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jaybee3:
It would be if you look at absolute figures but very different when the comparison is done using ratio/rate

Besides, it pays them to be on the dole than working them shifts

okay

anonimi:
Do you mean white UNDERgraduates deliver pizza
The white graduates who do these "below status" jobs, what is their percentage compared to the black GRADUATES?
Thanks.

Their proportion is quite high.

OP sorry o.

Bebe2 thanks for sharing this awesome touching story.

thelish:
OK ooo.
She just sacrificed her political position for her husband's eldest son. And the funny thing is that they dont even like her with all her sacrifices.She can go out of her way to give people job, but her children are managing with private school teaching.
In fact, the matter long n complicated.
Don't know if she is been controlled against her children.

It seems she's one of those people that will do anything to be liked.

Some people have a pathological need to be liked and will do anything even if it doesn't bode well for them to gain approval from those they are doing it for. It's actually a condition.

It's who she is. You can't talk her out of it unless she has a extremely nasty experience at their hands. Then she might rethink.

thelish:
Hahahahaha. coco, is this all u could say?
The matter pass u?

the matter pass me walahi

So the stupidity didn't even start today.
Serves him right though.

Thieves and crooks.

It's the Nigerian way. No love for her youth

Oh boy.

thelish:
The eldest daughter is married with three kids now, The last still in d university. This whole problem started when the kids were still in primary n secondary sch.
Just last year, the step daughter told her that my aunt married daughter is troubling her marriage cos a native doctor told her so.
Could you believe my aunt couldn't defend her daughter, instead, she was calling dff pastors to pray for the marriage to come bk.

So where's the proof that the pastor is right in this long ass story.
Fickle minded easily deceived people.
That's he would broken their marriage if they were already married.
Stop listening to these charlatans called pastors una no go gree. You people let them ruin your lives because you're so ignorant.

The gf left him because he had obviously started treating her like shyt since the pastor told him stuff about her. It's not rocket science.

She's mean though to pack his stuff along with hers but good for her. Who needs a fickle boyfriend.

So where's the proof that the pastor is right in this long ass story.
Fickle minded easily deceived people.
That's how he would have broken their marriage if they were already married.
Stop listening to these charlatans called pastors una no go gree. You people let them ruin your lives because you're so ignorant.

The gf left him because he had obviously started treating her like shyt since the pastor told him stuff about her. It's not rocket science.

She's mean though to pack his stuff along with hers but good for her. Who needs a fickle boyfriend.

Are her kids still young?
I don't understand the story

That kind husband deserves it.
In fact God is preparing his punishment specially.
If I were the lady, I'll help God hasten up the punishment.

As an agent of God he can use me to punish the fellow in a very satisfying way.

It's just an overflow of the social habit of making excuses for every xtupid thing that some men do.

If he beats his wife. She caused it.
If he rapes someone she was probably dressed indecently to deserve it.
If he steals, the govt didn't provide jobs.

So Why can't the pedophile blame the kids and their parents for his behavior? After all everyone blames someone else for what he does wrong.

the main issue is that most people will rather be in denial than admit it is a real problem.

Onegai:
But honestly it's weird. In the past, children ran around naked and their bodies were still mature. So why were they not being raped at 11, 8, 4 years of age? Doesn't that imply that the problem is not children but oversexualization of adults, who now see sexuality in everyone and every thing?

I mean, there are innocent words I cannot use now because they connote sexual meanings in these times. Is it the word's fault or is it people's fault?

Lock his xtupid rude ass out in the street.

These people should stop scaring somebody

Your sis needs to go get her own life.

I don't even see anything the so called girlfriend did terribly wrong. She broke up with one ex and started dating another?

Your sister is and has probably been always jealous of her. Those jealousy ridden ones are the ones that behave like your sister the most.

It just keeps getting funnier and funnier.

Atmmachine:
She was sucking her dick.
I know because my dick have been sucked many times in toilets all over New York

are you homeless?

freshvine:
This is the point I call out my fellow woman for lack of moral decency. TV1 suggested you'd come up with suited solution but what you just displayed is nothing short of emotional delinquency but I'll overlook as the one with the thinking cap.

Next time, understand that civility is not a luxury but a standard moral obligation expected of higher animals in this ecosystem.

TV is the know it all.

He has a better idea what marriage is all about than anyone you can ever meet in this life.
Online or offline.
Why not stick to him to advice you.

What do you want from mere mortals with limited knowledge like us


Agbaya oshi.
Person go old finish but refuse to let childhood alone.
Tomorrow you will be a single person, next tomorrow a married man, today a married woman.

Leave foolishness alone.

And some people are wasting their MBs proffering a solution to this certified troll.

Go for a sex change and decide whether you want to be a man or woman. Then people will know what to tell you.

you're too old for this.

Sigh.

TV01:
Misogynist - a man who does not do exactly what a woman wants, when she wants, and how she wants . Whether he has changed or not, if it doesn't please you it's simply wrong on his part. You are in a shitty & abusive marriage. See Cococandy and Bukatyne for next steps.


I have summoned them for you. You are welcome .


TV

^{Dude, why'd you change sex}

Get him a personal man servant or two.
One will always follow him around to catch his flying socks and pants whenever he's about to dump them on the floor, hand him his belt and tie when he's dressing. Better still even dress or maybe scrub his body when he's taking a bath.
The other will wait on him while he's eating and do miscellaneous stuff like pick his teeth or clear the table for him etc. of course all paid for by him since he's a mighty provider. Rolls eye.

After enabling him to be lazy you're here asking what to do.
The same way you refused to add washing cars to your duties is the same way you can refuse adding his dress up routine to your early morning hustle while you're taking care of the kids. It's not rocket science.

So much darkness and ignorance

munarule:
Thanks madam coco I think I will go with madam ify idea.I will collect more money from my husband and sell those things in quantity. Thank you so much

Awesome. That's the best suggestion so far and hopefully it will work out for you.

I wish you the best.

ifyalways:
Aunty speeerm nyash swallowed my post too.

OP, is obviously interested in flashy, posh business like boutique.

See agro farmers living large and doing well for themselves. I was at a Young guys farm at Obinze two weeks ago and wished I was wiser a few years ago. The guy is making cool cash daily, eats good fresh foods and enjoying peaceful life in the quiet country side.

That's true. There's one on this forum that's always advertising his agro business and progress so far. But I think it's a lot of work too. Not sure someone with little kids can do it (e.g OP)

Talking about boutique.

OP if all else fails, you can consider buying bales of cloths and sell. As in O.K cloths. Maybe start with one bale and see how it goes.
That's not a messy one at all but I'm not sure what the profit in that area is like.
Check this link for more info https://www.nairaland.com/2748890/investments-students-corper-teachersworkers-stay#40197003

Okay I've given enough tips jare. It's high time you paid me consultation fee

Is there no one around the girl that can advice her to move on and love herself instead?
You self OP, The man said he didn't and doesn't love her and somehow that's her fault because she didn't have the patience to make him love her.

How we manage to churn out more and more women with no sense of self esteem and totally crushed self worth never ceases to amaze me.

So what's she begging to stay for now? The community d1ck that he's sharing with his mistress who probably has an alhaji boyfriend with 5 wives.

munarule:
madam you dnt need to insult me ok. Though I thought of going into foodstuffs and frozen food before(I already hv 2 deep freezer at home) but someone told me it's a dirty business that I shouldn't think about it. So I abandoned the idea

If you already have freezers, even better. That way your capital will stretch further.
Selling cold soft drinks in addition to whatever else you may choose to sell is not a bad idea.
With the way the sun makes people thirsty all the time. You'll always find someone who wants to buy something cold to drink.

I didn't even see this your post before I typed mine. Anti-spam bot caught me.

The OP sounds like she no dey go market.
Things are expensive from what i remember and they are probably even worse now. With all that's going on economically.
On a normal naija day 20k may not even buy you one sac full of household grocery in the open dirt cheap markets like ariaria

Maybe she lives in the north. I heard those folks are in another kind of paradise that side.

ifyalways:
No, you should tell your gateman.

Ofcourse you can't sell foodstuff, too petty for your posh self.

Why are you sounding like I sent you message? My response was based on what I myself would do if I had just 100K capital and if you didn't like it,you should have just ignored it as opposed to sounding lofty.

FYI : a bag of beans costs btw 27 to 33K. A bag of rice 12 to 17K, bag of ijebu garri starts from 8K. I won't bother you with the price of 25liters of oil so you see, that 100K as capital for foodstuff na management kpa kpa!

thorpido:
Such darkness right?

Yes.

Oh dear