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Tell her how you feel, but try not to have any expectations. Don't pressure her or make her uncomfortable.

Arrange to maybe have a meal with her and tell her. Tell her in advance that there's something important you want to share with her.

If she doesn't feel the same way, just move on. You may think she's everything, but there are many other women you will have equal or stronger feelings about. Let her know that you respect and accept her feelings if she rejects you. You don't want her to feel uncomfortable or avoid you.

They arrest the petty crooks. Never the ones selling out the country or the kingpins who pay the right people off.

Maybe it's because you find it comforting and relaxing.

It could also be that you simply don't find it engaging, or the Early Modern English makes consumption awkward. Maybe you should take a course, a real course, on the Bible. Or you could join a Bible study group of people similar to you (similar lifestyle and interests).

Stop dating her and sleeping with her.

It's clear you're concerned about her, so you can continue helping her as a friend. But don't allow her to impact other relationships.

Btw Why would a heterosexual man desperately want women to cover their bodies?

Posts like this need to be reported to authorities. It's wild that this stuff is allowed to pop up when we know exactly what they're trying to do.

- Use your time in a region you would never go, and find business opportunities.

- Explore finding a life partner. It could be in the NYSC. It could be in the village. Some guys want a traditional woman, and that might be the opportunity to find one.

1. People are reacting to her body shape, not her clothes. If she was really fat or skinny, no one would notice.

2. It's wrong to suggest a woman has to hide her body. Being physically attractive is not a sin or crime. Would people say anything about a muscular guy in a tight shirt and slacks?

3. Women with her shape often feel they have to wear tighter clothes because otherwise they look obese. It's like a muscular guy in a loose fitting shirt; he looks like he has a gut.

4. It's a long dress, and there's no visible cleavage. It's fairly conservative.

5. People need to be concerned about how well she performs as a teacher, not her outfits. Are people judging male teacher outfits?

6. Don't make a woman into a bad guy because you're jealous or insecure.

There are virtually no Asian countries where an African person can get a good or even decent job and settle comfortably. There's an American dream, but there is no Chinese dream. What you instead see are a bunch of illegals who are engaging in criminal acts or "teaching English" (not a career, barely a job). And there are trade deals where Africans go to school in those countries, but after school, there's nothing for them. People complain about not finding work in the UK after school, but at least they can find something. Even if it means taking blue collar work.

Furthermore, there's nothing desirable about life in Asia. Asian society and culture is just unpleasant to say the least. The average Asian is miserable, rich or poor. And laws in their countries barely exist for citizens. They're a joke for African immigrants.

The worst thing about Asia is the high rate of human tråfficking. Specifically, there seems to be a lot of organ tråfficking involving African immigrants. Compare this to someone who simply has to do a humble job in North America or west Europe. Would you rather drive a truck in the US (70,000 USD btw), or risk being harmed for a kidney?

There seems to be an exception regarding businessmen who go to China or other places to import/export. Some of these guys get ripped off. Some of them do very well. Even if you go down this path, don't live in those countries. If you want to emigrate, keep trading in whatever countries, but live in North America, west Europe, an African nation, or a Caribbean nation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=numzJtJWT8c

Looks good.

You need to find a more productive hobby.

Maybe write some inspirational short stories or something. Go and teach youth arts and crafts. Make clothing and sell your pieces online.

Avoid Asia. Asia is not like Europe or North America just because they have some skyscrapers.

There's a bunch of universities in underpopulated parts of the US that will give you hefty scholarships. Study a medical trade and you'll have a good job waiting for you.

siofra:
There's truth in what you say.

I watched some of Thomas Sowell videos and he explained how black Americans got their criminal behavior and mannerisms from Southern Rednecks.

Sowell is an idíot.

Some Black Americans who engage in criminal activity do so out of desperation because they have been locked out of opportunities by oyinbos and have no hope. Some have untreated trauma from dealing with poverty. Some make one bad decision that makes doing the right thing harder because of discrimination in laws and law enforcement. Some come from generations of poverty, struggle, and related dysfunction (courtesy of oyinbos) and this has made certain dysfunctional lifestyles normal to them.

The common denominator is oyinbos. Oyinbos are a disease.

Interesting how media is going on and on about this couple. But they have nothing to say about all the Asian mafias doing the same.

They've spent generations around oyinbos. That's not a healthy, productive environment to say the least. The mentality and behavior you see are the direct result of being around oyinbos. Oyinbos are a disease.

lol wtf

Op, you need to come out of the closet and live your truth. You're angry because you want to be a Nigerian woman.

That's probably more a reflection of economic conditions than culture.

And the average American woman would ignore or block the message unless you had some kind of relationship going. Even then, that's still likely. lol

Genetics, health, fitness, diet, medical history, and the nature of the pregnancy itself (e.g. complications, natural or C-section, hormones, etc).

Pregnancy does a lot of different things to a woman's body. People don't realize it because so many women just do it and act like it's nothing. But it's hard.

When they got together, they were probably both fat. But he decided to work out and stay with the woman who he sees as compatible, supportive, and etc. This seems to happen a lot, but with females who lose the weight and stay with a really fat guy.

But really though, there's a good chance he's cheating, maybe even bisexual.

Notice: They have no laws against discrimination.

Ban Islam, period.

So are they going to lock up guys that have unprotected sex?

Are they going to feed, clothe, house, and educate all those kids?

What?

He's gonna regret it.

No. Never.

Op, you need some soup and a nap. wtf lol

effido666:
HOW ?

They feel physically threatened by gay dudes, or maybe they're a survivor and illogically view gay men as predators.

butterfly777:
Please, visit the nearest MFM church branch for counselling and deliverance. God will deliver you in Jesus name.

Are you saying this to people who fornicate, physically abuse their wife, scam, and post filth on here?

Are they actually going to pay the workers?

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