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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:38am On May 20, 2021
DAY 140, REDPILL 2021

Her sexuality is her money.

His time is his money.

She gains more by leveraging her sexuality either by hoarding or hawking it. He gains more by leveraging his time in the pursuit of wisdom and wealth by sweating and shedding tears.


However, women are wise when leveraging their sexuality, they deal with the strong, powerful and wealthy. Men are not wise with their time, they cannot leverage it for long term goals, rather, they squander it on funs and f^cks. They useless their time by using it to enhance their ego by pleasing women. They want to be known as "the baba for the girls" and meanwhile the real baba(lord) are the girls they squander their time and money on.

Nature freely gives time to all but women used time to leverage on their sexuality while men used time to chase women's sexuality---an error that's ubiquitous among men. Instability becomes eminent when both genders leverage on their characteristics wrongly or negatively. If women sexuality don't lead them to a higher dimension other than their basic animal instincts they become more weaker, obnoxious and arrogant. They become highly entitled when they've achieved nothing relevant or tangible or beneficial except with their body and sexuality. On the flip side, men aren't respected or feared or venerated because one can't be seen valuable when he's not or when he haven't provided what's of value.

Authority: Positive masculinity must dovetail with positive femininity.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:54am On May 19, 2021
DAY 139, REDPILL 2021

Teacher speaks:

You can't convince a scorpion to become a fish.

You can't convince a stone to become bread.

You can't convince water to become fuel.

Excuse me... Someone just passed by the window yelling damaged women. I think such opinion corroborate this lesson.

Student speaks:


But sir, I think you're partial about this, what about damaged men?

Teacher speaks:

Lol! They're are the ones doing the conviction! They're damaged because they think their conviction works magic and they will go to any length to validate their fantasy.

Student speaks:

Can both be rescued?

Teacher speaks:

Almost impossible for the damaged man, but with a flash of TRP he can be liberated except otherwise. However, for the damaged woman, we can only learn lessons from her---only the divine can rescue her.

Authority: go for the best.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:32am On May 18, 2021
DAY 138, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: that #10,000 you're saving on a special date by the end of the semester ought to be used for your personal welfare. At least with it, you can buy a book, a shirt, a trouser, a body spray, good meat.

Authority: yourself first.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:12am On May 17, 2021
DAY 137, REDPILL 2021

You're not what she concluded of few minutes ago. If she rejects your advances, fine, move ahead.

Persuading at the moment might win her and bring temporary enjoyment but it will end in her resenting you at the end.

Authority: have an abundance mindset.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:24am On May 16, 2021
SOZINN:
Pure Gold
#SINGLEFATHERHOOD cool
A home without a father is like a house without a roof!

A home without a mother has lose its warmth!

Children that grow under the auspices of their parents(father and mother) are four times more likely to succeed in life than children that grow under a single parenthood. XX and XY juveniles are just too tasking, if you're not ready for them don't go near them. They're pure and pristine. Only those that can meet them at their demands, understand their nature, check them and have sole authority over them can lead them. No wonder women and children are beneath men, because it takes a strong virile figure to coach women and children to triumph.

Life's full of compromises and sacrifices, you can't have your cake and eat it.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:06am On May 16, 2021
DAY 136, REDPILL 2021

Who leads when all are scared of what's beyond? Father!

Who is the nexus between light and darkness? Father!

Who puts his life for the benefits of the whole and those yet unborn? Father!

Who brings out the light in the juveniles by leveraging their darkness for good? Father!

Who makes daughters and sons to illuminate their internal beauty? Father!

Who safeguard from the foes? Father!

Who stands in the midst of the storm to bring warmth to those below? Father!

Who brings out smile in others when he cries? Father!

Who is the stronghold, pillar and strength of civilization? Father!

Authority: Appreciate men. Positive masculinity: the key to sound progression.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:25am On May 15, 2021
DAY 135, REDPILL 2021

Be loyal to yourself.

Don't make worthless compromise.

Stick to your principles.

Be disciplined.

Find enjoyment in your work.

Be happy in the absence of women. Yeah, you want them, but with or without them your happiness should be intrenched.

Women serves as a form and not as a source. So, stay true to your Purpose.

Authority: Be focus.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:45pm On May 14, 2021
XshegzzyeeiX:
Mr. CaveAdullum, you owe me no assistance, but catching cruise upon my financial mess and distabilization is unacceptable and uncalled for. You told me DM you on a number that wasn't yours. The number you told me to reach you on belongs to a lady. Why sirhuh It's so sad. Was it because I CCed youhuh It's OK.

Anyway, thanks for the mockery. I appreciate sir.
Though I owe you no explanation and definitely, your welfare and progress isn't directly within my jurisdiction, however, I will because you're boldly making claims I have zero knowledge of. You're just whining and spinning trash because this bold claims you've made or probably said has no connections with me.

First, I never told you to DM "ME" on that number. I said DM as fast as possible and later told you that you're not CHATTING WITH CAVEADULLAM!

A lady is in charge of the Job, I only roll a little with her boyfriend and of which all of us belong to the same forum she shared the job vacancy--- in need of a driver. Perhaps she wasn't the one you were chatting with as her number is different from the one you sent a DM. Perhaps she just wanna catch cruise (something I haven't heard of before concerning her). I don't chat with her, neither do I know the person behind the number I sent you. I told you to DM immediately when I saw your mention and it was in the circle of that time she dropped the notice.

My brother, sorry for whatever happened, see that person that mocked you as immature and unwise and forget all that occurred. At least you and I have learnt a lesson from the show. We'll get to our destination some day, it's just a matter of time and our mortality.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:16am On May 14, 2021
XshegzzyeeiX:
Sir, I sent an SMS. My number ends with triple 5.
Lol!

You're not chatting with CaveAdullam. Pray it works for you because others are in queue too.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:54am On May 14, 2021
DAY 134, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: the only person you should place on monthly allowance is yourself. And if you must give, give not to your own detriment.

Authority: make yourself your mental point of origin.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:47am On May 13, 2021
DAY 133, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: those that crave for equality are empty vessels. No one gives you what you want; you must fight for it or perish. Those that hate because they can't get hold of what they want are weak and very immature. Those that libel and slander because they can't suck you dry are weak in body and ugly at soul.

There's utopia as well as dystopia, therefore equality is a sham to distort peaceful and existing balance. No equal beauty; no equal ugliness.

Build yourself if you want to be classified among the best.

Authority: Elevate, no equality anywhere.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:39am On May 12, 2021
DAY 132, REDPILL 2021

Women are subjected to authority, the reason they corrall themselves around prophets, pastors, teachers and celebrities. Where authority is inveterate, women must conform.

However, in the place of power, women struggle not to have power, but like a spider spin their web to different men with power, so that when any fails, she can easily latch to another.

Women don't struggle to become winners; they win by winning winners.

Authority: don't be her last card.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:18am On May 11, 2021
i926:
Reno o!!
DAY 131, REDPILL 2021

They can be shown compassion---a necessary form of virtue to help the despondent. We can do whatever we can based on our capacity and ability to put smile on their faces.

On the flip side, no one talks about sexually abused boys, the boys roaming on the streets, the boys with untamed aggression, widowers, homeless men, poor men, weak men any other despondent forms of men. What we keep on hearing is sexually abused women, widows blah blah blah. That's a story for another day.


Notwithstanding, whether widowed or sexually abused or raped, no commitment must be made. I don't know of any exception, but it's rare for a man to enjoy a peaceful union with such kind of women. Reasons:

1. If she was raped, she will have antipathy towards men; it can be within or without or both. Overcoming such negative trait will engage the indulgence of good therapists, counselors etc.

2. If she was raped, she'll continually have a mental picture of the incident in her brain, and sexual intercourse with her "might" not be pleasurable for her and her partner. It will not be easy for her spouse to f^ck out the mental picture off her brain.


3. In the past, men show dominance by conquering enemy tribes, hunting dangerous animals, being conscripted into the military to go fight war etc. The men that won, won all the women also. Now since our environment is conducive to a larger extent when juxtaposed with the past, a man can express part of his dominance by how good he can f^ck the hell outta his woman. This is a psychological way of dominating a woman without beating her or killing her family members. A woman that enjoys the d!ck will always come back for more: Okafor's law. Where am I heading to? Now, though r*** is sex without consent, but know this: women want such kind of dominance that can be likened to it with their full consent. They fantasize about it; they yearn for it. If you're a man with such kind of victim and you are lacking in experience, you'll never find sex with her pleasurable.

NB: rape is an act that physically causes damage and also influences the psychology of the victim negatively. Men and women must abstain from rape and the sexual molestation of juveniles or other persons.

4. One thing is not getting engaged to a promiscuous woman, but another thing is not also committing to an alpha widow. If an alpha man lays his imprints on a woman, it's there for life. No man can erase it, she can only be pretentious about it, but the truth is that she will always be at the beck and call of her alpha spouse. Ubunja has a true life story on this on his essay on chosen. This applies to all widows and ex girlfriends of men. She'll continually compare you with her alpha, and nothing you'll do for her that will make her completely forget about her alpha. Becoming the richest man with well built physique and power will not suffice. You'll continually be compared day in day out with the ghosts of her exes.

Religion and the patriarch kept women on tenterhooks, wanting them to be virgins until they get married since the beginning of civilization was for a reason, and this is part of it, however, feminism and egalitarianism became an enemy.

5. One sexual partner is enough to mesmerize a woman for life as well as series of sexual partners. No matter how much you consume the redpill, in fact become an embodiment of the redpill, you can never tame an alpha widow, reason why the manosphere always preach against committing to single mothers or wh0res.

6. The pair bonding capacity of widows is low, so know for a fact that she will never see you as her first or desire you like her first.

Authority: Be wise! Your commitment is your power; use it wisely if at all you must use it.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:39pm On May 10, 2021
Hardrive:
If you want a copy of the rationale male religion, you can drop your number
Hard copy?

Please, is there anyone here working in a printing press? I intend printing many books. Or anyone who can help us with drop shipping of books at low cost(dollar rate is overly high naira as compared to the naira). Or any brother who has a good bookshop we can be patronising from time to time.

Binge on reading! Too many knowledge to gain and too many preconceived opinions to wipe away.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:24am On May 10, 2021
DAY 130, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: do not open the door to the least of her unnecessary demands, for many greater ones lurks outside.

Authority: Maintain frame.
InvestmentRe: Thank you Superpack by CaveAdullam: 9:34am On May 09, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
I tried it, and saw no option like that ,what I do now is, i tell my guy to help me buy from binance and transfer to my trust wallet
Same thing I did here. Perhaps I think that's the highest we can do with an unverified account.

There's another method, though I haven't tried it as I look forward in processing it by the end of this week: download nimc app on playstore, login your details, screenshot the front and back on full ID mode, then crop the bar code and attached it at the back of the card and after which you convert it to a plastic ID card. If this method doesn't work, I will process the normal NIN; and try if it will work.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:15am On May 09, 2021
DAY 129, REDPILL 2021

Women and feminists be like: men should partner with their spouses in cleaning the house, cooking, nurturing the babies, ironing and doing other house related chores. But men should man up in paying the bills, taking care of the house expenses, bearing all losses and risks alone.

In their idealism, when it comes to a woman's activities, it should be rationed equally between her and her husband but a man should man up and be capable of carrying out his functions independently---after all, "men are the stronger sex".

Authority: Men, be wise!
InvestmentRe: Thank you Superpack by CaveAdullam: 9:44pm On May 08, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Use chrome browser and choose from the drop down menu.
Please, clarify. I have been having problem with registration too.

PrinxArthur1, how far have you gone about this?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:36am On May 08, 2021
DAY 128, REDPILL 2021

Though women are instinctually manipulative, however, their supremacy belies on the fact that men and society at large are non cognizant of women's game.

Women's game or success is always repetitive and with little or no nuances. Therefore, as a result, TRP has been able to meet, withstand and win them to their game. And a man cognizant of how the dice rolls will always come out winning with minimal or no loses.

Authority: Swallow the redpill.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:11pm On May 07, 2021
Martinez39s:
@CaveAdullam

Nice one! Your take and my thoughts are in perfect accord.
Shalaye those thoughts abeg.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:52pm On May 07, 2021
Lordcassy:
young Kings

It is very sad,that we in Africa will never learn, I am tired, Majority of men in African men do not have that warrior mindset it takes to drive a nation and inspire people, all I see are complainers who want to spend their days drinking and being obsessed with cheap masculine women.

Young kings

Open your f**king eyes, you are witnessing the death of civilization in real time, America is collapsing, why because they have successfully become so stupidly tolerant, ''When you are tolerant, you stand for nothing''.. they have allow women into the power space and other stupidities.. their nation is declining, women were not meant to rule and can not rule...i am not being misogynistic but rather I am supported by history.

The Egyptian civilization end came, when they started allowing females on pharaoh thrones. a woman was their last leader queen Cleopatra...today the Egyptians are no more their bloodline has be clear and gone to extinction. what a weakness!!!

The Mayans came towards their end too during the 8th and 7th century when women started taking position of power, as a result of the peace created by man. you know where the Mayans are now right.

The Babylonians too had feminist where are they now!!

The Roman's started educating their women and giving rights to power and at a result their civilisation fell in into a society of weak sexually obsessed men because women are the gatekeeper of sex but they need a mans(Father or brother) direction else. they will be hoes and this domino effect will affect the men as well and since they will use their best years being hoes this will lead to her having less children.. this lead to drastic decrease in Roman population, weak man that didn't want to fight and conquer anymore. the barbarians came and the great fire came and thus Roman's civilization is no more.

Queen Marie Antoinette because of her feminist ways, the French people did not have money for bread and this bitch had the nerve to buy a diamond neckless and she also simp weak husband which brought an end to the French throne.

England decline came when they started having queens.. today do you think England can compete in the world stage..look at the freaking royal family, tell me if they had a real patriarch. that Harry be a simp.

Any kingdom of any man that comes to an end is because of two things... he was weak or refuse to trickle down the power to the man or men are no longer capable of being men and as a result revolt.

that's why Islam works, check out most Islamic nation, they are shitholes with corrupt leader, but still they stay together, that is because Islam give total power to all men, a wife of rich man in Afghanistan can not insult a poor man, because above him or not she is suppose to respect him.

Christianity used to be like that, but we have been corroded by weak greedy pastor and whores in the house of worship, the day Christians started allowing women to seat with men in church the fall started, well you know where are now, women were not allow to speak in church before now imagine a female pastor, some Simps are going to seat there and let some women teach them about God. Jeez!!

I am a deist xtian, do not ask me how it works for me, or else I am a radical Christian and I usually challenge any form of weakness, because why, my religion is dying before my eyes and they are turning it into a goofy lifestyle. xtians that wipe out Islam out Europe now have gay's pastors. we can't even speak out against other religion, if speak against Islam, you are islamophobic and they are allow to remove your head if you talk against them, well take a guess which one is going to be the religion of the future.

Even the hausa you know, used to be a matriarchy till strong Islamic men came and beat the shit out the society and overhaul them..

This is my stance, I don't worship women, I don't have goddesses every woman warrior you read in history was a lie!!!!!

I am not extremist, I am actually cool headed, just disgusted that men like me are vanishing from our society, if I can wake up then anybody can... shit I wanted to talk about being a being a high value man and Bill Gates marriage but o well maybe tomorrow or whenever I get chance.

Also I will be criticising and rationally vilifying gays and the rest of fagots species..if you don't like it. eat a dick!!
Perhaps in addendum:

1. The love and crave for p^ssy is the decline of men.

2. Men put so much focus on p^ssy because for men, sex doesn't come easily unlike (ugly) women who can get sex any day or time.

3. Sexual thirst debilitates men's productivity.

4. Notch counts is now the rule of the day. If a man is not f^cking around he's a nerd, meanwhile nerds are causing scientific and technological revolution in the cyber and global space. How has myriads of orgasms helped men aside for the purpose of procreation?

5. Alpha is now being related to how many women a man can f^ck in 24hours. Rather than in what ways a man has been able to rise from each fall despite the shame, regret, obstacles and pains.

6. Men involved themselves in the degeneracy which ensued from the untamed chaos of women thereby making them weak in striking the rod. The child is damaged already, and his tumultuous behavior is wrecking the whole world.

7. Sex now occupies men's pedestal rather than innovations, self development, goal attainment and building of civilization.

8. No respect for the traditions that brought us up to this stage. Imagine if Albert Einstein, Isaac Newton, Nikolai Tesla, Abraham Lincoln, Jack Dorsey, The Wilburs etc. decided to quid pro quo purpose for sex and notch counts? But many men through lusts are gradually taking us back to the stone age.

9. Sexual relationship, marriage and dating is now an achievement for men,however,they are useless and useful---stable paradox.

Man's problem is p^ssy, if he can look above p^ssy he will get there fast. He will score more goals. He will Earn more money. He will contribute a fair share to the growth of civilization.

A man that can say no to sex, no matter how tantalizing it appears, is a man that can hold the world on its reins.

I know, sex is good and neither am I condemning anyone or the act itself, however, it's that same sex that's acting as an albatross to the glory of men. If men look pass sex, beautiful breasts and b^tts, I bet you, women will on their own come to their proper senses.

Men must set the benchmark and uphold it, and once it is accomplished, women can't bypass with sex, " Na once their head go automatically correct". "Nor be bad thing if woman call you gay".

I'm not done shalaying.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:28am On May 07, 2021
DAY 127, REDPILL 2021

No sacrifice on yourself is ever lost. If you make wrong sacrifices you will lose; if you make the right sacrifices you will gain.

All sacrifices must have a return of investment: Appreciation, gratitude, loyalty, fear or respect.

If sacrifices are reciprocated by a cold heart, envy, jealousy, ingratitude or nagging, immediately withdraw. You only sacrifice for whom it deems fit.


Value your resources, as a wise farmer never scatters his seeds on different soils, so you must plant your seeds on only fertile soils.

Know those that want to manipulate you into getting their hands on your resources, cut those filthy hands.

Be careful of the women who always say they have no shelter, clothing or food. They're are not there to seek genuine help but to liquidate you.


Don't waste your time. Don't waste your resources. Don't waste your years. Don't waste your attention. Don't waste your life.

Men are defined by their productivity; become productive with your resources, and don't squander them upon the dust of the earth.

Authority: Value your resources.
InvestmentRe: CRYPTO: Total Beginners' Guide On How To Get Started With Binance To A Pro Level by CaveAdullam: 7:52pm On May 06, 2021
iLegendd:
Even without verification, he can trade and transfer money ($300 max). Though, he can't use P2P.

Buy with your account and send to him. Or, he should register with Kucoin, AscendEX, Gate.io, or any other exchange.
I would have given up on binance but it seems it's the most used and preferable exchange site. But as it seems, I think Kucoin or any other will be cool with me for now.
InvestmentRe: CRYPTO: Total Beginners' Guide On How To Get Started With Binance To A Pro Level by CaveAdullam: 7:33pm On May 06, 2021
iLegendd:
...
Go become professor abeg.

Your style of teaching, going straight to the point and hitting the hammer on the right places is top notch.

Thanks Prof.
InvestmentRe: CRYPTO: Total Beginners' Guide On How To Get Started With Binance To A Pro Level by CaveAdullam:
iLegendd:
If you have NIN, download the NIMC app, use your NIN to log in and click on Show My ID.

Screenshot the front, slide your hand on it to show the back and screenshot it.

Edit it yourself or go to a computer center and tell the person to copy the barcode and put it at the back of the card, then they should print it on a plastic ID card. That's what I did and I have a National ID card.

It costs only 500 Naira to print.
Please, upload a blurred photo of your card so that we can see how it look like, especially the way the bar code is attached on the back of the card.

Thanks.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:12am On May 06, 2021
DAY 126, REDPILL 2021

It's the appearance and character of a man that will determine the face that a woman will project. And one woman has several masks.

Authority: Be wise!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:53am On May 05, 2021
DAY 125, REDPILL 2021

Friendzone is avoidable only when men emphasize on sexual related underlying overtons during interaction or communication with women.

She will not fall in love with you as per your intelligence or your Columbus knowledge about the world. You must be able to generate intriguing emotions in her.

Authority: Have an alpha mindset.
Graphics/Video MarketRe: Multi Talented Graphics Designer by CaveAdullam: 8:32am On May 04, 2021
Zabiboy:
grin Sure..
You haven't heard of that e-mail?
No.

I sent a mail to you, however, it's through gmail, don't know if it works with aol dot com. Lol!
Graphics/Video MarketRe: Multi Talented Graphics Designer by CaveAdullam: 6:47am On May 04, 2021
Zabiboy:
@ emmaodet
My NL mail isn't functional...
You can mail me using hotzabiboy@aol dot com
Or just search for @zabi40 and telegram...
Those are the only 2 ways i can give out here
aol dot com?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:18am On May 04, 2021
DAY 124, REDPILL 2021

No greater patrimony a father can gift his son than raising him up in the way of men, in the way of pure masculinity.

Authority: positive masculinity.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 5:51am On May 03, 2021
DAY 123, REDPILL 2021

Pretend:
I will appreciate red-pillers to help me dissect this issue. Kindly quote it or mention my name so I can receive your comment. Thanks.

Background:
To relay this post, I created another moniker cos I'm very popular here with my usual moniker.
So, you're part of the confederates who creates multiple monikers for different purposes right? Anyway, it's a good game! But sometimes, it's good to stand the heat no matter how strong the bandwagons appears or how painful the situation, because it is only then we can be able to ascertain our strength, build and maintain our reputation. However, since it's a game, your head comes first, and you must shield it.

Pretend:
I was due to marry this year. But due to a severe illness and some unforeseen circumstances that grounded me for like a year, I couldn't. I had to start afresh. I lost my job; but more importantly, I was only lucky to be alive and I'm grateful to God.
Life is paradoxical: full of ups and downs; joy and sorrow; pains and pleasures. For nature, there's time for everything and everything must manifest itself regardless of our feelings. Most of these things are beyond our control and scope of mind, therefore, we can't eradicate them by ratiocinating, getting angry or victim signalling. Life is full of nuances---things are more complex than the simple way they appear. Simplicity is a veneer that tends to make us relax at the moment, however, the rabbit hole is still very deep. As humans, we're bewildered by such complexity of life and rotation of nature. In our imaginations, we want things to linger smoothly forever, but if things go smoothly continuously, we'll become ennui, no wonder women can't stay long with a nice smooth easy going man. Disturbances that are generated as a result of this rotation of light and darkness shapes us with features necessary for our well-being.

I commiserate with you, though evil got hold of you, however, it helped you removed many weeds around your yard and exposed the dangerous snakes resting beneath. Example: the true nature of your ex fiancee.

Pretend:
The lady I was supposed to marry deserted me. But that's not the point. Today is my first date for like over a year after my misfortune.
That's womanly nature for you. They're fickle, formlesss and solipsistic. They only care about a man's success and never his nightmares and failures. They wait at the finishing line to claim the winner. And in situation when their current winner no longer wins, they will branch swing to another winner. This womanly nature is what evolution has shaped her with because by nature women are weak. Truly, women are born Machiavellics.

Your ex fiancee left you because she had thoughts that you will never come back to your normal state of wealth, good health and material resources. She quickly carried out a mathematical survey and arrived at a half page conclusion that she will not start the marriage with the vow: for worst, in sickness and poverty, hence, she called the shot and opt out.

On the other hand, maybe she was advised wrongly by her friends and family. Maybe she had nightmares concerning you. Maybe she was following her intuitions and dreams. Maybe her inclinations towards the spiritual didn't support you any longer. Maybe she came to a level of knowledge and understanding that both of you weren't met for each other.

Notwithstanding, the underlying truth is that women don't settle for men at the bottom of the hierarchy. Once a man is in a state of disposablity, women will not get congealed to him. Of course there are outliers but they don't disprove the rule.

Pretend:
Body:
While in the hospital a couple of young doctors were drawn to me cos they found me interesting and different, unknowing to them i'm also a doctor, but I din't reveal my status.
Hiding your status and condescending yourself before others to either learn or easily flow with them is a power trait. You will know more about people if you always shut up and listen and allow them take the center stage. Act as if you're interested in whatever BS they're proclaiming and they will reveal many information. However, only few can practice this maxim because the average man is narcissistic, verbose, and want to share his ideas and experiences even at times when they're not needed.

Pretend:
But somehow, I downloaded Tinder out of loneliness, and connected with a lady, she's like 24, in a private university. Cos of my issue, I din't follow up until last week, other than hi, hi
It's difficult finding good women in the streets or religious centers not to talk of social or dating media.

Pretend:
This weekend, we had a date, I told her all I've been through, and that I was in the hospital when I connected with her..I drove one of my Dad's car to go meet her in school, and afterwards we went out.
She was sweet. I like her. She was somehow cool. I spent like 5k...but the money isn't the issue honestly. And I dropped her back to schl after our outing.
Exposing your vulnerabilities will never make a woman love you. Revealing the chink in your armor---tears and sorrows will rather chase her away rather than make her proximate. There are some dark secrets you must take to your grave because revealing them will cause chaos. If all the dark secrets in the world is revealed under compulsion, I bet you, within the next 24 hours, the earth will totally be consumed by myriads of chaos. Only say what's necessary at the moment and dish it out meagerly. Women or people will resent you if you're an open book and easily predictable. If people want to know about you let them do the reconnaissance themselves rather than you discussing it with them. This is a power trait too, as you can easily deny any claims or accept any positive claims you like even if it's not part of your personality.

Women love adventures, fun and mysteries---the reason they opt for bad boys holding a lot of drama cards to play. It's counter-intuitive that women want a total revelation about a man but after the revelation, they vanish like birds threatened by a gunshot.

That young lady was following the little mysteries you were leading her on because she doesn't know what you are offline. But you killed the little vibe she had for you by explaining your nightmares. Dates are for sexual exploration, not interrogation or moment for confessions. You broke the spell, unveiled her eyes, hence, she became complacent after the date.

However, she's still in her peak sexual market phase and many men are drooling before her with time, gifts and attention. Perhaps you're not better than the rest of her simps. Perhaps your confession was tragic. Perhaps she's thinking of where to place you in her circle. Perhaps she's not interested in any serious relationship with you. Perhaps she's sick. Perhaps she has bad notions concerning you. Perhaps she doesn't like your looks. Perhaps she doesn't like your physique.
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Pretend:
Conclusion:.
I was expecting her to call me, for like 24 hrs , she hasn't, I'm like isn't she supposed to call me? I don't want to fuck_ up or act clingy, so I haven't called her. I'm now so cynical and distrustful of ladies cos of my experience with my fiancee.
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I like this gal, I want to be serious with her..but I'm scared. What do you think ? Who's supposed to call first given the background story I related.
Thanks. Will appreciate mature and honest comments, as I don't want to start a new relationship on a wrong foot. Thanks.
You bleeped up already! It will be better you spin other plates rather than oscillate your mind with thoughts concerning her. Haha! You want to be serious with a tinder girl you say? Definitely, you will act clingy and sink deeper. Premium tears also included. Lol!

Bro, you must learn to live alone. Strive to become more beautiful than your precedence. This isn't to say you must abjure women, but you must choose which is more necessary and worthy of your brain neurons at the moment: You or women?

Go plant yourself and transmute into something valuable. As you elevate in the hierarchy, women will be attracted to you. But as you elevate you must develop the tools necessary for vetting women in order to try, sift and separate the chaffs from the wheats. Vetting is a task so so difficult for a man who wants to marry a woman/women.

Don't live in a woman's frame. Don't act clingy. Let her go!

Authority: build yourself and your frame; have an abundant mindset.

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