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RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes.

No insult please.

Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

concho:
When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar

Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .

Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .

I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .

We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .

On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .

On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago

I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .

She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .

I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .

This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one

If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .

How do I start nailing her please ??

Get your lawyer involved in her matter... Sue her

Tjra:
In Yoruba culture, once you lose your parents or loved ones, people advise you not to allow people condoling with you place their hands on your back for whatsoever reason after the burial.

Can the 'spirit of death' really be "Transferred" from one person to another by mere placing of hands? 😲

Like to hear from the house.

I have 2 words for this 'Superstitious Superstition'

Foremans:
if you may, can you drop your email?

mikkyletty@gmail.com

Foremans:
This is very folly of me. I guess I carried my folly attitude to my new life.

I don't expect you to believe me, but if you do, I assure you am being honest. I don't like any of these and I just want to die but can't kill myself.

There is this lady that happened to like me in a strange way and even though I tried to push her away she always came back. I treated her in a way to deter her from talking to me but she kept coming.

One day, we were in my house watching movie when the light went off. Boredom stepped up and when she asked me why I was mostly quiet, I told her my secret. In strict confidence.

She laughed and didn't believe me until I took my phone and showed him an obituary poster years ago posted by my brother on Facebook. She freaked out and was shouting... I begged her to calm down that I can't hurt her and that am still human... I even told her that anything she does can affect my existence. She panicked even though I later lied to her that it was my twin brother that died.

Two days back, I knew she chatted my brother on Facebook and he told him about me, even though the girl didn't tell him about my existence. I just knew all these. I called her line but she stopped picking. Yesterday she told her friend and her pastor. I know because I have this natural knowledge about everything that concerns my existence.

Now I have to move somewhere else. I don't know how to go about it. I can't disappear, I don't have any power and I can't do anything aside humanly.

It either I look for money somehow or I have to just run and face anywhere my leg can takes me to...

This may be my last post.

Reach out to me

IkeIgboNile:
This is the first topic i have created since i joined this forum.
For a while now, my mind has been restless, i haven't spoken to my father since i left his house on January 5 2023. We had an argument and i left some days later. I wasn't angry when i left, i just wanted to give him space and find my own way as a man. Though I'm his first born son and his exact replica but we are so different and share very different views.
Some days ago, i called him and was very angry at me and ended the call before i could say anything and he has refused to pick up my calls since then.
I really don't understand why he's angry at me or why he's not taking my calls but i have decided to stop calling him and let him be.

Please any positive advise,will be greatly appreciated.

Go and see him and apologize if you have to. Not because you are wrong, but because he is your father and he will not be worth you forever.
When you become a father, you'll understand better

She has paid her dues

ahnie:
Una don dey make fear catch person for here o.for God sake,it's 9:20pm Nigerian time and no light.



Pls kindly take the pics down.

Delta pikin no dey fear mama

gimakon2:
600,000 Naira for dates. I have never laughed so hard when one opened his Septic tank to say such!
My points and plans exactly, possibly third country into U ofA.

What you think?

Visit Canada where you get 6months, then you apply for USA from inside Canada

gimakon2:
Date is the enemy. Just making it look like i do not know jackshit what i am doing.

If you are in lagos, visit the environs of the US embassy, there are some agents there. They have booked almost all the available dates for appointments and they resell to people. US is the best right now for Tourists visa but if that is proving difficult, consider maybe canada

RealityBender:
All the idiots running your country have dual citizenship but you wanna be answering ‘Nigerian’ on foreign jobs knowing fully well that ‘some will run’ like you put it. Facts is that those that will run is where the money is. Dey play with hunger you hear!

And when did the idiots running my country become my role model? Thank God we are not hungry. Cheers!

gimakon2:
Hi,

Thank you very much for the very concrete answers and explanations. I have a US Dorm with Access Bank and UBA I use for receiving salaries from my Remote work. Just the access Bank has Visa Debit, the UBA does not. I think I'd go for the Access then.

Just made some travel history of recent, so I think I'd go for Tourist visas at this point for Business meetings.

Advice.

Tourist Visa is good especially if your focus is on US. (You get 5years)

IgiveFreebies:
I sell NFTs and I dropped a link to my opensea collection on Twitter. A tweep asked that I contact him box via dm. I did.
He asked where I'm from, I mumuishly said Nigeria. Na so I chop block o😭 😭
See the chats

It is disheartening.... I have lost a lot of prospective business transactions cos of this.
But for me, if I'm truthful enough to tell you that I am a Nigerian, the rest is your headache. Some will stay while some will run

Lesson: Life is dynamic

SultanOfAbia:
Mumu, my uncle wey get better money
He said he tried all different types of meat beef barbecue in Estonia but none of them come close to our nigerian suya.
He was telling us that if he find a way to start suya business that even estonia people will rush him

Well, if he does not mind, I can be exhorting the spice to him in Estonia and teach him how to get it done

Mambo4real:
Core i3
Windows 10 installed
250 gb Hdd, 4gb Ram

50k....

Interested? whatsap or call 08037798712

where is your location?

quickhubservice:
I need it sold B4 end of the week
Correct dell latitude 7480 for very fast distress sales
Price is ₦150k it is Abit negotiable.
Specs:
14' touchscreen FHD screen
16gb RAM
256gb ROM
Intel core i5
Long lasting battery
Windows 11
Lightweight and very portable
Comes with shipping receipt and very neatly packaged
My contact is on my bio
Location is Abịa State
way billing option to any state available

Very interested but I have only 100k

lilachiever:
Toshiba Portege Z30
8GB RAM, 128GB SSD
Core i5-6th Gen
Fingerprint
Wifi
Bluetooth
Webcam
Keyboard Light
Full HD Display (1920×1080)
Very Slim laptop
Laptop and Charger
100K 🔒
2pcs

Ilupeju, Lagos.
WhatsApp/Call: 090_17205047.

Is it negotiable and can you deliver to the island?

ecolime:
Only Supermarket, Pharmacy & Hair saloon and fast food to an extent move well in closed estates.

Other Business type doesn't really move like that. Just study your environment and come up with 4 things that takes people out of the estate on weekends most especially.

Those 4 Biz I listed are your surest bet.

Home cylinder pickup and delivery of cooking gas service.


Keep the thanks... Just send in your tithe[

covirade:
Hello All,

This thread will serve as a journey for me on my quest of becoming a Data Scientist or Data Analytic, which ever comes first.
I applied for the ALX Data science programming and after going through the rigorous process, i am still wondering why iut had to be that hard.

I received a congratulation mails some weeks later. To cut the long story short...

Today was the first Karibu session and i had mine here in Lagos, amidst the heavy downpour. Normally, i would stay at home but i think the hope for a new beginning was to inspiring that i braced the rain.

Did you have your own Karibu today? how was the rain and what do you expect from the program? 15V months is a long time but like i always say...

Time will tell

Nice one... I am an alimni of the virtual Assistant program and I also enrolled for Data analytics. Unfortunately, I couldn't attend the Karibu today cos of the downpour.

How did it go over there?

culf:
Make una dey stop all these things abeg, some marry at forty and immediately conceive and give birth while others marry at 20 and waited for years.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on people abeg.

I wonder oooo... In a country like Nigeria where the average age to graduate from university is 23

gimakon2:
Greetings ,

So which card does CIC accept online. Those times I used to get refusals, I used the naira MasterCard with Zenith Bank to make payments. But buhari administration has been the most useless of all, and now we are just lost in everything we doing.

So I wanted to ask, what cards are accepted on that website for payments of visa fees. Please let me know.

None of your Naira debit cards will work... You need a dollar card

It is very very unfortunate

Sacking him was the dumbest decision in modern football era

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

All you need is to carry yourself with confidence... Public validation should not matter

Their country, their problem...

If these allegations are true, then he deserves a long jail term

One of the few occurrence of nature

seiyefajohn:
THIS IS A LESSON FOR ALL***

IKE EKWEREMMADU'S LIES THAT GOT HIM SENTENCED AND MADE DAVID THE VICTIM.

David Ukpo Nwamini is the 21-year old Lagos street hawker who was to give his kidney to Ekweremadu’s daughter IN London. When he was interviewed at the hospital in London, they asked him if he knew he was to donate his kidney to Sonia Ekweremadu. He first told them that he had no money to donate. They explained to him that it was his kidney that he was to donate. He asked them what was kidney. Initially, the doctors thought it was a question of language, since David’s English was not good enough. However, they eventually understood that David did not know which human organ was called kidney. In other words, he did not know what organ he was to give Sonia. That led the doctors to conclude that the procedure was not well-explained to David and that is the number one requirement by law. According to the law, you must explain to the organ donor the procedure and all the health risks associated with the procedure. It is only then that the donor is taken to have informedly consented. When the doctors found that David did not understand what he was about to get involved in, they declared him a mismatch.

The term “mismatch” is a technical generic language to indicate that the proposed organ harvesting has not met all the requirements. Many in Nigeria have misunderstood the term “mismatch” in this case to meant that David’s kidney was not suitable for Sonia. No! There was nothing wrong with David’s Kidney. To donate an organ, the facts must match both the law and the science governing the procedure. While the kidney matched the scientific requirement, the facts did not match the legal requirement. So, it was declared a mismatch. To help you understand it better, the term “mismatch” means there is a discrepancy.

The doctors who interviewed David did not and could not have determined that a crime was committed. The doctors did not have sufficient information to reach such conclusion then. They felt uncomfortable with the discrepancies in the information they had about the donor and his decisions and whether he had made up his mind. For instance, the doctors did not get involved in how David was brought to them or whether he was paid. It was not their duty to deal with that. It was actually when Ekweremadu and Dr. Obinna attempted to return David to Nigeria that the problem started. David expected that he would be given a job in London as he was told before he left Nigeria. They did not give him job and they did not send him to school. Instead of all he was promised, he was asked to prepare to return to Nigeria and David ran away from the house where he was kept. As hunger wired him, he reported himself to the police. To win the immediate protection of the police, he lied about his age by telling them he was 15. It was when he was interviewed by the police that the information came out which established that a crime was committed. For instance, it was at the police station that they asked him if he was paid money and he said yes he was paid N270,000. When the police checked the WhatsApp chats between Ekweremadu and Dr. Obeta they realized that Ekweremadu actually paid 4.5 million for Obeta to pay to David. But Obeta only paid David N270,000 and pocketed the rest.

In fact, Ekweremadu tried to keep himself away from certain details of the deal. That was why Ekweremadu never discussed money with David. In fact, he did not deal directly with David. That was what made it possible for Obeta to cheat him. Ekweremadu believed that the 4.5 million went to David. But since he was not dealing with David directly, he never knew that Obeta pocketed most of the money. However, the law viewed Ekweremadu’s decision not to deal directly with David as a typical behavior of a big man who knew that he is getting involved in a crime. He would usually try to create some distance between him and the crime, yet he will be funding the crime from afar. Otherwise, how come you never wanted to meet the boy that is giving his kidney to your daughter and whom you called cousin to your daughter (which actually makes him your nephew)? Rather than see the non-direct dealing as evidence of his innocence, it was seen as deliberate or willful ignorance aimed at evading legal responsibility.

One of the key factors that worked against Ekweremadu was that he lied. On three official documents he signed, he stated that David was Sonia’s cousin. But in all the WhatsApp chats he had with the doctor and his own brother over the matter, he referred to David as “that guy”. Hence the question: “You knew he was not Sonia’s cousin. While you signed that he was her cousin, when you wanted to say the truth, you referred to him as “that guy”, meaning you didn’t know him or even remember his name”. Ekweremadu admitted in court that he lied and apologized.

NOTE: I decided to provide these details because I have read somewhere it was being said that David misled Ekweremadu and took advantage of him. No, David is a real victim. He did not manipulate them. He was manipulated by Dr. Obinna Obeta, who was working for the Ekweremadu.

Emeka Ugwuonye Esq

copied from Chino Obasi wall.

I love the analysis... My own is; if he is truly guilty, let him dance to the tune

See them above me... So, if he is above the law in Nigeria, he should be in the UK as well
In as much a I sympathize with him especially cos of his ailing daughter for whom all these befell on him; if he is truly guilty of the crime- let him pay for it!

Hmmmm... Situation spiritual analyzer!!! Dey play you hear?

I understand the part of security/bushes explained by the marketer... Their 1.5m for developmental fee was what discouraged me from patronizing them. You only get to know that part, when you probe

fineboynl:
O have tried everything to stop it. But mot working. Stop to 2442 didn’t work.

Glo and unsolicited text messages are 5&6