₦airaland Forum

jayAjoku:
If you are a man in Nigeria you hear this thing and you believe your girlfriend or fiancé is exempted you are in for a RUDE AWAKENING. That’s all I can say 😌😌

I dey tell men: If woman born for you and test show say na your own true true, just forget the rest.
Nothing woman nor fit do. Just know this and know peace.

I find these ladies far more attractive than the fake nyansh and fake eyelashes hook-up women of nowadays.

Oh, no wonder. These women had brains. Nowadays, their brain dey their clit.

fullclub:
yeah we have been going.
what i observed was the population.

you... you hardly see no Nigerians unlike Asians. in school you have to first count 50 Asians before you see a black man.

i observed that the British don't too fancy university degree so they are not much in school

You are most likely not in a top uni. Most of the foreigners choose MSc in just about any uni just to japa.
The British are doing well with just their BSc most times.

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

Dude, if you love yourself and the woman, go do that test right now.

If you have HIV you are good but if you delay it and let it turn to AIDS, oh buy sorry na your name, HIV test should be routine if you live such a rough sex life. Did you not fear infecting an innocent girl?
Why no condom? You hate yourself and life that much?

Yes, you can be extremely lucky and do rough play with 12 girls and not have BUT not advisable.

You can also be extremely unlucky and catch it from doing with only one girl.

BiGVEEN58:
Nigerian woman go follow you build wealth together?

My bloda, dem wan use laugh wunjure our enemy.

99% of women nowadays only come to reap where they didn't sow.
The only 1% ready to bring to the table choose yeye men.

What an irony.

Gbadugbakun:
Seun is married. It's him and his wife who are conducting the seminar. Can't you read and see their names.

Na wa o.

Those are Seun's relatives, haba!

JASONjnr:
How do these guys put on skirts and blouse and not feel gayish?

Who say many of them nor be?

gentposh:
Always make an inquiry on who you are dating... Past present social media and family background


Let me help you clone your spouse's Whatsapp and get their messages delivered directly into your own phone.

It's easy and affordable.

Zero eight one 130 seven seven one six seven

Hmmmmmm.
Is that legal?

Pickmycall:
She was enjoying his ritual money not knowing she will be next.
There was one girl like that who helped his yahoo boyfriend to receive fraud money into her bank account.She refused to give him the money until her boyfriend locked her inside the room and torture her to death.Girls Una stubborn.Y[b]our yahoo boyfriend dey torture you, still you no gree release him money until he killed you[/b].Haba mana!

Maybe her other boyfriend already scammed her of the money but she could not admit that to her yahoo boyfriend. Nor be human being again?

My own idea is simple. We are not wiser than our ancestors/parents.

It's the same food like pounded yam, amala,agidi, egusi, efor, ofe onugbu, tuwo dawa, kilishi, dodo, idika iko, okro/ogbono soup that our ancestors invented that we still eat. We couldn't with all our open eye invent anything new locally.

Our mother would greet our father and every other relative of our father (her in-laws or even call them her husband) irrespective of their age and gender. The younger in-laws can then knee down and greet her as mama.

Our kids observe what we do and that's how we imbibe culture.

Now, there are occasions when the wife might be very busy with something and you might see her first and greet.

There are very little things a wise woman can use to build her home.

A wise man should also know what is is really important to him/his marriage and correct a women with love.

My own idea is simple. We are not wiser than our ancestors/parents.

Our mother would greet our father and every other relative of our father (her in-laws or even call them her husband) irrespective of their age and gender. The younger in-laws can then knee down and greet her as mama.

Our kids observe what we do and that's how we imbibe culture.

Now, there are occasions when the wife might be very busy with something and you might see her first and greet.

There are very little things a wise woman can use to build her home.

A wise man should also know what is is really important to him/his marriage and correct a women with love.

oluwaseyi0:
Yet African elders will be claiming the world was better in their days and the children of nowadays are after money

When this so called older holy generation are the very same people that ran and still running this country aground

Mostly all the leaders and civil servants they produced are thieves of the highest order

Abeg, let me breath well before I laugh kwa kwa kwa.

At least since 1960, 9ja corruption has been bad and only got worse.

Murtala Mohamed destroyed civil service kpata kpata. He mass sacked those corrupt elements with a little conscience in 1975 and later we replaced them with very corrupt ones without conscience at all. Corruption has never looked back since.

9ja happened to Mohamed's good intentions.

chiagozien:
Why are rich Yoruba rushing to marry Igbo yorubas love to hate?

Among the well to do, no hate anywhere. Na hungry folks dey use tribalism show their frustration.
Other times, na just politics. Hustle for power, influence, resources and money.

Sonnobax15:

I've traveled across different states and towns in Nigeria.....And one thing I can proudly boast of is the fact that there's no enmity between an average igbo man and an average yoruba man.....

Na una wey manage get access to cheap phones dey come online on social media just to cause nuisance among una selves.........

Congrats to the new couple jare

Listen, even some bashing another tribe, it is a lady running buka in their street from the tribe he bashes that gave him rice, eba or amala for credit yesterday evening. If not he go dey hunger comma by now.

Instead of squarely facing the cause of their sapa and frustration, they will turn to tribe and religion.

Seun Osewa needs to exorcise the tribalism spirit wey dey Nairaland.

Congrats to the couple.

Yet, dem nor wan polygamy.

Our grandpas and grandmas lived to a ripe old age because they worked out what really worked.

But we that believe we are modern, we nor know wetin dey work in marriage.

So much about modernity.

Honoredeblazac:
It was part of TIV culture to do that and many of them
Still do so till date, but only among themselves.
Those days, if a fine man visits the house of an ugly man, the many will offer their wife as hospitality and so that he can have fine children. That’s why many light skinned TIV are thought to have Fulani blood as the men loved giving their wives to Fulani herders so they can breed beautiful kids - this is historical facts

Congrats to the winner and commiserations to the losers.

I hope Naira will soon be equal to 1 dollar.
Nor more distractions now.

Zionmdde:
Let's hold a mega rally for the victims of terrorism in Nigeria here first. Stupid idiots. If Christians also decide to hold their rally in support of Israel these same terrorists will start crying foul
.

No, that one nor concern them.

The thing religion has done to this country, only God knows.

seunmsg:
We don’t have the forex to defend the Naira quite alright but Nigerians are not helping matters. We have a dollar shortage crisis and Nigerians are busy stockpiling dollars at any amount simply for speculative reasons. What is going on is really scary.

We may hit 2k for a dollar before the end of the year with the way things are going. CBN needs to go back to the crude method adopted by Emefiele. Whatever it is they are doing with the PH and Dangote refineries, they should please hurry it up and start production. There will be a huge rally for the Naira once we stop importation of petroleum products. These are the short term measures to stop the free fall. Manufacturing what we need in Nigeria and for export is a long term solution.

The situation is a lot more complex now. We are borrowing too much to service debts. We are even borrowing to finance our huge recurrent expenditure. We are in arrears in dollars that we need to settle firms desiring to take out their profits.

These are very poor signs for a country unable to rely on large increases in tax intake such as income tax from millions of new employees annually or increase in millions of high earning companies. Yet demand for expensive imported goods, funding education of relatives and medical care abroad, increase, etc.

If FG wants to be honest, we are really in a tight spot. In a country where even a little currency devaluation causes considerable inflation, keeping the Naira relatively stable is imperative. Imagine how inflation will rise around Christmas once again this year.

Whether anybody likes or hates Obinomics, it's time for us to realise that we must drastically reduce importation, grow local production and gradually. Govt can subsidise locally produced goods for the time being.

mariovito:
Some people go just dey Jones.

1. A fiduciary relationship exists between a doctor and his patient, he breached that.

2. Professionalism demand you don't get into some things with your patient, he messed that too.

They should do more to him.

Even with a patient's relative, you must still be extremely careful.

Nor lose guard. Some black girls even openly go gaga for medics in same UK. Dem nor love you. Na your perceived status or belief that you get money.

A word is enough for the wise.

AfonjaConehead:
What the hell do you mean by "Afemesan",looks like you wanna partake in that eboh.

Edo(Benin) and Esan are one. Or it is Edo,Esan and Afemai.

Well, in MidWest/Bendel, Edoid people like Urhobo, Isoko, Okpe and others were part of it. Why should there not be more states for Edoid people as the population grows?

There are many states with Hausa people, many with Yoruboid people. I see as the logical way forward. People can continue to evolve their identities as they wish.

3ice9ce:
Edo doesn't have an Oba. There's only one Oba and he's the Oba of Benin, not the entire Edo state.

Edo= Benin.

Benin or Edo did not begin in August 1991.

Long after Edo State is gone, may be after Afemesan state is finally formed, it will still be Edo=Benin.

We are waiting for various peoples to go their separate ways so that people can finally own the names that belong to them historically. May be we can then focus on development instead of dragging names or superiority.

That aside:
Eben/sceptre is not used anyhow in Benin practice. Some other tribes even us it in burials and other occasions. Each culture has its rules.

Izoduwa should have known better. He's a decent guy and will learn his lessons.

If culturally allowed, then great.

danzaki63:
They do that all because of home sickness and Zimbabwean women are not cicirmcised. so Nigerian men dotes on them.

Okokobioko.

You are not calling them Philistines of old, albeit female version, are you?

Hohaiiiode:
This have nothing to do with this present conflict. The edom sited there don’t even exist anymore. You people are just bringing in bible into everything. This present day crises have nothing to do with the iselites and philistines biblical event. This who crises started in the late 40s. Except you want to lie to make yourself feel good. By the way the present nation state of Israel is not the only place exiled Jews were designated to return to it was the only place that it was succeful. Cyprus was even on of such places there were relocated to.

People forget that the Philistines (Egyptians call the place Peleset) of those days are not the Palestinians of today. People seem to forget that the people of the Philistine Pentapolis (Gaza, Ashkelon, Ekron, Ashdod and Gath (Goliath's hometown) were exiled like the Israelites. No evidence of them ever returning.

Today, all the modern Palestinians have is about 50% Canaanite genes, similar to Jews who were away from the area for about 1800 years.

Na wa.

Arda1000:
Funny how the ones that pray less are better than than the prayerful ones

Faith without work.......complete the rest.

hisexcellency34:
And men, don't check your wives phones too

Lol. That should have been his advise. Women now cheat far more than men.

pachigo001:

It's Benin language in Edo State. One of about 22 Edoid languages of Midwestern Nigeria.

Other related Edoid languages are Urhobo, Esan, Afemai, Isoko, Degema, etc.