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GloriousGbola:
Sadly no. You were wrong

Maybe it doesn't work over the Internet. Let me hop off and tell the missus what is good for her

I wish you good luck. Lol

ambient:
The rain started very early and oga insisted on eating eba today,I looked around my kitchen and saw that I had little cocoyams on the floor,na so I open fridge bring out meat,did magic and came out with this,I added a little yam to thicken it because the cocyam was not enough.i do store ukazi and meat in the fridge because it always comes handy at anytime.

My ofe owerie.....the only thing missing is the isam and the smoked fish.

it looks so good. Perfect

GloriousGbola:
I am shitposting. But I am supposed to feel a warm burst of happiness for telling you your place na
.

well did it work? The burst of happiness?

GloriousGbola:
Your place is in the kitchen and then za oza room.
Your fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach while riding on his deek

**personal happiness intensifies **

right

DEMZEE:
Females are happier and fulfilled having a husband, children and a family

Truth is bitter

Feminism has failed and moreso has failed females

males are happier spending their lives telling women what is good for them. Keep trying bro you might convince yourself eventually. Or Luckily you might even convince one person

alphaNomega:
You have not met enough women. You posted this solely because you cannot stand the fact that a woman can have the liberty to birth multiple children from different men and decide which of the men she wants out of her sexual life when she can afford it.

Maybe if he regurgitates it long enough, he’ll start to believe it.

DEMZEE:
THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS HAVING A BUSINESS OR A CAREER

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE

believe that if it will help you sleep better.

Actual research shows otherwise.

ellaV:
you should be single...this write up is for people that are married and are the responsible type, thank you

lol. You’re not serious yet

If you’re sure. 100% sure that he’s the one sabotaging your job opportunities, then Leave him. That’s enemy behavior not husband behavior.

ellaV:
I am married to a man for 6 years who goes about telling anyone whose cares to listen that he is not the marriage type and family guy..we have two kids,he doesn't want to set a business up for me,give me money for upkeep,or give me money to start my Masters...this is someone that has millions as savings and I borrowed 20k from access bank since last year March he can't give me money to pay...I decided to work, 3 months to the work,I was dropped I did my findings,someone came to testify negatively about me to my boss and that was it...I apply for jobs,a contradicting mail will be sent to the company and i won't be calledi,I graduated with 2:1...my husband buys my phone and it's only him that has access to my mail,i asked him if he did that he said no, but I know it's him...as am talking to you know everyone in my area has light since 4 days ago because we use prepaid meter,light has finished, he is not moved that we are in darkness? He traveled for a job since 5 days ago and he don't care,there is so much I want to say but let me not bore you...I feel unproductive and stucked in this marriage, pls what should I do? I went to church and I was told his mum is in the water kingdom and tied him to herself that he only listens to her and whatever I say means nothing, all he does is sleep with me , that's all, if you knew me when I was single , you will be in awe to see me now...what should I do pls?

descarado:
Have you seen my hair before?
So because the guy came from anambra, he made the biggest mistake of his life while alive?

I once use to read your posts on anambra thread.
My bad.

You have time

descarado:
My sis, its nauseating.

They grovel on their feet.
Here, these people sarcastically insult and degrade blacks everytime an opportunity arises and my fellow blacks won't stand up to them.
Colonialism is psychological. As long as we still believe in white messiah and the rest,they hold us by the balls.

yup. Absolutely spot on. A psychological bondage is harder to break.

Starzo:
how many times have we read news on this site about how Nigerian women killed their spouse through poisoning or stabbing??...All of them are the same... atleast the foreign demons are prettier.

You just need to learn how not to loose guard around them

they are prettier because they have less melanin? Are you not embarrassed?

The level of damage that colonialism did to y’alls minds will never be undone. It’s too late to come back from that.

Theone123:
After a man makes money, he would want to taste the finest p&ssy money can buy — Sadly, this one bought the one that would end his life.

it’s embarrassing that light skin is what you black guys consider beautiful. The true definition of self hate. It’s pathetic honestly

Jaqenhghar:
People were bringing up his tweets where he was shitting on black girls. See am

they are embarrassing like that. Many of them hate themselves and their dark skin mothers. That’s why they take it out on black women.

A real shame

1sherlockHolmes:
saphiere you need to be raped again to reset your brains if not, i am afraid u will be mentally unstable in the near future #yourDoctor

Cc Mynd44

1sherlockHolmes:
she was walking around in skimpy dress everyday, the guy just Hot and couldnt hold it. if she was told to cover her body she will not, she would say its her body her choice. so the guy its his lust and his choice.

dead brained imbecille

Pregnancy and child birth is a life or death situation. Y’all be safe out there

Why are you defending rapists with such high emotions?

GreyLaw:
The judge is a woman. They lose their head whenever they handle rape cases. By all means punish the offender, but follow the letter of the law.

And I hope one day someone introduces a bill to punish sexual assault. When you sit on a man's lap, ride him, grab his privates you have assaulted him if you did all that without permission. Being a woman doesn't give you anroght to be stupid.

They seduce and assault a man till he breaks down and pushes for sex. And when hat happens, they sue for rape.

I keep saying it, if you come near me to seduce me or touch me indiscriminately, I will give you a blinding slap that will resound for generations to come. Idiots!

Very smooth

FireRain:
Good Morning wonderful people.
Sometimes ago I saw a short video on how to make pounded yam with no hassles of pounding.
I tried it this morning and it came out well.
I blended the raw yam and made it like Semo and here is the result..a succulent pounded yam with no lumps and Easy too!


Kudos to Instagram food Vendors�

Hathor5:
Yummy! I love bagels.

one my favorite bready things

That has always been the pattern


It’s as if women offend them by moving abroad.they wish nothing but evil to their perceived “abroad women”. Whenever there’s a thread about something happening to a Nigerian woman abroad, come see them like crickets dancing and gallivanting like mor0ns. Utterly disgusting!

BRATISLAVA:
The more you question them, the more you see their fuel is irrational misogyny dressed as concern for women.

They will go about it as if it's logic while they deliberately blindside whatever could be said about the man. They will defend it on the altar of murder apologetic "logic".

Once a woman lives successfully in a foreign country, they want her to be killed to teach her and other women never to achieve anything or they too will be killed with their twisted logic.

Another thread full of disgusting posts. These boys need a conscience and true logic.

So wives should kill their husbands if the man’s property is not in her name or in their joint name?

Is that what I’m understanding?

koning:
That "BUT" you are taking lightly would have kept this woman and many more like her alive. If you are married and have 4 kids with your husband, why would you not discuss what names should be on your property documents with your husband. Why be sneaky and secretive about that. Maybe they would have agreed to put their son's name on it.

No one supports killing another person, but women, please, you may not be able to control your husband's actions and reactions, but you can control your own.

There's no way the husband will attempt to kill the mother of his 4 kids if the wife took time to discuss issues with her husband. At least reach a compromise. All these 'open eye" way of thinking sends them to early grave. Of what use is the property to her now?.

Shut up

Pierocash:
This is highly condemnable,and callous. I hope the law catches up with him.


But however, Nigerian women shouldn't see abroad as Uhuru for them. Once they get there ,they change and turn to monsters tormenting their husbands using the useless law over there as shield and buckler . And some men have different ways they react to betrayals and treachery which is the Hallmark of Naija women.

I don't have enough rest in peace right now, the last one I imported is already used for the victims of Kaduna train attack,and dollar is somehow expensive now,I would have imported one rest in peace for her

Bagel sandwich

Originalsly:
True....'Incestor' is about sexual preference.... you're right.

Everyone is either male or female.... biologically. Instead of this... something fixed... established from birth.... unchanged at death..... X is now about "feelings" ... one has a choice .... holder of passport X....can begin passing through immigration as a woman and boarding the plane as a man!....flexible human! He should let sleeping dogs lie! Pretty soon we can't address each other as Sir /Madam/ whatever..... wrong title and we be in court.

If you understood my position from the beginning, we wouldn’t have had such a long conversation.
I’m telling you that biologically (feelings aside) that there are more genders (sexes) than male and female. Look it up.
In fact they are as common as red heads. That means their population is high enough to not be ignored as a tiny minority. They are a considerably sized minority group.

Look it up .

As for addressing people, just call them what they want to be called. It doesn’t take anything from you

Just imagine

Originalsly:
What right they don't have like everybody else? The passport is about sex .... male/female.... whatever physical alteration one makes does not change one's sex.... however one feels about himself does not change his sex. He has that right like everybody else .... to be on the same page with everybody else. He is now asking for extra rights ... the right to have on his passport not what he is like others... but how he feels about himself and thus can lead us down a slippery slope and really have things so complicated that we wouldn't know who is who/what. And now........ my question to you! What if the ehmmm.... Incestors begin to clamor for an "I" to be on their passport since they have been deligitimized?... would you consider their feeling and allow?

“Incestor” is not a gender identity
Neither is bestiality nor child sexual predators.
Neither gay nor straight.
None of those things are gender identities.
There’s no where in your passport that you’re required to indicate what type of sexual activity you like to engage in.
I know those are all of the false equivalencies you’re about to bring up.

Your gender identity doesn’t mean the type of sexual relationship you are in. As we know, a man can be straight or gay or pedophilic. His passport will still say he’s a man because we are not interested in who he’s sleeping with. Same applies to a woman. And same should apply to anyone who’s neither male nor female.

I guess they shouldn’t be pouncing and grinding on people they don’t know well.

Some conversation and consent goes a long way. Not trying to hit on anything in skirt they come across

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... you are sooo sensitive/defensive! .... now I never said LGBTQ people..... I was specific.... said Trans... and more specific .... young Trans .Straight guys don't be up in another guy's face be giving him that look.
On being killed... again....especially the young ones... in daylight many pass as female... same enter clubs at nights ... guys pounce on them... grinding and kissing and all set for a one night stand.... only to then discover it is fellow man and not woman.... was deceived all nite. Some got killed because of this. A man can understand the rage this brings in a man .... not likely for a woman to understand. The deceiving ones are the ones that be risking their lives.

When you see straight people up close to you like they want to plant a kiss or dressing however they like, do you think to yourself “no wonder they get killed?”

What makes you feel that way about LGBTQ people?

Originalsly:
FACTS. What many see as acceptance is really not but like you said.... because of laws most people hide their true feelings about transgenders... gays... male/female/X etc.
Myself as an example .... living in present day Sodom and Gomorrah... and working in a hive of such people... having to make face to face contact. I see and interact with them all.... have to be professional... operate.within the laws that protect them in particular. Slap a man....as in Will Smith slapping Chris Rock.... assault charges only.... if Chris Rock were gay.... hate crime charge added. Because of laws most gave to bear. One time called to find out if customer was at home... male voice ... said he was not ... but let me hold for a minute let him call his husband. Took a minute for my brain to process that. Transgender... delivering to a guy... had something to say... I politely replied Sir... we do not.... and before I can go any further he became verrrry upset and sternly warned me not to address him as Sir.... he's not a man. The younger Trans are over bold and over aggressive..... they'll be right up the face like they want to plant a kiss. I see them dress as full sexy women.... since breasts... fake butts ... tight tights and men will be staring. ... and we wonder why some get killed. Sex change ones... what really is sex change?... this one I really have a problem with... no womb etc.. how is the sex changed? Know one.... looks more feminine less masqueline after the surgery ... but everything I look his her giant hands ... I fear a slap.more than the law. All these versions of male/ female... why add another when we can't even manage where we have?

Originalsly:
I'm not delegitimizing anybody..... they are legitimate like anybody else.... has rights like anybody else. What will happen if we pander to everyone's feelings?

If you consider them legitimate and have the right to live like everyone else, then them having a spot on their passport to identify with their gender won’t be an issue for you.

You don’t consider yourself being pandered to when your basic respect is given. Why do you consider it pandering when same is done for them? Is it because you don’t actually truly consider them legitimate humans?

Originalsly:
Strict binary system.... two umbrellas.... male and female. An individual ... intersection... hermaphrodite... whatever can be placed under one... male or female. Womb... female period. As in the quote... no male has a womb... up to this point in natural human development. In the future... very possible with the new designer humans now on stream.

you’re purposely delegitimizing the existence of other humans who had no control over how their bodies turned out. Not very “live laugh love” of you

Originalsly:
Womb over penis!... womb.... woman..... penis an aberration!
My question to you.... a person with full breasts .... no womb and robust penis .... male/female?

The person you described would be neither male nor female. That’s the whole point of the post.
Biologically and genetically, there are more than two genders. The strict binary system is a social system that ignores biologically realities such as intersex individuals.