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RomanceRe: Is Adulthood A Scam? If You Are In Your 20s, Click To Read. by Cousin9999: 9:38am On Jun 27, 2022
I'm not giving this nonsense any views. It's probably just the ramblings of a lazy person, someone raised by a lazy, or someone co-signing laziness for followers.
RomanceRe: I Failed French Throughout Primary And Secondary School by Cousin9999: 9:32am On Jun 27, 2022
French isn't hard. There's very little to learn compared to other languages. And English has a lot of French loanwords, so the vocab isn't a big deal.

Learning the language has the main benefits of opening other African economies (for small businessmen and traders) a little more, enjoying Francophone (African and Caribbean) music more, and sweet talking North American and European women (black American women seem to love a French or British accent).
RomanceRe: Why Is It Hard For Women To Buy Their Car With Their Full Money? by Cousin9999: 9:19am On Jun 27, 2022
The idea that women shouldn't pay for anything, so that men can feel manly was created by and is currently maintained by men.

The financial insecurity and challenges in getting a proper salary that many women experience is a result of the actions of men.

Instead of whining about gold diggers, correct problems. Raise your daughter to be strong. Respect women. Hire women. Be secure in yourself as a man and don't try to undermine women.
RomanceRe: "School Is A Scam"- SS2 Girls Say As They Run From School to Meet Their Boyfrien by Cousin9999: 8:52am On Jun 27, 2022
Education is one of the most basic human needs.

They need a good, firm Auntie slap.
TravelRe: I Have A Few Questions About Visiting The USA From The Scratch by Cousin9999: 8:25am On Jun 27, 2022
They're not going to give you a visitor visa. If you're not ready to marry, go as a student.
TravelRe: Nigerians In Other African Countries, How Is Life? by Cousin9999: 8:13am On Jun 27, 2022
Also, Mauritius is infested with Indians. They're nearly as depraved as west Asians. You don't want to go there, and it's a bizarre joke to compare that place to Canada or Switzerland. Mauritius is also a human tr4fficking hub.
TravelRe: Nigerians In Other African Countries, How Is Life? by Cousin9999: 8:09am On Jun 27, 2022
Don't listen to the human tr4fficker in here talking about Egypt.

From a human tr4fficking report from the US Department of State about Egypt:

Traffickers subject men and women from South and Southeast Asia and East Africa to forced labor in domestic service, construction, cleaning, and begging, as well as sex trafficking. In 2017, observers reported an increase in West African trafficking victims, although it was unclear if this was the result of increased victim identification or an actual increase in numbers. Male refugees and migrants are vulnerable to exploitative labor practices, including forced labor. Foreign domestic workers – who are not covered under Egyptian labor laws – primarily from Bangladesh, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Indonesia, the Philippines, Nigeria, Sudan, South Sudan, and Sri Lanka are highly vulnerable to forced labor; employers at times require them to work excessive hours, confiscate their passports, withhold their wages, deny them food and medical care, and subject them to physical, sexual, and psychological abuse. Some employers file false claims of theft to further exploit domestic workers. Traffickers subject women and girls, including refugees and migrants from Asia, Sub-Saharan Africa, and the Middle East to sex trafficking in Egypt. In 2018, an international organization reported Colombian nationals were smuggled into Egypt to work in the entertainment industry, and in 2019, an NGO reported that employers in resort towns, such as Sharm El Sheikh, sexually exploit dancers from Colombia. Refugees from Syria, Sudan, South Sudan, and Yemen who live in Egypt are at risk of trafficking. For example, increasingly traffickers target Syrian refugees who have settled in Egypt for forced child labor, sex trafficking, and transactional marriages of girls that can lead to sexual exploitation, including sex trafficking and forced labor. NGOs reported in January 2020 that unaccompanied minors (UAMs) among the African migrant population are increasingly at risk of trafficking in Egypt; Sudanese gangs reportedly target UAMs to force or coerce the children to sell drugs or commit other petty crimes. Irregular migrants and asylum-seekers from the Horn of Africa, who transit Egypt en route to Europe, are increasingly at risk of trafficking along this migration route. During the reporting period, there were reports trafficking networks fraudulently recruited women from Guinea for employment in Egypt; the traffickers then exploited the women in domestic servitude or sex trafficking.
TravelRe: Racism In A Foreign Land by Cousin9999: 3:32pm On Jun 26, 2022
Why would you ask this question unless you derive pleasure from other people's negative experiences?
RomanceRe: Why Lesbians Are Not Attracted To Men And Attracted To Women by Cousin9999: 3:27pm On Jun 26, 2022
The mods seriously need to start banning people who spam the board with stuff. Especially when it's not even funny.

Like, chill.
RomanceRe: How Society Reacts To Male Domestic Abuse Vs Domestic Female Abuse by Cousin9999: 3:25pm On Jun 26, 2022
The reaction is different because females rarely abuse partners, males are usually physically capable of defending themselves, and males are more likely to seriously harm partners in general.
RomanceRe: Two Club Girls Fight Over A Double Barrel Man, Who Couldn't Stand Up by Cousin9999: 3:20pm On Jun 26, 2022
Wow. lol
RomanceRe: Am In Love With A Girl That I Don't Know How To Express My Love For Her! by Cousin9999:
Tell her how you feel, but try not to have any expectations. Don't pressure her or make her uncomfortable.

Arrange to maybe have a meal with her and tell her. Tell her in advance that there's something important you want to share with her.

If she doesn't feel the same way, just move on. You may think she's everything, but there are many other women you will have equal or stronger feelings about. Let her know that you respect and accept her feelings if she rejects you. You don't want her to feel uncomfortable or avoid you.
PoliticsRe: Brazilian Returnee Arrested With Cocaine In Private Part by Cousin9999: 3:05pm On Jun 26, 2022
They arrest the petty crooks. Never the ones selling out the country or the kingpins who pay the right people off.
Christianity EtcRe: Anytime I Pick Up My Bible To Read , I Always Feel Sleepy by Cousin9999: 3:00pm On Jun 26, 2022
Maybe it's because you find it comforting and relaxing.

It could also be that you simply don't find it engaging, or the Early Modern English makes consumption awkward. Maybe you should take a course, a real course, on the Bible. Or you could join a Bible study group of people similar to you (similar lifestyle and interests).
RomanceRe: Can A Girl Who Easily Gets Angry Over Little Things Still Claims She Loves You? by Cousin9999: 10:11am On Jun 26, 2022
Stop dating her and sleeping with her.

It's clear you're concerned about her, so you can continue helping her as a friend. But don't allow her to impact other relationships.
EducationRe: Is This Outfit Appropriate For A Primary School Teacher? (Photo) by Cousin9999: 8:28am On Jun 26, 2022
Btw Why would a heterosexual man desperately want women to cover their bodies?
TravelRe: Hello Nigerians In Burkina Faso by Cousin9999: 8:20am On Jun 26, 2022
Posts like this need to be reported to authorities. It's wild that this stuff is allowed to pop up when we know exactly what they're trying to do.
TravelRe: Should I Accept 2 Years Working Permit To Spain Or Go 2tru Study Route To Canada by Cousin9999: 5:04pm On Jun 25, 2022
Zealoy:
Hope say this one no be format to scam people with spain link.
NYSCRe: 9 Smart Ways To Have A Successful Service Year "NYSC" by Cousin9999: 12:49pm On Jun 25, 2022
- Use your time in a region you would never go, and find business opportunities.

- Explore finding a life partner. It could be in the NYSC. It could be in the village. Some guys want a traditional woman, and that might be the opportunity to find one.
EducationRe: Is This Outfit Appropriate For A Primary School Teacher? (Photo) by Cousin9999: 12:34pm On Jun 25, 2022
1. People are reacting to her body shape, not her clothes. If she was really fat or skinny, no one would notice.

2. It's wrong to suggest a woman has to hide her body. Being physically attractive is not a sin or crime. Would people say anything about a muscular guy in a tight shirt and slacks?

3. Women with her shape often feel they have to wear tighter clothes because otherwise they look obese. It's like a muscular guy in a loose fitting shirt; he looks like he has a gut.

4. It's a long dress, and there's no visible cleavage. It's fairly conservative.

5. People need to be concerned about how well she performs as a teacher, not her outfits. Are people judging male teacher outfits?

6. Don't make a woman into a bad guy because you're jealous or insecure.
TravelRe: Between South Korea, US And Canada. by Cousin9999: 7:43am On Jun 25, 2022
There are virtually no Asian countries where an African person can get a good or even decent job and settle comfortably. There's an American dream, but there is no Chinese dream. What you instead see are a bunch of illegals who are engaging in criminal acts or "teaching English" (not a career, barely a job). And there are trade deals where Africans go to school in those countries, but after school, there's nothing for them. People complain about not finding work in the UK after school, but at least they can find something. Even if it means taking blue collar work.

Furthermore, there's nothing desirable about life in Asia. Asian society and culture is just unpleasant to say the least. The average Asian is miserable, rich or poor. And laws in their countries barely exist for citizens. They're a joke for African immigrants.

The worst thing about Asia is the high rate of human tråfficking. Specifically, there seems to be a lot of organ tråfficking involving African immigrants. Compare this to someone who simply has to do a humble job in North America or west Europe. Would you rather drive a truck in the US (70,000 USD btw), or risk being harmed for a kidney?

There seems to be an exception regarding businessmen who go to China or other places to import/export. Some of these guys get ripped off. Some of them do very well. Even if you go down this path, don't live in those countries. If you want to emigrate, keep trading in whatever countries, but live in North America, west Europe, an African nation, or a Caribbean nation.
TV/MoviesNew Film About Giannis Antetokounmpo, Rise by Cousin9999(op): 6:45pm On Jun 24, 2022
RomanceRe: As A Lesbian How Do You Feel When You See A Beautiful Woman For The First Time? by Cousin9999: 5:12pm On Jun 24, 2022
You need to find a more productive hobby.

Maybe write some inspirational short stories or something. Go and teach youth arts and crafts. Make clothing and sell your pieces online.
TravelRe: Between South Korea, US And Canada. by Cousin9999: 5:02pm On Jun 24, 2022
Avoid Asia. Asia is not like Europe or North America just because they have some skyscrapers.

There's a bunch of universities in underpopulated parts of the US that will give you hefty scholarships. Study a medical trade and you'll have a good job waiting for you.
RomanceRe: Can You Date Or Marry A Black American Woman? by Cousin9999: 1:47pm On Jun 24, 2022
siofra:
There's truth in what you say.

I watched some of Thomas Sowell videos and he explained how black Americans got their criminal behavior and mannerisms from Southern Rednecks.
Sowell is an idíot.

Some Black Americans who engage in criminal activity do so out of desperation because they have been locked out of opportunities by oyinbos and have no hope. Some have untreated trauma from dealing with poverty. Some make one bad decision that makes doing the right thing harder because of discrimination in laws and law enforcement. Some come from generations of poverty, struggle, and related dysfunction (courtesy of oyinbos) and this has made certain dysfunctional lifestyles normal to them.

The common denominator is oyinbos. Oyinbos are a disease.
PoliticsRe: Photos Of David Ukpo Nwamini, The 15-Year-Old Boy Ekweremadu Took To The UK by Cousin9999: 9:41am On Jun 24, 2022
Interesting how media is going on and on about this couple. But they have nothing to say about all the Asian mafias doing the same.
RomanceRe: Can You Date Or Marry A Black American Woman? by Cousin9999: 9:38am On Jun 24, 2022
They've spent generations around oyinbos. That's not a healthy, productive environment to say the least. The mentality and behavior you see are the direct result of being around oyinbos. Oyinbos are a disease.
RomanceRe: Am I The Only One Who Finds This Annoying? by Cousin9999: 9:29am On Jun 24, 2022
lol wtf
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Nigerian Women So Ugly by Cousin9999: 9:27am On Jun 24, 2022
Op, you need to come out of the closet and live your truth. You're angry because you want to be a Nigerian woman.
RomanceRe: Inside A Nigerian Girl's DM Vs Abroad Girl's DM by Cousin9999: 12:33pm On Jun 23, 2022
That's probably more a reflection of economic conditions than culture.

And the average American woman would ignore or block the message unless you had some kind of relationship going. Even then, that's still likely. lol
RomanceRe: Loss Of Body Shape After Birth. Why? by Cousin9999: 12:26pm On Jun 23, 2022
Genetics, health, fitness, diet, medical history, and the nature of the pregnancy itself (e.g. complications, natural or C-section, hormones, etc).

Pregnancy does a lot of different things to a woman's body. People don't realize it because so many women just do it and act like it's nothing. But it's hard.
RomanceRe: How A Lady Allegedly Confided A Man To Divorce His Wife Because Of Her Fat by Cousin9999: 12:21pm On Jun 23, 2022
When they got together, they were probably both fat. But he decided to work out and stay with the woman who he sees as compatible, supportive, and etc. This seems to happen a lot, but with females who lose the weight and stay with a really fat guy.

But really though, there's a good chance he's cheating, maybe even bisexual.

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