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Are you of RCCG following Adeboye?

One of the top reasons people don't support churches, especially Evangelical, is the Palestine issue.

Never forget that the last country supporting and propping up apartheid South Africa was Israel.

goltokka:
Can anyone actually say where was the country of Israel before taken as slaves in Egypt and if they had a country why couldn't they go back. Was everyone taken as slaves in Egypt? Where were those who were not taken as slaves. Africa for example , we still have most of us here in Africa despite some where taken to Europe and other western countries . I am a Christian but a pragmatic and objective one. In fact my younger brother is a catholic priest.

Dangerous of true.

Love the lightly cooked okra. Say NO to overcooked okra!

'Decent' girls have needs too. Abi 'Decent' girls no dey born too?

Chii59:
What behaviour? BOTH of them were doing rough play. It was mutual. Don't leave the blame only at his doorstep. Person wey dress go person house to go play nko? So much for "decent girl" as he described her.
Na from clap, dance dey start.

Marriage is a partnership not a yeye role ship.

While I feel like I have read this exact story here before, I do know this sort of thing happens in many families.

You can't really control erections. You can hide them or at worse, laugh them off and act like it's no big deal.

For her to be disappointed, did you attempt to put the erection to use? Because there's no way shed be disappointed for something she knew nothing about or something she noticed you were hiding.

Unwanted is an inaccurate word; Unexpected is more correct.

It's like you want to generate a problem.

The guy is misguided. He may not be a bad guy but he's deeply misguided.

You guys don't seem to communicate well. It's like he didn't know why you were in town and you didn't know that he has been harbouring all these thoughts.

I would never advise my sister or daughter to marry a guy like this so I can't advise you to do the same.

Also, I think y'all have a weird idea of what the 'roles' are. That sort of compartmental approach is bad and doesn't pay.

Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

Good. Almost necessary.

Visit the guy as a couple.

Age is a number and not a determinant of maturity.

If you think a 19 year old girl will be 'easier' and 'unwise', you never see anything.

If also you think a 28 year old is 'wise' and 'ready' based on her age alone, I pity you.

Which one is the next morning?

The guy is using this assault on another person to hide his sexual proclivities.

Today they assault this man, tomorrow, they assault you for something else.

1. Do not date out of pity, break up with the guy that you "just had to say yes to but do not love"

2. Sexual attraction is good for sex but not necessarily for relationships.

3. Stay safe, use protection and sense.

1. It's partly in your head.

2. Did you cum when you masturbated?

3. Forget about the goal of release and enjoy the experience. Take breaks, watch a movie, spend the weekend naked with her, no just dey hammer dey go.

4. Try different positions (not necessarily what you masturbate to).

5. Take off the condom (get tested first).

You are robbing them of their privacy without their consent.

https://www.vox.com/recode/2019/11/26/20983980/posting-kids-photos-online-privacy-sharenting-reset-podcast

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RapistOnBail:
Whats your reason pls?

A number, small minority, of them are already doing so.

If the laws point them towards that, there should be better integration & cooperation.

Chii59:
Chinese that believe that they're second to none. I don't think they appreciate the idea of marrying an African.

True. A lot of women use things like Vagisil to control the pH and prevent the bad bacteria from developing.

ubunja:
but yeast infection is not a Sexual infection.

Women's vaginas are like our guts and mouths. They've a mixture of good and bad bacteria. The bad is kept under control by the good. But certain conditions (eg stress) weakens us, allowing the bad bacteria to overpower the good, atleast temporarily. With the vagina, stress as well as a woman using certain soaps and chemicals to clean her vagina destroys the good bacteria, allowing the bad ones to flourish. Yeast infections are the result of bad bacteria taking over the vagina and doing their destructive work. But that bad bacteria is always there. Just kept in check by the good bacteria. So a woman doesn't get the infection but rather develops it.

Biko guys don't form like you know more about a woman's body than the woman herself. Let Ada not use your to catch clout on twitter.

I was shocked to see prostitués openly in GRA.

Don't patronise prostitutes bro. It is disgraceful to both genders.

You never jam.

Many ladies, especially those who are assertive in za Oza room, will hold you and kiss you after giving you head.

I think it's a bit of a power play. Hott.

PrinceOfEast:
lol...ain't trying that shit mehn(tasting my sperm)

i love when my babe gives me BJ, but i don't usually kiss her after dat..i suck her boobs and bang her..

Naturally yeah.

Some people use vagisil which I think maintains the pH in a way that there is literally no scent AT ALL.

PrinceOfEast:
Salty

Sperm comes out after intercourse.

Abi you been dey sleep during Bio class?

Maychel:
One day you will drink my sperm in your woman's pussy obliviously you will think its her wetness

1. Probably fake

2. If married or entangled, avoid.

3. If in search of marriage, know that bleeping her may lead her to expect marriage.

4. If na casual sturvs, stop being a prude. Maybe you'll learn something.

All I'll say is be direct and clear. If he isn't calling you, call him and if he continues to ignore, know that he's not really interested.

Nigerians should stop allowing these useless agencies look for more ways to interfere in our lives.

NDLEA is looking for a cash boon.

Lool.

Taking no prisoners!

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Like his style. Obviously a lot more to the story.

Chinese colonisation of Africa needs to be checked. If they want to come here, they should marry here.

We should do like them and make it virtually compulsory to marry a native to work/earn money.

Take your son's photo off the internet.