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beekind:
Let me explain, he says he is not forcing her but if she does not take the fertility test he will not attend the wedding, and he is very likely to prohibit my mom from also attending the wedding and maybe other family members too.

That puts me in a very difficult spot, very difficult spot.

I appreciate the tone of your reply, so I will respond. Trust me, your day is wrong on that for trying to enforce such as condition for attending your wedding. But on the good side of it, he is only doing that for your own good in an extreme way!.

I use to be like you, I never use to like anything that would cause confrontations or issues so I would agree to somethings. But please, do not ket

Solution: Sit your fiancee down and discuss it with her in a loving way that your parents(not your dad) wants you both to run a fertility test (Not she alone)... And ensure you also get the fertility test done with her so as not to make her feel somehow about it

But please, be standing your ground on NO to some things even if you'll later agree to it..

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

Well, this shouldn't be a debate considering the fact that you're 38!!! That makes no much sense to me.
By no problem all the same, it is no bug deal for her to do fertility test but just know that you have strained the relationship even before marriage and i wonder how you'll convince her that your parents won't control you in your marriage when you're 40!!!

You have just won the Lalasticlala award of the year

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AllDModsAreMaad:
Left for me, I can raise the fund to 4 or 5 mill before the end of the year if the probability of getting US or Canada visa is high, but to be honest with you, I don't know what's up with the probability of getting a US or Canadian visa is after spending such amount.

Please can you guide me on way to go concerning US/Canada visa processing?

I believe you have your International passport and university unofficial transcript/certificate ready...

If you do, reach me on 0.7.0.6.8.8.0.1.4.2.7

AllDModsAreMaad:
But I saw it somewhere that 3 million naira can't process a study trip to Germany successfully and your are here giving him hope?

Do your due research or try considering a US or Canadian school.... You can always opt for student study loan to cover your school costs

power4reps:
This is the deplorable state of the only secondary school in Jattu-Uziarue, the hometown of the deputy Governor of Edo state Rt.Hon.Comr. Philip Shaibu And the headquarters of Uzairue Clan, were the National Chairman of APC Comr.Adams Aliyu Oshiomole hail from.

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jUeLiZ:
Please good people, is 1.5m enough to study in Germany....
I'm asking for a friend please any meaningful contribution and way forward is welcome. Thank you

Tution in Germany is free... But, you may need more than 1.5 for other things cos of our yeye exchange rate

https://www.nairaland.com/7661028/dog-most-unlikely-rival-boyfriends

Now, I understand why you're boyfruend's dog sees you as a rival... It is not rivalry on the part of the dog, but fear for it's owner sanity in the future.

So, from the way you described your bf in that post, he lives in his own house right? Nonsense!!!

Don't bother coming for me cos I do not fall in the category of men you addressed in your post!!!

Testiebobo:
GOLD DIGGERS are everywhere may God save our ladies. My elder sister is planning to marry a man who is very indolent and jobless. However, I noticed that my sister was the one doing the man's job. They would go for shopping and outing and it is my sister that will pay for all the bills. It has even come to d extence that my sister pays for his house rent. This is ridiculous, and i have to save my sister from getting married to that GOLD DIGGER b4 it is too late. What can i do?

If you can, talk to ger about it... And if she refuses, let her follow her heart.
By the way, he might just be struggling financially, that does not make him a gold digger.

Your sister might see a bright prospect in him that you're blinded from seeing

JackDaAlienz:
For over a week, I have been masturbating and imagining sex with 3 different girls that I usually see in my street.

While masturbating I close my eyes and imagine having sex with these 3 girls.
It always felt so real as I was doing it.

Until today, I had the great shock.
This evening I stepped out to buy something and guess what.
The girl I always imagined was at my gate talking to the 2nd girl that I was also imaging in my fantasy.

It felt like dream, as if I attracted them to me at that moment. They both smiled at me and greeted me. I was still shocked
Immediately I left the gate I come meet the 3rd girl. And this was the first time I've ever talked to her. I just peep her whenever she pass my side.

Did my masturbation energy attract these 3 women to me at the same time.

I imagined 3 of them as I masturbate
It now feels like universe use that energy to fulfill my imagination and manifest it to real life.. masturbation is deep ohh

Simple: Members of the Association of ogbanjes in your area. They discussingyour matter already

#JustKidding

Wow! Those guns are sophisticated... If only they could put their ingenuity to good use rather than crime.
Still winner how they're able to fabricate such while our military engineering units still can't afford to do that

Hehehehe...lol

She is proud of his hustle...

Oops! I feel sorry for the owners of the properties

kyber:
That’s what I intend in doing cause I don’t know where she expects me to get cash from

D you have a lawyer or a friend that is one? Get the lawyer ready to call her bluff

kyber:
So my rent was due on March 16th this year but unfortunately I lost my late uncle so the burial rites took lots of my parents and my uncle’s kids funds.

So I had to appeal to my landlady to exercise patience till April 28 so I can raise the money for the rent .



So she came today for her rent, I told her to give me her account number so I can transfer it to her.

This lady told me she wants cash only,but I only have exactly the house rent amount in my account and my weekly withdrawal fee is 40k, meanwhile Pos fee is too much even if I wanted to use the pos of which I don’t have extra funds for .

All this I explained to her if only she could wait till I make withdrawals every week till the money is complete.

She said no that I have to get the cash this evening before she gets back .



I realized that my landlady is very mean ,where does she expect me to get cash on a weekend like this?



Like I told her I don’t have more than her rent in my account!!



I don’t know where in the world you cannot pay rent via transfer



Please what do I do ?

It is obvious she just wants to cause you trouble... Wait till she is back and still insist on doing a transfer

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Jones4190:
I meet Alexis on Twitter during the COVID-19 lockdown. He is an Athens from Greece but work in Australia, Athens don't believe that God exist, "they says there is no God" our relationship become interesting because I was always around to keep him busy during the epidermis lockdown via chart while he was always ready to help me in monetary aspect whenever I ask for him.
After the epidermis we hardly talk to each other because of his busy work schedule and time difference, Australia is 9 hours ahead of Nigeria.

March 6 was my birthday, I wait patiently for his call and the gifts he normally sent to me but couldn't hear from him, last year birthday he sent me $250 on my birthday, what happened this time? I say to myself "this is not Alexis I know" something is wrong, I will call him after one week, few days later I decided to sent him a message to know how is feeling, it does not take too much time that he reply to my email that he is down with glioblastoma multiforme, the most aggressive cancer that originates in the brain, that he needed over $50k for the operation.

I feel very bad, first I don't have money to help this guy with the operation, secondary this guy is an atheist, he don't believe in God and lastly I'm not in good terms with God like I use to be in my school days that when I pray he use to answer me.. what can I do now? I go to my inner room for the first time in the last five years and pray to God wholeheartedly. the next day I called Alexis and come up with a proposal that my God will heal him without operation, he opposed but later accept just to prove to me that God doesn't exist.
I preach to him for ten minutes and pray for him for two minutes, I ask him to check back to the same hospital and run the text again, he did and the results comes out negative, the brain tumor which can only be removed through surgical operation disappear, no single trace of glioblastoma again, it's marvelous to the doctors, marvelous to Alexis family and even marvelous to me because I have never experienced such in my life.
yesterday for the first time in my life I hosted 22 people online to talk to them about the grace of God and it's benefits, 18 of them were Atheist, they have never been to church before and all of accepted christ and agreed to go to the nearest Church this Sunday.
Glory be to God.
God is able.

The greatest feat is in winning him over for God... if your story is true, I salute you a million times bro

Unfortunately, it is what it is.... Knowing the type of country Nigeria is... Ensure to invest massively for the future

Banbulu:
She said she ask me Money the other day I acted as if she's disturbing me,
I wanted to say I'm sorry for making you feel that way but I have wiped the chat so am thinking of how to address the issue without putting am sorry.
Pls Who can help redpillers pls

Simple, by telling her that you are 'sorry'... It will not kill you

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm contemplating removing my waist beads because it seems most people don't like it. I'll be posting pictures of me with the waist beads on and without the waist beads on.

The opinions I get here especially from the men, will determine if I'll continue putting them on or stop. So, if you're in support or not, put that in the comment section. Thanks.

If your partner is okay with it... Leave it biko! Inasmuch as it is not a fortified waist bead
I like it while some don't.

DaCharis2016:
Pls how do I get in touch with co-operatives. I need to join some.

There will surely be some in your state. Where do you reside?

The internal destroyers of PDP... Atiku's nemesis

Raxxye:
I opened accounts (Savings and Current) with First Bank sometime in 2011 in a branch outside my State of residence. I have mostly been using the savings account and not the current.
Fast-forward to 2021, I applied for a loan in Zenith Bank (where my salary account is domiciled), but I was told I could not get the loan bc Credit Bureau report run on my account indicates that I am owing First Bank about 800 Naira. I initially thought it was the negative balance that was showing in the current acc at the time, so I made deposit into the account to offset that negative balance, then requested for a letter of non-indebtedness. The letter was given to me, but when when I took it to Zenith Bank, and the credit bureau test was run again (according to them), it still showed I am still owing.
All effort I have made to resolve the issue has yielded no result. I have approached several First Bank branches and spoken with their marketing team; no solution.
The customer service officer at one of the branches said she had sent a mail to First Bank headquarters to check and resolve the issue, but up till now, the issue has got no attention from the headquarters. It's still pending; a mail she sent on the 12th of January this year!
At Zenith Bank, my account officer makes it look like I'm not doing enough to clear the debt. I have been going back-and-forth between First Bank and Zenith for almost two years now on this same issue.
I really need the loan to execute a project. As a civil servant with very meagre pay, it's loans like these that help us in executing projects.
I have contacted First Bank through all available social media platforms, including twitter, Facebook, email, etc. They only apologize and tell me to contact them via a DM, and that's where it ends. I have also called FIRSTCONTACT, but it's been all to no avail. It has been very frustrating.
Bankers in the house, please advise me on what to do.
Mods, please help me move it to the front page to see if I can get the needed help from Nairalanders!

Cc

Dominique

You are to contact credit bureau and copy your bank and CBN

Glad they found happiness

Enemyofpeace:
Life get as e be, don't underrate anybody. This is the Honourable Minister
of Internal Affairs, Rauf Aregbesola in 1999 when he was a Refrigerator and Freezer repairer at Alimosho. Anybody can become somebody.

He was really an ogbeni 2pac

EyenIbibio1:
Hello Nairalanders, please I need a suggest any hustle that I can get into, I recently moved to Akwa Ibom and I don't know my way around much and things are very rough for me, I can't even feed myself and everyone I run to either tells me story or tell me to go and hustle, I tried going to timber market maybe I can be carrying planks but they were making fun of me because of my physique, they call me ajebo, I tried brick moulding/ lifting, I'm not usually picked, right now I'm stuck, I even went to a car wash and they were like, you want to wash your car or ...?
I'm just tired and frustrated, I'm considering picking waste bottles on the streets for recycling but I don't know how profitable it is, please if there's anyone here that can link me to any menial job or suggest any street hustle, I don't even mind packing refuse. I will appreciate. I'm in Akwa Ibom

Let me start by asking, what made you move to akwa ibom?

2) Do you have a laptop? I can teach you how to help people gain admission into canadian universities and as well help process their study permits. You can even help them to secure a study loan. At least, you can make a living out of it.

Your target should be youth corpers in the state... Visit their lodges or place of primary assignments during CDS to pitch to them.

NB: It is only the OP that I am teaching for free ooo... Anyone else that contacts me from Nairaland will have to pay. #Out

EyenIbibio1:
No sir, high court

In as much as you do not make unnecessary noise or disrupt the court proceedings... you are fine.

And please, silent your phone. That's all!

Idaraobong5:
I’m a banker,from the beginning of my banking career till this moment, I have never experienced a calm and conducive work environment.
If I’m working under a female boss, she will see me as threat,some feel I’m taking the male customers attention from them, and they will make the work environment toxic and uncomfortable for me.
Now last year I left to another organization,worked under a male boss,I never knew I was jumping from frying pan to fire,my boss grabs my boobs at any given opportunity,send unnecessary erotic messages on WhatsApp,begged for sex and night out.
When I refused to give in,he started making the work environment a living hell for me.
Now I don’t know which is better,either working under a female or a male supervisor.

Working under a sensible people with no insecurities is better be it a man or a lady boss.
The earlier you start to search for a job eith a sane work environment, the better