BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

SlyDev:


They are not yet mature to be free, what if we free them and they refuse to leave our land

Ekpeitit:
SOUTH EAST IS ALWAYS LAST IN EVERYTHING, WHAT A SHITHOLE. THAT'S WHY THEY CAN'T SURVIVE ON THEIR OWN. WE SHOULD LET THEM GO,THEY'RE USELESS.
USELESS DOT NATION.

Brexxit:
Of what use is the south east to this country?.

Solomofaith23r:
Ok

Nksleek:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenationonlineng.net/police-kill-two-robbers-arrest-four-in-onitsha/amp/

Joeblazeochola:
confess to ur wife n her husband am sure u will be fine las las.. trust me, if u do dis u will never cheat in ur life again.

iamyemiakins:
"JUST TELL ME THE TRUTH, I WILL NOT BEAT YOU".

How many of us fell for this trap?

Lukgaf:
Many Muslims think smoking is not Haram because it is not explicitly mentioned in one of the verses of the Holy Quran. I have met some people who even smoke before coming for Solat. Below from IslamQA are some of the reasons why smoking is Haram in Islam and why you have to stop today.



1.Islam forbids everything that is harmful Perhaps you know that all nations of the world – Muslim and kafir alike – have now started to fight smoking, because they know that it is very harmful.

Islam forbids everything that is harmful, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “There should be no harming or reciprocating harm.”

Undoubtedly there are foods and drinks which are beneficial and good, and others which are harmful and bad. Allah described our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) in the following terms (interpretation of the meaning):

“…he allows them as lawful At Tayyibat (i.e. all good and lawful as regards things, deeds, beliefs, persons and foods), and prohibits them as unlawful Al Khabaith (i.e. all evil and unlawful as regards things, deeds, beliefs, persons and foods)” [al-A'raf 7:157]

Is smoking one of the good and lawful things (al-tayyibat) or one of the evil and unlawful things (al-khabaith)?

2.Spending on smoking is spending on something harmful
It was narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah forbids you to trade gossip, to ask too many questions and to waste money.” And Allah forbade wasteful extravagance when He said (interpretation of the meaning):

“and eat and drink but waste not by extravagance, certainly He (Allah) likes not Al-Musrifun (those who waste by extravagance)” [al-A'raf 7:31]

And He described the slaves of the Most Merciful as follows (interpretation of the meaning):

“And those who, when they spend, are neither extravagant nor stingy, but hold a medium (way) between those (extremes)” [al-Furqan 25:67]

The whole world now knows that the money spent on smoking is to be considered as money wasted, from which no benefit is gained. Indeed, it is money spent on something harmful.

If the money which is spent on smoking worldwide were to be collected, it could have saved entire populations who have died of starvation. Is there anyone more foolish than one who holds a dollar bill and sets fire to it? What is the difference between him and the one who smokes? Indeed, the smoker is more foolish, because the folly of the one who burns a dollar bill ends there, whilst the one who smokes burns his money and also harms his body.

3.Smoking has caused many disasters
How many disasters have been caused by smoking, because of cigarette butts which are thrown away and cause fires. Other disasters have been caused in other ways, as when a house was burned down with its occupants inside, when a man lit his cigarette when there was a gas leak.

4.Many people are offended by the smell of smokers
How many people are offended by the smell of smokers , especially when you are unfortunate enough to have one of them standing next to you in the mosque. Probably any nasty smell is easier to bear than the smell of the smoker’s mouth when he has just woken up. It is amazing how many women can put up with the smell of their husbands’ mouths!

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) forbade those who had eaten garlic or onions from coming to the mosque so that they would not offend their fellow-worshippers with their smell. The smell of onions and garlic is easier to bear than the smell of the smoker and his mouth.

These are some of the reasons why smoking is haram.

And Allah knows best.

Brethren, please stop smoking today!

SlyDev:
If Nigeria want to make their money stronger, they need to stop importing and start manufacturing to export

But the last time Buhari closed border to boost local production, some bigots said he is targeting a tribe.

daddymummy:
I consider it a disservice to myself that I will desire a woman sexually and then get to sleep with her when she doesn't desire me at all but only agrees to sleep with me because of some material gain.


But how do other men enjoy women under such setting?


You want her body but she doesn't want your own and you are still able to sleep with her,kiss her, massage her body and you still believe you are enjoying?


I mean, how do men enjoy it when he is the one desiring a woman and the woman does not desire them but only agrees because of money?

It doesn't make sense to me at all.


You are a man and you see a woman who does not have any desire for you but you are still able to enjoy her?


At least if the woman feel something for me,I can know that our desires are mutual. I can know that at least I am desirable and if I spend on her, I am doing it because she makes me look great.



That is when a man should enjoy a woman.

At least since God created two genders, both supposed to equally desire each other sexually.

As long as women don't have penis and men don't have vagina and breasts,it shows that non is sexually higher than the other.

It is only women who are reasonable in sexual matters because unlike men, a woman would enjoy a man who also desires her just as she desires him.


But a man can see a woman who is so proud and does not even want to have anything doing with him.


He would find a way to sleep with her either by rape or by offering her money and he would still enjoy it even if the woman just lay on the bed and is looking at them with so much disgust.They will still enjoy it.


If I wasn't a man,I would be wondering what it is to be man.


A man would suffer insults just to get a woman, took her to his house, provide her needs while the woman does not offer anything in the relationship, the man would sleep with her while the woman is only there for his money.

The man would still enjoy it and feel it is normal?



How is it normal that you have to beg a woman into a relationship in which she would not offer anything but would rather gain, you desire her sexually and sleep with her, but she doesn't desire you but your money and you still feel you have achieved something?

How can you even offer your money, accommodation, and all in exchange for sex with a woman (who does not even want you, but what you get) and you feel you are enjoying?

If it was possible to see God, there are some questions I would have loved to ask him concerning men.

Odewaleadesoye:
Money attracts money.
There's no nobility in poverty.

Make I credit someone's account too?

ManirBK:
so you dont want god to bless our belove country including our president. Why??

fergie0o1:


SOURCE


Which one be white paper. Abeg Lala wetin be the color of the one wey panel release

googlepikins:
I need advice please.

I used our area vigilante group money to arrange 2 draws 2 weeks ago, but it didn't go well.

My neighbour just called me that they're currently at my gate with sticks angrily waiting for me.

I don't know if they just want to discuss or they have something bad in their mind.

I don't know why people can't control their anger issues.

What should I do

ManirBK:
Good move good bless BABA Buhari good bless Nigeria

wunmi590:


I'm a married man, I don't chase clout.

alignacademy:
He would have been a year older today

Show some love if you - or someone you know - learnt Computer Science from my dad "GAM"

Stormtrooper11:
A woman, who was at the hospital to undergo medical check ups for COVID-19, discovered she had HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis and other underlying ailments.

The Californian, who posted the news on her handle, was quoted to be "grateful",regardless of the other results and ailments.

Her post was received with different comments and responses. Some tweets suggested it was a fake result, while others urged her to seek medical redress immediately.

Iyaebe:
That vows before God is the most important after bride price, so you are only fully and truly married after church wedding

udele1:
Did anyone notice anything in Nnamdi Kanu's appearance today?

When he posed last time in court, some people noticed something.

So this time he tried to cover it.

udele1:
Did anyone notice anything in Nnamdi Kanu's appearance today?

When he posed last time in court, some people noticed something.

So this time he tried to cover it.

Ademola47:


The Punch

Second Pics Credit

wunmi590:


I'm a married man, I don't chase clout.

justscorchone:
Useless talk, in this modern age and time forget pride, no household have it that good and if your woman can assist financially then that's a plus, I'm not married so I can't tell for sure but based on my parent marriage, I can categorically tell you that if you want to live long without high blood pressure or depression then make sure your wife have something doing, a business or work. Plan your family well and don't just start one without clearing this out.imagine the men you dey use as example,how many % of Nigerian men have 500k in their account to begin with..Omo na small pikin dey worry you sha las las, or maybe you just marry and e dey totori you.modern woman when truly love you sef no go wan just be housewife, you married a lazy bum for house and you are capping plenty.

wunmi590:



My brother, you are one of the few intelligent man in this thread....


My wife pay bills at home, but she does it on her own will without being forced to do so

wunmi590:


Alot of mentions, I'm sure aloy of people didn't read the heading before quoting me wrongly....

Marriage is not for everybody, if you know as a man, you can't take care of your responsibilities as the head of the house you always beat your cheat to be, kindly remain a bachelor till thy kingdom come......

I'm allergic to stupid mentions, I have said what I have to say, if you don't like it, jump and pass

Abdul05:
Traitor