₦airaland Forum

Malroux:
Davido obtain am.

Lol

maasoap:
You really don't get why they did that, do you? It is the job they really didn't like but they liked the money that comes with it. Those are the kind of jobs that many Nigerians wouldn't like to do here no matter the pay but [b]travelling abroad with no skill gives them no options to choose from but to settle with what is available. The sacrifice of japa with no skill[/b]s

This is not entirely true. Some have degrees, including UK health and social care degrees. Some like the flexibility that some other 9-5 jobs may not give them, others may be postgrad students doing it. Even UK citizens born and bred who were nurses, civil servants and others come into the sector later for various reasons.
I do not envy those supporting dementia patients in whatever setting. It's a very challenging geriatric condition as it progresses.

Even those otherwise happy doing the job can lose it at times BUT no excuse for their action.

His d!ck nor gree for anybody.

sammirano:
Gut. This is what we call decentralisation in finance and management.

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Some departments should go to Jos, PH, Enugu, Benin, Ibadan, KD, etc.

To be fair.

honour7:
There is no convention, it was because of COVID that euro/Afcon were not played in 2020, hence the back dating.

Before you jump to comment, see how a discussion started and what was already said.
If there is no convention, why did DFB, FFF or English FA not just call it Euro 2021on their own since final was even played at Wembley?

My friend, the original year to host, Euro 2020 or whatever remains even if postponed. Unless the postponement or bringing forward was already known before the Award/fixing of tourney date was done. Such as Afcon 2013 (bringing forward from 2014 to 2013) was already agreed before it was awarded. To avoid Afcon clashing with 2014 World cup year.

Kukutente23:
Afcon was played in 2012 and 2013 to correct the clash of Afcon with World Cups. That's why Afcon was shifted to the odd number years since 2013. So by that covid shouldn't have affected afcon. But even at that, my curiosity is if we are playing afcon in 2024, why can't we call it afcon 2024? Why 2023

It must have been awarded with the title Afcon 2024. The same way Euro 2020 was awarded as such and still called Euro 2020 even though it was played in 2021. These are conventions involving many nations and FAs.

Fact is various reasons can cause postponement and rescheduling.

kokakola:
Most Nigerians are pretending to be unpatriotic on social media concerning our team in this AFCON but deep within their conscience, they desire naija to win and even lift the trophy regardless.

They are just trying to prepare for disappointment wella. To tone down expectation. See how they will be partying should 9ja win CIV 2:0.

Kukutente23:
I still don't understand how we are playing Afcon 2023 in 2024
Must Africa be backward in everything?

Dude, Covid-19 Pandemic disrupted many things leading to tournament postponements.

The 2020 UEFA European Football Championship was played in summer of 2021. The one Italy won against England.

That's why the next one is summer this year in Germany. Every 4 years.

Remember when Zambia won Afcon in 2012, they only held it for 1 year as 9ja won it in 2013. 2014 Afcon was brought forward to 2013 to avoid clashing with 2014 World Cup in Brazil that Germany won. Even though exactly that hosting year clash happened in Afcon 1994 that 9ja won. It was acceptable back then.

These scheduling abnormalities happen for various reasons.

jamesversion:
Where una dey see these kind neighbours sef?

I wonder o.
For this 9ja?

All these fake stories mostly.

jamesversion:
Where una dey see these kind neighbours sef?

I wonder o.
For this 9ja?

After all said and done, OP might not even be the biological father.

In case you are, explore your legal rights as a biological dad,

The child has a right to her dad, the mistakes and bitterness of adults does not change that.
7 years is better than never or 28 years later.

People will behave badly but we must not allow our reaction to make us even worse than them.

My uncle's daughter got regnant like 26 years ago. Her Bf's dad insisted on aborting it but my uncle and aunt refused. The child was born and raised by uncle's family for at least first 21 years of life. Although the bf was later coming and bringing the girl presents. He never married my cousin and both parted ways.

The guy died when the girl was about 12. If the girl had been aborted as his father insisted he would have had no kid.

A few years ago, the girl was getting married, it was the granddad (the boy's father) who collected the bride price in his house. My uncle did not even attend.

My uncle took the position that he did his best for the child's survival and happiness and avoided rancour.

It happened to my female cousin and life went on.

@ Bongadu, learn from your mistake.

blowjohn:
So sad.

Guys and gals pls and advice from me.

This is something I do.
If a gal visits me, I make sure she takes a direct drop back home and I make sure she sends a text that she's home.

Even before then, I make sure I accompany her to where she will enter the taxi, copy the plate number and watch them go.

But more importantly, I make sure I call and record her tell me she's back home.

The reason is simple. U know how gals are. They will always want to branch somewhere or meet someone else.


So that if anything goes wrong and the police track u frm ur last conversation u will have evidence that she left ur place alive.

That's something I have imbibed cos the times are really dangerous and gals have become even more desperate.

True. Girls can lie for Africa. From your house, she might go to another man. If something happens there and you are her last contact, nobody will believe your protestation of innocence.

I used to have a female platonic friend. People of her ethnic background are not positively disposed to Africans in relationship matters. She told me her family hated other races. But she was a very bright and nice girl. Those were student days.

Whenever she turned up at my house, and drunk at times, I would just let her relax in my crib. She would drink if having issues with her on again off again bf.

Later, I would ensure that I drop her off at home (literally to her sitting room or even bedroom if drunk) and her flatmates would see me take my leave.
I nor want any wahala.

Gerrard59:
Are you implying the marriage collapsed because of the husband's refusal to have another child? So which of them is in charge of the children's custody and well-being? Why did the man not do vasectomy? How is she coping now as a single mother of three children?

Sorry for my too many questions, I just find the tale interesting.

I don't believe the man needed vasectomy. Sure. he has part responsibility but remember the lady already decided before marriage. The lady tried to paint the hubby bad but knowing how hot she was about having many kids, I did not believe her. I even advised her after the second child to take it easy. I didn't know her hubby was saying same thing. She was still insisting on 4 kids minimum. She is not a single child as she has brothers and sisters.

She has just an average job and her hubby even had no job when she was preggy with first child. He got an average job later.

As for how she's coping, I have stopped asking o. She has custody. It was all very messy at the end. I can't waste my time on people who cannot heed a simple advice.

Couples should learn to be flexible and reach a consensus on many aspects in marriage: number of kids, taste, lifestyle, investment, etc.

jamesversion:
I just need 1 child, preferably a son and I'm OK. [b]All the small small girls around me are fantasising about having 4 & 5 kid[/b]s. I no blame dem sha, especially as they demand for something, I give ASAP.

I had female friend who said many years ago that she would have minimum 4 kids. She had no steady bf. Although she claimed no bf but you know ladies are not honest in such matters.
I advised that she should wait and agree that with her future hubby. She insisted it must be minimum 4 kids by fire by force. I just siddon look.

She married some years later.
She knack one pikin fiam! Like another 18 months, another pikin fiam!

Nor do nor do, a third pikin fiam!

Well, the hubby insisted on not having a third child but she did everything to have it. I only found out when the hubby began to avoid coming home until very late at night and marital problems started.

She is a single mother now.

Godsonkemz:
You never join the force and you are already giving out employment to others. Can you give what you don't have...

Nemo dat quod non habet.

Pecoleee345:
So once he can take care of her need at that point next thing Is to curse him??

Like is wig even something that important??

Abi o. Imagine if for some sudden difficulties the man cannot pay children's school fees 12 years into the marriage?

Na Okija abi Ijebu Ode the lady go go find correct Dibia/Babalawo/shrine to swear for the guy.

The guy made the best decision. Nor gree for any entitled nonentity.

Proudlyomonna:
Awon ole.
They didn't come out when the man was alive, the dead cannot defend themselves, so they have come with their ririri
Awon oni radarada oshi

Dude, Bisola and Agomoh spoke out years ago. Many years ago. I saw both on YouTube.

Dude, let us be objective.

The church should sue BBC for billions if not true.

What about the daughter of TB Joshua?
The truth is what matters. The matter should be Thoroughly investigated.

The guilty party should pay heavily. If it's BBC, they should be banned from 9ja totally too.

wink2015:
LACK OF CONTENT IN LIFE can lead one into his or her own DOOM !

Betta Edu failed herself and she will live with the bad name all her life.

Dude na lie. If you nor be "betta thief" you nor dey rise in 9ja corrupt politics.

She will even get a better deal codedly. Quietly on the low. Nor be 9ja again?

All of us have short memory. Plus election is still far away.

Nice123:
Considering the actions of this lady, a 37-year-old youth within her first 8 months in office, it's a stark realization of the state of our nation
At times, I reflect on whether there's any Nigerian, myself included, untouched by corruption, someone who wouldn't embezzle public funds if presented with the chance.

Who shall save Nigeria? The earlier we realised what we are doing to ourselves, the better for us. Clock is ticking, one day monkey go go market e no go return.

Abeg nor come wunjure me with laffta o.

Monkey wey lost for market road tey tey. Kikikikiki.

Simple answer: None.

Techwriter:
From Diezani to Beta it seems women's beauty is a measure of how corrupt they're. The more beautiful the more corrupt. Even Lucifer beauty is said to be corrupted

You need to remember that same beauty eased their way to the top.

Men who call the shots fall for beauty easily. Irrespective of whether the lady is married or not. Men just prefer to deal with pretty women. Same way women of any marital status would be more drawn to a very handsome guy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naQiJtBZF1Q?si=Pp6a0FytBlNbkLrr[/quote]This video on Italian Americans in very interesting.

Seun:
Women in government should forget about stealing. The men under them will be very happy to report them if they steal.

Good. Perhaps over time, or hopefully soonest, the women will be ratting on the corrupt men in govt too.

If men versus women corruption leaks will help reduce corruption, wonderful news to Nigerians.

Judolisco:
Why youths jst dey disgrace us like dis...
Shey na like dis we wan rule 2mrw?

Kikikikiki
Dey play.

You dey whine us.

Remember Dimeji Bankole? Babangida the HoR speaker (pioneer speaker in current Republic in 1999) of fake Toronto degree infamy nko?

The youth are doing what they learnt from father and grandfather generations. The youth are worse than the old cargos. If na so Gowon loot when ruling 9ja when at same age as Edu, Biafra would have overrun 9ja in no time. Maybe that for better pass sef as na failed state we get now.

Treasure17:
This is a violence year. No gree for anybody.

Leap year for that matter.

Hmmmmm. The guy get gay vibes.

Itsekhiri, Ika and Urhobo are quite rich too.

Tony Elumelu is a Delta Anioma man.

Executedbills:
Boss, you messaged me but I don't have access to this email. Kindly use the contact link below to reach me.

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I have used the contact link but I wonder why you don't have your business WhatsApp number here. Check out those CV writing and others offering services here on NL. Their WhatsApp make them easily accessible.

Totally insane.

The man should be jailed.

Besto:
How do you consider major, Sq Ldr and Lt Cdr as senior officers.

Snr officers starts from red neck

In normal armies, you would have been commissioned for at least 8 to 10 years to be a major.
You can even stand in for a Lt Col in the field.

The seniority of Major position is why being a captain is probably the longest part of the commissioned army officer ladder. People easily spend about 8 years as a captain, some more, some less. Commanding about 120 officers and soldiers nor be joke.

If they stand in for the Lt Col, they can be commanding around 600 to 650 men in some emergency situations.

The way I see it, from Major to Colonel are still not General Officers. So Only a Brigadier (One Star) really seriously cuts above the others (Major/Lt Col/Col).

I admit that regular Colonels typically don't command in the field and their liaison work at brigade or even higher level prepares them for the most senior jobs to come.

Being retired as a colonel must be very painful with One Star position so tantalisingly close.

letstalksense

Sorry to hear that but I commend the woman's honesty. Maybe she wants to start afresh with you.

However, it's always better to allow a lady come back from NYSC before talking about marriage. E get why.

Anyhow, a lady you already promised marriage, instead of asking after you when you didn't call, she followed another guy in camp. No concern or loyalty. Can you leave the type of woman in 9ja and go abroad and study for 6 months or a year?

Can you with peace of mind leave her in Lagos (if she works there) while you work in PH or Abuja?

Be realistic.

Dig deeper, investigate her. You need to know her much better.

SmartyPants:
Okocha never won major club honours - would have always been difficult for him. Mikel was never exceptional enough as an individual.

So it's sad our most gifted player was not accomplished enough, and our most accomplished player was not gifted enough.

Okocha was never really at the right place at the right time. Imagine if he joined AC Milan, Man U or Arsenal at that time. Or Even Ajax. Decisions and opportunity make a difference.

Whereas, Mikel was. But transformation of Mikel by Mourinho "de-marketed" Mikel somewhat but allowed him to become accomplished trophy-wise. Both were very cautious and probably underestimated their abilities a bit at first.

Okocha needed a bit more discipline in ball possession. A disciplinarian to shape his methods and nascent career back in Frankfurt would have helped greatly.