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seedord247: I keep sayin it.... Even thou i'm 101% yoruba, i wont marry from my tribe. If you marry a yoruba woman just have it mind that you marry the entire family. A yoruba woman cant think for herself unless she invite all her families.

ifihearam: I think the man's side of the story is true. Why should a married woman spend weekends outside her home even if the man is cheating on her,I sincerely doubt if the women of nowadays can be as faithful as our mothers. Especially going by the said tribe of women simply nothing to trust about them.

Callottee: Sorry about your 'bashing' interpretation. . . I am just an UNEQUIVOCAL poster. . .as always.
As for the red-bolded part. . .I ain't got all day to address that without derailing this thread. Derailing threads is part of my agenda for 2013. So, I thank you once again for this 'folgers-in-my-cup-topic'. . . . !

Off to the gym!

victorian: Sorry It's a ,grammatical error ... Its an inbuilt virtue, and av been trained from childhood to be very submissive to whosoever I marry ....and my friend are also submissive to their husband s too, even though, they are well educated.. U can't try , not to be submissive from my father's compound.. It's just there...
Thanks bukatyne.

Callottee: There is absolutely nothing like a 'CHRISTIAN' MAN OR WOMAN. . . JESUS CHRIST NEVER GOT MARRIED. . .HE ALSO DIED WITHOUT HAVING SE-X! The next best thing you can ever have are 'COUNTERFEITED-CHRISTIANS' too frustrated to smell their own hypocritical azzzes!

I hope my response does not count as 'basssshing' o!

abdul4new: you a fool and slowpoke for dat statements, so u expect d moslem youth to sit down and do nothing when their cleric was brutally gum down by nonsense idol worshipers that do not know GOD.

Callottee: Unfortunately, the cyber airways is not for CHRISTIAN MEN only. . . .that is if you can find one!

So. . . here goes: FROM A BLISSFULLY-BLESSED AND HAPPY AGNOSTIC HAPPILY-MARRIED FEMALE!

1. Because they are brain-washed and daft!

I am talking of both the men and the women!

victorian: Op, certainly not true and not in all cases...I dare not submit to my husband, it's not done.. Even my married female frnds that are very well educated are submissive , so pls don't generalize...not fair

Shinatu: He is right you know, if u were dump you would not notice many of the wrong things he probably does/says, talkless of criticising him.
Many people Male/Female feel more comfortable with people we know will never see our wrong, where we can be local champions!

pekelepekele: [color=#990000]The problem is that the parents failed to understand that the most important thing in this life is their own lives . Doesn't mean they won't take care of their kids but as they are doing so they should be saving for their own old age because Gals and boys of nowadays na juju dem dey take tie each other down . Imagine a gal saying she won't marry a man that still has a mother common . God go help us for this world wey we dey so[/color]

jidegirl12: I recently had similar discussion on Damiso's thread

....marriage( kids expenses )shouldn't be an excuse to care for your parents.... It is an obligation to care for your parents the best possible way you can afford( money , time).... it doesn't have to be millions... Let your spouse know its his responsibility and duty of a family purse to include your parents in the budget... They deserve it you like it or not...

Bukatyne... do you know some couple don't have secret and stash money in another account without their spouses knowledge? ........So this is not the matter of a 16 year old I give pocket money I already knew 70% of it will go towards buying her boyfriend gifts.

Please stop mixing apples with oranges.

chidyke77: hv u forgotten that there are some men may be out of love or stupidity wouldn't do anything without their wife knowledge. They believe in after all,one plus one is one.

jerk: Blame it on d part of some wicked wives that these men married.

ifihearam: Godbless you.

Women of this days takes the glory of men,its only the wise and well brought up ones that plays a balanced role with their husbands,take for instance,when a father pays the fees of his kids,he has little or no time to talk to the kids,or when he provides them the basic things they need especially when they are still young,it is the obligation of the wife to teach the kids how to be appreciative by askin them to thank their dad for the gifts,fees paid but some women will take the glory injecting into the minds of the kids that she provides all for them. From the way we were brought up we even thank our parents after each meal.

ifihearam: Godbless you.

Women of this days takes the glory of men,its only the wise and well brought up ones that plays a balanced role with their husbands,take for instance,when a father pays the fees of his kids,he has little or no time to talk to the kids,or when he provides them the basic things they need especially when they are still young,it is the obligation of the wife to teach the kids how to be appreciative by askin them to thank their dad for the gifts,fees paid but some women will take the glory injecting into the minds of the kids that she provides all for them. From the way we were brought up we even thank our parents after each meal.

Pharoh: Someone just posted what i have in mind, we are Africans and issues is definitely not a reason to discard the contribution of your father from childbirth to adulthood.

safarigirl: ditto this. Why are fathers so under appreciated? A man that molded you for years, more or less gave you a career to the detriment of others who might as well have been better than you. And then you decide to 'beef' him cos he cheated on your mother? That should be between father and mother, kids need not involve themselves.

I can't let my daughter 'beef' her own father because of a crime commited against me, e no just blend.

Yomieluv: To you: faceless Nairalander.

To my mum: a good son.

To my fiancee: husband material.

To my pastor: dedicated tither.

To my Father:A responsible child.


To my neighbour: a good neighbour.

adaoke: Everyone keeps saying he is the first one, you dont have to say yes to him, others will come etc
The guy in question is a decent person,but people are wary cause he is the first person.

So, is anything wrong in marrying the first person that comes for your hand in marriage?

dessy002: Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence--a life sentence.

Marriage is very much like a violin; after the sweet music is over, the strings are attached.

Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore, marriage is an institution for the blind.

Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her Masters.

Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.

Marriage certificate is just another word for a work permit.

Marriage is not just a having a wife, but also worries inherited forever.

Marriage requires a man to prepare 4 types of "rings":
* The Engagement Ring
* The Wedding Ring
* The Suffe-Ring
* The Endu-Ring

fellis: Abraham slept with his maid? Lol. That only means that women should allow their husbands sleep with other women. Since Sarah was a model wife and everything.

uplawal: @Bukayte,can you help urself ignoring me ,there is no way you can hate only the sin without hating who is committing it,pls carry your fake church doctrine out of here,it does not exist in Islam,i mean real muslims mind.And mind you we muslims fight for Allah cause if need be,as Allah promised to fight who fight us through our Hands,Just like you christians are jubilating on facebook and nairaland about the Nigerians troops sent to Mali,cursing the muslims and saying they should kill them all,So in your thinking the christian soldiers amongs them should laid down their arms,cos they should not fight.

Tcrack: ABEG ABEG ABEG. make i hear word. any marriage without children can never be happy. forget story. if each of the couple has a child from a previous marriage, its understandable. but live through life without a child? lai lai. what am i living for? just to eat and wear cloth. which kain stupid love be that?

ifihearam: Children r not d primary aim of marriage



My dear stop deceiving yourself. They are the primary reason