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Romance › Re: Guys Who Date These Types Of Girls. How Do You Cope?(Photo) by Dancebreaker: 4:47pm On Oct 10, 2023
Zonefree:
If your wife or girlfriend is working in a hotel, I just want to let you know that you're sharing her with numerous hotel guests daily.
Lol, dude, even the gentle looking one you have that is jobless, works in a school, hospital, bank or any corporate environment, you have zero guarantee that she's faithful. So don't even go there.
Politics › Re: Why My WAEC Certificate Bears Sadiq Abubakar’ – Atiku Responds To Forgery Allega by Dancebreaker: 4:43pm On Oct 10, 2023
descartes400:
The question is.. can one swear an affidavit on or over a forged document in this case(WAEC result) in order to authenticate or pass it off as legal?
Then the onus will be on WAEC and or school he attended to prove that the candidate that sat the exam is the same Atiku or not. This can't be too difficult. He sat the exam with other students, if indeed it was the same person.
Politics › Re: Why My WAEC Certificate Bears Sadiq Abubakar’ – Atiku Responds To Forgery Allega by Dancebreaker: 4:37pm On Oct 10, 2023
Jogs1900:
I know it's possible..If that is the case Tinubu is right to include Adekunle in some of his documents.Maybe he has an affidavit to cover up this too
Honestly, it's 9ja system that small things unnecessarily cause argument. You can have 5 middle names and at times some appear in some documents and not in others.

What matter are your genuine first name, surname and DOB. You can totally omit middle names or include any of them you like.

This is totally devoid of supporting one candidate/party or another.
Politics › Re: Why My WAEC Certificate Bears Sadiq Abubakar’ – Atiku Responds To Forgery Allega by Dancebreaker: 4:10pm On Oct 10, 2023
Jogs1900:
Something is not adding up here.
Does it mean I can use a particular name on my school certificates and later on change it to another name with an affidavit?
Actually you can. Affidavit is a legal document. Under Oath. Usually you need to advertise it in a national newspaper too. If found to be untrue, na jail.

In UK, you can change your name daily if you wish, using deed poll. But must adhere to the law.

Only that in 9ja, our way nor too pure. Many do it for dubious reasons, so they should also check Atiku well well.
Politics › Re: I Am Alive - Yakubu Gowon denies death rumours by Dancebreaker: 12:32am On Oct 10, 2023
Well, Jack was a boy when he became HoS. So I will excuse his naivety at Aburi and in dealing with Core Northern military elements especially Murtala Mohamed that never hid his disdain for Jack.

Why he didn't sack Mohamed remains a mystery, just like why Shagari didn't sack Buhari.

Too many Nigerians (Igbo are still Nigerians as of today) died under his watch for a Nigeria where Biafra and Yoruba Nation agitations are still very much alive over 50 years later.
Culture › Re: You Have A Yoruba And Non-yoruba Parent (SE, SS, Middlebelt ), Come In by Dancebreaker: 12:26am On Oct 10, 2023
GreaterFuture:
Specifically Yoruba and Non Yoruba,
This thread further sub specialises into Yoruba and SE or SS Origin.. for very Cogent, solid reasons

Before opening this thread, I meditated very well in it for a while before embarking on NL to do it.

Read what I asked for again, I did not concern myself with Anything Northern.
Edit your very annoying, stupidly worded Comment or completely remove it!

So many things have happened in the last years, that made me search for such
Oh, I can see why NLers totally ignored you. They probably know your uncouth character from previous threads.
Goodluck to you. shocked shocked shocked
Culture › Re: You Have A Yoruba And Non-yoruba Parent (SE, SS, Middlebelt ), Come In by Dancebreaker: 4:01pm On Oct 09, 2023
GreaterFuture:
Still Searching
Lol.
At least 25% of Nigerians must be such. Remember that the North has more tribes than the South. Adamawa, Taraba and Gombe alone have more than 100 tribes combined.

It's so common that it should not even be a topic.
Family › Re: What Would You Do If Your Partner Goes Out Against Your Wish!? by Dancebreaker: 3:03pm On Oct 09, 2023
concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??
Never ever trust any woman. I repeat: Never ever trust any woman. No matter how serious minded or innocent she appears to be.

Some of us learnt our lessons the hard way. Don't be like us.

They bank on men's trust to mess about.

Take it or leave.

She has no respect for you. Unless she houses and feeds you. A female colleague more important than you is not the reason she went out. It's a ruse.

God bless the very few good women out there.
Politics › Re: Olisa Agbakoba: This Madness Of Chicago State University Must Stop Now! by Dancebreaker: 2:54pm On Oct 09, 2023
Money is powerful o. shocked shocked
Culture › Re: Did You Know Of Benin by Dancebreaker:
Evboesi:
in all your getting, get education, in a bid for desperation, you sound uneducated, there are communities speaking Benin alone that got their enogie that same year, in fact in that year five communities got their enogie in 1988 the same year ologbo got theirs.

If the Oil companies in Ologbo recognize itsekiri as whatsoever, i don’t have any fact on that, i can’t play into your hands, there are several versions of this history and there are thousands of Binis who call Ologbo home and nowhere else. That is what matter to us, you cannot take their land anywhere, they will rather die than have that happen.


The material never talked about an itsekiri ownership of Ologbo, it talked about the fact that there are itsekiri waterside villages after ologbo. There is a comma after ologbo,and there is and


“South of Benin city was the Benin sapele road which passed through Ologbo, and Itsekiri waterside villages
Nor mind that guy. I physically knew Ologbo well enough before HRH Dr. Ekiawogho Akenzua was made Enogie. The Oba can today appoint any prince of his choice to become the enogie of any community he feels needs that kind of leadership. At his own discretion only.

There are many villages that have no Enogie till today. But virtually every Village has an Odionwere. Even the first leaders in Benin were Odionweres. Oba/king came later as society developed, expanded and needed a more central power.
According to history, even the first Ogiso was formerly an Odionwere.

Some villages were previously not large enough to warrant an Enogie. Others were strategic in the service or product they rendered to the kingdom that the palace wanted a more direct control through the Odionwere. Additionally, some communities had an Ohen or Priest/Chief Priest which the Oba appointed and some hereditary but confirmed each time by the palace. That provided enough leadership.

Udo community has an Iyase and Uwangue as deputy. It has no Enogie. Though the Iyase act as a quasi-Enogie, but strictly speaking he is not an Enogie and not a member of Enigie conference. This has been the case since the demise of Arhuaran, the giant Benin prince and last substantive Enogie/duke of Udo.
Fashion › Re: Cowries: How Do You See Ladies That Use This On Their Hair? by Dancebreaker: 5:30pm On Oct 08, 2023
seuncyrus:
Anything with cowries or bead, or even anything African at all is automatically deemed fetish . The colonial masters really fvcked our mentality up men.
All those gringo did a thorough job, Aswear. They even used Vim to do the brainwash.

As a guy, I sported my cowrie for years.

Too many dudu too mumu these days.
Sports › Re: I Don't Like When Women 'toast' Me —Victor Osimhen by Dancebreaker: 1:39pm On Oct 08, 2023
wrongnumber:
" if you're not bringing anything to the table, I'm not doing anything. I cannot buy a Birkin bag for a girl now; Birkin bag of how much, 100k, and reach my turn, you are telling me a king is born.”

This cracked me up. grin
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy
Autos › Re: Mercedes Benz Of The 1960s, 1970s And 1980s Which Was Your Favourite? by Dancebreaker: 12:39am On Oct 08, 2023
Vawulenceee:
Why is benz 190 and vBoot missing?
I wonder. How can anyone make such omission? shocked shocked shocked shocked

I can't even see Shagari Benz there. shocked shocked
Family › Re: Wife Gifts Her Husband Her Entire Savings (pics/video) by Dancebreaker: 12:35am On Oct 08, 2023
We men too mumu.

Hope the woman is not feeling guilty about something she did. Nor be woman again?

If she's really clean and did it as a genuinely good wife, God bless her.
Politics › Re: Biafra: We’re Ready For Talks On Referendum, Says IPOB by Dancebreaker: 12:30am On Oct 08, 2023
Nigeria is too big and unmanageable as we can all see. We just can't. Maybe it's our African mentality regarding power and money.

A behemoth that can't provide electricity, good healthcare, good education, good basic amenities and security of life and property after 63 years of independence is no use.

Let Biafra go if they want to.

Given a choice, most Nigerians would prefer to live in Norway, Sweden or Switzerland than Nigeria. Only Sweden has just over 10m people. Others are between 5 and 9m people.
Nairaland General › Re: Things That Sound Like Compliments But Are Actually Insults. by Dancebreaker: 4:12pm On Oct 07, 2023
Walehelt:
MOM:as you go barb now,see as you resemble beta pesin
Which parent doesn't say that? grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy
Family › Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Dancebreaker: 3:43pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
Sir, you mean the son of your 37 years old son or the same 37 years old son/man? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

If you married at at the same age of 37, you would be 74 years old now. In 9ja, life expectancy is under 60. So do the kids of those who died at 60 or below seek permission to marry from parents' grave? shocked shocked

Is there some jazz that you don't want him to marry at 37?

This is not your daughter o oga. Or the bride will pay dowry on your son's head in your culture? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Oga face front.
Family › Re: A Lady Ran Away With My Pregnancy. by Dancebreaker:
Nice2023:
It could be that she is married and she and her husband arrange that but u never knew what they planned.

Very possible.
Oyel dey your head.

Whatisurproblem, the lady purposely didn't want you to know her house for a reason.

So you were just gbenshing a lady you didn't know her house raw. shocked shocked shocked

No wonder diseases are much in town.

If you really want to know, act nice to meet up with you again and use a detective to trail her from that meeting with you.

Don't appear desperate or concerned or threaten her.
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad Vomited, Developed Goosebumps After Three Injections – CP by Dancebreaker: 12:37am On Oct 07, 2023
loffyloffy:
How can you be?

Is this the Aurtopsy report? Of what usefullness is this report, in resolving how the young man died?

Have they answered the basic of what he was being treated for? How long has he been receiving treatment? and what specific injections did the Auxilary nurse gave him? Any particular reason why he didnt go to to the hospital?

We should stop celebrating mediocre so called 'investigations' that the police is serving us
Calm down dude. Please pity them for they don't know any better.

Standards are so low that they celebrate anything.
Sports › Re: Thierry Henry Brands Osimhen's Napoli Video Racist - Says Video Not A Joke by Dancebreaker: 2:50pm On Oct 05, 2023
quickberry:
Osimhen should leave the club in the summer
Gbam! No long thing.
Politics › Re: "Tinubu Attended CSU But Forged Certificate Submitted To INEC" - Kperogi by Dancebreaker: 2:32pm On Oct 05, 2023
Kaiser20:
Tinubu's criminal record and his Oluwole certificate pose a huge threat to young Nigerians seeking Visas to travel abroad.
Oh, it already is, even before this presidential forgery to be fair. Some European countries even doubt Nigerian passports issued by Nigerian embassies abroad.
Romance › Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Dancebreaker: 11:51pm On Oct 04, 2023
emekajacobogbon:
How foolish some women think, always believing there's no trace to their secret doings, thinking they are smart. Not knowing that some men like me see more clearly in the darkest room. [b]My dear so far he didn't marry you a virgin, there's no trust anywher[/b]e.
Maybe you people used church doctrine to nail him down with no sex before nonsense, then after wedding he discovered that you are a borehole, never will he trust you again
Lol. Some Middle Eastern ladies who studied in the West go and do surgery to restore virginity after flenjo at university. grin cheesy

Even if you met her as a virgin, people do change. Especially after tasting how sweet it is, she might go wild.

Simply no trust anywhere.
Romance › Re: Is It Right For A Husband To Conduct Paternity Test Secretly? by Dancebreaker: 11:46pm On Oct 04, 2023
Every half reasonable guy should do paternity test. Even if you met her virgin. People do change.

About 25% (a recent report says 26.2%) of all kids belong to another man and 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man.

Unless you are quite happy to raise kids for another man.
Travel › Re: NRC Employees Lured Us To Board Train Without Tickets - Daramola Adenike by Dancebreaker: 1:49am On Oct 04, 2023
OBJ once said even Jesus would struggle to govern Nigeria.

If rail workers are openly doing this, civil servants and govt officials in their offices nko?

Truth is most people have aleady given up on 9ja. They are just carving up the carcass.
Politics › Re: Celebrations In Nasarawa As Court Sacks APC’s Gov. Abdullahi Sule (VIDEO) by Dancebreaker: 4:56pm On Oct 02, 2023
OK
Politics › Re: Vintage Nigeria Pre-Independence Photos by Dancebreaker: 12:11pm On Oct 02, 2023
RevDesm0ndJuju:
Late 19th century pics of Oba of Benin
In exile in Calabar.
Family › Re: My Sister Married An Efulefu. What Should She Do? by Dancebreaker: 12:09am On Oct 01, 2023
Jewessgratitud3
I have no pity for your sister or most women in her situation. She must have been toasted by responsible guys but fell for one yellow pawpaw as fine boy. She was warned and knew he was useless.

Your sister too went as far as having 3 kids for an efulefu. She too lowkey is not serious. Perhaps only her responsible family background masked it.

We all have female relatives that didn't heed our advise when marrying yeye men. What pains me to the marrow is the pain their family (dad, mum, siblings) have to go through sorting the mess they got themselves into. shocked shocked
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zoleka Mandela Buried Amidst Sexual Abuse Scandal in the Family (PICS) by Dancebreaker: 3:43pm On Sep 30, 2023
Sheggy13:
If the Thierry man is the deceased ex-husband, what right does he have to show up and start dragging with his ex-wife family on where to bury her. Am I missing something here? I thought being an ex-husband means marriage contract is over.
But with so many of her family members being accused of sexual abuse and to be excluded, and with such rancour, how many were left to speak with one voice in her family?

RIP to her.
Sports › Re: Italian Journalist Marika Fruscio Pleads With Nigerians Over Osimhen by Dancebreaker: 4:54pm On Sep 29, 2023
mannobi:
useless racists. messi missed some penalty. ronaldo did and others their clubs didnt mock them. Alaye should wait till january move to a berra club. let their kavarakuta be winning them the league
Roberto Baggio missed his spot kick in WC final in USA 94 v Brazil.

I celebrated like 9ja just won the WC because of how Italy wickedly injured Amunike out of Round of 16 NGR v Italy game. Albertini and Mardini were kicking if it was a kickboxing match. Very dirty bunch of cheats.
Sports › Re: Serie A: Oliseh Advises Osimhen To Quit Napoli Over Tiktok Video by Dancebreaker: 12:29pm On Sep 29, 2023
Yakhi84:
He should have left last season.

You gave them the trophy but someone else was crowned king👑.

This is what you get for making the wrong decision!
Yes. A place like Bayern Munich or Dortmund would be great. To further build himself in another strong enough league. Then move on after 2 years to Real Madrid, Man City or PSG, depending on movements of Haaland and Mbappe.

It's very easy to flop in EPL, if playing for a top side and game time is limited.
Romance › Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Dancebreaker: 12:18pm On Sep 29, 2023
tonicyril:
That is like saying u impregnated ur girlfriend and she born 2 pikins for u but her family came up with wahala and scater ur unionism grin cheesy

But after three years, u and ur girlfriend run go meet for faraway shagamu and continue ur unionism...

So it's still a win win for you,

[b]But imagine Ajax Amsterdam leading Go Ahead Eagles 2:0 and Go Ahead Eagles said they are not continuing again, so the went to FC Utretch with the 2:0 and continue the match with fc utretch grin grin grin no na[/b]a
No, na to carry 4:0 down to start with Twente abi RKC Waalwijk. cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin

Werey!
Romance › Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Dancebreaker:
Azeemokoya:
In Nigeria, as in many parts of the world, the dynamics of relationships and family structures have evolved significantly over the years. One of the most noticeable changes is the increasing number of single mothers in society.

While this trend is indicative of the strength of women who navigate the challenges of single parenthood, it has also sparked discussions about why some men may hesitate or even fear marrying single mothers.

Take for instance, Chidi, a young professional in Lagos, confessed that he once hesitated to date a single mother because he feared what his family and friends would say.

In Nigeria, like in many other societies, there exists a certain stigma attached to single motherhood. Traditional cultural norms often place a high value on the nuclear family unit, where children are raised by both biological parents.

https://newsroundtheclock.com/why-most-nigerian-men-fear-marrying-single-mothers/
If you can, avoid marrying a single mother. It does not matter why she is single. It also does not matter how young the kids are when you married their mum as people erroneously believe. They will soon know you are not their real father.

She might be grieving over a guy she loved or bitter over a guy who broke her heart. Either way, she's wounded. You are not to be mending a heart as a starting point in a relationship. Women only truly love their own biological child. Her love is primarily towards a child that is not yours before you even start.

This is not theory. I have seen it up close in several families. 40 to 60 years later, the men suffered in the hands of their stepchildren, especially if the men outlived the women. Step kids abandoned them.

The men used their youth/vital resources that could have built wealth/energy to help raise their stepchildren but whatever they did was NEVER enough.

Over the years, the men even had to become very careful when disciplining the step kids, otherwise accusations of being wicked because they were not their biological kids flew around.

Only an exceptionally good woman is worth marrying as a single mother. Because you can't be sure if the single mother you want to get involved with is among the exceptional 1%, it's a massive gamble. Not what a single guy should be doing. Frustration and ingratitude are almost certain ahead.

You can date a single mum but marriage, be extremely careful.

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