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You could have had a smoke free lounge in addition to a regular club. No creative thinking at all

IyaebeTheGreat:
Never have I accused her of anything because it could just be medical issues. So since we don't know the true cause of the death, then let her do the defense alone if need be. I told you all that because you were on about defending her everywhere.

okay but the guy I was telling to stop did accuse her. And I told him to stop. So why mention me to type all that when I wasn’t referring to you?

And how am I defending her everywhere? Are you okay upstairs at all? Like I said she can be a bad person without being guilty of murder. Just because I said stop peddling unfounded murder accusations doesn’t mean I’m defending her everywhere. Some of you have the brain capacity of a lizard. Can’t fathom a scenario where you’re not thinking linearly like a retard.

Starting unnecessary unwarranted debates and when you start looking like idiots because what you are arguing doesn’t even make sense, you resort to lying about things that never happened.

Defending her my ass 🙄

I don’t know why you are telling me all this. Just cause I asked people to stop peddling unfounded accusations of murder against her doesn’t mean I support what she did. This forum sef 🙄. You guys don’t understand the concept of two things being true at the same time. She can be a bad person and still not be responsible for the death of the boy. It’s not that complicated. And doesn’t warrant unnecessary debate or argument.

I’m team May and I sympathize with her. Accusing someone of killing her child doesn’t help her. Instead it will make her more bitter and possible get her into trouble. If you cared about her you’d know this

IyaebeTheGreat:
She called herself Queen Bathsheba and you know what that means. I don't have any sympathy for her, she's a very bad person, her other husband (Mr Obasi confirmed it live on gistlover) . The way she left her other husband's house is quite cruel, she and Yul did that man dirty with no remorse. My sympathy goes in this order
1. May Yul Edochie
2. May's kids
3. May's Parents
4. Yul's Parents
5. Yul
Nature and every other thing is fighting her to leave that marriage which was built on very faulty foundation. As we speak Queen Bathsheba is still married to her other husband, no proper divorce yet. She just left the man's house with the help of yul( yul's car was used in conveying her loads while the man cried helplessly). Yul and queen Bathsheba practically prevented Mr Obasi from seeing his kids after several attempts, the man cried bitterly that Yul is doing this to him because he's richer and more powerful than him and concluded that he hands them (Yul and Queen Bathsheba)over to God to judge them.

Adexgentle005:
Exactly my brother! Marriage has outlived its purpose. At this point I’m even considering divorce because I ain’t enjoying shit. I really need fresh air.

do get divorced. I encourage it

Adexgentle005:
No one is complaining, I’m just be realistic and to tell people marriage is not what it seems to be. Nothing special about it. Just pay bills and die!

maybe you’re not but the rest of y’all in the comments are

Why are you more concerned about girls than boys?

As usual? Men complaining about being expected to provide but when you ask them to be more hands on at home they use their nonexistent role as providers as a justification for not doing it. Hmm 🤔

2016easy2017:
just like his own mother can die for him too and his mother in-law can never do

exactly. That’s why it’s his responsibility not his wife. Glad we are on the same page

I haven’t said anything that indicates I have any problem with this sort of arrangement. It sounds ideal and I don’t see why not. as long as all the burden isn’t automatically shifted to the wife.

I’m just pointing out that in most cases most men leave all the physical labor of providing care to their wives. A factual statement that didn’t even warrant any argument. It’s a matter of yea you’re right and maybe we need to do better. Instead of all the needless back and forth

People on this forum just love to argue for the sake of it.

sharone21:
I see this as a good problem.... It is just like both of them have 2 mums each.... The woman out of love can help out including her son and a helper can also be employed for mama even in that house( teenager or mature woman).

Only time there should be doubt for the wife to take her mum( in law) into the house is only if the mum was evil.

Love comquereth all....Vanity upon vanity....

We too will grow old one day.

Zaynmax:
and the man's mom won't be willing to die for him abi when I said y'all women thinks alike some would say i don't know what I'm talking about just read wetin you write again then siddon think am If na your son e go sweet you for where you dey life after😏

That’s exactly why it’s his responsibility not his wife’s

So MC oluomo is y’all’s governor?

pocohantas:
No need for long talk https://www.instagram.com/p/CqSxf8uNapQ/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= 🤐

Wow 🫣🫣

just stop

mauchiz:
Second wife is not good.

Any woman that is a second wife is a witch,
They end up destroying people so they can take over with their children.

May Edochie,tie ur wrapper very well before they Kill another one.

Pete Edochie warned his son not to marry second wife,he refused,now is morning.

Yul Edochie,wash ur eyes very well,so u can see.
They will donate all ur kids to the coven very soon
Sit up, send that chic back to her fathers house.

pocohantas:
The posts on her page ehn. Someone said “You have done it. Congratulations!”

Hmmmm!

really? our people are so cruel man.

Definitely not a fan of her by any means but I already know what’s about to come her way now and it’s terrifying.

spiceadole:
Big blow for May.

Anambra man don use his son do money rituals.
Smart guy..He knew he was going to lose a child ,so he got a second wife to bear another child in an attempt to replace the one he will sacrifice.

Poor boy...May his soul RIP

here we go 🙄

pocohantas:
Oh No!!!

This is a painful one. Same May that was consoling Chioma Davido?

I pity this couple. Blogs would so milk this tragedy, not minding their state of mind.

as in eh.

I wouldn’t want to be the second wife right now

Blessings to them. I felt so bad about their loss. I hope better things await them in their future

shantti:
I hope u know why I seemed to ignore this, cos u didn't handle my point at all. U cleverly downplayed a reality even u yourself know is very glaring for the sake of arguing. When u stop being sentimental, then we can have a discussion

I know. If I don’t agree with you, then of course I’m being sentimental. Been there done that

Komu1048:
They should be maimed, I’ve not seen same animals having affairs. This is not natural but madness and u should’ve watched carefully coz u r one.

This is y God destroyed Sodom n Gomorrah

Loud ignorant and wrong

Your brain must be filled with mud. What nonsense. And you’re not ashamed that you and your medical Doctor sister are imbeciles . You’re proud to announce that to the world. I hope your daughters grow up and give you exactly what you deserve

Brush1:
Africans like copying, I hope Ghana doesn’t copy such. The west should come to the understanding that as Africans, we have our cultures, these are cultures sacred and peculiar to us. We have never advised them to change any of their culture. We can’t keep copying and doing follow follow.

Because of such useless copy cat, we have started having loose girls all over, resulting from the criminalisation of non genital female mutilations.

These mutaltions are of varying degrees. We have the first, the second and third. The first consists of the removal of an insignificant part of the clitoris. The second and third are bad because a lot would he been gotten off.

By the way, the clitoris isn’t on the surface at all, it extends far inside a girl’s part. So, getting off a bit, doesn’t amount to a total removal.

Imagine my neighbour’s daughter crying and confiding in my cousin on how she melts away at a simple hand shake by a guy. That she gets turned on even at the slightest touch by a male. Please, let’s stick to our culture. I had my fourth baby recently and she was circumcised by my older sibling who’s a medical doctor. She said what nonsense are they preaching. All of her female kids were circumcised by her.

Braun007:
We're talking about rights,or has ur favorite acronym muddled your brain already?no quote me again.

yes we are talking about human rights and gay people are humans, so gay rights are human rights. What’s confusing about that?

GeneralPula:
Gay people are not the problem. It’s the west that’s making it looks like people have a problem with them..

Your question should be for the USA people. They're trying to enforce the culture by force. Why can't they let people decide on their own? Why are they making it a must?

okay but people do have a problem with them. Why deny that basic fact

hammerT:
THAT IS A LIE FROM THE PITS OF HELL.


YOUR ANATOMY CANNOT BE CHANGED.


THE FACT THAT YOU PUT PILLOWS ON YOUR CHEST DONT MEAN YOU ARE NOT A MAN.


THE ANATOMY OF A WOMAN IS DIFFERENT FROM A MAN. SHE HAS A WOMB HE DOES NOT.


IT IS NOT COMPLICATED BUT RATHER, FACTUAL AND NEVER A MATTER OF OPINION EITHER.

Mmm okay

transient123:
Like you said, there are bigger motives. They are just testing the microphone for gargantuan evil to come. It's not child's play oo....it's a brewing unipolar world they are preparing, the Muslims call it dajjal, the Christians refer it to antichrist. it got to birth with every form of obscenity which LGBTQ and co are its foundation.

In this scenario of bigger motives, what’s the end game?. I’m genuinely curious. Is it like a world where it’s illegal for men to marry women and vice versa? And people will be punished for having traditional families?

You can stick with your assigned gender or you can identify as you wish later in life.
It will never be too complicated to understand except for those who want it to.

You believe in God? You?🫢

Is that a seasonal belief that shows itself when you feel like making a point? Because how?

hammerT:
THEY SHOULD DO THE RIGHT THING.


LIFE MUST BE MADE POSSIBLE NOT IMPOSSIBLE.


HUMAN MAKE LIFE IMPOSSIBLE.


LOOK AT THIS SCENARIO WHERE, A PERSON IS BORN WITHOUT A DETERMINED SEX AND THEY CHOOSE, YOU WILL STILL HAVE PEOPLE COMPLAIN THAT THEY MADE THE WRONG CHOICE.


THEY WILL SAY, IT IS BETTER TO BE BORN WITH A PREDETERMINED SEX THAN HAVING TO CHOOSE WRONG, THEN WANTING SEX CHANGE.



ALL THIS IS JUST THE DEVIL WAY TO DISCREDIT GOD.


IF PEOPLE CONTROL THEIR MIND AND THOUGHT OR CHANNEL THEM IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION, NON OF THEM WILL BE GAY.


HUNGER FOR SEX IS LIKE HUNGER FOR FOOD, YET YOU EAT THROUGH YOUR MOUTH AND NOT YOUR ANUS.


YOU CAN MASTURBATE WITHOUT INSERTING THINGS INTO YOUR ANUS AS A MAN. LEAVE THAT TO THE WOMEN.


PERVERSION IS THE ROOT CAUSE OF HOMOSEXUALITY AND FEMINISATION OF MALE BABIES.


IT IS ALL NURTURE AND NEVER NATURE.

Do you know that colonialism and homophobia go hand in hand. You can’t say that you hate what the colonizers and slavers did while at the same time promoting discrimination against LGBTQ people.

The very idea of “othering” is straight from the colonizers play book. Where people who are considered different are oppressed and disenfranchised. Many people who think homophobia is African culture are ignorant to the fact that they are tenaciously holding onto colonial culture that were beaten into us by the slavers first and then the colonial masters later.

Your religion that is anti gay is from your colonial masters. If you’re going to say something, at least be accurate about it.

Know your history

tbarrister:
They can't decide what's human right and what's not?

These are the people in support of abortion which kills a life, Is that not against human Right

They're the people against polygamy, criminalizing it in some states, is that not against choice which is human right?

They're the ones who were in support of slavery just 150 years ago

They're the ones who robbed our resources in the name of colonialism, killing our people like animals just 60 years ago and yet they think they have the moral right to talk about human right


If we are to believe in human right and justice then the right of a people to decide what's right for them or not must be respected. Democracy is all about the people's will and Africans , Arabs, Chinese and half the world says no to homosexuality which is against nature and our religions.

You can accept It because you're attracted to what you already have but we sane people won't allow it forced down our throat .

GeneralPula:
Which people are living in fear & discrimination?

gay people.

Braun007:
Nope

You don’t decide who’s human and who’s not. Sorry it’s not up to you

If you’re no longer in 1734, why is it hard for you to come to terms with the idea of freedom of association for everyone as they choose?
That’s a basic tenet of progress. That people can live and love as they choose without fear of harm or discrimination. I mean if you’re no longer in 1734.

GeneralPula:
Confirm!

I once said it that the main reason why she's going to these countries is solely because of LGBTQ, nothing else..

USA needs to know we're no more in 1734..

Christistruth03:
Thank God she didn't come to Nigeria

Gay rights matter more to them than Human rights

Gay rights are human rights

BRATISLAVA:
She might've said all this, rather than denying him the presence of his mother until she died. Then, they would've looked into his to sort that out.

The guy sounds haunted by what happened.

I don’t disagree

@bold and I responded that it’s not the reality for a majority of families. As far as real life is concerned women provide too. Your fake expertise in data analytics doesn’t change those facts . I don’t know what’s difficult for you to understand there.

2) we are talking about sick parents in this case aren’t we? You’re using men are providing as a justification as to why they can’t be the one’s actually caring for their sick parents. So proving my point that y’all will find a way to shift the responsibility to someone else. I don’t see how you’re agreeing with me yet arguing against my point.

I know it’s more convenient for you to accuse me of justifying women being mean to their in-laws as you implied than to openly agree that when most men get married, they assume and take it for granted that their wives are going to be responsible for caring for the parents if necessary.

Mrbllymer:
It’s very hard understanding you, What brought about data analysis was based on “men providing financially for the household ” , now you changed the conversation to “ men running away from caring for their aged parents” .

Secondly, you talked about caring like it’s something outta this world, not all aged parents are ill or couldn’t do basic things like bathing, eating or those lil things. Even in cases where they are ill, and the man is always busy working or “providing” for the household and the wife isn’t interested he employs a Caregiver to take care of her, caregiver can be employed and monitored.

The man allowing parents to stay, providing for their needs, employing maids or caregiver is part of caring for them, or you don’t know the definition of caring again ?

why are you justifying the nonsense attitude of the wife? Op pointed out she was maltreating his mother when she came ? Do you pray your son’s wife to maltreat you in your old age ? I’m sure Bible and Quran pointed out how you should respect your parents or any one other than you if you wanna live long. I hope you would be proud telling your parents you supporting a lady maltreating her husband mother?