₦airaland Forum

Flee from this lady Zzor.

How is she stressing his life?

The idea that that kindness always works out financially is not true. Blind kindness will not work to magically provide you Mula.

Be kind but be wise!

However, not everybody is ruled by money and if he is happy to make ends meet and save some without necessarily stressing for all that dough, allow him.

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

If you are in a relationship were sex and money are traded, my friend you are in a business transaction.

Change the dynamics of the relationship to one of equality, growth and mutual respect.

Spoken like a virgin.

See this virginity of a thing is nothing.

PIXSPEAKS:
Future wives, just try and keep your self..
once I hear you had a relationship, I lose 50% interest instantly..I feel most men feel the same too..if its not so,why do you keep hearing redpill upanda..

once had an admirer who had been in relationships and wanted me too..
I refused n kept it at friendship level..babe tried to kiss on one careless day and I couldn't..
the thought of the mouth and penis sucked with it gives me nightmare..

this generation hard oo

This is a stupid and disgusting post.

Instead of you to use your system to make money, you are thinking of your neighbor's 'gbola'. Abi you dey jealous the girl?

Mtchew.

PIXSPEAKS:
chaii this life no just balance oo.
I hear some guys say that em babe had one relationship/boyfriend before am and in his mind,the body count is commendable.
My brothers,it doesn't matter oo.
Before now,I had a thought that if I don't get a virgin,I might settle for a girl with less body count but this my neighbor has changed my mind.
My neighbors girl came around March from univ, a girl of 22 at most before the lockdown.
From march till date, she has been around
(of course,thats not the problem).
the problem is from that date till now, a day hardly pass without a round of loud sex.
I live in a 2 room self con apartment and same with my neighbor in the compound(only us)
While trying to work with my system in the evening,babe go dey shout.(Oga has big #200 cucumber size gbola) Night,the same..

One thought keeps running through my mind, who will inherit this girl later?
they will say sheepishly'My babe had one ex, do u know how many time the pussy was bleeped recklessly'
A girl that will not say no to at least a day off, can she be trusted to stay while you travel?

So I would advice girls, keep your milage low for you future hubby..
Chaii each time I sees this babe,I feel like vomiting..its too much.

They have started for night shift now.. So annoying..

How can they be forcing you to get married when you're not in a relationship?

Who are they forcing you to marry?

Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.I'm not in relationship either.what should i do now ? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..

Y'all look at this issue too one sided.

There are women and men who believe in equality and do not want to be reduced to their sexual organs.

If you have this view, you will gravitate towards people with the same view.

If people see half of what their pastors are doing, maybe they'll leave the church.

Chii59:
Lol. As if people tattoo their sexual fetishes on their foreheads

I don't understand why you'll be claiming 'ownership' of someone who you're not dating.

If you guys are not affirmatively in an exclusive relationship, do not expect exclusivity by right.

This is also why it is good to define things, to avoid stories that touch.

Because none of them have done it before shebi?

Roon9:
How can she face her neighbors and church members thereafter

All the people doing anal sex in all the other countries in the world are not anyhow?

J111333:
Very anyhow people in an anyhow country. Mek she enjoy her pain biko.

Didn't first airway on Boondocks. Very old reference.

marvinsync:
Wow a bonducks reference, this takes me back.

Because most girls start getting sexualized and unwanted sexual proposals from a young age, usually sub 10 years old.

Most, if not all, girls have been catcalled or propositioned by their mid teens.

Virtually every man is a potential sexual propositioner. Therefore, they have to attempt to weed out unserious and unwanted attention. This may just be for peace of mind.

This is by no means a Nigeria-specific problem.

rottencorpse:
What's the meaning of your personal text? Who wants to DM you? Why do Nigerian women always feel all guys want them.
You're not even fine. Mtchew

Idiot spotted. Illiterate.

rottencorpse:
Ass licker spotted... Simp

Maybe in the dream.

Chii59:

I thought they said men are ever ready to fire.

Which men are ready for sex any time any day with any person?

That is not real life o.

360clips:
They can literally fvuck anything in skirt! I can absolutely not fvuck anything in skirt! Even a female lizard in skirt dey will still fvuck! That's why you see so many imbeciles roaming the streets with no limbs or torso. . Absolutely no standards. No self-respect for themselves! A man will sell his whole life fortunes just for pussy! I get it! Men are naturally sexual creatures. They're ready for sex any day and time or hour of the day. But there has to be control! Without control they're consequences! In the first world, you see so many sexual harrasment lawsuit filed against big men of big companies which cost them so many millions by a co-worker and spoil their reputation for years. In some cases they even have to resign! I mean, what on earth would make a man that has so much money start sexually harassing his female co-worker of his company! They're billions of girls out there, why a co-worker? Why not just have someone go to the brothel or strip club and get you the hottest girls ever seen and have fun! It's absolutely crazy! You see a guy marrying a woman just because of sex! Them when the kids come you see you can't afford their upbringing! Kids are so goddamn expensive! I mean who the hell would want to have one! They nuts! I can never do any of these shit! My drive is to make money, take care of myself & nuclear family and travel the world! Sex means absolutely nothing to me! I can do without sex for years! Discuss...

Another keyboard warrior who is alone and pathetic.

GraGra247:
Your gay cover is fully blown and disgraced and you engage a pathetic damage control tactic to hide your shame.

Go look for a stinking shiit infested ass to dip your rotten d*ck.

That's the only way your damaged mind can finally be happy.

Let us see your web browser history.

Those who hate the most tend to be projecting.

GraGra247:
Your gay cover is fully blown and disgraced and you engage a pathetic damage control tactic to hide your shame.

Go look for a stinking shiit infested ass to dip your rotten d*ck.

That's the only way your damaged mind can finally be happy.

Potential murderer alert!

zed7:
Nice woman. I'll probably beat sense back into you first. If it doesn't work, I can contemplate acceptance.

It is not hereditary lol.

Use brain small.

ehmmy11:
Sha don't father any children let the confusion end in your life time

Why will you propose, for the first time, in public?

Personally, I think people should propose with a weekly marriage counselling appointment for 2 months.

Let an expert (not necessarily pastor) give you guys the truth on where your relationship is and tools to use to keep the love alive.

It depends on you.

Both are morally questionable but do not judge people, live and let live.

Stop all these ethnic & tribalistic posts. There are beautiful people everywhere.

1. 500% sure this is fake

2. Regardless, this kind of dynamics exists in a LOT of relationships.

3. Dating someone who sees you as worthless is dangerous, mentally and physically.

4. Make yourself useful, work, let no man insult you.

5. It may be that the sex is not even sweeting her, the guy may care so little that he doesn't make the pleasure 50-50.

6. The damage this will do may affect any other relationship this lady has after this nightmare.

E be things.

Do NOT patronize runs. It debases men and women.

Bluezy13:
If you do mind your business and think about money money and money...
Call a hoker to satisfy your urge and continue thinking about money

What business will you have with redpill

Where did his parents get the prophecies from? What is the (REAL) track record of the prohecy givers?

People should share their (true) experiences.

Everyone open your eye!!

Zzor:
keep your experience to yourself and stop trying to corrupt the minds of other men,you got yourself involved with a bad lady and you got served,so stop wailing afterall,you attracted your type

Say no to domestic violence, no to master/slave marriages.

Say yes to fulfilling partnership!

I do not think that the age difference, in of itself, should be a deal breaker.

However, how young is she? Is she under 22? What is the guy's dating/relationship history?

She should enjoy herself and consider these questions. IF she's still happy/satisfied, it is her life!

Very true.

Over generalization will finish us in we country.

But that's what movies like.

Chii59:

Someone is unfortunate to meet a leech in every sense of the word and quickly assumes that all women are leeches.
What a logic!

It is unfortunate that still many parenta refuse to teach their children properly.

However, we usually get a good education on the mechanics of sex, sexual abuse & contraception.

As for the emotional and personal thngs tbat should be taught and learned from watching our parents, you've got to learn on your own by using 'common' sense.

Gotta hand it to you. This was an engaging read.

Would probably sell internationally as a comic tbh.