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The slap was hawt!

She needs a resetting resounding slap to bring back the love....

Truth be told, there are times in marriage when you feel like that. But, it is not for you to end your marital union. It is to reivigorate the love and make it better

They need you in marvel series... Don't waste your talent

Uche7779:
Please forgive me, I had to create a new moniker for this purpose.

While I was pondering over the trajectory of my life, I remembered that a problem shared in a problem solved. I would try and make it brief .

My predicament started exactly on August 19th 2022, when I needed to pay for mum's surgery. After raising funds from legitimate sources, I was short of about =N=300k. So I decided to patronise online lending Apps. Little did I know this would mark the beginning of my issues in life.

From that day till now, I saw myself struggling. I net over 432k monthly and those funds and commissions and many more borrowed funds were constantly thrown to the wind as I was struggling to repay loans every 7 or 14days. Rent was abandoned, I barely feed my family, school fees all mounting. Yet all monies and more were going to lending platforms.

A breath of fresh air. When Fccpc announced the licensing of some 117apps, I told myself, this may be all I need to exit this financial bondage. So I reached out and started negotiating with them. A few listened and a few outrightly shut the doors. Since most have been licensed i decided to brave it and start looking for money instead of taking from Peter to repay Paul.

Then came the worst, last two weeks a wassap message tagging me a FRAUDSTER was shared to some of my wassap contacts. It was the lowest moment in my entire life. The embarrassment was unbearable, colleagues, friends, acquaintances. A 10 year career is currently being threathened. At some point I felt like resigning, but my wife stopped it.

So today I became too depressed that I asked my wife to consider leaving me, since I could no longer cater for the home and play my role as man. She has been crying since I told her this.


As a man I am in the lowest point of my life as a human being and I need all the encouragement I can get.

If God touches your heart to help me in anyway please dm.

Regardless of all these challenges, my faith in God will not waiver..

400k plus and embarrassment by loan app is what is making you depressed? I pray for you that may you not see real shege and may Nigeria not happen to you financially.

Anyways, brace up and good that you still have a source of income. Start paying up gradually, none of them will kill you.

Secondly, don't ever repeat that your statement to your sypportive wife ever again.

Thirdly, try to sought out alternative source of income to augument what you are presently making.

Above all, I pray for you that may God almighty restore your finances and turn your down moment to end in joy! Cheers bro

lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

Fineman2:
What do you think about this situation that she has found herself in? What would you advice?

Hello Omajuwa. I am a 28-year-old orphan who got married about a year ago. I had to resign my job so as to relocate to Ibadan after our wedding. 5months into our marriage, my husband was laid off his job. His family has since been there for us. Even his best-friend who was not in support of our union before we got married has been helpful.

Since my husband lost his job, he gets angry at the slightest provocation and we fight almost everyday of the week. The fight we had few weeks ago was the most heated we have ever had. He slapped me and said a lot of hurtful things such as calling me bad luck, then locked me outside. I had nowhere to go.

So I called his best-friend to plead with him. It was futile. His friend who is single took me to his home. My tears were uncontrollable. While trying to be supportive, one thing led to another, and we had sex. Since then, we have all been living like that night never happened. My husband never apologized and things are still the same.


However, a few days ago, I found out that I am pregnant. How do I tell my husband who does not have a job that we are about to have a child in our condition? How do I know who the child belongs to between them? Do I get rid of it? Could the pregnancy be a chance at a better life with his friend who is financially bouyant? Is this marriage still worth saving? What do I do? Please help me.

In Ibadan, this is what they call Ogbenutan...

PGOforpresident:
I made this post in this section because here is where I will get attention.

I chatted with the golden chance lotto Facebook page,that I want to register as a sub-agent,they ask me to meet an agent to register with me and give me terminal.

But I have search through Benin city,there's none here.I ask the Facebook representative to give any of their agent contact but he refuse.

My People how can I get Thier agent contact,I want to register as soon as possible,I have a good location,a very busy location.

I shop will sell ticket from 7am to 7pm everyday except on Sunday when I will resume by 1pm after church services.

Please help me out,I want to register.

Seun , mynd44, Dominique. Golden chance lotto have not office in edos state,I'm ready to register with an agent in nearby states like delta or Anambra.

Why not search for the company's address online instead and contact them directly rather than on fbk

Ademide0907:
I am writing this out with pains and depression
I have been working all my life but no avail to be successful,I have tried all means but still I feed from hand to mouth..I travelled out of Nigeria last two year to Kenya for greener pastures but still no progress so I had to come back home with the little I have..to cut the long story short ,I went to this herbalist in oyo state to seek spiritual assistance on how to be successful,I met him on Facebook and he gave me a white calabash,I took it home ,it was different thing that was there when he gave me but on the second day ,I met something different inside the calabash,I was surprised and being foolish to think he is real ,I returned back to him this is how my problem started,he ripped me 500k and the third day I was arrested for something I never did and police took 300k for bail,later that week thief attacked the house I live and made away with my phone and other things..like this am attempting suicide because no hope anymore,my account balance is 0.00,I borrow money from loan apps recently to be able to survive..Will end it all,in my next life I pray I experience good things

Eeeya... So you had 500k to give herbalist and 300k to bail yourself from police custody. You are a big boy!

On a good day, I would have called you a mumu but sh*t happens in life, so I wouldn't do that.

So, let's look for a solution to your issue first...

Try to get a job no matter how little to start with, at least, tht will keep you alive. Then, afterwards contact me if you still have a laptop let me teach you how to help students secure admission abroad, help them with study loan and application for study permit.

You can make good money by so doing...


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Secondchance123:
I have gotten one very nice one

That's a good one... Glad you got a good one

I hope Remi will not also get to be screaming out that there are Cabals in the villa

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Hello,
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Nature played a fast one

noziz:
Good morning nairalanders, a lady very close to me fell for a scam. She got a lady's whatsapp number from one of these social media, she claims to sell bags, shoes and other wears. she always put pictures of her wears on whatsapp status. So this lady close to me had interest to buy some of these wears for resale. They chatted on whatsapp and even talked on phone and the agreement was pay before delivery. This lady close to me sent the money to the account she sent to her. Unfortunately the goods were not delivered to her. My friend called her back that she was yet to receive the goods she now told her that she needed to add more goods to the ones she selected that they can't deliver such small amount of goods at this time my friend knew she was a fraudster. She no longer reply my friend on whatsapp, she doesn't even pick her call again. Here is the scammer's no 07026905748 below is the picture she put on whatsapp profile. Pls nairalanders my friend needs help on how to reclaim her money from this scammer. She doesn't want to involve the police as they may also extort her...

Police is your friend on this... But be ready to pay

All I will say is that you should learn to fight and win your battles...

Fineman2:
My name is Garba. I am from Borno State while my ex-wife’s name is Lara and she is from Ilesha in Osun State. We got divorced after giving birth to two children, a boy and a girl.

I used to visit my children when their grandmother was alive, but unfortunately after her death my ex-wife relocated to Festac, and I don't know where she moved to.

I went to see her aunt who pleaded with her to allow me to see my children but all to no avail. I planned to report the matter to a human rights organisation but I don't have her contact nor do I know her address, so there is no means of reaching her.

I tried so hard to contact some of her friends but all have yielded no result. It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much and the thoughts of not hearing from them has made me sad and confused.

Please, what should I do?

Still speak to a human rights organization... Try to get her pictures maybe from facebook and leave the rest to them.

All you need is a court order to declare her wanted

If your coin is genuine as claimed... kindly stae your price

Starlink had not yet approved agents for Africa

aysnoopy:
I'm depressed and I don't know why suicide keep coming to my mind.
God.....

what's are the issues you're going thru that is making you depressed?

Reachout to me...

Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!! In portable's voice

Foxyfox:
Good evening forum, pls I need a word of advice pls, and it's affecting me seriously.
It happens whenever I and my fiance had little misunderstanding, I will start saying I am not doing again that he should go.

My fiance is an elderly person who is unproblematic and I respect him so much. I love him with all my life, but I don't know why at any little thing I am angry at, I will start saying I am not doing again.
Pls is there anyone who has passed through such attitude and how do you caution yourself on this attitude.?

When you are angry... Don't talk till your boiling comes down from d boiling point to like 30 degrees celcius. Then speak

Redomi:
I am from Ondo, I sent money to a company in Ibadan for 3 pieces of herbicide on 08/05/2023, I got my parcel on 09/052023.
When I opened it, all was expired product, I want to take a legal action against them, what if I didn't checked the expired date and I used it on my crop, imagine how much lost I would have gotten

Speak to your lawyer, if you dnt have one..., walk into a chamber to consult one

frozen70:
Exactly, you have given him the advice he has been looking for

And is the advuce a good or bad one?

Let me hear a lady's perspective

covirade:
Hello All,

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- Join ALX Data Science Whatsapp Group
- Join ALX Data Analyst Whatsapp Group

See you in the groups.

Thank You

This has gotten people thrown out of the program in time past

manee2:
My ex broke up with me while I was hosting her brother, and she's married now.
I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them.
As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house.
About 3 months ago she contacted me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother.
He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.

Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.

Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus.
Although he is supportive, but he has Diogenes syndrome.
Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask her to leave my space.

Simple... Bro, my village people are coming to visit and you don't want them to meet you here bro!!! They strong gan

RealSolution001:
I don't intend to run a polygamy or just to birth children from different women.

You have given the answer to your question... So, follow your heart as you have just stated

Life happens... We must just always hope for the best