₦airaland Forum

Eriokanmi:
Some gals indulge in certain things which they're quite oblivious of. I'm aware of a similar case right now, though not my fiancé. She met this guy in the university and he happened to be her first love. This guy from akwa ibom injected a substance in her system to drive sexx or for sexx urge. This girl later became wild such that, she can't spend a week without doing it. As the situation became worse, she went and bought a Love Machine which still didn't solve her problem. She could leave her work and enter a toilet to use the Love Machine until she became normal again after the urge is subsided. She later indulged in bisexuality by engaging her friends. She'd lodge them in a hotel. She lured one of her friends into it but the gal refused. She's become so addicted to it. Guys and gals do some bad stuffs while in the university unknowingly, which would later hurt their existence and life after school.

OP, your babe could be one of those. Take her to a reliable rehab because 99% of the time, ordinary talk won't change an addicted being. Unfortunately, not many people believe in deliverance . But if you do, I'd suggest you take her for deliverance in a reliable church. You both can even fast and pray about it without seeing any pastor. It's the only panacea I know. Good luck.

Dalil8:
Lol when men don fight the war finish, rebuild & secure the land.. she go come back come tell us say she dey equal with Ukrainian men.

Come flood social media with hashtags #MeToo #Girlpower #Strongwomen #breakthebias #theFutureIsFemale

Now wey opportunity to #breakthebias don show, she no fit stand, she take off like her fellow Ukrainian women. Vagina ppl too useless i swear.

GloriousGbola:
Ironically as a person whose parents worked in public hospitals, public hospitals are better if you are in the network. You will always be referred to a competent doctor

Now private hospitals in Nigeria, scams are plenty

Bizarre ones. Example So I hear that neurosurgery pays well, but I am an opthalmologist

I buy the equipment, get some small boy doctors and I am in business. Only another doctor can come and se beyond the glitz and understand there is not overall head with requisite experience.

If you are from some sort of medical background or family, you will immediately see that private medicine in Nigeria is a real mess. You will sometimes see very very casual nurses who do not wash their hands, mishandle needles etc

And you will be in constant paranoia that operations can get botched particularly as we are a 'leave it to God' people. Let me stop ranting here and go and refill gen. Sai Buhari.

GloriousGbola:
Go to doctor ke. People go to pharmacists. You will be in a pharmacy and see people saying I have fever, what should I take? One time I called a guy out - why are you asking a pharmacist for medical advice? Guy shrugged and continued.

One of my closest friends almost died when we were in secondary school. He had typhoid and our clinic nurse kept treating him for malaria. And my guys dad was in public health. You can imagine the irony.

It also doesn't help that Nigerian doctors are HEAVY on use antibiotics for everything.

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I feel that so long as children cannot give their permission to come into this world, anyone who brings them against their own permission is a wicked selfish fellow. The most devilish are the poor who chose to have children. It's so annoying. I mean you need to go to school and get licensed to even drive a car but absolutely anyone can have children. It's really crazy.

emperorz:
i still stand on my word even if we start checking it way back na copy copy dey koba us small small

KBARBIE:
Just had mine with fufu... Sorry no pix

emperorz:
moroever they experience stroke and other inflammation more than we africans

waistbead:
Ekom doo ndito eka...

Dinner

Afere afang(afang soup)very tasty



Live life....

Iyaebe:
I don’t agree with the last part of your statement,should we also decide on who to get pregnant ,nurse the kids,Cook and what have you?see as far as marriage is concerned each gender has it’s role to play,men been the provider while women give CARE.Equality in marriage paves way for divorce,this is the bitter truth.

GloriousGbola:
Complete with sticking johnny for the house, the car alimony, child support payments, restraining orders and supervised visits with the kids. Only yt chicks could have systematically beat white boys in the the MGTOW movement

Kobojunkie:
That's not entirely true.

First of all, not all men are bags of walking egos.

Second men get different situations and conditions to deal with like women. Reasons from unemployment, to sickness can cause even a man to chose this option. For others, it just makes sense that the man stay home to raise the kids while the wife pursues her dreams and goals.

I like to remind folks that there are no actual roles set by nature as far as marriage is concerned. We are meant to decide these things on our own.

Iyaebe:
More true housewives in the west?like seriously? This is interesting, our brothers in the west like(the ones here on nairaland)made us believe otherwise.

Kobojunkie:
Married folks are supposed to have a major leg up over single folks mainly because there are two heads in that equation. But when folks turn it instead into a Master-slave type relationship, they loose out on that would be major benefit.

emperorz:
no b jedi jedi b dz

Kobojunkie:
Oh wow!
The best part for me is licking up the left over chocolate.

GloriousGbola:
Supermom tinz

Iyaebe:
I don’t like seeing men do housechores same way I hate women as a provider.Marriage has lost it’s glory and sweetness because of all these equality and 50:50 westernised borrowed ideology and even in the present western world,marriage has become a demonic contract due to this ideology.

WoundedLamb:
Of course, they're not. They're well taken care of like a man would take care of his new car. Isn't that awesome?

WoundedLamb:
No idea where this happened but you see how the lady was mute? You see how most of the comments are implicitly supporting the abuser? You see how some of them found way to call out women even when a man is clearly the antagonist here? That right there is the fate of an African woman.

Kobojunkie:
Why would your dad panic? Does he believe you to be in the wrong as far as your marriage is concerned?

xukwaa:
What he does is to call my dad to warn me. My dad starts panicking.

Kobojunkie:
But all of what you described here does not happen or take place in a 50:50 setting.

1. Both husband and wife wake up in the morning to cook and prepare kids for school
2. Both husband and wife leave for work and contribute their agreed shared to the care and upkeep of family, leaving them each with money to store away for their own plans
3. Both husband and wife make out time to spend with the kids after work and even on the weekends.
4. Both husband and wife share the doing of chores and training of the children.
5. When wife is pregnant, her husband is there to be her support through the process and even care for her until she is able to get back on her feet again.

A man screaming that he is oga in a 50:50 situation does so as a result of a persistent delusion of sorts , and nothing else.

finishmatter:
Marriage is a horrible affliction on men.

Think twice before taking a step

Zonefree:
The world would have been a better place without women.

Acidosis:
Lol. Coco the women defender.

The rule applies to both men and women. I was only trying to say that many 40-year-old single men do what married men do. So the "relationship" status of a single man at 40 should not be mistaken for celibacy, lack of responsibilities, or poverty.

Acidosis:
Some of them have more kids, have more sex, and spend more on women/kids than married men.

So I don't see any issue. They're technically married.