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CAMEROONPRIDE: Mrs bukatyne
Care to explain how truth and fact are different?

And how one(fact) is not relative and the other(truth) is relative.?

Thank you

Sorry, I couldn't reply last night.

Fact:/fakt/
Noun
1.A thing that is indisputably the case.
2.Information used as evidence or as part of a report or news article.

Truth:/tro͞oTH/
Noun
1.The quality or state of being true: "the truth of her accusation".
2.That which is true or in accordance with fact or reality: "tell me the truth".

Using the OP's story,

The fact is that his friend killed himself

The truth is that we may never know what really made him commit suicide; it might have been shame, anger, pain, last of trust, feeling of betrayal etc.

Truth and Fact are synonyms.

chronique: Ok,fine. Maybe at that time I wasn't too close to God but I'm better off today. You don't know how it feels for a man to find out his partner is being serviced by someone else for no tangible reason other than greed and stupidity on the part of the lady. Walking away aint as easy as turning on a switch. You're talking about a man's ego being bruised. I as a person believe that for every wrong decision you make,there are grave consequences accompanying it and you must be ready for them(irrespective of how bad they are). If I'd let her go like that,she wouldn't have learnt anything. At least,there's the fear of me in her. The day she sees me in pubblic,she'd run for cover. I do not regret my actions one bit cos she so deserved it. What she did is what has led to the death of the young man in the OP's post;it tells you how serious it is.

True at bolded but it's not YOUR duty to determine the consequences of people's actions. The gal was cheating, then end it!

As for your bestie, you should be very wary of him. Even if your ex tried to lure him, he should have told you and not betray you by sleeping with her. You know that sex is more of spiritual than physical. You and your bestie have shared blood and all sorts.

It's well.

CAMEROONPRIDE: So you make a difference between a truth and fact?
Lol anyway it is still not relative.

And if you are going to reply don't quote or mention your useless bible anymore

Cameroonpride, can you remember this post?

showietee: islam is a way of life that has solutions to problems.
Since the visitors are irresistable for the women, who you guys think should have been the solution to that? For been irresistable for women is dangerous and you guys know women can't control themselves like men(apology to female folks,not intending to insult). Joseph(prophet yusuf) case explain this beta.



Peace.

Women can't control themselves sexually unlike men?

This is a new one!

pleep: Shut up you dumb hoe. The girl was in the wrong accept it

Im only "uncouth" to dumbasses.

Dear,

I was not trained to insult people who have different POVs or truth or facts from mine.

When you are ready to converse like a reasonable person, you can quote my posts and we will discuss.

Till then.

pleep: You foo. All chronique did was keep sleeping with his GF, she was the cheater not him. he turned lemons into lemonade...

The brain of the average nairaland lady is sooooo backwards.. thats why yall getting bashed all the time.

I wonder why you are so uncouth. I hope you don't relate this way in real life.

Chronique knew his GF was cheating on him and decided to turn it into a game discussing his private activities with his friend. At that point, he's was no longer sleeping with his GF but a girl his friend was sleeping with.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Don't try to shove yours down my throat then.
I don't care either so don't mention that thing anymore.

Still waiting your answer ?

Did I even indicate my belief? Don't muslims and traditional worshipers believe in God the Creator?

Do I even know what you believe or don't believe in?

SMH

pleep: lol, women like bukatyne want every man to ask like jesus

... but they never see anything wrong in womens behavior. Chronique didn't do anything wrong.. the lady did. You ppl are so blind.

You inferred I saw nothing wrong with what she did from my post you quoted?

You need sleep.

O yes, chronique did nothing wrong.

A man that sleeps with a b!tch is a?

onila: one out of 100

Whatever you believe!

CAMEROONPRIDE: So you make a difference between a truth and fact?
Lol anyway it is still not relative.

And if you are going to reply don't quote or mention your useless bible anymore

Mr,

I DO NOT care about your beliefs BUT do not rubbish mine.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Your point is?

Truth/facts are not relative don't fight the obvious.

A dog is an animal? How can you say it is relative?

Is fact and truth the same?

pleep: @ dumb woman- I don't care dumbo... my posts are suppported by facts while yours are just opinions. fact is not relative

now buzz off if you don't want an e-beef.

I said truth, you said facts...

Why should I care if a nameless, faceless moniker wants to have an e-beef with my moniker or IP address?

CAMEROONPRIDE: Truth is not relative , who told you that?

According to religion, God created the earth
According to evolution, the earth evoluted from ...

onila: are u gonna marry a Nigerian man


what advise wld u give a guy if his girlfriend hit him

Sweetheart,

If you can cope with cheating, not every woman can. Besides, there are responsible and faithful men out there.

As for a girl hitting her man, how many girls hit their guys knowing that their guys are stronger?

Are you comparing a slap max to sleeping with someone?

chronique: Moral of my story is that I've been in a situation close to what the deceased experienced and I know how it feels. Are me and my bestie better than the girl in question? Yes we are. Maybe you'd have preferred to hear how I fought my bestie and broke his head with bottle but sorry to disappoint you. I can't exchange punches over a biatch. It's my policy. I'd rather make life miserable for the cheating biatch. Yeah,her case got as bad as pple calling her my leftover. That's how you treat girls who think they're smart. I didn't need to get violent about it. That was my way of getting even. When she found out we were playing her,she was ashamed of herself. My friend didn't rape her;she gave in willingly cos she thought she was good at her games and mind you,she was also Shagging one married military man... My dear,don't try to defend her. You treat a dog like a dog and a woman like a woman;simple.

I am not defending her or expecting you to fight your bestie. There was nothing stopping you from ending the relationship.

I want to believe you are not a christian; else reread your posts from a christian POV.

pleep: ^ lol ma'am... i just made 3 posts explaining how men are conditioned by evolution to be less tolerant of a cheating partner.

I am not going to go though all that again just to try and convince another dumb woman (i.e you) of a truth she will never accept

Truth is relative.

The fact that Vivian doesn't agree with you doesn't make her dumb.

There is no need to convince me to accept your opinions; I am entitled to mine and you yours.

I believe you are a reasonable person. Insulting people because they do not share your POV is a quality of an UNREASONABLE person.

CAMEROONPRIDE: We are looking for feminist like u

https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general-especially/3#15232202

Thanks for the invite.

I have gone through the thread and will comment tomorrow cos i'm mobile now

pleep: I dont get what is so hard for these dumb women to understand that men & women have different priorities in relationships.

most men will not tolerate being cheated on

most women will not tolerate brokeness

@ ladies get it through you estrogen saturated brains... if it bothers you so much have a march lol.

And who are the dumb women?

The fact that a woman doesn't agree with mighty pleep doesn't make her dumb.

The society has conditioned women to accept cheating and all other crap from their men.

vivian chinaza: I don't agree with some of their ideologies. And in practice, I don't like the so much anger in them.

Ideologies like?

biolabee: Appreciate your frankness
truly but generally black women are mostly angry
Just that the feminists' angerlevels are quite high CONSISTENTLY

And I guess that black men are always joyful and cheerful.

@ Elizomama,

You have really made a good observation. Humans in general do not like to be accountable for their choices and actions. Hence we see guys whinning their GFs chopped their money, women crying their BFs did hit and run, their parents made them evil, their friends made them steal etc.

As for the guys that are insulting the OP, I want to sincerely believe you didn't read the opening post before you commented. Read/reread the opening post and try commenting again.

nnecar: Too young a couple

Too young?

Why?

Since this is now on FP,

She looks like she forgot her underwear and skirt/trousers at home/on site

[quote author=Blue-eyed boi]....Funny post...you actually think giving the OP a false sense of belonging by telling her how cute she is (a huge exaggeration BTW) makes you a better person??...the height of delusion..smh[/quote]What's your own with her looks?

Did her hubby complain to you?

Have you created your own human being?

Abeg, leave matter joor!

2jideofor: You are just 2% in the lots. Yes, it is that bad!

the reality facing us out there is a direct opposite of what you have written.

You are right that she has lost a gem but I say again, if he continue treating girls as he has done for his ex, he will most times get burnt.

I've tried to remain that nice guy but unfortunately, it has never paid me. The last happened a few days ago and I made up my mind NEVER to be again.

Did you see what I wrote about my ex? She confirmed what sholly wrote and I quote " is it when I am married I will have the experience?"

It is what they want and that's what I shall give them.

Guys are equally as bad or even worse than ladies.

It's not a guy/lady problem. The issue is people are desperately wicked. Don't you notice how friends stab each other? Can't you see how colleagues relate and stab each other in the office and try to pull themselves down?

People are now so ungrateful, evil, unforgiving, silly, selfish, greedy and deceiving

Why do you now suddenly think that this evil men and women would make good spouses?

vivian chinaza: How much fuc...king bride price do you even pay?

Bro face it, men are weaker vessels. You can't just get ur acts together, stand up and own up to your responsibilities, no! You always push the blame to someone else. What does that make u? Cry babies. You guys are just weak.
And its good a lot of you are served the very food you prepared. At least you get to see how great it tastes.
When next you see a woman on the road? Duff ur cap for her! She is an epitome of strength.
And I didn't say this from a view point of feminism. I'm not a feminist.

A lot of you guys are just full of shi..t and I wonder how women put up with u.

Don't mind them, they think they have the reserved rights to demand fidelity from their women.

Lol! Why are you not a feminist?

chronique: So so sad. Everytime my dad disturbs me about getting married,I keep telling him that the ladies they had in their era can't be compared to what is obtainable today but he doesn't seem to understand how bad things are. It's easier for SU brothers and sisters to marry than for those who've had experiences of what life outside the church looks like. how do you explain your wife slamming your younger brother? Not your neighbour or friend or colleague;your own blood? What's as humiliating as that? The more I read about issues like these,the more it makes me drag my feet towards settling down. Wouldn't it be better for one to be single and happy than for one to be married and sad? If you dig deep,you'll find out she's been shagging others aside his brother.

Sorry for the loss of your friend. Once had a girl who was doubling up between me and my bestie(although the whole thing started as a game). My bestie opened up to me about it and at first,I was heartbroken and embarassed. But I had to be a man. I told him to carry on. We both screwed the bitch and when we were done,we left her. But in her silly mind,she was playing games,not knowing we were busy chilling with drinks at night to discuss her p**sy and the stretchmarks on her saggy boobs. When I left that hood,I passed her round to others.... The irony of it all is that one innocent man would marry her and start a family with her. These are the kinda girls you can't leave at home without them testing other dicks behind you. Unfortunately,there are so many of them outthere. Yes,he was wrong to have taken his life but nobody knows how destroyed he was,inside. Maybe he would have been able to cope if she was still his girlfriend but his wife,mother of his child? That must have been pretty tough. May his soul r.I.p.

Your post really got me laughing!

What really is the moral of your story?

Are you and your bestie any better than the girl you were jointly sleeping with?

ayobase: A lady that screws men is tagged a prostitute, but a man that screws women is tagged a Don in most cases.

Why?

The trauma of woman cheating is FAR heavier than that of man!

As a woman, u are bound to counter me on that, but its the fact!

According to who?

2jideofor: Nope, I like what she said because it is REAL and confirmation of what my ex told me.


Don't pretend and hide truth.

Truth is relative dear

I met my guy 7 years ago and I have not thought of seeking 'excitement' else where. My guy is a very nice guy who treats me as a queen and I have not thought of taking his love for granted.

The OP's gal does not know what she has lost until she is ready to marry then she will realize she don her hubby do BF.

I am sure that if she felt her relationship was boring and she used her initative, she would have together with the OP thought of a way forward.

The OP obviously treats her like they are already married and I wonder if she would seek her yeye fun outside.

I also do not understand what some posters mean by too much love. Can love be too much? Is there a certain measure that a man uses to gauge his love for his wife or GF? Yes, the OP's relationship failed but it's not because of over love or over nice. The girl didn't know what she wanted.

@OP,

Good day

Your story is really so sad and I wonder why some people throw away future treasure for temporal 'enjoyment'. This is a time to draw closer to God. Forget how she has hurt you and move on. It's not easy but God will help you.

I like your decision not to change from who you are because of a nasty girl. Don't stop being a good person and a woman who deserves you would come.

like sexkills said, mourn your loss and move on. Don't try to play macho man because it would only make you a bitter person. Four years is a long time to invest everything you have into a relationship.

As for women and men who say they need time to sleep around aka enjoy life before marriage, I don't know where hopping from bed to bed and losing your dignity and self worth equals enjoyment.

Do not torture yourself by thinking of what you did wrong to push her into the arms of a supposedly better man. You can't be perfect and she's an adult who should be able to have a matured discussion with you when there are problems.

It's well with you

Shollypopz: This is slander! What HV we done to you, that u must generalize and put us all in one category?

Dear, your previous posts on this thread will be a reference point by all men who wants to insult women.

You two look very good.