₦airaland Forum

CSTRR:
If you see how poorly trained a lot of ladies are nowadays, you go shock.
Na to press phone and go on dates dem sabi.

Many ladies can't cook a perfect jollof rice.

Ordinary jollof rice.

We are not even talking the local soups.

pacespot:
The fact that someone can stoop herself low to become maid, the probability is much higher she will be a good wife.

casualj:
As a lady you must be useful in all aspects,it shouldn't be limited to the Bedroom only.
If you can't cooked as a lady,then you don't need a man.

NoToPile:
You still don't get it and you are twisting your reply. It was a simple question - Are you ready to lay down your life for your wife as Christ did for the church?

There was a reason why husbands love your wives comes before wives submit to your husband. A woman will hardly ( genuinely) submit to a man who doesn't love ( the way christ loved the church)her

Husband will love and wife will submit its that simple.


Now I will ask clearly are you ready to lay down your life for her as Christ did for the church? I believe you have a full grasp of what Christ did for the church if yes as you have stated then you should know it might actually be easier for a woman to submit than a man ( of this generation) to love his wife as God has commanded it.
It is also difficult for a woman not to submit to that man that loves her as God commanded.

Love her- she submits she won't even disrespect you.

And 1st Corinthians 13 also shows us characteristics of love ( maybe a part)

Lightorder:
you are the lazy and shameless on here ma. That was how they were glorifying it on Nigeriainfofm the other day. Men should be cooking for their wives because they are equal. They were dragging and arguing it back and forth on air. My wife who was listening with me laughed ,sighed and said, “ biko, when has cooking become a big work now”? “All these lazy women sef, how many minutes does it take to cook”.
Cooking, I repeat, cooking shouldn’t be part of what a mother should start crying about as a big task. If you are a woman who doesn’t know how to cook for your husband, you have LOST the battle. It is jus a matter of time , you will regret it. For you fake men who see nothing wrong about a maid or iya Kunle eatery taking care of your tummy, you will soon be real. In case, my wife is a busy Manager in a health institution, a pharmacist . So you don’t think she has all the time in the world

Raph82:
And u think it's that easy? Just work on character like that? My brother don't be fooled please. There are many among these maids who are graduates, smart and submissive. What a man needs is housewife material that is matured in character, not all these mummy's pet that will be stockpiling dirty pants in one corner of the room.

HellVictorinho:
Technology is not the product of any race.
But inferiority complex has occupied your brain.

idahme:
I have a full stop placed on those who exude unidirectional thoughts. Have a nice time

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Liposure:
the same applies to women. In every gender there is good and bad eggs but you ve decided to vent your grievance on the male specie. That's not fair. Women do worse and sometimes get away with it becos society favors them. Yet your resentment persists. Men are not that bad. Stop the hate

idahme:
It's unfortunate that simple comprehension of the passage seems difficult for you to comprehend, no offense . Was anywhere in the passage referring to black nation? The bashing was for the male gender as a whole and I responded appropriately.

idahme:
and u failed to add, the same 'stupid' gender is the reason you are online ranting. the same 'ignorant ' gender is responsible for 99% of scientific discoveries in world's history and lastly thesame 'mumu' gender will be the reason why u will call urself mother in the future if u arent.... You need to purge your mind, it helps for one's sanity. That a microscopic few does something that is antithetical to societal growth doesn't portray all member of that gender are so, most people like this will bash the male gender and still run to them for help every single day of their life....

Ayaaz:
As usual, i am brainless and refusing to take responsibility

It's trash and not thrash...they're distinct, brush up

I am a Deluded child

Princeofasia:
this your argument is far from my point. We are taking of bringing another man's or woman's child to the house

Ayaaz:
[s]First of all, i didn't say women shouldn't chase wealth, women have been making money long before the advent of feminism

What i did was simply diagnose the problem and that is that values have changed and that women now choose to compete with men as opposed to complimenting men's efforts

It's not black and white, you don't have to prostitute to get ahead, making your own money isn't a license to prostitute, you can work hard and grind just like the generality of men do

Alot of women have taken women's freedom as the freedom to prostitute, you can't honestly justify female looseness by arguing that men are to blame...if you want freedom, you must accept responsibilty for your uncoerced choices because social freedom doesn't equate freedom from responsibilty

Lastly, don't accuse me of what i'm not culpable of...i believe motherhood is more important than a career for women and that it's a man's job to provide resources for the running and functioning of the home

I'm not against a woman working, particularly in these times, but it's not her burden and a man who shames a woman for not providing financially is shameless even though a sensible woman who earns, should assist the husband

Miss me with that bullshit[/s]

Princeofasia:
see am na CHoccolaTE
https://www.nairaland.com/6361374/ex-said-son-mine-please

Princeofasia:
we dont bring another woman child to her like this hoe here did.

Princeofasia:
it still not a primary issue. issues like the man fucking outside, always coming home late affects the family more than these vices u stated here

Princeofasia:
the things you mentioned are social vices. it has nothing to do with the man actual behaviour with the woman. yes those things are wrong but it really has nothing to do with the family. emoney and the rest na yahoo boys but they still put their family first. we are talking of things that affect the family directly. prostitution , adultery is major

Princeofasia:
no one is saying women should not chase wealth. what we are saying is dont be opening pussy abyhow while chasing wealth, dont be opening profile on codedruns to get paid 10k for short time to chase wealth, dont be fucking upandan for promotion in your office. dont be sucking preek because u want me to open an account in your bank. do you grab it now? ...the stngy men association is more about men not agreeing to be paying girls because of pussy.

Ayaaz:
It's honestly so sad

Alot of girls are now prostitutes and it's now a norm

That's the downside to 'female/women's liberation', it leads to a loose society because even those women who work(a large percentage), sleep around to excel at work

Females no longer value motherhood, so they don't focus on being upright inorder to be good mothers, instead they value status and wealth just like men and they know that the easiest and fastest way to achieve it is to use their bodies....it's an advantage they have over men in that regard and they fully utilise it

This is an unpopular opinion but, female freedoms should be restrictive in nature, unlike for men....men will always be hawks when it comes to women and unsupervised women will fall prey or become willing participants which will lead to an explosion of prostitution like we're witnessing.

Edopesin:
Well I for one know that the average man has more random sex than the average lady but nobody criticises my gender for it not even you ladies, men are statistically even bigger home wrecks but the double standards in this part of the world ehn

James Brown didn't visit this part of the world so he doesn't know how right he was when he said that it's a man's world

Edopesin:
Wife-Material- A phrase used by Nigerian men to describe Nigerian ladies who are submissive, relatively grinch and a good homemaker

I wonder what the definition of husband material would be

Leshurr:
It's not poverty. It's greed and lust for material things. If it was just a matter of poverty, women will be more focused on securing a husband who is at least able to provide a roof over their heads and will be content with that.. just like in the days of our parents - not hoeing around for money like women of today

Gerrard59:
How did you come about the figure? What study was conducted to support it? Or is it from the Bureau of Imaginary Statistics?


You advise them to look for jobs but na the same men go wan sleep with them before offering one with a meagre salary of kpata kpata 30K. Nigerian women are only learning from the acts committed by their men. Last I checked, yahoo yahoo is far worse and a criminal act than prostitution.


BTW, you should not let a citizen from a fellow sh!thole country speak bad about your women. It is your duty to protect their interests.

LadyTianna:
Dear Op, women are a direct reflection of their society. Look at the country we live in. I am in no way justifying prostitution, but you will admit that the Nigeria our mothers and grandmas grew up in is long dead and buried. Today we have a society that is so fixated on corruption and evil. You people keep repeating that women should get jobs. I agree, but where are the jobs? Where's the money to buy job slots?Where's the capital to start businesses when the average Nigerian can barely afford 2 meals a day?

Every single day, Nigerian women this, Nigerian women that...what about our men? The so called nation builders at the helm of affairs. Are they making any attempt to make the country better in order for the women to be more morally upright? As long as Nigeria remains what it is today, both men and women will keep doing despicable and less than desirable things to earn money

ibkayee:
I hope you have a nice writeup for the yahoo boys, ritualists and men engaging these ladies too

Why do you guys think you have a monopoly on 'bad' behaviour lmao rubbish

DKM123:
Ofcourse awon team foreign women will give her a pass because she has a white skin and they have inferiority complex. I think say una say oyibo women no care about your poverty.

Unless you want to lie so blatantly to yourself by yourself, you will know that this guy is a young guy just starting life. You will know that being able to rent a small "decent" accomodation, able to pump water with his generator set and able to afford indomie and eggs daily isn't exactly living in squalor. Aren't there homeless people in America?

Many Young guys just starting life are living in far far far far far far worse living conditions yet their young beautiful Nigerian wives don't go crying making videos complaining bitterly to the whole world how she is living inside hell fire.

If it's a Nigerian woman that cannot use #3k plus #1500 (that they use to buy indomie and eggs everyday) to cook a 100course meal for the family, una go curse her life tire and say Nigerian women are the most useless in the world. Blablabla because you idjiats develop a certain kind of high when you insult your fellow NIgerian women.

See this Nigerian man married to an old grandma that is still not cooking for him and complaining over every damn thing, probably driving him to depression ... Meanwhile his fellow Nigerian man with same living condition in that same compound is probably married to a fresh young Nigerian girl who comes back from work and makes him correct pounded yam and banga soup while he gives her orders around with some doses of punches every now and then just because she didn't wash his clothes on time.

Yeyenatus.