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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 3:08pm On Nov 12, 2013
Dr_Jay02: Glory to GOD, heaven heard my prayers and in turn denied the VO's Sleep and my medicals jumped the long line of applicants and came in record time , GOD be praised  because he's truly not asleep. 
Date of Application: 27th September 2013
Date of Medical Instruction: 12th November 2013
Thanks to every one on this thread one way or the other the posts made by all were a source of chill pill and encouragement for me during the wait period.

Congratulations!!!!!
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part5 by Chatters(f): 3:00pm On Nov 12, 2013
Good day house, you are all doing a great job here encouraging each other. I have a situation I would love the house to help me resolve. I have constantly been receiving messages from the university of Notre Dame to apply to their master degree program. First was a message from the graduate school. Another came from the department. Yet another came from the program coordinator. Then came a message from the departmental graduate recruitment committee members. I know I didn't apply to this school. They said they got my details from toefl after scoring 102 in the test. My question now is this: is the university of notre dame a good school? What are my chances of getting admission? I have an undergraduate cgpa of 3.6 and my final two years of study produced a gpa of 4.2. It was stated in their website that the average cpga for admission is 3.6 out of 4. I emailed them about this and they replied that cgpa is not what they base their admission on alone. I asked them the possibility of offering admission since Nigeria is not allowed to write GRE in the country. They replied that I should get ets to send them a message that I was not able to test.they even sent me enticing messages like being offered over $26k funding on being admitted to their research based program. please house what should I do? Should I go ahead and apply? Is this for real?
Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:53am On Nov 10, 2013
Mujah1deen:

You can take the heat anymore? Or you are done fabricating lies about me ?

Tired of who? You? Damn yes I am! You are simply not worth my time. I gat precious things to do than waste time on a lowlife like you and your useless opinions. If all men are like you then the world is really coming to an end.
Btw, you profess to be religious, why not do Islam a favor and pleassssseeee shut up already.

I'm so un- following this thread... I believe I ve made my point. kiss

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:38am On Nov 10, 2013
chineloSA:

Whether you were rude to me or him is irrelevant. You started first and he chipped in on my behalve.

When you are rude to me doesnt mean that I like it or the next person likes it. They may be thinking " let me deal with her before I become her next victim"

So please calm down, let debate like ladies not ZOo animal you refered me too. By the way I didnt like it. wink wink wink

Sorry about that grin i get pissed when women are being treated like possessions and piece of rag all in the name of marriage. They are equal partners in the union and issues like this should be discussed and settled amicably. Btw, tell your friend to back off and stop protecting you. undecided Unless you re one his purpoted wives grin That I can understand.

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:32am On Nov 10, 2013
Mujah1deen: You are not making any sense, how old are you ? Abeg try again. And kindly refer me to where I mentioned your private parts or anyone private parts, are you sure you are all right upstairs?
Anyway I feel your pain
Common admit it. You are always mentioning ashawo and other sexually explicit words... I deeply fear there is little hope left for you...

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:27am On Nov 10, 2013
chineloSA:

I think you started being rude before he did. smiley smiley smiley

Nope. I disagree. I wasn't even talking to him but was rather referring to you. Funny enough you did rise to the bait but he did which speaks alot about the kind of man he is. I seriously doubt he is a man ... The way he talks befits a street urchin ...am sure they would be so proud of him right now

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:20am On Nov 10, 2013
Mujah1deen: I'm actually married with two beautiful wives. What about you? Is the chief of your village still riding you or it is the turn of your governor?

Village bicycle ooo who wants to take a free ride? grin

Really? You are married? shocked shocked Wonders shall never end. Something must be wrong somewhere. I wonder why you are behaving like a 2 year old...mhh...maybe there's a loose nut somewhere.. This fella needs some serious help here sad S visit o yaba left may work wonders for you. I'd also recommend 2 years of compulsory therapy. Did I mention you've got deep issues with the female private parts, the way you always mention it in your post? May be you don't get erections these days. The fact is can go hug a transformer... You seriously need psychiatric evaluations. Lets see you reply this post like a normal human being cool

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:06am On Nov 10, 2013
Mujah1deen: ashawo, who is going to marry you ? Village bicycle

Idiot! Always picking quarrels in threads. No woman in her right mind will marry you. You pathetic bigot.

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 12:02am On Nov 10, 2013
Mujah1deen: women like you end up in coffins

Men like you end up with bullets in their heads. slowpoke!!!

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 11:59pm On Nov 09, 2013
chineloSA:

Woman breadwinners in Nigeria?

No, once I financially take over the responsibilities of a man, then to me he is my wife. Even if I earn less, he still needs to honour his responsibilities.
I wouldn't take over a mans responsibility, as I would be denting his ego. He will eventually go and look somewhere where he is useful.

Where are you from? The zoo?

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Family / Re: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by Chatters(f): 11:49pm On Nov 09, 2013
chineloSA:

I understand the guys point of view. Is he married to you or you married to him You giving your son a Yoruba name should just be plain negotiations and him being a nice guy.

I ask if you are pregnant because, from my perspective I think you overreacted. In my culture, that is not negotiated, especially if you are married. So, i expect you to understand such. smiley smiley

Chinelo, which culture? Pls speak for yourself. I assume you are igbo. No igbo culture dictates that. Wake up from your slumber and stop being myopic. So you are telling me you are a slave to your hubby just because he married you? I pity such mentality. Its women like you that makes men treat them like trash!!

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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 4:07pm On Nov 08, 2013
rilly2000: ALHAMDULILAH
And finally!! I got my TRV

After waiting for 6hrs....

Alhamdulilah...

Inside bus now. OMW home now

More details when I reach house...
But big thanks to my big bro @chrigo @nicemax, my big sis @kitty-sunshine and all nairalanders in this forum. Thank you for your help and support! May God bless you too .

Congrats! God is truly at work.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 3:42pm On Nov 08, 2013
@Ambey, I thank God for you. Congrats!!!
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 3:38pm On Nov 08, 2013
@onyeoma. Congratulobia!!! God is indeed great.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 6:21pm On Nov 01, 2013
habie:
Thanks @ahmedonia4real and Kayconsult really do appreciate . @chatter thanks too and I noticed u wanted to send mi a mail but I guess it went into my spam so pls kindly resend.

I've resent it.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 6:05pm On Nov 01, 2013
habie: Finally my TRV arrived grin
Submitted paper route
Submission: August 22
Medical Instruction: October 11
Medical concluded: October 21
TRV received: Nov 1st.
Glory be to Almighty Allah, thanks y'all n I pray all awaiting medical and TRV hopeful get theirs soon.

Congrats habie! I wan practice that ya idea o. Na my next step be that. Enjoy.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 4:14pm On Oct 30, 2013
ChriGo: ...GOD OF SIGNS AND WONDERS....I left Embassy an hour ago.....me and Rolatims went for secret storming...lol...I don Port to TRV at last....Rolatims too don Port to TRV ....Movein too don port to TRV......GOD OF SIGNS AND WONDERS said its time....now i have confirmed it....brb guys, on my way home now smilling with my TRV grin......
Congratulations!!! God loves you!

Congratulations!!! God loves you!

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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 4:11pm On Oct 30, 2013
ChriGo: ...GOD OF SIGNS AND WONDERS....I left Embassy an hour ago.....me and Rolatims went for secret storming...lol...I don Port to TRV at last....Rolatims too don Port to TRV ....Movein too don port to TRV......GOD OF SIGNS AND WONDERS said its time....now i have confirmed it....brb guys, on my way home now smilling with my TRV grin......

Congratulations!!! God loves you!

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Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 7:55am On Oct 30, 2013
2ndChance:
All I needed from her was just to be notified and nothing more. There is no reason on earth that would have made me not to grant her my approval eacept may be I don't have the money readily available which doesn't apply in this situation. The building took her exactly one year to complete and she never bothered to inform me until I found out myself. The main issue there is that she has betrayed trust and loyalty in my marriage that I now deeply fear for my safety. If I have assurance that she means no harm, then I have no issue with the building or any of her other investments that I may not be aware of. But unfortunately, she's not talking and some key members of the family who are trying to savage the situation are saying she is neither picking no returning their calls as well. We can't make any meaningful progress here without communication.

Have you stopped to consider that may be she feels too embarrassed to pick those calls?
I once had a situation where very Tom, dick and harry wanted to phone in and find out the state of affairs in my house. You can never know how embarrassing it is to pick tons of calls from people in a day all in the name of settling family dispute. Don't be surprised that some of these people only wants to hear stories they would later spread to their friends. Not all family members are your friends! Some are looking to gossip and spread more rancor. Tell will even come back to you will stories of your wife' response to them and how she was slandering your name.

I can tell you from experience that this is a matter better resolved tenderly with your better half. Don't let people fill your head with rubbish. For all you know some of these people may be envying you as we speak. Think what wil happen 1-10 years down the line after you separatedrom your wife and you begin to see things clearly and wished you never allowed outside inference. Nothing kills a marriage faster than interfering family.

As for your mother in law this is a good opportunity to show her the way out. Let me remind you that mannerof approach matters. The way you approach your wife for explanation matters. Don't approach her in an aggressive way. Be gentle and show superior character. You will be surprised at what a gentle voice will do.
Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 7:32am On Oct 30, 2013
2ndChance: I woke up in the middle of the night with my wife by my side and suddenly, the thought of "she could have killed you while you were sleeping" or "she could have set the house on fire", etc, etc, filled my mind! The only thing that didn't make make jolt out of bed in horror was that when I looked at her face, she was fast asleep! In fact, I am more confused now than I was when I created this thread. Aahh! NLers, una don drive me paranoid grin. But funny as it may seem, the issue is really not a laughing matter! grin grin

Don't let anyone confuse you. Some people are unhappy in their homes and are out to wreck other homes through bad advice. Its obvious you've been listening to some of these poor advises. What she did hurts no doubt but don't do anything you will later regret. Probe to the heart of the matter. There is something she is not telling you. Its only when you understand he true situation of things and why it happened will you be able to heal and move on. Now is the one to show more love. Who knows this may end up being a blessing in disguise.
Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 2:24pm On Oct 29, 2013
normaljenny: My brother, I have seen lots of advices here some are good and some are not good. Kneeling down and begging for forgiveness is no big deal. I can do it too with like 20 mins crying added to it. My candid advice is:

1. Don't hate her and don't send her away.

2. Request for the documents as it should be in your possession.

3. If she refuses to give u the documents.

4. Stop sleeping in same room with her.

5. Change your phone number and keep her off ur contacts whatever. Facebook, twitter. Etc

6. Don't you ever, ever eat her food. because if she finds out through the advise of her friends,mother, or pastor that you are becoming a pain in the ass, then she can be compelled to act rashly and if u should die, she would get another hubby in a year, and as she is getting so ambitious now, she has the automatic ownership to all your stuffs.

7. Threat her like a stranger in the house.

8. Don't ever have family discussions with her.

9. Behave as if your life depends on it.

10. Let it stretch for like two to three months.

11. When she comes for begging,don't give in immediately.

12. There shall not be a third party in the reconciliation scene. It should just you and her.

13. Trying to knw if the pastor is screwing her is a past thing. Just keep the past off from it.

14. But meet the foolish pastor and tell him bluntly that if you ever see him 250 meters close to any member of your household, that you will "kill" him.

15. Get a court injuction on him calling your wife or getting close to your family.

16. Withdraw the matter from your family and her family meddling in to solve. Keep them out of it. And your friends too. Only you and your wife can save your marriage.

17. Tell her you want a divorce and see how she would react to it. If she is shocked at and scared at it, then know she wants her marriage to stay, but if she is not, then know that can be the last option (deutoronomy. 24:1-4).

18. As you start it, dedicate a week fasting & prayer to God, for the purpose of keeping the family imtact and ask God to reveal hidden things to you, as I to know if the pastor has voodoo on her, because I don't trust most of all these pastors with their wack powers.

19. Lastly, don't joke with your life. E no get duplicate.

All your points are moot! Why shouldn't e woman keep the documents to her own house? You should also tell her to hand over her salary every month to her husband. Its people like you that destroy marriages with all your bad advice. Simply tell the man to forgive and move on with his life.
@ OP, pls don't listen to this clown. Find a place in your heart to forgive her. Try and rekindle the love you guys felt forbeah other that prompted you to get married. You will be surprised at the change that will take place in your marriage as a result.

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Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 2:02pm On Oct 29, 2013
gokuu: Building a house is an investment. As long as she built the house with her own money, i do not see any problem with it. it's not 1913 anymore. must she submit her investment plans for authorization?

Bros tell them we are no longer in the stone age. The wife should have given him a hint though.
Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 1:28pm On Oct 29, 2013
gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision.
kiss

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Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 1:26pm On Oct 29, 2013
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house

of course i will inform him before i start but that does not constitute seeking his permission.

its my hard earned money and i can spend it however it pleases me angry angry as long as I do not put my finances or the family in jeopardy

Well said wink

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Family / Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Chatters(f): 1:09pm On Oct 29, 2013
smartchoice: Send her outta your life immediately!

You must be out of your mind to think the way you do. How can you offer such a useless advice. We have only heard from the OP. We must need to hear from the wife too. For all I know there's no smoke without fire.

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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 9:52pm On Oct 16, 2013
jadapinket13: Submitted winter new start date at cdhc on the 11th October. They collected my passport same day.

Went to collect my trv today. I don port o. God is great.
Congrats. Our God is good all the time!

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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 5 by Chatters(f): 1:22pm On Oct 12, 2013
Glad that part 5 is finally here. May God bless all our efforts and crown it with glory. I know I will testify just like others that succeeded in part 4. Let us all not lose hope, the fight continues....God is on our side! cheesy

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Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 4 by Chatters(f): 4:59pm On Oct 11, 2013
sparta_300: Hello house, sorry I haven't been present for a while...been shuttling to n fro lagos.
Finally the TRV don show! God be praised!
Applied online on d 6th of sept
Medical instructions 23rd sept
Medicals done on d 25th sept
Passport submission requested on d 1st oct
Submitted my passport on d 9th n got it some mins later with the trv!
My people, na God! Online route too sure!
It gives u direct contact with cic unlike using a third party n getting third hand Info.
Ur SOP is more important than ur SOA. It should be related to ur course of study.
Be convincing enuf thats all! my sponsor's account had only 3.2m
Ps: getting a trv is just half of the battle, so I'm getting to realise, all d same, we thank God.

I never wanted to start tapping yet but heck...what have I got to lose? I tap, tap, tap, tap, tap, a lorry load of blessings from you! God is indeed great!
Religion / Re: A Prayer Of Intercession by Chatters(f): 8:16am On Oct 10, 2013
manny4life: My heart is burdened and crying out to God for lives that have been lost recently either due to negligence or natural causes, our country is experiencing dark days, and while we hold our leader accountable, rather than cast blames, I have decided to pray. I'm a firm believer in GOD, the author and finisher of my faith, the ruler of all, and I believe in his promises. I will pray and whether you believe or not, my prayer is for you as well...

Oh Lord, our God
Thank you for your mercies and honor
You're the God to whom all flesh bow unto, Intercession
The God who commanded let there be light,
and there was light, and darkness couldn't comprehend it,
The HOLY ONE of Israel, the ruler of the heavens, and earth and all therein,
Thank you for your love, your peace, your mercies which endures upon us,
We say thank you, because without you, we're nothing.


Our God, darkness seems to becloud us,
Everyday, we hear news that troubles and saddens our heart
I bring before you, all those whom have fallen, not by their own hands
Oh Lord, grant them PEACE, and pave way that their souls may REST WELL
I commit their various families, give them PEACE to bear the loss, IT IS WELL WITH THEM

For we the living, I commit our ways before you, for you said,
Our enemies comes like a roaring lion seeking for whom to devour,
You said, as the number of days a tree is on the surface of the earth,
You promised, SO SHALL OUR DAYS BE, You promised WE SHALL NOT DIE,
We shall LIVE to accomplish your good works, thus Evil, Death, Untimely Sickness WILL NEVER befall us,
I seal and cover ourselves with the blood of Jesus, lead us, direct us, and protect us from all sorts of harm,

I ask all these in name of God... Amen.

In the name of JESUS CHRIST...Amen.
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 4 by Chatters(f): 7:52pm On Oct 09, 2013
Quantumfisika:

ook..tanks man..not expectin to pay any fees cos I got a full scholarship which includes feedin..boardin tutition etc..which clinic uploads d medical result faster...dnt want uneccesary delays..
Congrats on your scholarship and medical call up. Please how long did it take you to be notified by your school about the scholarship decision?
Travel / Re: Travelling To Canada Part 4 by Chatters(f): 8:56am On Oct 07, 2013
ChriGo: ....GLORY BE TO THE FATHER,THE SON,THE HOLY SPIRIT....My medical instructions just dropped this morning my people....Am so very too happy right now mehn!!....as i dey type now am not thinking straight...i just wana burst the news...the real typo will come in soon cuz i really need to appreciate some people grin......

Congrats bros. You deserve it!

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Religion / Re: Doctor Prays Over Dead Patient, Raises Him From The Dead by Chatters(f): 8:52am On Oct 01, 2013
Okija_juju:


Yeah!! You run and quote the Lazarus scripture.. So its either you are saying that the part of the bible I quoted is obsolete and thus useless or Lazarus was never dead, just Comatose.. #Simple..

And just because something is beyond your understanding doesnt mean you should take the lazy mans approach of attributing it to a higher existence that you have never seen nor heard from just folklore passed down from age to age.

You want to Tell me that God has a son, that he sent to die so that he can be pleased to forgive humans of their sins. Humans that he created. Sin that he created. The Devil that God created is now so powerful that God had to kill his own son to be able to overpower the Devil that he created. God has a son, but has no wife. So did he create Jesus as well or is Gods wife dead? O and how Come God has to wait till Jesus finishes building Mansions in Heaven and carrying those who drink his blood into his kingdom, for him to destroy the world? And why do I have to have an affinity with Isreal for me to be eligible to Make heaven? Like have you really thought about this religion of urs fully? Why do i have to become a pseudo-cannibal (eating bread and wine whilst pretending its the blood and flesh of Jesus) to be saved? Like seriously?

Beware! God cannot be mocked. Whatsoever a man soweth that he shall reap.

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