₦airaland Forum

Antoeni:
It Won't Change Anything, Wike Days of Political Relevance in Rivers State is Over
" No SIM No Network "
Gov SIM Fubara Should Bring Hon Rotimi Ameachi on Board

CaveAdullam:
I know OP belongs to the camp of "it goes both ways. It's vice-versa. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander".
You all think that inter-sexual dynamics are words and synonyms. Anyway, your topic even proved it wrong.

Back in the hunter-gatherer's days exchange wasn't based on fiat. Here was how women benefitted from men and even up till today.

Being married or in a relationship:

1. Brings the woman respect from all and sundry. It separates her from the girls and puts her in the league of women regardless of her age.

2. Placed the woman on the same level as the man. A peasant girl can become a queen because of her marriage to a king.

3. Extends the hands of the man to her immediate and extended family. For protection and provision. Strongmen are a sought-after species of humans.

4. Protects the woman from danger and predators. That's why women don't like weak men. Because women are weak and need a stronger force - masculinity to protect them.

5. To help her do difficult work. Men can do all women's jobs. But not vice-versa.
So, if by chance she comes across difficult work, her husband or spouse is there to help her.

6. Family name. Women don't bear their husband's name for nothing. A name associated with status is an identity that sets her apart when she steps outside.

7. She can decide to be nothing. But having a man will grant most of her desires. You've heard of "stay-at-home mum or full-time housewife, right?"

8. Reproduction is expedient for both. However, a man can cater for a woman and her child. And not vice-versa, else, chaos in the family.

Even in the absence of money, the man ought to defend them. Thereby extending the lineage of the woman.

9. Men bear the burden of proof. There is hope that a man can become a recognizable force, and he must work hard because it's expedient for him.

It's not to prove society right, but that a man feels worthless when he is at the bottom of life - lacks power, authority, and resources.

Nobody expects anything tangible from women. Only let her be gentle, kind, and feminine. Unfortunately, these are characteristics of nice guys who are tortured by women and men.
Being with the man will compel him to do and become better, which benefits her too.
10. The presence of a man in a woman's life proves her feminine power. The woman who isn't able to "tame" a man is a woman who will suffer shame ridicule, and bullying.
Summarily: a woman can't be strong enough for herself. The man is her stronghold and defense.
Thanks.

Lovemeharder:
I also prefer a small marriage blessing or court wedding, cos after all the huge spending in doing one Big white wedding nobody will look you and your wife's face.
The last wedding I attended, I saw very few gifts that was presented to the couples and it was not encouraging at all.
People will come, eat and drink well, then go back to thier respective homes.

Ginaz:
sending them message is wrong but they can eat my food, request for things which I provide, scatter my house and spoil my things. little message to buy me fried fish or fresh tomatoes now at front of the street is a crime.

pricklewane:
Igbos will still wail.over this harmless news. I repeat igbos n not ipob or Obidient but igbos

Alliswell248:
A disobdient spotted.... Judiciary works with evidence....and not sympathy. Sore losers everywhere

Bigchristo:
You just want to exercise your fingers by typing this post, we are talking about Nigeria not South Africa, I’ve seen things more even Ghana that Rawlings sanitized are now heavily into corruption in govt.. we blacks are too corrupt

Bigchristo:
You just want to exercise your fingers by typing this post, we are talking about Nigeria not South Africa, I’ve seen things more even Ghana that Rawlings sanitized are now heavily into corruption in govt.. we blacks are too corrupt

Ykc2:
that is not egg but onions

Ykc2:
Please like how much this 2 items will cost in nigeria, I went to buy banana and onions in hofer supermarket near me here in vienna austria today,today is Saturday I forgot that banana sold faster today,this is the only remaining ones I met then I bought it with the onions in the bag both cost €4.20 ,

doggedfighter:
If you teach me how to cook.
I don't have money to buy foodstuffs neither do I have skimpy wears to serve you with

Divoc19:
I can't speak for them, cant be bragging without proves. What I know for sure is, all my exes want me back. But I can't stay in one place for too long. I always leave first before it gets soar so that the good times memoir remains

netpro:
I would have preferred David Lyon was the candidate for the APC.
PDP will win Bayelsa hands down.

AbuTwins:
I or my father won't be partisan as he has been!

AbuTwins:
I don't know why the labour people always demonise this man!
There's nothing he does that will satisfy them!

Jewessgratitud3:
Who should they detain? The dead woman or her children?
Who was with her when she took her life?
Do you know if he contributed to what led to the suicide? These are some of the reasons he was detained I guess; to find out if he's the reason or is directly or indirectly connected to the suicide.
It's normal. He needs some answering to do about what he knows concerning the death of his live in spouse.

Keme4Real:
Timipre Sylva ko Joke Sylva ni.
Nobody really cares.

Major1984:
you must be a rich man son, over 70% Nigerians don't have access to clean water ,I'm still using well as source of water .

Makunahatata:
The only thing wey vex me fr ur story na the leg den no break properly.. 😒

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking
So what does the guy intend to do about it after he gets out of the hospital? And what happened to the woman who brought cultist to Bleep the man up?
Cuz believe me not everybody will let this slide, especially someone like me, cuz if you get mind to call niggas mk them come mend me then you should be prepared for what's to come next that's if I'm not dead, for mere talk during the heat of an argument you call men make them come mend me and you think say you for go house go sleep, unless my papa no name me wetin he name me well.
Nobody's got Monopoly to vawulence, if this was a thread stating that the man brought cultist to butcher the woman by now all the feminist for nairaland no for let this thread rest.
Well he will be a weak man if he lets this slide.

Abisolababe:
Female donated money to me I have the proof Someone that has the same moniker with me

Wujio:
You wont see the males work like this. Never. It is banter and abusing people they would never meet in life or can touch. A guy will not sit down and calculate how to pick themselves up. When i said it that females are smarter sheybi people thiught i had an issue with gender. This thread has vindicated me. I cam point out

tonystark007:
Op Can you explain something to me?
you said the woman was old enough to be the guy's mom, Are her kids not suppose to be as old as the guy or more older than his kids. Why should they fight with kids whom i assume are much more younger, i might just be ignorant of your story or you just made it up to prove your main point