₦airaland Forum

Nigeria is too big and unmanageable as we can all see. We just can't. Maybe it's our African mentality regarding power and money.

A behemoth that can't provide electricity, good healthcare, good education, good basic amenities and security of life and property after 63 years of independence is no use.

Let Biafra go if they want to.

Given a choice, most Nigerians would prefer to live in Norway, Sweden or Switzerland than Nigeria. Only Sweden has just over 10m people. Others are between 5 and 9m people.

Walehelt:
MOM:as you go barb now,see as you resemble beta pesin

Which parent doesn't say that?

MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

Sir, you mean the son of your 37 years old son or the same 37 years old son/man?

If you married at at the same age of 37, you would be 74 years old now. In 9ja, life expectancy is under 60. So do the kids of those who died at 60 or below seek permission to marry from parents' grave?

Is there some jazz that you don't want him to marry at 37?

This is not your daughter o oga. Or the bride will pay dowry on your son's head in your culture?

Oga face front.

Nice2023:
It could be that she is married and she and her husband arrange that but u never knew what they planned.

Very possible.

Oyel dey your head.

Whatisurproblem, the lady purposely didn't want you to know her house for a reason.

So you were just gbenshing a lady you didn't know her house raw.

No wonder diseases are much in town.

If you really want to know, act nice to meet up with you again and use a detective to trail her from that meeting with you.

Don't appear desperate or concerned or threaten her.

loffyloffy:
How can you be?

Is this the Aurtopsy report? Of what usefullness is this report, in resolving how the young man died?

Have they answered the basic of what he was being treated for? How long has he been receiving treatment? and what specific injections did the Auxilary nurse gave him? Any particular reason why he didnt go to to the hospital?

We should stop celebrating mediocre so called 'investigations' that the police is serving us

Calm down dude. Please pity them for they don't know any better.

Standards are so low that they celebrate anything.

quickberry:
Osimhen should leave the club in the summer

Gbam! No long thing.

Kaiser20:
Tinubu's criminal record and his Oluwole certificate pose a huge threat to young Nigerians seeking Visas to travel abroad.

Oh, it already is, even before this presidential forgery to be fair. Some European countries even doubt Nigerian passports issued by Nigerian embassies abroad.

emekajacobogbon:
How foolish some women think, always believing there's no trace to their secret doings, thinking they are smart. Not knowing that some men like me see more clearly in the darkest room. [b]My dear so far he didn't marry you a virgin, there's no trust anywher[/b]e.
Maybe you people used church doctrine to nail him down with no sex before nonsense, then after wedding he discovered that you are a borehole, never will he trust you again

Lol. Some Middle Eastern ladies who studied in the West go and do surgery to restore virginity after flenjo at university.

Even if you met her as a virgin, people do change. Especially after tasting how sweet it is, she might go wild.

Simply no trust anywhere.

Every half reasonable guy should do paternity test. Even if you met her virgin. People do change.

About 25% (a recent report says 26.2%) of all kids belong to another man and 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man.

Unless you are quite happy to raise kids for another man.

OBJ once said even Jesus would struggle to govern Nigeria.

If rail workers are openly doing this, civil servants and govt officials in their offices nko?

Truth is most people have aleady given up on 9ja. They are just carving up the carcass.

OK

RevDesm0ndJuju:
Late 19th century pics of Oba of Benin

In exile in Calabar.

Jewessgratitud3
I have no pity for your sister or most women in her situation. She must have been toasted by responsible guys but fell for one yellow pawpaw as fine boy. She was warned and knew he was useless.

Your sister too went as far as having 3 kids for an efulefu. She too lowkey is not serious. Perhaps only her responsible family background masked it.

We all have female relatives that didn't heed our advise when marrying yeye men. What pains me to the marrow is the pain their family (dad, mum, siblings) have to go through sorting the mess they got themselves into.

Sheggy13:
If the Thierry man is the deceased ex-husband, what right does he have to show up and start dragging with his ex-wife family on where to bury her. Am I missing something here? I thought being an ex-husband means marriage contract is over.

But with so many of her family members being accused of sexual abuse and to be excluded, and with such rancour, how many were left to speak with one voice in her family?

RIP to her.

mannobi:
useless racists. messi missed some penalty. ronaldo did and others their clubs didnt mock them. Alaye should wait till january move to a berra club. let their kavarakuta be winning them the league

Roberto Baggio missed his spot kick in WC final in USA 94 v Brazil.

I celebrated like 9ja just won the WC because of how Italy wickedly injured Amunike out of Round of 16 NGR v Italy game. Albertini and Mardini were kicking if it was a kickboxing match. Very dirty bunch of cheats.

Yakhi84:
He should have left last season.

You gave them the trophy but someone else was crowned king👑.

This is what you get for making the wrong decision!

Yes. A place like Bayern Munich or Dortmund would be great. To further build himself in another strong enough league. Then move on after 2 years to Real Madrid, Man City or PSG, depending on movements of Haaland and Mbappe.

It's very easy to flop in EPL, if playing for a top side and game time is limited.

tonicyril:
That is like saying u impregnated ur girlfriend and she born 2 pikins for u but her family came up with wahala and scater ur unionism

But after three years, u and ur girlfriend run go meet for faraway shagamu and continue ur unionism...

So it's still a win win for you,

[b]But imagine Ajax Amsterdam leading Go Ahead Eagles 2:0 and Go Ahead Eagles said they are not continuing again, so the went to FC Utretch with the 2:0 and continue the match with fc utretch no na[/b]a

No, na to carry 4:0 down to start with Twente abi RKC Waalwijk.

Werey!

Azeemokoya:
In Nigeria, as in many parts of the world, the dynamics of relationships and family structures have evolved significantly over the years. One of the most noticeable changes is the increasing number of single mothers in society.

While this trend is indicative of the strength of women who navigate the challenges of single parenthood, it has also sparked discussions about why some men may hesitate or even fear marrying single mothers.

Take for instance, Chidi, a young professional in Lagos, confessed that he once hesitated to date a single mother because he feared what his family and friends would say.

In Nigeria, like in many other societies, there exists a certain stigma attached to single motherhood. Traditional cultural norms often place a high value on the nuclear family unit, where children are raised by both biological parents.

https://newsroundtheclock.com/why-most-nigerian-men-fear-marrying-single-mothers/

If you can, avoid marrying a single mother. It does not matter why she is single. It also does not matter how young the kids are when you married their mum as people erroneously believe. They will soon know you are not their real father.

She might be grieving over a guy she loved or bitter over a guy who broke her heart. Either way, she's wounded. You are not to be mending a heart as a starting point in a relationship. Women only truly love their own biological child. Her love is primarily towards a child that is not yours before you even start.

This is not theory. I have seen it up close in several families. 40 to 60 years later, the men suffered in the hands of their stepchildren, especially if the men outlived the women. Step kids abandoned them.

The men used their youth/vital resources that could have built wealth/energy to help raise their stepchildren but whatever they did was NEVER enough.

Over the years, the men even had to become very careful when disciplining the step kids, otherwise accusations of being wicked because they were not their biological kids flew around.

Only an exceptionally good woman is worth marrying as a single mother. Because you can't be sure if the single mother you want to get involved with is among the exceptional 1%, it's a massive gamble. Not what a single guy should be doing. Frustration and ingratitude are almost certain ahead.

You can date a single mum but marriage, be extremely careful.

CJStarz:
Una see say village people don relocate abroad.😂😂😂

As in Japajantis.

Nice

My dear, the smell is real in some women.

Bacterial vaginosis causes serious fishy odour and fills the air after sex. The lady may not perceive it that much.

Most guys will never tell the woman and might avoid her after. Only a guy who truly understands the possible cause and likes/loves the girl enough will mention it to seek help.

But most guys don't know the cause and they just assume the girl is not clean enough.

rottenegg:
So, as we approach the year 2024, NPF still cannot afford "body bags"? They have to use a toddlers soft mat to carry a "body" from a crime scene!
SMH.

E be like say nor be 9ja you dey.
If they buy body bags as budgeted, which money will oga dem use to fly their numerous girlfriends to Dubai to shop, buy them houses in Lagos, Abuja, etc?

FRANKOSKI:
HMMMM NEVER MARRY A SINGLE MOM OR DAD EXCEPT THEIR PARTNER DIED .

You know wetin kill the partner?

Anything step------ My hand nor dey.

Phraences:
This is the honest truth. I see some testimonies from women who have been praying to settle down. Then all of a sudden someone proposes, maybe an old friend or someone they just met, and in three months they are married. Did you marry him because of love or because you are running out of time? Did he marry her because of love or because he feels it is time to settle down and birth the next generation? That’s why inability to conceive can destroy a marriage in Nigeria. If you never marry at a certain âge in this society you are a failure. If you don marry and you never conceive after some time you be failure. So people unknowingly imprison themselves because of society. However, men are lucky. Society has given them the power to cheat and not be held accountable so for a short time they can be free from the marital prison while the woman is shackled with taking care of the children and having to be a good wife and mother.

That na old story. That was before hook-up, Insta, X, Tinder and all that. Today, guys need a lesson in cheating from their wives.

bukatyne:
The fundamental question is 'was there love before the kids came'? 'Why did they get married in the first place?' etc.

Then you would have your answer.

Lol.
In this era that people marry to tick the box, achieve status expected by society or get security na im you dey mention love?

Wetin concern love for this matter, bikonu?

If the man nor careful, the child she dey shower with love fit be another man pikin sef.

Marriage na scam these days.

Any woman is likely to cheat: They just need time, exposure to randy men and opportunity.

It's not about how kind or caring her man is.

Plus 95% of women don't date or marry for love but for their own security, status and self-interest.

Remember: A wife or girlfriend is a total stranger you suddenly turned into a family member. In the name of love that is at best fickle and at worst has no meaning.

If the love and loyalty of a family member you grew up with is not even guaranteed, how can you ever bank on a total stranger you brought into your house?

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Coming125:
When a 70 yrs old man behaves very foolishly, someone old enough to be your father, what do you do? How do you handle it as an adult? You as an adult of say 35-47yrs. Some 70, 75 yrs old men and women behave very foolishly, very irresponsible, very cunning, very dishonest, very deceitful, trying to cheat you, to manipulate you, trying to use their old age to manipulate you or to intimidate you, etc.

The level of crime and immorality in our society is too much. Even old men are not spared anymore. If I continue to write I will spend the whole day writing. Let me just stop here.

What do you think?

Are you for real?

That generation/age group was never ever good for anything. Not any better than anyone 18 to 50 today. Only a miniscule number of them were ever responsible. The result is the messed up country we have today.

They messed up 9ja with corruption, yanshing their students, embezzling public funds. girlfriends all over town, you name any possible idiocy out there.

You were just fooling yourself to expect anything else.
Our culture of respecting age was based on old people being traditionally upright, honest and building society. Now most oldies hide under the toga of age to foment rubbish.

Our challenge today is this: How do we the younger generations not end up being another idiotic bunch of goons like the bolded?

ItisWell22:
Dropping a comment isn’t compulsory, especially when you’re ignorant about the topic being discussed.

My dear, I wonder some kind of youth we are producing.

The DGM worked hard to get to his position in the bank. I wonder where in the World a DGM would be seen as an underachiever. Except 9ja. In a serious country, should a VP earn more than a bank DGM?

Shettima belongs to one of the most elite families of Borno/Northern Nigeria.

The name Sir Kashim Shettima is known everywhere.

Its like someone from Samuel Ladoke Akintola family in South West.

It's someone like Tinubu, despite all the uncertainties around his person, that one must respect. He truly seems to have come from a humble background and worked his way up the murky waters of 9ja politics. Not this garrulous VP.

Tallesty1:
This becomes a problem when someone is involved in an accident, rendered unconscious, and then rushed to a hospital where a nurse administers treatment thinking the person has eaten

But if the person needs an urgent surgical procedure, empty stomach is an advantage.
If unconscious, medication administration will be by IV.

zebszebs:
May the last person to leave Nigeria, kindly turn off the lights.

[b]There won't be electricity sef, so no need.

Let us share the grace in fellowship[/b]

gaby:
Okay na...

Let's see how it goes.

Interesting times ahead.

Before this movie go end, dollar don climb reach 5k...lol

By then even Atiku or Obi go say dem no rule again....lol

Bad market. Especially "stingy (prudent)" Obi won't like bad market.