₦airaland Forum

Quiteparrot:
I'm married with four kids (5/13 years), my wife is from Edo State while me a Yoruba. There was a little misunderstanding between us lately when she told me that she will soon start to teach my children her language , I objected to this which made her feel bad . My children barely understand my language and can't speak at all because we all speak English at home but my wife understand Yoruba at least by 30% . I won't like it when they start speaking a language I don't understand under my roof. I'm trying to teach my kids Yoruba but my unavailability at home isn't helping matters. I don't think I'm being selfish in this case because it will be lovely if all of us speak Yoruba than only me being left out, this is one major thing I don't like in an intertribal marriage

abobote:
That's what it is

The other day, my wife told me that if she has money, she won't worry about husband

BloomingDale:
Keep crying over the white man’s laws to protect his woman and offsprings, that don’t even concern you guys. Heck, you guys don’t even have laws to protect your offsprings, talk more of your spouses, but you are going to cry over the white man’s laws to protect his own?

G00DHardDick:
You keep jumping around saying they don't have laws like that in Africa like are you ok? A man doesn't need a law to will his property in the name of his mother. So wtf are you saying?
A Nigeria man can decide to will his property in the name of his mother, and that is exactly what I am going to do. You don't need any god-damned law to do that. You can put anyone you want as your next of kin and Nigeria men will put their mothers as their next of kin. So what law are you talking about again?

GloriousGbola:
madam laila should first talk true - if your 19 year old millionaire athlete son comes to meet you with a 31 year old woman as the love of his life - what would you do?

Persephone1:
Nigerian men's definition of woman of virtue isn't exactly something i look forward to. So I'd reject this.

I am a fair person with a balance view, I'm just that..

Persephone1:
She did wrong by asking. I definitely won't be smiling if someone ask for 50% of my labour and sweat. I won't.

That's milking!

Queendera:
Lols.

No one deserves to loose 50% of their wealth simply because they fell in love.

I thought love is free?

If you divorce, simply move on with what you have and maybe make arrangements for the kids. If this type of women and laws don't exist, he won't be taking this extreme measures to protect himself.

Golddiggers are not lovers and do not deserve pity

Yes. I said what I said

khalling2008:
I don't have a problem with anybody as my next of kin. Alhamdulilah, I'm a Muslim, and Islam has perfected how to distribute your properties when you die in the Quran.
I will advise the Muslims who go to court weddings to stop it because there is injustice in court marriage about inheritance.

Women can't divorce and if you want your husband to accept your divorce, there must be a condition.

My mama, father, children, and wife can inherit me if I'm no more in this life according to Islam with each having their % in my properties.

My brothers can only have shared in my properties when I'm no more in this life and when I have no male child according to Islam.

As a Muslim, you can't share your properties or Will, Allah has taken care of how to share your properties in the Quran.

The detailed explanations about heirs and their shares in Quran take place in the chapter of Nisa/4 verses no. 11-12 and 176. These verses set up the basic foundations of the inheritance law of Islam.

Lamanii22:
SIMP… except she has a child for him I don’t see why half of somebody’s property would go to a woman after divorce…. I think they need to change their laws….

adenigga:
Self-acclaimed relationship coach Solomon Buchi has advised that it is wrong for men to have their mothers as their next of kin.
Buchi via a series of thread on Twitter on Friday advised men, who do not trust their women, not to settle down with them following reports of PSG and Morocco star Achraf Hakimi outsmarted his wife Hiba Abouk in divorce proceedings.


36-year-old Abouk was said to have demanded more than half of Hakimi’s assets and fortune during the proceedings.

However, the court heard the Moroccan named all his assets with his mother as the benefactor.

It also heard that 80% of Hakimi’s monthly PSG salary, which amounts to around €1 million, goes to his mother with the player having only 20 percent access.


Reacting to the development, Buchi said men who cannot trust their wives should not marry them.

He wrote, “Your next of kin should be your wife not your mother. Your assets should have your wife’s name on them too. This is biblical marriage; you have become one in Holy Matrimony. If you can’t trust a woman with your riches, don’t marry her. Why marry who you don’t trust with your ALL?


“This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi’s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother’s name.”


Source: https:///Hakimi-Its-Wrong-To-Have-Your-Mum-As-Next-Of-Kin-Solomon-Buchi-Tells-Men

Mindlog:
Very wrong, the plots my father bought way back in the 70s in Lagos was owned by a Yoruba woman.

Especially Yoruba women, dem sabi own properties and businesses, they do write will as I have many classmates who inherited their late mothers' properties and businesses, if you go to markets in Lagos like Balogun, Oke-arin etc a good number of traders there inherited the businesses from their mothers.

Tallesty1:
Nigeria women technically don't own properties. It is one of the reasons they don't write will.

Tokotaya:
Married woman bares her assets for online fans while husband sleeps

A married Ghanaian woman simply known as Franca is currently under fire for going naked during a TikTok live session.

The live session was apparently being watched by her followers who are mostly men.

Interestingly, her husband was lying beside her, sleeping the whole time. At some point, he stood up to probably use the toilet.

Upon his return, he found his wife lying on the bed with the phone in her hand. He covered her well with the sheet before going back to sleep.

Unknown to him, the woman had exposed everything to the watching public.

The man is said to be uninterested in social media and knows little about Tiktok live sessions.

In the now-viral video, the woman could be heard using profanity-laced language against those who criticized her behaviour while she was showing off her raw body.

She initially had her entire body covered with the sheet, but later removed it to show part of her boobs as her followers hailed her and passed lewd comments.

Netizens are however not happy with the woman, whom they accused of disrespecting her man on social media.

Many have called on her husband to divorce her. The rumour is now rife in Ghana’s local media that the husband has left home for days. This however cannot be confirmed at this time.

See the video here.
https://microsecondnews.com/index.php/category/metro/

DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

BRATISLAVA:
1. Gerontocracy never looked more attractive, neither did the denial of gender politics.


We know it:

2. women are lazy and

3. want positions and they think they deserve them because they are women.

4. Perhaps in your foray into classroom politics that's how it happened behind the scenes.

5. Women can't pay the price and do the work, after all. Your case, all their cases.

6. No wonder 1st world countries think otherwise.

BRATISLAVA:
3. It's a thing of ratio. The votes still end up with men. Constantly. Not because they are competent. Look around your world. Which leads back to point 2. Read the comments. They don't have to dent you, but that is the sentiment. And again, to point 1, if that is the sentiment you or any other woman will have no votes.

4. You don't need to be strong if you are competent but nobody will vote you because women ruling will be a "disaster". It is men versus women: gender politics, like religious and ethno-racial politics, is a thing. Men like to pretend it doesn't exist so that they can maintain their status quo. Until you're in need of votes you will think otherwise. But as at today, you will not know.

BRATISLAVA:
1. He isn't entitled, but a woman who asks for the same whatever her reasons are is entitled?

2. I don't know much about Nigerian politics, but I can see a lot of abnormalities that are accepted. Because he invested he feels entitled to be your president and his wish should be granted, however a woman shouldn't?

3. Tribal politics from certain regions and the hate that goes with it is surprising. The forum is just one tribe reporting news and painting it as they want it. With a lot of hate while they're at it.

Same with your gender politics.

olab059:
As she said, you never know what people are dealing with. I remember when people were saying the same things about the black panther guy's weight loss too, not knowing he was silently battling cancer. Ariana's own might not be cancer, it might be that she had to change her diet because of a non terminal disease...it could be GERD, it could be diabetes, it could be anything...you can never know what people are dealing with.

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/Perrymainee/status/1646261813653241859?t=Vdi51fRPo3Aj5_l19Ki08Q&s=09



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-65248558.amp

BRATISLAVA:
1. Run for an elective post and
2. read the comments to prove there's no disadvantage.
3. Then count your votes afterwards.

BRATISLAVA:
But your politicians, men, have been asking others to step down for them, and say it's their right and turn to rule you, but it's never been seen as "entitlement mentality". In fact, they've said and done worse, but they are men so it's no big deal. They've destroyed and are destroying the world while at it. But it's no big deal, it is women that will be a disaster.

Many of you need to drop your gender bigotry.

Image123:
Hehehehe, in fact.

Okoroawusa:
And you are a female? How long will it take you to learn that women are at a disadvantage in all spheres of societal existence and it's not just a Nigerian thing?