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Freddykrueger:
Yea, also if a person dies in a house, they did cover or remove mirrors in d room he/she died to avoid even d living from looking at it. It was also believed that if a living person glanced at d mirror in a room or house of a deceased person, the person would follow suite.

like seriously?

divalishis:
"I dey come" is not an address.
Telling your wife where you are going is the humane, responsible thing to do.

May God help him to be found. Amen.

Amen o

toujurs:
One of the traits of an introvert

. Ok

Differentiate:
,you ladies turned it to something else..

what

It is well

Wiifesnatcher:
she obviously cheat on him and the guy na her jackpot, alaye no send her because na him dey take care of her bills




when you take care of a lady 90% bills you no go ever respect her or value her. lady lost their value easily when they feel they can exchange their dignity for money that can't last



so unfortunate, na why I dey buckle up, my daughters must not wait for any man to live/survive

u nail it bro!

Hayee:
I swear
No stress we move
Women also want peace of mind

lol..I don't understand why a young girl like that paid for an hotel room, spend money just to say she's sorry to a guy that smokes, bf and gf oo..chai my gender sha : ...

Amotolongbo:
Ijo ti wo inu aiye.

Foodqueen:
If u can't wait the time, shift the pad to one corner and Bleep the Bleep.

,some men can bleep their wife with blood..smh

NarcissistKing:
See how overconfident she was in typing this. Show me the statistics! You can't fool everybody.

she is right

Alaji1220:
I pray you will not marry into a wrong family.

I refused visiting her family twice when we were dating when she was pestering me to come and visit them but since thvday I visited everything changed and I began to follow her like mumu.

The family is bad, I discovered this after marriage. It appears there is a curse on their family. Her elders are not doing well I secure job for one when in that recruiting firm, one other is jobless, the third is not doing one serious job and the only sister she has is in their mothers house with her children and I learnt she has another child with another man later when I married my wife.

it's good to make background checks before going into marriage..how do u intend to cope with her?

Alaji1220:
I need a very reasonable advice from this wonderful forum.

I got married close to a decade ago and the marriage is blessed with two kids.
Though things were tough at the beginning because wife lost her job and I bore the burden solely for 4 years, we had our st child 5 months after wedding andh the second 2 years later. Lost my job around the time our second kid arrived, we kept struggling with great hope. Around 2017 she connected me with a mam that help with an adhoc work in a recruiting firm, I got their within 2 months I helped madam to secured a marketing job, I managed with the job for like 8 months before it ended. Immediately it ended Madam began to behave funny let's I forget I sold my car to pay for her final year exam and also gave her money to get the certificate all amounting to 250k then. Around 2018 I was thrown back to the labour market and I was shown hell by wife, several calls of men, knew about 4 men through her watssap messages that she had affairs with I always get to see these whenever she fell asleep with her phone in her hand. 2019 I got back on my feet and I noticed she stopped the runs. Meanwhile she made so much money during the period of her escapades because of clients deposit that earned her bonuses at work but squadder a huge sum on travelings which were unsuccessful. She joined another financial institution this year and she handles client that need loan, 2 months after securing the job she started talking of getting car ordinarily I would have discouraged her but being someone that is always resolute in her decision making I quickly wade in so as to safe her from men that may want to take advantage of her as this has happened before I tried to inquire about the source of fund for the car she said she liase with a client to take loan that she will only pay back the principal portion that the client will pay the interest and she will be using all her salary to pay back, before we got the car I told her to go for a lesser car like 700k but she said it's 1m she budget for Nigeria used Toyota Corolla. But since we have got the car madam is so stressed up financially while I take care of all the bills even before she got the car she has not be helpful in the area of bill but only buy food stuff whenever she feels like but since she got the car she's still pestering me to be funding the maintenance of the car she drives to work everyday. I saw her chat with a man like 3 months ago and from the chart she was wooing the man for financial assistance, they arrange a meeting which I'm sure something must have transpired between them I confronted her and she promised not to see him again, my main pro is that in her new office some people around there know me we carried out maintenance work on the car recently that got her to online loan debt and I can observe that she was connecting with some men again for financial help, I got some messages confirming her promiscuity again and I confronted her she began to raise excuse here and there I was so mad with her that she thought I will beat her but thank God I didn't though we kept away from each other for 3 days but on getting home yesterday I discovered she had packed her loads and kids loads and left for her parents house and this should be her 4th time of doing this whenever we have misunderstanding. I love my kids but her attitude is making me to gradually loose the the love I have for these kids. I reported her to her mum she was kneeling down and begging me yesterday but for how long I'm I going to continue with this woman...

Please I need advice that will guide my decision, I only fear for those innocent kids future because she doesn't seem to care about their present well being though she claims all she is doing is to process traveling to secure their future.

your wife is cheating for years and u didn't do anything about it..hummm

Lol

Forgot..

Tzar:
You are the one who read wrong!
I said his being a criminal & association with people who use HUMAN PARTS is enough reason for her to RUN if she had any sense.
Who loves a criminal if they are not criminal minded too?
Will you date someone who you know beheads people for rituals? Will you pay for how such people will perform their evil criminal activities? That is what I read she did in some ways.
If she funded his criminal activities out of love, she should not be bothered he was now spending money with another woman!
How do you even fund efforts into a criminal activity out of love She was an active participant for Pete’s sake.
Yeah, I feel sorry for her. But people like me need to come hard on bad decision makers like her or any other man/woman, so other people like her will not think everyone will just casually condone bad behavior.

smiles..

Tzar:
From the BOLD quotes below in her original post,
1. The guy told her he is a scammer, she did not run.
2. He said he has a juju man that uses HUMAN PARTS she still did not run
3. Instead she decided to betray her faith to start searching for another juju man, for what purpose? To help her scammer defraud other human beings and make them cry! Those human beings scammed may NEVER recover from the scam. They may even commit suicide o.
4. She did all this so that she can benefit from it all. She wanted the criminal to marry her and they will start spending their proceeds of CRIME together.

She got hurt when she realized the scammer scammed her & he probably started spending the money from their crime with another woman.

WHO DOES THIS KIND OF THING EXCEPT EVIL PEOPLE?

She can as well do same for an armed robber for all I care.

QTE
I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.
UNQTE

what u typed is Wrong, u don't jump and judge people, u read the wrong meaning to the post, in her write up, she said the guy can't do ritual, they went to an alpha no sacrifice was made, and everything they didnt work, the guy left her because she was pregnant, when the guy has money, it was from the, alpha they went too...she clearly stated she did everything for him out of love, she Neva collected a dime from him..u don't judge people from their mistakes, she was blinded by love..we are sinners because she came out to share her story for people to learn u can't start judging, if she is evil u claim she is, do u think she will share the story after 4 years, she did because she want people to learn from her past, stop judging.. some shits happened and we learn and move on..

Tzar:
You don’t know me either. So do not assume.
The fact is that the world is where it is now because there are no consequences for wrongdoing. Because you want to give advise doesn’t mean you cannot scream the bitter truth about ACTION & CONSEQUENCE for Pete’s sake. Even science says “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction”.
I am yet to see any Scripture that says there is zero consequence for wrongdoing. If the perpetrator escapes it the kids won’t. The Supreme being may just reduce the severity because of grace.
I am in my 40s & I know having a home is not the ultimate happiness. Living a good life that recognizes that you MUST do good & not evil is more important. FYI, I am happily divorced.
Incase you are a Christian, Jesus & Apostle Paul did not have a ‘home’.
There is no way you can be a good person and you still excuse evil and wrongdoing. It is impossible! You think you are good, but you are not. People like you just make it easy for others like yourself to keep doing the evil they love to do without anyone calling them out.
I will tell you again, I will NOT conform to your GUTTER VALUES. Better look elsewhere.

what evil are u talking about? Did u read the story well?

zed7:
Wahala for those wey never marry. Many people are damaged to be honest.

You need to search with a microscope to find a decent partner these days. We still have them but you need to be able to identify them. They may not come in your favourite package.

I'm telling you

Tajbol4splend:
These holy holy people actually think they know who God is, they know absolutely nothing about him

hmmm

Moz22:
my entire text wrong or which part of my statement?

the first paragraph..

This is terrible

Moz22:
it took me a while contemplating whether I should comment on this or not.. however I'm gonna drop my token..
[b]
Ever since I saw a post saying "you've been unlucky with relationships, [/b]why not channel your energy into taking you and your family out of poverty and leave love alone" I had a mind shift... I maybe wrong but the truth of the matter is that true love doesn't exist no more.. the love u see people exhibit these days comes with expectations and when those expectations aren't met, that's when they'll say they fell out of love etc.. True love is a beautiful thing and I sincerely hope that I get to experience it before I exit this world, However I'm not looking for it.. this world is just too bleeped up, unbalanced and full of fuckery, but apparently there isn't much u can do about it. I have a thing that works for me anytime I feel some sorta affection for any girl which I don't wanna entertain.. I'm gonna be very single for a long time to come. Selah

you are wrong,I created this thread on a mutual ground..

Ussycool:
Some guys double date that is why they ain't commited and lack honesty. It is disgusting that some ladies out there are carbon copy of characters you point out.

Look debby, pray over things when your relationship is summersaulting. Men are turning to something else, imagine some guys claiming that MARRIAGE is a scam. How then do you think they will take relationship serious?

hmmmm... Wish some men can be straight with their intentions,like ' babe let's be hitting ourselves' but instead some men will promise you marriage and waste your time at the end of the day, they will leave, same applies to some ladies

omooluorun:
That's why we need to seek the face of God to avoid stories that touch

God will not come down to help, even God will partners still divorce..pastors are not left out

Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

#Lalasticla

tomtomastom4:
Ok, now I get. Sure I knw wat to do.

this life is short and simple..I don't stress myself over relationship if it works fine if it doesn't we move, in as much my business is doing fine and I'm eating a good food, then I'm fine.. what's mine won't leave me.

Ok

Golan007:
He saw nothing.

When you see someone create a fantasy from his opening statement you know he's a tatler and liar..

may we not be a victim..I pity you , with all the news we are hearing I still don't believe dark forces is real..

tomtomastom4:
Play along.

Like buy the gown?

no, I mean don't argue with her, let her know u can't afford the gown,lf she doesn't listen den free her,u are a man u know what to do

Kuriosmynd:
The girl no fine now.
Guy deserve a more beautiful gal..forget the distinction... Distinction for a woman is superfluous

yeye

Humm..

tomtomastom4:
Not once, not twice. I have done that.

play along, to avoid her stress