₦airaland Forum

apatheticme:
True!

If tables were turned, these same men will nearly die!!! Just leave these same men with the house chores they call nothing, let them cook, clean, wash clothes, while backing a crying child at the same time, breastfeeding another and still expected to bath the kids, change diapers cook, and still give mind blowing sex at night!!
Then you'll quickly realize that many of them are not just lazy, but are also damn fragile!

Half of the crap they dish out to women, they can't take!

Now imagine all of these in a working mom, who'll also go to work since morning, and pulls her weight whilst also bringing cash to the table, yet will still get home at night and enter the kitchen, care for kids, homework etc!

So what exactly is the man bringing to the table, seeing as a working mom is also making money and sometimes even more than the man??

Truth is, marriage pays men more than women! Especially in Africa!! The only people who will argue this are those yet to marry!

Honestly
If not that men are just selfish and ungrateful bastards they will appreciate married women instead of coming online to tell lies because they can't acknowledge that women are useful and important.

missdivineprove:
Waking up? In the real sense, women already have lots to offer in marriage. So, I see no reason why a man should be expecting too much responsibilities from her.


Anyway, your points are well explained.

Which point did he explain well?

Make I reach house first I go settle down answer that man I dey inside uber

Just look at the lies men tell themselves that they get nothing from marriage and women get everything? In this africa?

And these are the so called logical gender ooo

If you can't marry a jobless man, why then should a man marry a jobless woman?

It's not the same thing
In traditional African families husband has more to gain in marriage than wife, the only thing wives have to look forward to is the money their husbands provide
Husbands on the other hand gain children that belong to their families and prolong their lineage, they get a lifetime cook and cleaner and nanny for their kids, they get lifetime sex partner, if you hire someone to cook and clean and take good care of your kids for 18yrs you will spend millions and millions but women are expected to do it free after marrisge.

Men get to lead their families and rule over everyone and give orders how the home should be run.
In Nigeria sef they can cheat and sleep around freely after marriage and people will tell their wives to stick to them because it's normal for married men to cheat.

Women will suffer to carry pregnancy for 9 months and sleepiness nights after giving birth and breastfeeding for 2 yrs for every child and spend 18 plus yrs raising the kids to be up right only for kids that officially belong to her husbands family.Some women even die because of pregnancy complications all for kids that belong to someone else family.

Sex life is terrible after marriage. In a survey conducted on married women many of them said they dont get satisfaction from sex with their husbands because the men stopped caring.

Now the only thing women actually enjoy after marriage which is money provided for them is being taken away and women who wait for husbands to provide are called liabilities.

missdivineprove:
Very true.

In asmuch as every adult must have a source of income to support each other, consciously looking for a working class lady (a lady entering marriage with loads of responsibilities: house management, child's bearing and up bringing) is an act of gold digging.

It is.
Majority of black men are gold diggers and very lazy that is why black race is so backward and the most disrespected race on earth. Because black men that are in charge of black nations have typical black man mentality of laziness and selfishness and wickedness.

Anyway let me not derail.

Why do men think housewives do nothing all day but watch television?
Dont they cook, clean, keep the house in order, pay attention to their children's welfare and proper upbringing than career women that are outside all day, morning till evening and when they come home they are too tired for their family.

Why do you think housewives dont have anything to discuss except Telemundo? They can tell you how your kids are keeping up and how things are faring at home if everything is running smoothly.

Men just hate women that is why they cannot see the value in things women do, they think raising children properly and keeping a home and cleaning and cooking every single day is meaningless because women are the ones handling those chores.

They think breadwinning is the only worthwhile chore because that is a traditional chore for men.

Op na today you know?

Men these days are lazy and gold diggers, their mission is to be completely useless in marriage, their wife go bring chop money and carry belle to bear kids that will answer papa name, all while balancing housework on her head and the only thing the lazy husband does is to go to work and come home and relax while waiting for obedience and submission from the same woman contributing to his feeding him and paying bills.

That is the world they are trying to create, a world where they do as little as possible in marriage while women work like Jackie and collapse from stress.

Prestonn:
Village kitchen


How I make my tomato puree in Nigeria, I hardly buy from shops.


Tomato puree

Step 1.. Rinse the tomatoes under cool water

Step 2.. chop the tomatoes

Step 3.. Transfer to a pot and cook the tomatoes over medium high heat until they’ve released some of their juices and are tender, about 11  minutes.

Step 4.. Remove the pot of tomatoes from the heat and drain (separate the water they released) Allow the tomatoes to cool for like 5 minutes and  transfer to a blender and process until smooth.

Step 5..Transfer the pureed tomatoes into  zip-top bags or bottles and put in your Basil leaf(optional)and cover, place in the refrigerator, ready to use any time.

☆ For bbq (Chicken or Fish), add Rosemary inside the bottle not Basil.

These pictures are so beautiful, you're a gifted guy oo

By the way you made tomato puree while wearing a white sweater? I like your braveness

See how 90% of the comments are blaming the woman for her own death, una no go advice useless hopeless Nigerian men looking for quick money to go and hustle instead of killing people up and down.

It's about time.

Let homosexuality be legized so that Nigerian homosexual men can be free to sleep around with their fellow men instead of transferring frustration to females and always insulting them because they repress their real nature.

They are probably Nairaland boys that are always online shouting "women are liabilities", "women are olosho" yenyenyen, na Nairaland boys work be that. To dey bash women.

Meanwhile see wetin males dey do

Sixfeetbelle:
Exactly. Give sex free, you get called names, give sex with pay, you get called names also. So best case scenario, give sex with pay and receive your name calling joyfully.

Cc: Liposure

Dapcity007:
There are very few and scarce
If they don't demand money , they want your commitment and attention

Yes, because a lot of the time men just want to be selfish and use the girls for their own satisfaction so the girls in return try to get something back for offering up sex so they dont end up getting used.

Many men dont know how to satisfy their partners in bed, all they know is pump and dump and run, wham bam thank you ma'am king of sex which the girls dont get orgasm. The girls know this that is why they see sex as doing males a favour which they have to collect something in return.

Dapcity007:
We hold women to a different standard than men not because we are partial or hypocritical, but because we are fundamentally different , biologically, psychologically and physically

No equality on synergy
No competition on complementation

What on earth does this have to do with my statement?

I still cannot understand how the gender of criminals and killers can open their dirty criminal mouths to critisize women.

Men have serious mental problems.

Daretobeawinner:
Ehn ehn
Are we supposed to be pained by this

Before nko,
We are supposed to be pained by anonymous foolish small boys calling females intimacy gadgets

Frustrated rats, na their poverty dey frustrate them and instead of them to look for how to help their lives they stay online 24/7 fighting females.

Liposure:
and until girls start having sex with no cash attached, men will continue seeing them as objects of sexual gratification.

But some girls do that already, they are called cheap and worthless your fellow mails

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm glad that that will never happen. That's what you all want but it will never happen cause either way, men's opinion of women will never change. So why not make money off them at least.

The same men will start insulting women and calling them cheap if women had sex without collecting anything in return.

omoharry:
If a good woman had brought you up, am sure you won't be this bitter about women in general .We have all had our bruises from both sexes in the past .Men have dealt with good women, so also have bad women have equally dealt with good men..and life goes on- as people heal up and move on . But your case seems to me like a childish tantrum that is taken out against the opposite sex becos a female friend did not consider you worthy of her time, or decided to friend zoned you . So you are bitter and frustrated .Dont worry when you grow up properly, you will find love and ur story will change .Pele.

But why are you expecting common sense from men? All they know is violence and aggression as you can clearly see in that guys reply to you.

The simple reason is that males far outnumber females on nairaland so their hatred and stupidity is more pronounced like someone said before


It's not because girls did anything to them or because girls are bad. Are males not more problematic than females in society? Na them be armed robber and kidnapper and rapists and yahoo boys. They still have the effrontery to bash women, what nonsense

Don't mind them jare

This is the case with many married women. The guy they find hot or sexually attractive didn't ask for their hand in marriage so they end up managing men that cannot arouse them.

Kpele o, Op. Your case is actually very common

shopwiser:
She has a frozen vagina. Seek medical help asap bro.

Haba which one be frozen vagina

Emu4u2c:
So in essence summarise all she has to offer in the relationship since she isn't offering up the only thing that matters in a relationship between a 22year old girl and 38 years old man

The man nko?
What is he offering in the relationship to her?

I hope your husband appreciates and knows he married a good woman.

Some women will not even wait for anybody to tell them to end the marriage, they will start keeping sugar daddy immediately financial problems start.

That guy no love you oo, if you like deceive yourself but just know that the truth is that he doesn't love you.

A guy that loves you will once in a while try to buy little gifts to make you happy or put a smile on your face. Imagine a 38yr old man still managing money to the point that he cannot even buy little things for you once in a while.

Run for your peace of mind and sanity, ignore nairaland men that like giving woman hating advice. That man will use his stinginess to finish you after marriage
You think he is stingy now? After marriage when you are stuck with him or after having one kid you will get the stingy #PRO MAX version of him.
It's now in your courtship that you can easily walk out and leave that the guy supposed to pamper you and be romantic or court you by being sweet and kind and he is showing stingy side, imagine how bad it will get when he marries you and knows it's harder for you to leave.


Better borrow yourself brain and leave, it won't change after marriage because he knows you have a job and he will expect you to continue taking care of yourself like you are doing right now. Mind you, as a typical Nigerian man he will still expect full submission and obedience from you whether he is providing for you or not so save yourself now you have the chance.

I hope you no dey mumu yourself by cooking or washing or doing other wifely duties for him.

Hathor5:
It's not by force to look at these pictures.

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Aren't you the stronger gender anymore that should be gentle with the weaker one?
Everything threatens your manhood, doesn't it? What made you people so insecure?

Don't mind that guy, see him mouth like "sitting like CEO"
Those are the types that want their wives to serve them food kneeling down instead of standing like CEO.

My wife is a wonderful person so my home is peaceful.

She is very submissive and obedient so I love her very much. Infact she doesn't take decisions without consulting me and letting me have the final say.

She also contributes financially to the home, goes to work everyday and takes care of our kids and house very well.

All I have to do is go to work and come back and balance in front of television watching football, she takes total care of our house.

How can one not love such a woman.

sirqeeboi:
The Lady in the picture has warned you ppl of using her pictures with that foolish story u ppl are posting. She is a lawyer, so wait while she catches u.

Lol, they used her picture three good times, turning it in different directions sef.

@topic, if this is true then that woman is nothing but a heartless witch.

He probably killed her for rituals or for some other flimsy reason, but he will come out and lie that she cheated on him to justify his wicked acts.

And trust idiotic nairaland boys to join in accusing the dead girl when there is no way to confirm if she actually cheated on him.

MLTR:
It not a question of right or wrong !! its a question of "impact".
Same naija gurl cryin over gangan after the series will still pick her phone n mess with 10 different guys head before she sleeps .... most naija gurls live a life of whu love help a direct contrast of bollywood. domitila would av been understandable

A lot of Nairalanders are sooo dumb, so so dull, it's not even funny.

You people really believe adulteress and OP are two different people?

I followed the former thread to the end, adulteress was so desperate for people to believe his lie lie story and to not be exposed as the liar he is, he had to request for the mods to move his thread to diary section to stop people from challenging him and pointing out his lies.

This thread is just further damage control to make it seem like the concocted story is true.

Ladies please nothing is wrong with watching Zeeworld, dont let misogynistic males guilt trip you into thinking it is foolish or useless, everyone has that one thing or things they do that give them joy and escape from life's troubles.

Boys are obsessed with football more than women are with Zeeworld, there are different stories of guys stabbing or killing their friends over misunderstandings concerning football.
Check it on google you will see, if they are not betting their futures away on football matches they are killing each other over football arguments.

Vevejoy:
I hope this works out for me. I actually just enrolled in a program and started it this month.
Thank you!

Sorry about the insensitive "advice" you have been getting from some people.

Nairaland is heaven for deranged men that hate women.
The females blaming you on this thread, they have nairaland boyfriends that they dont want to offend that is why they throw their fellow women under the bus.

You yourself please find happiness outside your hubby, you can still be a good wife but try to overlook the things about him you cannot change, dont depend on him for your happiness and take good care of yourself, focus on your wellbeing instead of suffering high bp ontop a self centered husband's case.