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DAY 123, REDPILL 2021

Pretend:
I will appreciate red-pillers to help me dissect this issue. Kindly quote it or mention my name so I can receive your comment. Thanks.

Background:
To relay this post, I created another moniker cos I'm very popular here with my usual moniker.

So, you're part of the confederates who creates multiple monikers for different purposes right? Anyway, it's a good game! But sometimes, it's good to stand the heat no matter how strong the bandwagons appears or how painful the situation, because it is only then we can be able to ascertain our strength, build and maintain our reputation. However, since it's a game, your head comes first, and you must shield it.

Pretend:
I was due to marry this year. But due to a severe illness and some unforeseen circumstances that grounded me for like a year, I couldn't. I had to start afresh. I lost my job; but more importantly, I was only lucky to be alive and I'm grateful to God.

Life is paradoxical: full of ups and downs; joy and sorrow; pains and pleasures. For nature, there's time for everything and everything must manifest itself regardless of our feelings. Most of these things are beyond our control and scope of mind, therefore, we can't eradicate them by ratiocinating, getting angry or victim signalling. Life is full of nuances---things are more complex than the simple way they appear. Simplicity is a veneer that tends to make us relax at the moment, however, the rabbit hole is still very deep. As humans, we're bewildered by such complexity of life and rotation of nature. In our imaginations, we want things to linger smoothly forever, but if things go smoothly continuously, we'll become ennui, no wonder women can't stay long with a nice smooth easy going man. Disturbances that are generated as a result of this rotation of light and darkness shapes us with features necessary for our well-being.

I commiserate with you, though evil got hold of you, however, it helped you removed many weeds around your yard and exposed the dangerous snakes resting beneath. Example: the true nature of your ex fiancee.

Pretend:
The lady I was supposed to marry deserted me. But that's not the point. Today is my first date for like over a year after my misfortune.

That's womanly nature for you. They're fickle, formlesss and solipsistic. They only care about a man's success and never his nightmares and failures. They wait at the finishing line to claim the winner. And in situation when their current winner no longer wins, they will branch swing to another winner. This womanly nature is what evolution has shaped her with because by nature women are weak. Truly, women are born Machiavellics.

Your ex fiancee left you because she had thoughts that you will never come back to your normal state of wealth, good health and material resources. She quickly carried out a mathematical survey and arrived at a half page conclusion that she will not start the marriage with the vow: for worst, in sickness and poverty, hence, she called the shot and opt out.

On the other hand, maybe she was advised wrongly by her friends and family. Maybe she had nightmares concerning you. Maybe she was following her intuitions and dreams. Maybe her inclinations towards the spiritual didn't support you any longer. Maybe she came to a level of knowledge and understanding that both of you weren't met for each other.

Notwithstanding, the underlying truth is that women don't settle for men at the bottom of the hierarchy. Once a man is in a state of disposablity, women will not get congealed to him. Of course there are outliers but they don't disprove the rule.

Pretend:
Body:
While in the hospital a couple of young doctors were drawn to me cos they found me interesting and different, unknowing to them i'm also a doctor, but I din't reveal my status.

Hiding your status and condescending yourself before others to either learn or easily flow with them is a power trait. You will know more about people if you always shut up and listen and allow them take the center stage. Act as if you're interested in whatever BS they're proclaiming and they will reveal many information. However, only few can practice this maxim because the average man is narcissistic, verbose, and want to share his ideas and experiences even at times when they're not needed.

Pretend:
But somehow, I downloaded Tinder out of loneliness, and connected with a lady, she's like 24, in a private university. Cos of my issue, I din't follow up until last week, other than hi, hi

It's difficult finding good women in the streets or religious centers not to talk of social or dating media.

Pretend:
This weekend, we had a date, I told her all I've been through, and that I was in the hospital when I connected with her..I drove one of my Dad's car to go meet her in school, and afterwards we went out.
She was sweet. I like her. She was somehow cool. I spent like 5k...but the money isn't the issue honestly. And I dropped her back to schl after our outing.

Exposing your vulnerabilities will never make a woman love you. Revealing the chink in your armor---tears and sorrows will rather chase her away rather than make her proximate. There are some dark secrets you must take to your grave because revealing them will cause chaos. If all the dark secrets in the world is revealed under compulsion, I bet you, within the next 24 hours, the earth will totally be consumed by myriads of chaos. Only say what's necessary at the moment and dish it out meagerly. Women or people will resent you if you're an open book and easily predictable. If people want to know about you let them do the reconnaissance themselves rather than you discussing it with them. This is a power trait too, as you can easily deny any claims or accept any positive claims you like even if it's not part of your personality.

Women love adventures, fun and mysteries---the reason they opt for bad boys holding a lot of drama cards to play. It's counter-intuitive that women want a total revelation about a man but after the revelation, they vanish like birds threatened by a gunshot.

That young lady was following the little mysteries you were leading her on because she doesn't know what you are offline. But you killed the little vibe she had for you by explaining your nightmares. Dates are for sexual exploration, not interrogation or moment for confessions. You broke the spell, unveiled her eyes, hence, she became complacent after the date.

However, she's still in her peak sexual market phase and many men are drooling before her with time, gifts and attention. Perhaps you're not better than the rest of her simps. Perhaps your confession was tragic. Perhaps she's thinking of where to place you in her circle. Perhaps she's not interested in any serious relationship with you. Perhaps she's sick. Perhaps she has bad notions concerning you. Perhaps she doesn't like your looks. Perhaps she doesn't like your physique.
.

Pretend:
Conclusion:.
I was expecting her to call me, for like 24 hrs , she hasn't, I'm like isn't she supposed to call me? I don't want to fuck_ up or act clingy, so I haven't called her. I'm now so cynical and distrustful of ladies cos of my experience with my fiancee.
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I like this gal, I want to be serious with her..but I'm scared. What do you think ? Who's supposed to call first given the background story I related.
Thanks. Will appreciate mature and honest comments, as I don't want to start a new relationship on a wrong foot. Thanks.

You bleeped up already! It will be better you spin other plates rather than oscillate your mind with thoughts concerning her. Haha! You want to be serious with a tinder girl you say? Definitely, you will act clingy and sink deeper. Premium tears also included. Lol!

Bro, you must learn to live alone. Strive to become more beautiful than your precedence. This isn't to say you must abjure women, but you must choose which is more necessary and worthy of your brain neurons at the moment: You or women?

Go plant yourself and transmute into something valuable. As you elevate in the hierarchy, women will be attracted to you. But as you elevate you must develop the tools necessary for vetting women in order to try, sift and separate the chaffs from the wheats. Vetting is a task so so difficult for a man who wants to marry a woman/women.

Don't live in a woman's frame. Don't act clingy. Let her go!

Authority: build yourself and your frame; have an abundant mindset.

Zabiboy:
I THINK you misunderstood his points...
All he is saying is that Men so much believe in the "Go to school> get a job> get married" system....which is true...
Some are even advised to avoid women till they are ready to settle down and then settle down with the same women they were told to avoid...
So if what i said above is what the guy meant, then i think the guy is right....
Donjazzy for example, everyone is screaming for him to get married bcz he is getting old meaning a large percentage of humans ( not only men) feel men are incomplete without women
This is my opinion tho...i felt if you really understood his point, you wont need to explain much like you did earlier
@geedot, is this what you meant?

He's right. I concur to that fact. MEN AREN'T INCOMPLETE WITHOUT WOMEN. That's what I mean. Sometimes passing a message and the comprehension/interpretation of that message can easily be confused.

geedot:
How you jumped to conclusions about my personality based on that little post of mine is still baffling to me.

I'm not in anger phase, because I don't even know what that is. I still have contact of my rich exes and we still meet once in a while. And I'm well aware of the disadvantages of not getting married.

I'm this type of person that gets fed up of people easily, so why on earth should I get married and be stuck with one person for the rest of my life?

No conclusion about your personality was postulated because not only women/sexual relationship can entirely form the personality of a man. Observations were drawn from your comments and observations was concluded within that same comment. @boldened is another clue which can form part of the anger phase heuristics.

geedot:
The more money a man has, the more reason he believes he needs more women, while the more money a woman has, the less reason for her to associate with men.

True!

geedot:
I think like the average woman, I enter relationships based on what I stand to gain from it and not for 'love' or anything. My Facebook has less than 150 friends on it, my WhatsApp has less than 70contacts. If you are not beneficial to me, I have no reason to keep you around[both male and female].

Of course, life's a game, all play to win. I can relate with this. Playing women's game thereby giving you leverage over them is another level of the redpill awareness.

geedot:
You see redpilled men say, once your wife shit tests you or cheats on you, send her packing. Some of them think marriage is like relationship where you can just send your partner packing, kids are involved now with families of both parties too.

Let's assume you successfully send her packing, what next again? Remarry? And your new wife does the same[which will definitely happen], will you send her packing too to get married to another since women is an integral part of the average man.

The dilemma of a patriarch. All women can/will cheat if the tools I made mentioned of earlier in curtailing them are blunt or not (well) used.

Like you said before: men think they're incomplete without women and such thought is false. Even though biology is in vogue, men can still attain discipline over their libido. Yeah it's costly dealing with women, only the men that can function well in that trade should engage in it.

geedot:
I'm not trying to force my opinion on anyone, but knowing this is fire, and it will burn you no matter how you try to manoeuvre your way around it.
Not touching the fire at all to avoid being burnt, or wearing gloves to avoid the effect of the pain that comes with touching it. Which of these two sounds like what a wise man should do?

A real wise man will catenate a stream of water to where the fire burns and quench it.

geedot:
NB: My own version of MGHOW is not getting married officially and not monk mode or whatever.

If you can bear the consequences of the path you take, it means you have power over your life and not move by the dictates of anyone around.

Thanks.

Disagree!

geedot:
Just a quick one, after leaving women to focus on your goals. After achieving those goals, what next?
Majority still want to go pick a woman after they've attained their goals.

What next? Enjoy the fruits of your labour and use whatever you've gained to uplift men and others. Beautify the society in the best possible ways according to your ability and in your frame without going pass the limits of your boundary.

With a fait accompli ambition and mission, you can have fun with whatever show you love---women, travelling etc. Engaging with women is not a sin or a guilt worthy of (no) redemption. Men and women evolved together, the earlier this is understood, the better. Women are going no where!

Testosterones wants women, elevation, dominance, and leadership. Even if 99% of men skew MGTOW, and decide to shun women, women will still mate with the available 1% of men remaining and reproduce and spread their genes, especially if the man have what they want. Men want to spread their seeds and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Biology always triumphs over any social construct.

In the manosphere, whichever path you decide to take, you will have angels to comfort you and demons that will haunt you. Every path has intrinsic pros and cons. Understand: except you decide to live the life of a minimalist, all the goals you've accomplished, the things you've toiled and worked hard for will be inherited by someone once you die. Now the question: how many MGTOW will opt for a minimalist life: few trousers and sleeves; no house; no car, no long term business? Do you now see where patriarchs are willing to take the risk so that at least their empire can be ruled by their pedigree after their demise from the earth.

Except you choose to live a life of a minimalist, there's no need achieving your goals and hammering nails to every desired ambitions of yours; just live as you like and ensure you live little or nothing behind before you die.

geedot:
Winner: Women!

Power is the ability to live your life according to your terms and conditions. Power makes you answerable to none and gives you many advantages in hopping from one pole to another without being trounced. A good example are politicians.

Women can't be winner when you are in your frame and occupying power. No matter how long an invited guest stay in your house, you still have power over him. Goals accomplished means you're satisfied and from the superfluous of that satisfaction others benefit, women included. Women are not winners because you're the source of their gaity. Women are not winners because they're existing in your frame and in your frame, you can decide to do whatever pleases you, however, for order and not chaos.

geedot:
Why do most men think they need women to feel complete? Even after knowing how rebellious, devilish they can be.
This is very synonymous to keeping a lion as pet, it's just a matter time before you get devoured by your "lovely little pet".

A very plausible statement.

If women are rebellious and devillish because of their inherent nature, what will you then say of the millions of people men has killed as a result of totalitarianism, communism, status elevation? Hypergamy, solipsism are evolutionary strategies, however, they must be curtailed, hence, the reason for different walls raised around women to parry every air and food their internal ferocious beast requires for living.

If you continually ring such bell, it indicates that: you're still in your anger stage or you're unable to game women or you don't understand the female nature thereby making you unable to flow with women without getting hurt.

Every pets that feeds on flesh harms; dogs even bite their owners sometimes. Whether you tame a lion or not, it harms. Tame women or not, their ferocious(hypergamous) nature is there just like the devouring nature of a lion. Give them a leeway and high tolerance to do what they like---onlyfans and instagram and live promiscuity you will get. And they will also destroy themselves and civilization synchronously. An untamed (woman) lion will devour whatever comes its way. In the West and some other nations, they've taken their ferocious nature to the family law and has seriously vitiated the government, hence the high rate of divorce, single motherhood, abandoned children and gynocentrism.

Family codes and conducts, religious laws, strong patriarchy are the tools used in putting this ferocious beast on leash. Taming the beast is not giving them comfort per say, you love them as pet and because they're dangerous pets what do you do? Remove their teeth. Simple. Tamed women/high value women are the ones that has been able to curb their ferocious nature, inculcated positive masculine traits and blending it with positive feminine trait.

If you want to enjoy a woman you must become her father and shaped her into what you want. If you possess her with your vestiges, it will be difficult for her to abandon you(the reason why many married women still play hid and seek with their exes). Yes, hypergamy is still in vogue, hence---abundance mindset, plate spinning, redpill awareness. This's the price men pay for indulging with women: the case of the clay and the potter

A toothless dog cannot harm but only bark.

geedot:
I think men being redpilled is just like fighting against their nature; majority will lose.
I'm sorry, I can't and don't want to be like the average man. MGTOW!!!

Plausible!

Men being redpilled aware is not fighting against their nature, but the bluepilled lies they've made to believe and lived with for aeons. Redpill is the saviour that has come to help men and teach them how the world really operates. Note: redpill is beyond the intersexual dynamics. It reveals the truth in every sectors of the economy.

On losing: like I said earlier, all paths have their pros and cons. MGTOW is not an exception! In as much you're a man, you must lose! Rationalizing this will never change this fact. Take heart and make peace with it. However, you can be able to strategize your life in ways were your loses aren't higher than your gains causing you serious harm at the end.

Choose the lesser evil or the evil you know you can bear.

Thanks.

DAY 117, 2021

"She said she really loves me" has been the method used by females to shovel men's stupidity deeper.

Be wise and make proper alignment.

Authority: Maintain frame.

galadima77:
I should make plenty copies of this and start sharing... Call me whatever you want but it's worth remembering everyday.

Each nugget is an appreciation to Seun for making Nairaland forum in becoming flesh. I've learnt more from this forum than the years I spent in school.

Reproduce as much copies as you want; just reference it that's all. And as uncle Martinez39s suggested, all nuggets can be printed into a book as per individual necessity. I always read the nuggets from time to time as a reminder and of a truth, I do miss some steps, but since a reminder is there, I'm spurred to withdraw from the broad way to the narrow way of the redpill.

Martinez39s, I'm still preparing my vote of thanks, calm down. Indeed, you're a blessing! Your knowledge is not copy and paste, the reason I hold you, Ubunja, Skepticus and Pansophist in high esteem. I have literally copied and pasted the knowledge you guys share on Google in order to verify if the knowledge shared is genuine or just wannabe copyist.

God bless the ardent readers and instead of arguing about MGTOW, Patriarchy, Monk mode blah blah blah, we should endeavor to comprehend each others point of view, understand every interlocking nuances and produce useful and reasonable conclusions. All paths have inherent pros and cons as Undercover has made us understand; choose the lesser evil or the evil you can bear. This forum is about building ourselves in all ramifications, not chest beating, lambasting each other and the ostensive use of abusive and derogatory statements.

Life's is a game; play or perish.

Now we move!

I'm just shalaying today. Lol! Lol!

Zabiboy:
Nice points bro...we all have different perspectives... I got some things from your points...
I'll just clarify the 3 stuffs above
1) I was talking about adults relationship...Man to man and man to woman...

I want you to be seeing nuances bro. I used parents and children as an example. And I also used the government, bosses and God as examples. Whether man to man, or man to woman, adults concerned, the rule still remains. Not everyone has the capacity to reciprocate your kind gestures, however, they will try by displaying a show of gratitude/submissiveness which can come in various forms: gifts, playing dirty games for you, ingratiating, becoming an espionage etc.

Zabiboy:
2) I personally and honestly don't care about having authority....i just want to live my life, help the few i can, make the impact and leave....If i'm a head of any group, i respect everyone and vice-versa, we all join heads together to make things work out fine..

Of course, not everyone can possess the staff of authority or wield the staff of power. That's why the hierarchy is unequally distributed among individuals--- 20:80 where the minority(20%) are the ones in the helms of affairs of a state or nation and the majority(80%) are the subjects.

A man is either a king or a subject. There are ministers, monarchs, senators, commissioners in a country, though they exhibit different levels of power in their jurisdiction, but yet all are subjects to the President. Definitely not all men can reach the top. But in any circle you find yourself, don't say "you are personally not interested in authority...." except as a form of manipulation. Or else, you will be treated as shit.

Authority here doesn't mean becoming a president. It means taking responsibility for yourself and those under you. And those under you must be submissive. It's non negotiable. In a group no one will respect you except they see that symbol of authority glowing around your head. And by the way, respect in groups cannot be reciprocal. You can but others can't. There will be dogs, sheeps and foxes. Except you have or develop the nitty-gritty of leadership, they will turn against you like Cassius did to Caesar.

Zabiboy:
3)First of all, Respect is MEANT to be a general stuff.... Both the "leaders" and "followers" need to respect each other...Unfortunately, it's not so in our society...Also, so far i'm doing well for myself (financially stable, able to help those around me, have fun and travel) i dont care about all these man-made hierarchies. They are just mere tags

No man made hierarchies. Hierarchy is what has shaped humans for millions of years. Your denial doesn't alter it. You either upheave to the top or struggle for the crumbs with those at the bottom like Lazarus with the Rich man's dog.

Here again, you don't necessarily need to become rich as Elon Musk or Otedola. There are some persons the government can't toy with because they've built a solid reputation and yet these persons are not occupying any political office. This is what you must become. A man that can't be oscillated at will, easily manipulated or at the mercy of anyone.

Every circle, whether big or small has hierarchy. If you're not at the top, then you're at the bottom. Your place of work, where you live, social circle, place of study are examples.

Zabiboy:
Once again, i understood all the points you made about the proving...the word prove just sounds like "trying to impress someone" which was why i gave my opinion in that direction. I'v seen the angle you're coming from..it's another nice angle to look at things from.

Life is full of nuances and that's why many people are unable to understand the redpill. If you develop a capacity to understand nuances you'll see how many things correlate and can easily separate salts from sugars. You will become free from arguments because you understand your opponents point of view.

Life's a game; play or perish.

Thanks.

One bucket all humans are still struggling in: we accuse others of many things we are guilty of. No human is an exception. Undercover said many people are ego-invested in their own opinion and will hesitate in taking corrections, however, he's also reprehensible for that same offence. If he was not ego-invested in his own opinion he would have either cede his opinion to the opinion of others or see it as an addendum to his repertoire of knowledge.

Notwithstanding, there's a metric for truth, but humans will forever be ego-invested in their ideas or opinions either for a short or long period of time. For this reason, retracting myself from arguments is one of the greatest feats I have attained and still maintaining. One way or the other, humans will learn from experience or discovery or die ignorant. Only a thirst, hunger and search for truth can serve as a panacea to ignorance. Like I said before, all humans are on this terrain.

Without further ado, to the issue of the day.

Zabiboy:
Here we go again with the proving of oneself....
Just the way you are better than someone, there's always gonna be someone better than you...
Hypergamy is a survival strategy....You can't turn down a 100k job because of a 20k job.... No matter how you prove yourself, who would leave would still leave... Infact, staying with someone you had to prove yourself to is worthless, what happens when life takes it's toll and you can't prove yourself anymore?

A woman simply dovetail with a man that has what she wants and better than her in terms of economic, social status or physical status. What they want is provision and security. A man better than them one way or the other. This is hypergamy.


The above paragraph you never considered. I have a capacity to understand nuance(s) and your post is still valid. But @bolden is a concise extract that's analogous to your post. Anyways, I understand what led to that, the word: prove. O yeah!

Zabiboy:
i'll say this again, As a guy, it's useless trying to prove yourself to anyone. be hypergamous but in terms of value. have standards. if anyone around you is not adding value, move on. You can only stay if you see the other person ( both male or female) making conscious effort to increase the value they add to you...

Adding value = proving themselves to be valuable. If these people never prove their worth, you will detach them from you.

OK. Wait. I get. Prove doesn't mean going round the streets and making proclamations about your achievements seeking for love and attention. No, man. No! Prove here means you've attained a standard as a result of your endeavors and as a result of that, others are attracted to you. This is where hypergamy comes into play. High value men weren't climbing the ladder to the upper echelons to receive praise, but to come to the front seat, stay and occupy there because only in that zone can they get whatever they want and exercise power.

Proving here is not signalling. People congealed themselves to you because you've "proven" to be inestimable.

Zabiboy:
In life, people that come and go don't matter, the girl you're trying to make worship you dont matter...What matters is that you're living life on your own terms and doing what you love....

Same life, nobody cares whether you're living life on your terms or not. If you're not valuable you will be treated as shit. And as you've said before: "if anyone around you is not adding value, move on. You can only stay if you see the other person ( both male or female) making conscious effort to increase the value they add to you..." No one can show or give you value if you've not proven so. Same with a woman. Same with hypergamy.

You either upheave yourself in this life or remain at the bottom. If you've not proven to be a man of honour, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, intellect, you will be toss to and fro from one prisonyard to another by those occupying the realm of power.

Proving here again is not signalling. It is what you're. It is what you've become. It is you. Everything you've gained is yours. It is not fake it till you make it. Dangote is rich; it is not signalling. Brock Lesnar is strong; it's not signalling. Usain Bolt is fast; it's not signalling. Albert Einstein is a genius; it's not signalling. The weak are attracted to the strong because they've proven to have strength. The feeble minded are attracted to the stout hearted because they've courage. Those that signals and imitate falls short when they're tested. But those that are competent withstand the test of time.

Zabiboy:
i still don't even get the ego in seeing someone worship or be submissive..... If you like bow down before me everytime, i'm only after the value you can add to me( because i'm sure i'll add value to anyone around me too)...
Modified: This is my humble opinion.. i'm not in any way saying you MUST do what i'm doing... Cheers

Children don't add value to their parents because they're weak, lacks knowledge and experience. But yet, parents still value them.

You can't say you want authority and expect people not to be submissive to you. Both are not mutually exclusive. For where there is authority, there must be submissiveness. Children can't requite parental gestures in exact pattern, however, they do this by being obedient and submissive and express warm hearts of gratitude and demeanor.

If you're not feared or respected or worshipped or causes submissiveness, it means you're at the bottom of the hierarchy. (Like it or not, no one cares.) It's not an ego thing, it is what it is. The government want you to be loyal to them. Your boss want you to be loyal to him. God wants you to be loyal and submissive to him. Again, it is what it is regardless of how it tastes in your mouth.

PS: from the quoted post, you forgot the phrase: Maintain frame. Maintaining frame means acting according to ways that best suits you, however, in elevation towards something better and healthy for you and society at large. It entails setting the bar for yourself and walking towards it. If you maintain frame;

1. You can't be easily manipulated.

2. You make yourself your mental point of origin.

3. You play according to the game of life.

4. You don't fret after a breakup. You spin another plate when others break.

Can you now see the nuances, and other perspectives?

Thanks.

DAY 112, REDPILL 2021

Optical illusion: you think she's a unicorn because of some "unicornial" traits you saw her displaying as a result of your myopia. Now, you know the truth and the level of deception because you've fallen a victim and has really experienced her for what she's.

Authority: No unicorn anywhere.

emmaodet:
The insults and bullying is getting much of recent.
Initially when this thread started, it was cool and calm until some monikers started joining and insulting people with different views.
Imagine calling others bastard, weak etc just because they don't agree with you.
It speaks alot about the upbringing and age of the person (probably early 20s)

We share over 90% of traits that are analogous to animals especially apes and chimpanzees. Especially when it comes to a male space like this, men will shit test, proclaim a show of dominance and status, develop some particular features or imitate it. Expect this wherever you find a motley of testosterones. Testosterone is a b!tch. Lol!

It is normal! However, if we don't calm down, relax to see the nuances in every ideas/opinions our transmutation into something better will be dilatory.

Martinez39s:
Those that don't want to learn or accept the harsh truth should be left alone. As I said, there are many false beliefs and delusions in the red pill manosphere, either because of incomplete knowledge or the need to believe what one wants to believe. Most men don't realise that a woman has many faces: the face she shows her kids (which appears nice and loving in many cases), the face she shows the husband when the kids are watching, the face she shows the husband when the kids are not watching, and the face she shows the bad guys that are fuckiñg her and she is sexually attracted.

When we talk of AWALT, what do they think we mean by that? If someone can think his mother is a nawalt because she is nice to him, cooked him a nice meal and nurtured him well, it means he will fall for any girl who puts on a similar act and brand her a nawalt, especially when the need to have children kicks in. When it comes to other females, they know the red pill applies; but when it comes to their mums and sisters, they make assumptions and think they are nawalt unicorns. Notice how they are unknowingly conflating the red pill truth about their mums, which they aren't comfortable with, with hatred/bashing/disrespect, exactly what simps and women do.

Indaboski Martinez... Lol

AWALT doesn't mean all women will behave simultaneously in a particular way, but will respond to their underlying prerogative feminine nature at any particular time. Confusion as a result of this is a limitation in knowledge as regards the feminine specie. Women are unequally distributed along different geographical terrains and each demographical area has its own culture, tradition, religion and social way of life. Definitely, as a result of these factors, all women cannot act same way like auto programmed robots. However, this doesn't eliminate their instinct.

1. Women date higher not lower.

Women are weak by nature and needs dominant male to fight for them, provide for them and their offspring. Her eggs are limited and the cost/risk of pregnancy is high. Therefore, she must take her time to select the best among males who can provide these functions. Even broke women wants a man that have a company or a profitable business.

If a woman settles for less it means she has a low sexual market value. Or, has hit/pass the wall. Or, she has a problem that can be as a result of her environment, genetics, anatomy or physiology.

2. Women branch swing.

If a man can no longer continue with his functions along same line, his woman will branch swing to another dominant male. Sexual relationship is a game and can be compared to an employee leaving a particular low paying job and latching onto a high paying company.

If she stays and don't branch swing, it might be as a result of the environment she finds herself; limited by the rules and laws of that environment, shame, religion etc. Because she didn't branch swing she will continually henpeck her man for life until he levels up.

Vetting is a way of cultivating for the best among women. However, vetting cannot be able to expose the inner and outer layer of women bare. Women(mothers and sisters) have a past we don't know of and will never. We can only judge them by our proximity to them. They have secrets we simply don't know of and all humans will go to their graves with circumstantial amounts of secrets.

We're just living by faith with the hope that our mothers and sisters "are not like that". Though not all women branch swing, f^cks around, belligerent, outrightly exhibiting their histrionics, but if given the chance without censure they will. That is the reason men has been bestowed with authority by God/The Divine to lead women, because if left alone they will run the earth into chaos. Notice: where male dominance or positive masculinity is not rightly followed or practiced, women act belligerently without caution.

" Some Redpill gurus" want to believe their sisters and mothers are outliers, however, this can be true and yet their instinct is still active and ready to "act like" other women. Outliers among women decides to act and behave rightly by inculcating the positive traits of men and blending it with their positive feminine nature--- high value women. If our mothers didn't "act like" other women it simply means that the height of masculinity wall around them was tight and strong alongside other cultural and social consequences for living their life according to her own volition without any consideration.

AWALT

Thanks.

BLOODYSPERM:
Differences between men and women

Men move the discussion forward. Women swap recipes and beauty tips.
Men debate. Women wheedle.
Men confront. Women slander.
Men act. Women plot.
Men invent. Women benefit.
Men are passionate. Women are passion parasites.
Men cheat. Women betray.
Men withdraw. Women shit test.
Men kill. Women play let’s you and him fight.
Men are emotionally distant. Women are emotionally manipulative.
Men’s Achilles’ heel is pride. Women’s Achilles’ heel is vanity.
Men die younger. Women live slower.
Men think loftily. Women think grubbily.
Men are expendable. Women are perishable.
Men humiliate. Women shame.
Men bluster. Women preen.
Men break barriers. Women co-opt broken barriers.
Men design. Women utilize.
Men self-serve. Women self-delude.
Men fvck. Women barter.
Men are funny. Women are melodramatic.
Men look at the sun. Women look in the mirror.
Men sexualize. Women characterize.
Men eat. Women indulge.
Men aspire. Women inspire.
Men love freely. Women love desperately.

DCP, March 2010: liars and veejayjays.

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