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lorretta u: All this protocol for wetin?
Hian

Just wear his loose tshirt without a bra.
If you have big bouncy booobss better for you. The moment u walk by innocently infront of him. The deal is sealed..

Girl..u d ish
some physical attacks can up d tempo like crazy as well.

@o.p..only masochistic egomaniacs will view dis sideways.
Initiating sex is an ego boost to a lotta..that feeling ofshe wants me,is a definite psychological viagra making f some wild n interesting time

Ps; contrary t popular belief, guys like females that take charge or can..

Popowaa: I dont see virginity as crucial when love is involve(although it has it's advantages)i see it as trivial,so if she can lie abt such a thing is she to be trusted?When she gets pregnant and she tells him does she expect him to believe he is the father without any doubt?
Somethings we hide from our partners when we start a relationship with the fear of loosing the person goes a long way to affect us.Open up and if he thinks it's too much and he cannt handle it let him walk away.Trust is very essential in every relationship and once you do something to destroy it,just walk away.

Lovely post


**breathes in relief* There's stil hope in d world

lorretta u: Happy married life

Maybe she said that to you to avoid any sexual relationship with you during courtship. There's something called secondary virginity you know. Like you have sex before and then realize your sin repent and decide to zip up until you're married. Maybe that's what she did.

Well honestly she no try. She woulda told u the honest truth. That she wanted to wait until marriage before sex. But I guess she thought u wouldn't have wanted to wait.
And I'm sorry if u married her for virginity. Too bad for you. For better or worse.

Or if the virginity is so important to you. Divorce is an option. Let's say the marriage is null and void because the conditions under which you contracted the marriage are non-existent.


Virgin hunting things for you all over again. Accept my sympathy.

There is NO EXCUSE for her being a lying, unremorseful, manipulative bitch.
Whether or not d o.p was virgin hunting is immaterial
to d fact.
SHE LIED F 3 YEARS, n he had to find out on d marraige bed
Can u try to imagine wat that'll be like ?
Wouldnt d wisest tin 've bin t tell him n see if he truly loves her?
U do understand she, like d Biblical foolish woman, has just destroyed her marraige by her own hands.
Hope she remembers that wen she's doing d rounds @d prayer houses
Bullshit stinks

cramjones: You are very right only on the rigging issue. The document contains plans to rig that I won't reveal here. However, I can tell you for a fact the if the Jonathan government rig the next election, Nigeria will be no more, I can tell you for a fact, and the PDP knows this, it is even written as one of the scenarios in this document. There will be no Nigeria to govern if Jonathan rigs...He has to be careful to for his safety if that happens...because this time No one is going to court. I can tell you for a fact that APC is not going to court if Jonathan rigs...The Nigerian people will settle the case once and for all! We believe in the rule of law, however, if this scenario plays out we won't go to court! Why? Because part of the strategic plan is to buy all the tribunal judges!

Threats..all alluding to the fact that the election will be rigged 2015, wen in reality it might not. Even in d case it does, are our 'progressives' so intent on regaining power, they'll rather destabilise d country than seek address in the court of law

I seriously wonder@our so called progressive politicians..#ddouble speak

It Is Well

Pardon my ignorance but wat I don't seem t get is why will a president that has governors and ministers of different portfolios,and ministeries such as d NDDC, receiving funds and allocations from the centre is Still Expected t personally oversee aand Execute projects in the saidsstates
Isn't that why authority is delegated? Isn't that why funds are allocated from the centre?
Thinking back, I wonder how many(if any) federal projects were executed in d State prior to 2010/2011 ?

Slowly but surely. .... d truth eventually will prevail, esp in d case of dis 2.

That's a lotta project tho f nothing.

kel4soft: Because you read this biased thread?

How is d thread biased ?? Pray tell..
Was d judgement u just read conjured up by d o.p or were u too lazy t look up d link

@o.p..questions;
1) wen is d 12th edition expected
2) wit d judgement, given that d money accrued was already bin paid t Bayelsa state, was status quo maintained n wat will d status quo b in dis instance..continuation of payment into d escrow acct or continued payment t B.Y state of money accrued.


Last word..don't see wat dis issue has t do wit GEJ seeing dis case has bin ongoing long bf he becamr prez.
Anyway. .it's all politics

Later October. .my new Nissan Xterra.
Fell into a ditch, while trying t use a by pass t escape d annoying Ph hold up. Was helped out by a coupla guys. Came across 2 of dse guys later who flagged me down..recognising dem I stopped t give dem a liftas I was apt t do den. Same guys lalater pulled guns on me n turned me round.
Escaped by the Grace of God while they were trying t get me into d back t take me away.
Thank God I hadn't bin able t sell off d oda car (indecision) , so it was back t d old

Funny..it's kinda relieving talking abt it

dinachi: Which women are seen as glorified furniture or Housemaid? As long as your husband loves you, he will treat you nice and vice versa. I have always believed in equality but not the way feminists go about it. If we practice it by the book, then the women will be on the receiving end. 80 % of men marry downwards. That is women that are economically inferior. Equality will mean that men will never marry women unless the woman can foot bills equally with him. Why most feminist lose their marriage is because they enter it in the first mode with a combative mood. They are not willing to follow the lead of their husband because to do that will mean that their rights are being trampled upon. They debate and argue with their husband at every opportunity to prove that they are not subservient. They resist his leadership because they hate submission. Note here that they will gladly submit to female boss in the office but never to the leadership of their husbands. They go into marriage with a sense of competition not to complement their husbands. THAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH FEMINISTS

Well said...n I don't get it where ppl got this idea women had no rights before esp in Africa?
Don't know about oda cultures, but down south here, traditions were in place t protect d rights of a woman in her home within d cultural bounds.
The way some peeps talk u will feel women of those days were all miserable n sexually frustrated running arouns n cleaning up after their men Strutting around like demigods.
The difference then was everyone had their roles t play n dey did..there was order..n they were much happier f it. Evidence being d family unit n as a consequence, society was much stronger by it.
Women want t start wearing trousers? They can go ahead n while at it..Grow some balls as well

Am out..

Fallotti: Pleaaaaaaaase. . . If you are in demand as a feminist. . .SHARE YOUR TESTIMONIES.
No fake stories please.
I think we are tired of those on NL!

THIS IS NOT A COMPETITION FOR CYBER RIFF-RAFFS. . . NL MGBEKES AND ALATIKAS included. . . . !!!!
Thank you!

I think d o.p was referring t Feminists not glorified sluts. Not saying u r tho.
@o.p.. I tink d problem is wit understanding n achieving a balance. Knowing marraige is about tolerance n compromise.
African women understood that untill western ideologies pushed everything t d extreme.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Kindly explain to me how him beating and cheating on his wife will make her trust him?[/quote]Ok...seen that, and in dis particular case I'll concede, but 2 wrongs do not make a right.
U donot fight crazy wit crazy..one person has t b seen t b doing d Right tin.

Anyway..

Seems d o.p himself is a dick tho

[quote author=Efemena_xy]You doubt my logic, yet you concede that trust is a vital ingredient in a marriage? Aren't you contradicting yourself here?

A partner / spouse who wants to play the fiddle will do so, irrespective of whether you check their phone or not, or monitor their activities. They'll simply get smarter at covering their tracks.[/quote]Trust is vital. .yes , but trust is built.
There is no partner that doesnt have insecurities..y den do women always need reaffirmation of their husbands luv. He said it once, int it a sign of lack of trust wanting continual reaffirmation?
Give..him d password..if he abuses d prividledge,@least she gets d moral high ground.

My take tho

Baby mama: Are you serious?
Your greatest marital conflicts are over a freaking phone
Eziokwu

Why are you trying to start something where there is nothing
Most kids play with mom's phone not dad's so it is normal for a woman to put a lock to keep children from it
She gave you that explanation and in your mind that couldn't be true
Why are you acting so insecure?
Are you threatened that she may find someone better than you
Please grow up jor
What's next?
Start following and trailing her to know where she's going to
Or calculating the mileage on the car after she returns from the market to make sure she went where she told you
Inspect and Sniff her underwear when she comes home?
You will soon stroke out from bothering yourself over non issues
Nonsense

Ur advises usually leave a lot t b desired..frankly
Is It proper f a wife t lock her fone seeing d husband is displeased wit it ?? Will it b proper f a husband t lock his phone n deny his wife access seeing it is bothering her ??
Let's try n b objective here n stop throwing around emotional advises.
@o.p..I.m.o, I tink u should Calmly explain how uncomfortable that action is t u.
Yes, it's insecurity but everyone is allowed a bit of it once in a while,.
Ask her t provide u wit d passwords as well, that way u can 've d access u want..eithe that or start locking ur own fone, laptop n bags as well

Also, work on ur insecurities while ur at it.
Am out

Stadium in Gokana
Abi r we talking abt a field wit a few spectator stands ?
@o.p..can u post pics f doubting Thomases like me

alutacontinua: U see that 'whatever' part, e dey pain guys oo


And 'that's ok', na my way of saying just shut it!

Funny..u need t see d way ladies freak out wen I say wateva t dem.
Used t wonder y..Now I know

phantom: rotimi....stubborn man! Always firing from all cylinders.the article captured him very well..... not taking advise is one quality he should endeavour to change in the new year

O.M.G !!
Phantom has dumped Amaechi!

GHANA OGA: Hahha...see u mad.the truth hurts suck*r. A real player doesn't need any of these stup*d rules.it comes naturally. See u struggling to be what u not.
You have no game or class, the girls keep rejecting you so u decide to turn to something this pitiful.
While your friends are using their money on cars and properties, you struggling to keep 4-5 back up gals due to insecurity. You scared your new girl might dump you again hence the reason.
Class is permanent bro! F*ck u and your insecure life.
Open a thread on how to get wifee and we will help you.Till then keep feeding your ego on all those poor little girls.

Hehehe..
Don't mind d insecure buffoon
Explaining t him is as useless as having a conversation wit a brickwall.
He's earned himself a groupie..let him enjoy it bf reality bites again

[quote author=money-hungry ]''gon'' is still correct bro, its a slang. my auto-corrector wrote "gone". bit:ch as nigga.[/quote]..and ur Maturity keeps shinning through wit every word u utter.

Now 'player', wats ur scorecard like? Because if I remember correctly, it's 50-50, besides u still end up losing dem t odas.
TRUE PLAYERS HAVE CONTROL.
U mite b a player, but ur No Where near Premier league status.
Won't say anymore.I leave u t ur groupie
Enjoy..

[quote author=money-hungry ]haters trying to knock my hustle.
my people make una no mind these haters o, na the koko I yarn una oh.
I'm probably more mature n living better than these foo:ls screaming maturity and money. I go soon drop another point sef. y'all gone learn today![/quote]Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...............
Nigga u got jokes.
Mature n living better
looll

Btw, spoken real maturedly

Note, it's gonna not gone..bet u were all punny chasing n missed a few grammar classes.
Enjoy..
Btw..I Am Faithful t my woman..men do that

#am out

Ngokafor: Yeah go right ahead play the politics of Nigeria.Politics of greed,criminal embezzlement,lies and deceit..thats fine.

..but you APC folks should stop insulting our intelligence with your 'progressive' and 'a change-we-need' talk..
..it's becoming boring and annoying cos even the daftest person knows it's a big lie

Well said.
Gilded junk from d trash pit bin sold f far more than it's obvious value

[quote author=Logan's shadow]Baddest girl ever liveth
*Singing I go chop ya dollar*
Read btwn the lines,she prolly changed her mind after seeing the glimpse of ya "pepper" and apparently she did not want it to be her "Last supper"
My advice,Run and make usain bolt look like a learner.
Might be wrong tho,but dat's my 2cent.................... [/quote]..


She saw d light that shineth wit greed
@o.p..u 've heard abi ?
Usain Bolt tins

Truckpusher: Affirmed......at least stuck to mouth for 30mins

Funny how y'all tink 'dick' is d ans t every womans prob. .discombombulated B.S.

@ granted, ur points maybe valid (t d undiscerning) but judging critically..Nah

Packaging may be well n good but not wen it's superficial. True packaging has got t ve substance else it'll just b a carton box wit beautiful wrapping.. disappointing.
Not having a single mindset about girls? ? Dude, girls respond t sincerity, care n luv.. show them dat n u won't need d 50-50 m8ndset. . Or see d need f having so many back up plans or having so many that u ve no 'control'over
True 'control' is dat that is willingly handed over/given by ur partner. Stand up t responsibilities, stand up as a Man. Be Sincere n true t her n u will find her eating from ur palms n unwilling t jump boat weneva a beta opportunity cums along.
The bedmatics claims always makes me laff.
Read thru d sexuality section..so many 'pros' out dre..n seriously, ask urself, wat is dat Special Tin ur doing in bed that odas r not doing ?? If she enjoys sex wit u bro, it's becos She has opened herself up emotionally t enjoy u..70-75%. The remainin 25-30% is where u cum in.
Eventually sef, it's d emotions/passion behind ur touch /action she responds to..hence my point above..bin sincere n true.
Final note..
Girls respond/gravitate towards substance. Flashy ish maybe distracting but wen dey perceive u as bin responsible, mature n focused, u Will find dem flocking around u.
Build urself, not f d purposes of getting punny, n u will find punny falling over themselves t get @u.

Players don't ve substance, Men do.
Peace

Merry Christmas y'all

vizkiz: An dis r d kindda peeps dt calls demselves ''leaders of 2morrow''

Nah..
He's just Money Hungry

Pun intended

Les: . lynpetra, what are you not telling us??

wat is dis one saying

I tink u shld change ur supplier, wateva u smoking is probably adulterated wit dog piss.

lynpetra: Eeeeya,but that's the best you can do for yourself.Take Nuzo's advice,he made a valid point.Good luck.

SECONDED

Am a guy like u, older but still one..
Don't act on emotions here.
Actions are reflections of a persons thot processes n character..
Everybody IS RESPONSIBLE f their choices, their actions..
'Nuff said

Am out..

Finally. .
A girl that can be honest t herself n t someone else

Have always maintained, that t some girls, the sight of a wedding ring is like a homing beacon..causing dem t swarm like bees.
Maybe cos of d pix of responsibility n security d guy entails, d sense of adventure (like d girl above stated), or d general sense of covetousness a lotta girls seem t have...
Personal xperience as well; d more I tell girls am unavailable d more d interest seems t increase.

All in all, she's right on d money..
+10 f her honesty
-1000 f her adulterous ish



**spreads mat, waiting f d NL feminists*

Mc oldsoja: Bros as much as I know it would be difficult, you have to cut your losses and move on.
She has allowed wrong seeds to be sown in her heart. Maybe like the other guy, you should give her an ultimatum to snap out of this foolish childishness (that's if she's not actually a child). "O foolish girl, who has bewitched you?"
Bros, you got to know when to run, know when to hold, know when to walk away.
I rest my case.

Q.E.D

Dude, keep an open mind but know that you've probably lost her n f good I must say cos a girl that can't follow her heart but rather chooses t dance t religious tunes n odas opinions isn't stable enuff f a family.
Cut your losses..
Difficult. .yes but consider..
1) she was stil keeping a window of opportunity open while u were dating (ur fault tho)
2) she had A LIST of potential suitors. .wat does that tell u ?
3) she is so quick t throwaway 3 yrs on hearsay, on someone she barely knows..

Abeg..go, cry..mend ur broken heart n live ur life best as u can.
God will get u someone special n stable

Shits annoying..

First of all..Never Allow while dating wat u cannot tolerate wen married.
Also, I personally donot see anything wrong wit cooking n taking t dem a home cooked meal. I mean wat is d big deal ? Except there's something am missing

Now, d brutal truth is , Cold Shoulder,《which is wat ur husband does is a form of manipulation I.e he is Manipulative..n I guess I can safely assume that wenthat happens most times, he ends up getting his way.
U need t see it f wat it is.
Communication is not communication if its only on 'sunny days'. True communication involves both the good n d bad..n wat ur husbands doing isn't healthy@all.
I think its high time u read him d riot act.
U need t b Assertive n let him understand tins Have Got t change.
U r not happy n allowing d situation remain so will only lead t more unhappiness n heartbreak.
Let him Know u r not going t stand f it anymore..u can't b sowing oranges n expect apple juice..,
and f Pete's sake, Stop allowing him 've his way whenever that happens.

Not telling u t be confrontational but ASSERTIVE.

If u make urself a doormat, don't complain wen ppl wipe their feet on u.

Sorry if I am being blunt..
Peace