₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
I have never seen men being so biased as they do on this forum.

They like shifting roles and responsibilities. They love it like their lives depend on it. They want to be respected and submitted to even when they haven't done anything to command that respect. The Holy book says you need to love a woman first for her to be able to submit to you, but these ones seem to ignore that part of the Bible always.

When it comes to relationships, shifting blames is their first defense. For this case here, immediately she said she nags, every other thing she said after became null and void to them. They already have a foothold and that was all they needed. Let's forget about the physically abusive husband, let's neglect the 'spiritually-dependent' husband, let's ignore the 'testing-spouse' husband. Many of these guys will never allow their wife be spiritually-dependent, or physically abusive or test them, but once a man is doing it, it's alright and acceptable.

In the case she didn't add that, majority will hold on to the "until I hear from both parties" as their lifeline. Anything that exonerates them and their fellow men, they'll hang unto it, even if it will lead the woman to her death.

Tufiakwa!

demmymoney:
Bleep off
Foolish racist pig

chii8:
Yes,do that girl's mother a favour and alert her please.That was how a teacher in his late fourty's was asking a J.S.S.2 student to sleep with him, the girl refused and he started giving the girl unnecessary punishment.The student eventually opened up when it was too much and the slowpoke dog of a teacher told me and I quote "why are you protecting a girl that is spoilt already or do you think she's still a virgin"... I shock that day.Infact for even confronting the teacher I was queried, the principal believed that I was embarrassing a fellow teacher in the staffroom.



Parents should be watchful over their children....e get why!

Dapcity247:
Male Feminist seeking attention and free pussy

Kuns84:
Nice one!

And this why you changed your moniker from "f" to "m" because you identify with every character trait you've just described

demmymoney:
What inventions of white men

Which type of foolish racist are u

U think because u are not in Nigeria u should just b typing stupid shit and condemning Nigeria ehn

U are very stupid

What have you u done to better ur fatherland rather than just criticize

Idiat!

demmymoney:
Then terminate the lives of all men in d world to have a better place now ode oshi

Women are the most purest and holiest gender and they do no wrong

Daft human being!

Kuns84:
Nice one!

And this why you changed your moniker from "f" to "m" because you identify with every character trait you've just described

TimiRume:
Wow I thought women are the evil ones and the problem of the world. This is like the 1000th reported crime since last week perpetuated by...I guess women in male bodies.

Women won't let men rest, they now disguise as men and commit crimes every minute in Nigeria. Giving men a bad name.

Women should please continue killing, raping, robbing,etc without pretending to be men, they are desecrating the supeliol gender. Women are the evil gender that need to be stopped.


Kontinue

Pelecius:
I want to believe that you'll take such "accusation" serious if it'll swing public opinion about you, if it could put you in danger (imagine me screaming such and you are in Iran or Pakistan), etc.

Saccharine:
Because they can,because girls are generally not valued except for reproduction,housekeeping and child rearing purposes.

Why should children mature fast? Whats the rush? Where are they running to? What is the advantage of this quick maturity?

How can a child so young know what she wants? By the time she hits her late teen or 20s she's trapped with children and most times a man over 8 times her age and society will frown on her and make her life hell if she wants better.

For the young boys,what do they know? Forced to care for a girl? As they mature,society makes it permissible for them to sow their wild oats and marry more women while not extending same courtesy to the young wife.

The sick thing about it is that these children are impressionable,easily controlled, they know nothing ,their minds easily malleable ,practically walking puppets to serve these men plus the increased possibility of death at childbirth.

How will you not mature fast if at 13 you're having babies,sexing and running a home? What sort of children can you raise? A full blown adult has challenges raising children,what will a child teach a fellow child?

Research has shown that the pruning of brain neural circuits is almost completed at about age 25. This is about rational thinking,decision making,impulsively etc
This studying is still ongoing.

There's news now of some of them killing their spouses, running away etc.If we actually take a census,what would they really say?Would they do same if they were given a choice?

My real question is why are they soo scared about waiting for them to grow up and decide for themselves?

What is it about educating the female child that scares people?

Is Buhari marrying off his 13 year old? Why is he educating his daughters and marrying them off when they're adults?

Why don't you set an example and start with your own daughter not getting an education so she can be more 'mature?

Pelecius:
You seem to see Abrahamic religions (Christianity is my emphasis) in a different way from what it is. You portray it as bad and I have asked you before to show us why your claim is true which you didn't.
Imagine I claim that you are gay (mind you, I assume that you are a female and kinda support feminist ideology). If you bring me out to prove my claim because you are a female and male homosexual should detest you (assuming you're a feminist and misandrist). Yet I ignore your call to clear the air (since this look like defamation) but go on to repeat same 'erroneous' claim, how will you see me? Dumb? Crazy?

BLOODYSPERM:
Why only Abrahamic religion, remove also all female gods , idols and goddesses

Since religion has failed

BLOODYSPERM:
Men and women can synergize and complement each other

BLOODYSPERM:
You are talking like a misandrist

BLOODYSPERM:
Feminization is oppressing men in western societies leading to new socialization like men right activism, redpill, MEN GO THERE OWN WAY ( MGTOW),Gaming

Egalitarianistic-Equalism is the ideology behind feminization

Tribalism is the longest and oldest form of socialization that have existed for many centuries
Feminism started in the 20th century and has already started alienating some men who find Feminist as enemies same way you see religion as an oppressive patriarchal institution

Dear, you are dealing with the complexity of social dynamics interactions factoring human nature, need for stability and avoidance of chaos,i.e balance and hormony

Is Feminism in it's current state bringing balance and harmony to the Earth since religion in some cases failed and led to war,death and destruction

djon78:
But the submission comes first in Ephesians 5 chapter you quoted.

True a man should love his wife as stated but submission is also very key

In addition 1 Peter 3 also admonished women on how to respect there husband's in other to win them over

The main problem today which this article was exposing is that many so called exposed women are toxic today
So men are more wiser in selecting a spouse, not one that will mess them up.

I was talking with a friend this morning about one very successful Christian man but has big issue in marriage, was separated.

The guy made one statement, that he . married those kind of exposed girls that doesn't want to cool down. That the guy was warned but see now how it ended

That's why men are becoming wiser going for women that will give them peace of mind

The Bible knew what it was saying

BLOODYSPERM:
Religion is a form of socialization
Feminism is a form of socialization
Atheism is a form of socialization
Egalitarianistic-Equalism is a form of socialization

As long as you are on Earth you will be subjected to one form of socialization

pacespot:
Don't misquote me, I'm not saying someone has to be a maid to prove herself to be a good wife material, but we know some people can't do a maid job because of pride. And don't tell me Nigerian maids are the same with maids in advanced countries, maids are treated better in those country. But if someone can take all the sh*t that comes with being a maid in Nigeria, definitely she is close to being a wife material. But that is still not a confirmation she will be a good wife, because individual characters tend to change once they get to their comfort zone.

ebuka10box:
take it easy bro

JESHAL:
If you don't like it kill yourself