that in Christianity. The Bible talks of resurrection but in new bodies i.e. the dead that believed in Christ will be resurrected with new heavenly bodies during the rapture. They are not resurrecting to come back to earth to live as somebody else.

Hope this helps

Guitarlife: it's such an unfair practice. and they keep shouting equality huh ? yet they find it hard to split the bills equally. That is just by the way anyway. I'll miss my bachelorhood o. cheeii see freedom . sorry married folks .

They sure will if you will be willing to share the chores 50/50

Mr anony: Apologies if I wasn't clear enough. What I was pointing at is how feminists pattern their slogans towards privileges rather than effort. e.g. "the gender wage gap" ignores the fact that there is also a "gender work hours gap" and a "gender dangerous work gap"



Yes that is precisely what they are asking for. Perhaps not particularly military training but I'll give the most common complaint of femininsts which is: "men earn on average more than women"

they conveniently forget that men work on average longer than women, men also work on average in more dangerous jobs than women. When you have considered those, you will see that it is only fair for men to earn on average more than women.

By the way, it is not as if the opportunity to work longer hours in more dangerous jobs is not open to women.

With regards to the equal wage stuff,

Are they fighting that men and women doing the same jobs, putting in the same hours get equal wage?

hegelian: you didnt explain the concept of life yet. is soul independent of life?. life is define in the dictionary as existence in physical body and physical body is known to combined consciousness and form. what i get baffled about is when people talk about resurrection of life, does it mean all scripture preach reincarnation of the physical body or they are simply saying physical form exist in afterlife also (this will be paradoxical to philosophy of afterlife)

Ok, Life and spirit means the same thing in some context. Are you coming from a religious angle because for me to expatiate, I would have to go the religious route

Mr anony: I feel women and men are equal. By which I mean they should be given equal opportunities but not equal privileges by reason of their gender.

What do you think fellis?

In light of your explanation, the bolded part above is not correct. It should be you believe in equal opportunities and not giving one gender special consideration over another in certain aspects.

Mr anony: Very simple:
For example I believe women should be given equal opportunity to contest for senatorial seats. I don't believe women should be given the privilege of having 50% of the seats because we want to keep the house "gender balanced".

2. I believe women should be given the equal opportunity to work hard and reach the top of their careers just like the men, I don't believe we should simply promote more women just because we want to have equal number of male to female CEOs.

3. I believe women who wish to join the military must be put through the same brutal training as the men. The training load should not be reduced for women just because we want to have a gender balanced army (that's if being a soldier is even a privilege)

4. I believe if a woman wants anything, she should be given the equal opportunity to fight for it just like the men not come out and demand that the reward be shared equally because "the men have it better"


Do you get my point now?

hegelian: religions always talk about resurrection life or consciousness(soul).

1) is Life = soul(Consciousness) + Physical body
or
2) Life is the same as soul.

if life is different from soul then did all religions support re-incarnation (according to their scripture) if not why do religions talk about life when discussing resurrection instead of soul.

Man is made of Spirit Soul and body

It is said that a man is a spirit that has a soul contained in a body

Explain the life you are talking about

The question should actually be other way round ...'Ís it right for a spinster to buy condoms in public?' If a married woman doesn't buy condoms, who will?

P.S.: Should a married woman have a life?

DailyNews: I am not discouraging any man not to practice chastity, but I stand on my ground; female virginity was more stressed in the Bible more than male virginity.

Purity till marriage is vital in both male and female for a stable marital relationship.

But since u insist on having a Biblical view on female virginity, read this verse: Deut. 22:13-21

That verse said: if a man marries a young woman and finds out she isn't a pure virgin, that he should return her to her parents, and her parents should take action.

Again, if all women make up their minds to completely abstain, men will have no option but to comply.

If we are to go that route, then we should still be stoning children who curse their parents or people who commit adultery.

Anyways, the most important thing is doing the right thing if even it is evident or not.

@bolded: you and I know every well that it's not true.

No need to go back and forth on this issue.

God bless.

The title of this thread should be changed expect if the OP wants to cause confusion

What is the news that Saudi wants to reduce the percentage of ALL pilgrims by 20% and their citizens by 50% because they want to repair their mosque? If they didn't notify the pilgrims and the mosque couldn't accommodate them or some people died during repairs, would we not be the same people to complain that they didn't take the pilgrims into consideration?

Please let us treat issues on a case by case basis

DailyNews: My dear, I understand you but even in the Bible, female virginity was greatly stressed upon, and it also encouraged everyone to practice chastity.

Naturally, there is no way to detect a male virgin, it is between the man and his God to decide because there is no physical proof like we do have in a female virgin.

And if you had been reading my comments here and any other place, I am one major campaigner of abstinence from both male and female, and I don't do it to win any e-admiration or cheer up, but only preaching what I know its right as specified in the Holy Bible.

You can never hear or read me talking about male virginity becos there is no proof, its between the man and his God, that's y I don't waste my time preaching that cos some guys who mess around with women can still come out to claim virgins, what proof do u have to disqualify their claim?

So talking about people like me ruining it is only but an attempt of image tarnishing and unnecessary attack, which I am certain was wrongly directed, so refrain.

Where was female virginity stressed in the Bible?

The Bible expects sexual purity from both male and female. This is not the issue of proof or not. As you saying that sexual purity is not important for males because we can't prove it?

If you felt I was trying to tarnish your image or attack you, I apologize

DailyNews: I feel so glad, so excited, I must confess. May God strengthen you and all other sincere virgins out there. Pls hang on, hang on, don't let anyone lure u into sex immorality because its nothing but waywardness!!!

I was dumbfounded to read guys condemning the campaign, jeez.

For those who don't know, sex... immorality is amongst the things destroying our dear nation today.

Marriages are failing even before they are started. Homes are breaking. Unwanted pregnancies here and there leading to increased national population and unequal life amenities.

Infidelity amongst married people due to this same trend of sleeping around which they most times can't curtail even when they marry.

Increased divorce rates resulting from infidelity as a result of women comparing their past sex experience when single with the one they now have when married.

The increased rate of talking about- my ex this and that, that sometimes lead women to cheating on their spouses.

Once we are able to achieve NO SEX TILL MARRIAGE in Nigeria, our societal problem will be half solved honestly.

We need to copy from Indians where it is a taboo for a girl to meet her husband non-virgin. We all need to contribute to this campaign and commend it.

Pls I would encourage the organisers of this campaign to pls hold it bi-monthly pls. And pls take the campaign to all Nigerian campuses (polytechnics, colleges of education and universities) if possible.

I want to also call on bloggers to pls join in promoting this instead of promoting immoralities by the so-called celebrities.

And Nigeria censorship body also have a role to play by monitoring the movies and musical videos produced by NOLLYWOOD and PMAN.

Once again, well done.

As good as this initiative is, people like you will ruin it.

Is the campaign for women to abstain or people to abstain?

If you want to condemn immorality, biko don't be like the Pharisees who condemned only the woman caught in adultery. Thank God the initiative targets both boys and girls.

You are a Christian so you should know that it's not only about the physical consequences which we can argue affects girls more but spiritual which affects both genders equally.

pleep: Well, i've had the same Gf for almost a year now. How many girls do u have logic-boy?

what about you fellis, still using the mechanical Love Machine?

Er bros...,

What has the bolded got to do with the subject matter?

Testerfuze: ɪ̣̝̇ wonda ooo,secondary virgin koh! Kindergaten hoe nii.*smh

We have male and female hookers

Virginity is not a status symbol, it is doing what is right in the sight of God. If a non-virgin decides to stop sex and wit for his/her spouse, I am sure God will be very happy with him/her. There are always chances of repentance.

[quote author=Omo_barca]What if a hooker decides to quit sex and wait 4 her husband, does that make her a secondary virgin? [/quote]Yes, it does

Cipriani: Virgins are a scarce commodity in the world we live today. I will continue searching for one that I might eventually marry. I want to know how it feels to deflower a virgin.
All my life, I have only fûcked disvirgined girls.

You are sexually active and you are hoping to marry a virgin, nice

Cipriani: Most of all the NL girls who kick against this must have lost their virginity in a fraudulent manner and they are now envy of the young girls who are still virgins. Shame on you girls who lost your virginity carelessly.

Virginity is not a girlish virtue. Look at the OP again, they were talking about MALE and FEMALE virgins. There is something called secondary virginity. You can decide today not to have sex anymore and wait for your wife.

deols: Why are non virgins beefing virgins nahh.

Okay. I disagree with the match

But it helps someone stay virgin,

Did you take a leave from NL?

[quote author=D-Explorer]I'd prefer it at any special moment. It could be boring if regular.[/quote]Do you only love your partner during special moments?

@OP: Couples should reaffirm their love for each other all the time.

Testerfuze: They're nt tryin 2 increase girls worth bt tryin 2 preach moral decadence 2 d 21st century gals,we cnt compare our gals 2 d american gals,why? D american gals are always under supervision wit d help of satelite surveilance cameras nd spycams throuhout d country,if an activity z goin on in d skul compound it cn easily b detected etc buh ryt here we dnt hv dis tins, d only way we cn promote ourselves z throuh tins lyk dis. D ONLY WAY

You don't understand my post.

I wonder why the focus shifted from teens to girls.

The March was about teens (boys and girls) keeping their virginity.

When did it become about girls alone?

GraphicsPlus: Sorry. I wanted to quote the person you quoted.

No problem, next time be more patient.

Besides, your post to that person was too harsh. Remember that everyone is entitled to their opinion. If you want to give a different opinion, state it with love.

Have a splendid day

[quote author=fresh_dude]My broda the tin tire me.[/quote]What should 'tire' you is the fact that when quality marriages are mentioned, Nigerian men are quick to direct us to the west.

causewahala: Can you quote where she doubted their virginity status? I think the last part of your sordid statement aptly describe you!

Hi,

Have a splendid day

GraphicsPlus: Why are you bitter. If you have lost your own virginity, are these girls responsible? How will you bet that they are not virgins? Why are some Nigerians reason in a foolish way?

Why do I think the bolded describes you to a T?

parki: Nigeria, a country where people pretend to be self righteous on the outside whereas they are evil on the inside. I bet u that the girls in the photo are not virgins.

Is virginity about girls alone?

When did the thread evolve from the March to encourage chastity to March to encourage girls (only) to keep their virginity?

It is a very good initiative but they should be encouraged to keep themselves (boys and girls) for the right reasons (because God said so) and not to increase the girls' worth in the marriage market.

I also don't think it is what should be broadcasted; I believe it's between the individual and God (and Maybe the spouse they get to marry)

I hope there are Marches like this in future to condemn corruption and other vices that plague our society.