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helinues:
Only a bitter people dey seek revenge when you can move on

No.
Some people need to be taught a lesson.
You can only take so much hurt from someone before paying them back.

@op.
There are women like that who are not really into sex and never really gets wet no matter the pre-intimacy.
There's nothing you can do about it.
Also, I believe it has to do with her hormones.
What to do?
There are several options such as seeking professional advice from qualified healthcare practitioners.
Also, there's another option to easy yourself and keep your family... But no be my mouth you go hear say the king mother chop winch. 😂

Wordsfrombimpe:
Not all

Most.

Wordsfrombimpe:
When a lady switch of her phone on her birthday after her partner sent her money

Do you think she is with another guy ?

Because according to this story I have a strong conviction another guy is shagging her on her day.

The guy she is cheating on is a good guy

Why can't some women be loyal?

Loyal women like me scarce oh

Women are only loyal to their feelings. Not to men's sacrifices.

@op.
Your friend makes poor choices when it comes to selecting a partner.
Shikena.

And we have seen broke men become great men later in life.

So, this your topic is wack.

Also, by your own reasoning, the poster above me is very correct (read the message in that image again and you will see you just shot yourself in the foot with your reasoning.

When that rich man you're dating keeps multiple women, don't complain (since broke men shouldn't date).

On this note I rest my case.

Antaanta:
You are correct. But this particular guy will not even do a good job for you. He do rubbish and collect your money. He's very rude too

I'm not recommending his service please.
We're just having a discussion here.

Lordbinsmar:
With due respect Sir/Ma'am,

Academics all around the world have different personality and way of doing things. I worked with one of the most strict lecturers in my department for my undergraduate thesis. This man is a no nonsense man, I am not defending his approach of doing things.

I only learnt what I needed to learn from him, I did not try to cut corners by contracting my thesis to some online writers.

But you knw what, all the students that have worked with my supervisor for like 4-5 years ago as far as I can remember secured one or two scholarships abroad in Europe or North America for Masters or PhD.

This achievement won't be possible for the student without the input of my supervisor. For me personally, the experience I got from my undergraduate thesis got me one the the most prestigious scholarship in Europe and I apply this experience to in my day to day academic activities.

That is why I am against the illegal business idea being advertise by the OP. It is an academic fraud in any part of the world and has no justification what so ever.

Gracias.

Good day to you too Sir/Ma.
I learnt everything about research from a very strict supervisor too and I agree that it helps students if they do their work themselves.
However, let us not hide behind a finger and pretend as if all is well with our education system.

Some supervisors (strict or not) will never put their student's through their essays, abuse them and still expect them to meet deadlines hence the service providers.

Again, I object to the brazen advert (it is like promoting illegality) and I insist that you only eat rat with big navel codedly in your room.
I pray the coming government will favour us.

DeepSight:
Once again, you sound so practical I really cant quarrel with what you say - save to reiterate that such practices are unethical and illegal - once its an examination - and such things as a thesis, dissertation, project or assignment - all qualify as exams.

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Before we could strongly condemn such acts, supervisors (I'm one of them. (Before they will say one thing, one thing)) should learn how to correct their students in a constructive way. We teach students many things but fail to teach them research methodology properly. That's the root of the problem.
Enjoy your day.

DeepSight:
Now you are sounding more practical than the other fellow and I hear you. And no, proof reading is not a problem. I have not addressed myself to proof reading.

However I repeat, having someone else write papers on your behalf, where such papers are of an academic nature and qualify as exams, is both unethical and illegal.

Practical is my first name.
Now, if your supervisor rejects your project (many supervisors won't even tell you what you did wrong. You will only chop abuse and have your paper flung at you) and you come to me (who provides writing services), I could term it proofreading and write the whole damn thing. That's why I mentioned proofreading (for the legal cover).
Cest fini.

Again, it is done all over. So no need castigating him.
(I really don't like the brazen advert though. You eat rat with big navel inside your room).

I'm only interested in the naked part.

DeepSight:
It is wholly unethical, and in this country, illegal.

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Unethical? Illegal? In this country?
Okay. I hear you.

The country where a large percentage of studies (both undergraduate and postgraduate) are self-sponsored.
These people have to choose one:
(i) Work and make money to pay the necessary fees (and outsource some of their assignments).
(ii) Concentrate on studies and drop out of school due to inability to fulfill the necessary financial obligations.
I believe you know which option many people will go for.

As to being legal, nothing stops you from hiring a proofreader to go through your work.
And you are back to square one (writing services).

Bottom line. If you have someone sponsoring you in school, you have no business with writing services.

If he's not doing a good job, that's one thing.
But to those castigating him.... Americans... Indians (especially) and other countries do this.
Is ww.scribbr a joke to you?

There's even a review here for top 5 assignment writing services:
https://business-review.eu/education/5-best-assignment-writing-services-online-assignment-help-234933


Its like I will start this business self.

Neoteny7:
I don't have a horse in this race.

As far as I'm concerned all the candidates are idiots who won't do a single atom of all they promised.

Same here.
Completely agree with you.
But Nigerians are not ready for this conversation.

Kobonaire4:
Whoever wins, things won't change.

It would be a good thing IF apc gets voted out. Lord knows Buhari has not done well, and Tinubu is not good news either. But the sad thing is that Atiku and Obi are pdp men...and that's the alternative we have facing us.

I have never been really happy with Nigerian democracy. The right kind of people never seem to win, and Nigerians love their same old party. Obi that everyone is hailing is from the same lineage as Tinubu and Atiku. Nigerians don't have the courage to vote out people associated with PDP and APC and vote in new people...because...we don't like change. We want the same old, same old.

Ah well, at the end, Nigeria will never change. Someone will win, people will tell me that it is different this time, and in three years, we will complain again.

But as for me, subsides have to go, our tax to gdp ratio has to rise, and we need to divrsify our economy. We don't need tales of the past, we need more money, and none of the main candidates has any idea how to make more money for us.(Yes, that includes Obi and Tinubu, and if it annoys you, go and suck a lemon).

Am just angry that we cannot be courageous enough to face reality.

Well said.
You nailed it totally.

Epositive:
It was a response to " some farms can be very sweet to plough" sarcasm though

Of course, many of us don't joke with our belly. 😀

I understand the sarcasm my man.
Just letting you know that because I refused to plough some farms, I have limited experience.
Still on still... Man knows how to run things even with limited experience.

Epositive:
You, my good sir, must be a great farmer.

😂 😂😂😂
Not at all...
My brother, I don't even know how to farm, really.
I have limited experience in farming Sir.
You see, being an introvert gives you limited experience in farming.
But given food, I know the way to my mouth. 😆

Epositive:
At bolded, you are correct. When I was learning photography in school, it was very easy to get along with girls because they always come in droves. If you are skillful at it, girls will hit on you big time.

Exactly.
Very soon he will overcome the clumsiness in talking to girls.
I can ask any girl out now with confidence even though I am still introverted.
Actually, I get hit 🎯 on occasionally these days, but I believe one doesn't need to plough all farms even though some farms can be very sweet to plough.

Klass99:
Lmao, are you male or female? It would be nice to know your gender.

My gender not withstanding, when a man meets a girl that can "dance", I mean really really "dance" it is hard to let go.
It's like pulling hairs from your nose. Very painful.

@op.
I was once in your shoes (or worse self).
But what helped me land some sweet, good girls was that I have a skill that brings them to me in droves.

My advice to you thus is that you get a skill and become very very good at it.
Also, if you are the type that wears crazy jeans etc. then you need to stop it ( you said you are long... Sorry.. tall.. ).

Dress normal, get a skill, become exceedingly good at it and na you go dey run from puci.
There's more but start with these first.

By the way, where's mejiloyon? (Alias breast is two). Haven't seen his posts in a while.

We were neighbors.
Somehow we ended up on the same bed at my friend's place during a function.
I turned my back on her she she did too. But our bums were touching.
As a gentleman, I just slept off.
The next morning she looked at me and said "óò ti e le".
Since then I made up my mind. Except you are a close family member, if we spend the night together (me and a girl), she will collect.

Klass99:
Lol, I have a few suspicions why this happens but like you OP I am curious to hear the candid thoughts of the opposite sex, from the ones who choose to engage respectfully fostering a respectful exchange of thoughts and ideas. My thoughts;

1. He became emotionally attached and possibly fell in love with the mistress. The constant narrative that men are logical and not emotional is a false and inaccurate one, as far as I know, all humans are emotional beings irrespective of gender.

2. Side chic got married to a man who is far better than him, in looks, class, charisma, decorum and wealth. A group of Nigerian men were surveyed and one of the top things that really hurts them and they dislike/hate, is for an ex or a woman they like, to end up with a man who is wealthier and better looking than them - e dey pain . This survey was on that new reality TV show (family fued) that Bisola hosts.

3. The sex was fantastic and mind blowing, he is possibly moaning the loss of it and the loss of what he felt was a good arrangement for his benefit. I think most men would prefer to call the shots even in an extra-marital affair, whereby they get to decide when an affair ends, they want to be the ones moving on from it first, perhaps to another mistress or back to fidelity and honouring their vows.

4. Some don't think highly of their mistresses or wish them well. They just want her available for their sexual needs, so it kind of rocks their world (like divorce does) when she is able to move on and make something worthwhile of her life. Whether it is through a Masters Degree, a prestigious job or marriage.

No. 3 most probably. Expecially the bolded part.

DannyWalker:
DonOG

https://www.nairaland.com/7546884/how-handled-cultist-slapped-girlfriend

I will tell you this sir.

Clearly you handled this shit like a damn coward.

Listen to this, a man is worthy of respect and honour when he shows an enemy that he is capable of dangerous actions. Not all situations demand peace solutions and this one was definitely not one.

You had a very big advantage which were your military friends.... Cult boys will never fvck with military men.

If your military friends had hurt that guy for slapping your woman I can assure you that he will avoid her till the end of his life.

If the army had invaded that school because of that guy, your girl will be feared.

The last thing he would do will be to touch her again when you are not around because he knows that he might lose his life.

You probably do not understand the psychology of the human mind and how to paralyzes men with fear.

If you did, you wouldn't let that shit slide, because that nigga will still bully your girl because he has not received a scar on him that warns him not to enter your territory.


So I must say this... You are a coward until you show the tenacity or capacity to be dangerous to other men.

#Peace

Exactly what I said.
He should have had them picked up.
Their parents picked up.
Their HOD and school authorities informed.
Let them sign an undertaken.
Thats all.
The matter vex me walahi.

Now he has handed the girl over to them.
She will just give in to their advances coz she has no recourse.
And they will fukc her tire.


PS; Before you say cult power kinikan.
Them never jam ni o.
Them dey run from military walahi.

Chamakh93:
is like u pple don't know all these cult boys o, they are very heartless. if they can't get you they go for your family

Sure.
Sebi dem too get parents? Brothers? Sisters?
Walahi, dem never jam.
But if you no get military backing, just walk away.

Modified:
Fighting anyone, for a girlfriend is not worth it anyway.

JJuanMiguel:
You made a sensible decision.
But you must also realize that nothing goes for nothing.
You babe must have lost something for you, especially after making her to go back and apologize to a guy that hit her.
If those guys come again with any form of advances, she'd simply give in.
But she's not your wife yet, so you did alright according to your power.

They will come again. And she will give in.
I am 100% sure of that.
Speaking from experience.

bishopjoe02:
You didn’t handle it well, I bet you they guy will still beat that girl up again another day, cultist are not invisible, you could have use that your military friends to get a high racking person officer, they will arrest him and make he sign undertaking if anything happen to that girl he will be held accountable,

Simple.

Like someone said above, he should have allowed the military pick the guy up and dribble him and his colleagues.
As in real drilling.
Life changing drilling.
Then sign an undertaken with their father, mother and HOD present.
Trust me, they will be the ones guarding her.

And I am very angry right now with how you handled the whole thing.

The first step was fine.... i.e. withdrawing initially.
Subsequent steps were wrong.
Cultists are not greater than security forces.
You just handed that girl over to them on a platter of gold.
Dem go fukc that girl tire. So pe o ti lo.

Sighs. Shit happens.

I don't react very well to threats.
It happened several times but there was an incidence immediately after my Bachelors that stood out. Cultist guy threatening me.
Ọmọ!
Long story sha. But he won't try it again.
The bottom line is I don't react very well to threats.
It makes me become a real threat to the person.

Adeoye11:
So no one to help on this issue

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If you have files on the laptop, you may have to copy them somewhere first.
1. Get a USB stick (flash drive 4gb and above)
2. Download any Linux distro (This is an operating system just like windows)
3. Download unetbutin software ( to help you create a bootable image)
4. Boot from that flash drive and click test Linux.
5. From there copy your files to the USB stick.
6. Ignore steps 1 to 6 above if you don't need the files (They may be there after you re-install windows but shit happens).
7. If you ignore steps 1 to 6, just get a windows disk and reinstall windows.
PS: you will have to borrow a friend's laptop for step 1 to 6.
If you don't understand these things, just give it to someone to help you reinstall windows.

Goodluck.

You don't know half of it.
I dont even want to talk about my PG experience.
However, I'm trying to give my students a better experience.

Modified
The financial implications are not even the problem. It comes with the territory.
The deep emotional trauma, the insults etc.
My own is that if karma fails to do its job.... (I no kuku trust the Karma self)
Well... Last to do is sweet...

mightyhaze:
Reminds one of agent Malik and his mob. in some of the JHC novels and then the Nick Carter series. Very hard,..ruthlessly efficient KGB agents..

I guess modern technologies and spy techniques have taken all the shine nowadays

You are a real man Sir.
The novel is "A whiff of money" by James Hadley Chase.
One of the best. Still have soft copy.

Well.. Yes... Several times.. long story... Both Good and not so good experiences.