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lumideezle: Bia @op leave this guy alone now is he the only man alive? you have already opened 3 threads about trying to get this same guy back werin b ur own self the way u dey go u fit do jazz oh! beta watch yourself you cannot force anyone to be part of your life who does nt want to be. so quit giving yourself sleepless nights

first you decided to get over him on this thread, www.nairaland.com/1183769/how-get-over-guy, when you couldn't you now decide to steal him back smh https://www.nairaland.com/1274192/how-steal-guy-girl I pity u, its like the stealing idea dint work prolly cuz his present gf dey go cele so her prayer dey hot well well, you are now here asking how to win him back. honey you are confused

I thought i was the only one who noticed!

CyberG: Girls who play meaningless games like these tend to end up losers. This is one of the reasons why some lose interest in most women generally or play along until they mess the chick and then move on - most guys who know what they are worth will never keep a girl who behaved the way you did to them as a permanent partner. Girls start the games, men eventually end it on their own terms, the woman is out of time and wants to get married, the guy dumps her and finds another younger girl while the dumped girl cries and comes to NL to open a pity-party thread.

And their male-bashing comments. SMH

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Because you had ulterior motives. . . [/color]

On point!

Smartie gurl: dude, actually am in a relationship at the moment......

are u high on alomo or what? Did you see anywhere in my comment where i asked if you are in a relationship?

flash11: why are people even replying to this cocck nd bull story! Jez!

You just took the words right outta my mouth! Naij.com is known for cooking up rubbish unrealistic stories just to get traffic to their website! The story is fake!

Kamanda: But the deed has already been done.Blocking the ATM will not bring back the money that Jenny has collected.

Shataappp! Have u ever seen 750k before in your life? Story that has been making rounds all over BBM na wetin you carry come paste here! Mtchewwwwww.com

Smartie gurl: this ain't an advice thread hun.......i expected ladies to comment more cuz they must have done what i did today in one way or the other.........btw i said it was funny.

Sorry...what ya did this mornin is quite obsolete meaning that very few ladies of today do it. Perhaps that's no lady is contributing and sharing the same idea cos it's no longer ​I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ vogue.

Girl...it's a man's world okay? That's why we do what we do! If ya don't like it, go for a sex change

Why i go follow am...where is he leading me to?

jackbauersballs: And I always though G-wags were indestructible...

I believe you were high on alomo and cheap crack when you typed this! SMH

nyere84: SINGLE?? Pls i hope one is single if he/she is nt married??

because, for me, as long as there is no wedding ring on this finger, then, am still single. Even if i like, let me ve 50 bfrnds or gfrnds. Abi??

Now, my question is....., hw do i brk my sis‘s r/ship wit her silly bfrnd. The guy kips beating her, even wounded her wit bottle last time. Yet, she kips going back to him.( dont knw if he cast a spell on her). Wat shld i do to save her?? because, she even plans on marrying him soon.

She will never leave him cos THAT'S THE KIND OF MAN NIGERIAN GIRLS LIKE!

Charliemorgano: To be single @ 30+ for ladies, guys should learn to support and encourage them not using hurting words ... A typical instance..i went to collect a document for my boss in ikoyi..on getting there the lady who should have given me the parcel went for lunch and locked it in her locker...One of the guys was very angry about that action that he had to confront her,an argument ensued and the guy told her that is this her bad attitude that has chased men away from her..She broke into tears...i felt bad

Touching! But the guy probably told the truth!

rita lewisky: Please I need help I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday.I feel I have allow him to play and toil with my life and this is tearing me apart, but I need to mend fast cos I can't just stop crying since yesterday. 1st he is a baby daddy of a 5 year old girl and a 2 year old boy.to make the matter worst another girl go through the line for him last week.I get to know and ask him and he said it is true that he does not have to lie about that,

You see what i just hate about women? You met a guy who fathered 2 kids fom possibly 2 different women and you went ahead to date him? Are you not the author of your own peril? I know you probably dated him cos he has a jeep and a posh house with cash to spend around. Stop whinning like most other Naija ladies here. You got wat you asked for. SMH

Creamz: I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I’m married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married.
He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn't stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.
Well, I have four kids and I don't plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I'm staying put in my marriage but I'm done being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying sex with. And I have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once this affair ends, I'm starting a new one. There's no going back now. As long as he's cheating on me, I will be cheating on me. I smile a lot these days and it's not just Jesus putting the smile on my face. This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn't anyone give me the memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story. Xoxo Happy Lagos wife.

SOURCE: http://www.mynaijagist.com/i-cheated-on-my-husband-and-i-plan-to-continue/

What's your reason for cheating on him? To get back @ him right? Well i must tell you that your intent holds no water cos he is NOT aware of the fact that you are cheating, rather you are fully aware of his infidelity so bottomline, you are the one on the losing side cos he is oblivious of what you are doing and i doubt you would let him find out because of the scandal it would bring to you and the torment and pressure you would face from family, friends and society. RETHINK: It's a man's world!

devour129: My dear you have to know some people are wired that way.they prefer to get everything they want and it's not possible.stay clear of people that can't compromise. Compromise in the sense that I know my guy is not perfect but I won't trade him for the world.this works vice versa.although it doesn't work out all the time but what the hell,we take our chance.i know some married ladies and men that don't have sex all time but does it mean they should cheat ? So my ans is YES once one always will.and it boils down to Greed and it has nothing to do with money.

Nice one...But can i ask u̶̲̥̅̊ a question? How do you know someone who will not compromise? It's not written on the forehead u̶̲̥̅̊ know?

DnigerianPrince: Thank goodness everyone has an opinion, just like an asss that you just portrayed yourself to be

What's your problem man? U came here with an issue and askd for answers which i gave my shot and now u insult me...if you had the answers, why ask ​In the first place? U must be a demented fooool. Keep asking questions about girls cheating instead of going to hustle and make dough! Anuofia nwuru anwu

DnigerianPrince: Are you saying every girl will cheat or every girl I get with will cheat? Which is it?

Both! My opinion though!

DnigerianPrince: I recently met this girl and she was honest enough to tell me that she cheated twice on her ex twice

First time with a guy, second time with another. They eventually broke up and she attributed it to her ex finding out and breaking up with her and how she was also done, according to her, she wasn't getting enough attention, care and love and had been long over the relationship before it waas over. As a matter of fact, the guy has been begging her to come back which is kinda weird considering she cheated so, might be true about the neglect.

To be fair to her, it was a long distance relationship (same country) and the guy never for once attempted to see her for over 3 months.
She was very honest with me about everything and i'm not sure many girls will do that.

With that said, this girl likes me a lot and seems to be in love with me, i'm falling for her as well and she's said the ball is in my court. My fear is that i've been a victim of a serious infidelity in a relationship, my ex cheated on me which was shattering and left me scarred

It's been a long time since that and i've pretty much been single since my ex and i'm long over it but is this the right way to get back in the game? For those hwo have cheated in previous reltionships, do you see/find yourself doing it again?

Serious reponses only

@OP, just close ur eyes to fidelity ​in any future relationship. Any girl you date will definitly cheat on you (whether this one or another). Go on till u find a woman who is compatible for u to marry unlike me who won't cos i wanna live long! As for cheating, girls MUST CHEAT. It seems to be in vogue now amongst them
Well to answer your question, anyone who cheats for the first time will def do it a second, third, fourth till infinity times cos there is always a reason to cheat for those who do it and they'll keep on making reasons for it.

If it was in Nigeria and the man no get fat bank account, the woman for carry the drone/helicopter schuck im eye.

fixmykey: I have a strong reservation about Kogi men, 3 years ago, a 32 years old man from Kogi state beheaded his girl friend in Minna Niger state because of slight provocation. Now another Kogi man. WOMEN BECAREFUL

I tell you! Kogi people are very bad and mischievious! I live ​in Abuja so i know wat i'm saying

They look HOT...anyone who thinks otherwise, post ur ugly pics for us to see

lorretta u: did u just use the word subservience?smh.u belong in the early 1670's.wtf!apeman.that's the word for it.(U).anyway just incase u r still blind to the workings of life and nature,I'd like u to open ur mind and observe life very well.look at nature and her ways.there's nothing on earth and beyond this universe that doesn't attest to superiority of the female gender.if anything like subservience should enter a relationship(I'm not in support of that word anyway in a relationship.),it's men who should pratise that.u guy are inferior creatures compared to females.I think God made Women to help redeem the shamefulness of mankind
#mytwocents#

STFU! When God created light and darkness,and called them day n night, he said it was good, he created the land and sea, he said it was good, when he created the birds of the air and the land animals he said it was good, then he created man ​I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his own image and likeness and looked at everything he created and saw that it was very good. But after he created Eve, there was no place God mention that it was good! Cos he himself knew what the world was in for. Read Genesis 1 very well to confirm

[s][/s][quote author=Amb.charles]Alll na lie joor#gurls are good pretenders[/quote]True talk, my ex did almost all that but yet i found out that the biatch was cheating

ccgold: Dear Iyaniwura,

The full details have been removed from the page. I am interested please.
Can you kindly forward to my mail ccogbu2000@yahoo.com?
Regards

Why won't it be removed? If it were that good-for-nothing OBJ, they'd leave it. Rabbishhh

He Ȋ̝̊̅§ getting married to Tonto Dikeh

divex: Dear its ladies like u that become vulnerable when u start realizing the truth. Every man is a womanizer, that is just the truth. Even pastors fall victim to this so what are u saying. Let me tell u, Love is respect, trust and understanding not those rubbish u watch on nollywood and hollywood. No man is perfect and that's y they r all prone to the womanizing thing. Keep searching for a man who doesnt womanize and u will spend d rest of ur life single and if u r married or in a rel and u tink ur man isn't doin sum tins behind then u've got it coming. The day u will find out what that man is capable of, u might fall into a coma. There is no such thing like Mr Right. I will just advise women on this, if u meet a guy who makes u happy, respects u and cares then forget the rest. No one is perfect

Gosh! Are u̶̲̥̅̊ from Nigeria? I doubt it. Second ques: Are u̶̲̥̅̊ single? If u̶̲̥̅̊ are...please marry me! **Goes down on knees**

divex: see make i tell una the truth. Every guy is a player even your very serious guy has got silly games that he's playing. No guy lacks a touch of womanizing. I think the most important thing is that ur man respects you and shows u love and care. thats where u differentiate the correct guys from the foolish guys. just as billyonaire said ''Womanizing is natural''. Ladies im not advocating for men to be womanizers but its sumtin that even the most disciplined men fall prey to so if u have a guy, just pray for me and forget cheating cos its even when u put ur mind there that it happens. TRUE TALK

Phewwww! Finally, a woman with some sense talking. Please teach them Ooº°˚˚°º≈!, that's if they are ready to learn

lastpage:
I put my two hands up!
I am EVERYTHING described over there!


I have been married for over 15years now and my wifey thinks l am the best thing that happened to her, apart from the invention of Washing Machine!

Whoever said 2 + 2 (always = 4 ) ...really got it wrong!

Just Love like there is no tomorrow, if it will work out for you, IT WILL!
If not....TRY AGAIN!

All these "Turainshi-list" never got anyone ANYWHERE!

Trust me, l got "experience" as my witness.

Lastpage!

Don't mind the author of this trash! A serious genuine prospective suitor can portray any of the traits listed based on his immediate environment, personality and/or other conditions. And then one guillible female NLer would term him to be a womanizer. Little wonder many ladies are bound to be single for life because of the rubbishh they read and digest on the internet.