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So sad that the shining light dimmed so fast...
From all the stories I've seen online, I deduced as follows:

Divorce/separation has a negative impact on the children. Co parenting is wise such that the parent who has custody should allow the other parent access to the child. It seems the lack of motherly love and care in his younger years had a huge impact on him.

A man who chooses to have custody of young children should try to delay remarriage to avoid step-mum issues. Otherwise, he can leave the kids with their mum and provide their basic needs.

Mohbad's mum said she was given a prophecy that he's a child of promise yet she abandoned that same child for many years...his growing up years when he needed her most to guide him towards the fulfillment of God's promise.

Parents should understand that although 18 is the age of adulthood, many children still need proper mentoring to reach full potential. His dad paid his fees for a higher institution but seems he didn't follow up to know in time that he had left school to become a Marlian.

People shouldn't allow poverty to becloud their views. Everyone around him seemed to be more interested in how he could lift them out of poverty than his general well being.

Patronising unregistered nurses aka auxiliary nurses is a risky venture. Seeing a doctor in reputable hospitals is safer. He could afford it. Besides, LASG has a relatively cheap health insurance scheme for those who are interested. ...IleraEko.

When in doubt about your partner, it's wise to do your checks properly and quit the relationship if need be. It's dangerous living with someone you can't trust. If all is well, it strengthens the relationship.

Those from indigent backgrounds are often not so exposed about the complexities of legal relationships. It's safer to consult relevant NGOs and experienced lawyers when signing agreements.

His parents and those around him could have sought the help of NGOs and other knowledgeable people when they realised that he was being ill-treated. Keeping quiet helps no one under the circumstances.

May Ilerioluwas gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Hmmm! Where's the Federal Character Commission in all these? The lopsided appointments ain't right at all. We complained under GEJ and PMB. I thought he'll be fair to all. Perhaps he has reasons....🤔

Maybe we need to wait till the end and then have a spreadsheet of all appointments to see and assess all at a glance. So far, not so good.

Ema2earth:
May her gentle soul rest in peace
please guys, please I've tried to get little help here to no avail, please I beg you in the name of Almighty GOD pls, If any good samaritan can please help me, no matter how little so we can buy foodstuff and cook, I will be very happy. my daughter and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on  sunday. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since Monday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for my daughter please am a single mother. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. Almighty God bless you

Acct num with faith

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G.TBank

My name is Angella Oyom. Almighty God bless you and your family

I wonder why the moderators are yet to ban this scammer who is always cursing himself with tales of a lifetime of lack and poverty.

obiekunie01:
All the names mentioned in this news na yoruba name!

from the School ASUU Chairman to the victim even the police chief!

Abeg did this happen in Niger state or Osun state

I tought yorubas stay only in yoruba land?

Very wrong assumption! Yorubas are everywhere. They just don't make a big issue out of it. They live in peace with their hosts wherever they go.

What has he done to support displaced and impoverished people in the North? Misplaced priority.

Gbadugbakun:
Seun is married. It's him and his wife who are conducting the seminar. Can't you read and see their names.

Na wa o.

His parents I think.

Mtmike:
Just imagine FG giving Inoson and Nord this 160billion for car production for 4years, I’m sure innoson with that same money can be replacing the car for the annually. Imagine how their production will increase, imagine the number of people that will get jobs….. Nigeria is cursed

True, Nord and Innoson can make a significant difference if encouraged. The ability to produce steel and batteries here will significantly reduce the need for forex.

They don't care about growing the people and the economy. It's so heartbreaking.

How does government treat and support their victims? They need restoration too. Many are still roaming about in IDP camps all over.

Osun is so burdened with loans.

Some of those flyovers may not be immediately required for traffic management. It seems more like a trend to me. Is Mayfair roundabout usually seriously congested for instance?

Why not spend more on education, health and rural infrastructure? E.g Electricity, potable water and rural roads that will enhance farming activities.

LivingSage:
The fight is only at the lower level.

The collaborate at the upper level

Difference between rich and poor

Exactly!

None for Benue, Plateau, Taraba, Gombe etc...

I hope they're considering the new appointees based on federal character after assessing the Initial ones. Fairness and justice is an important omoluabi value. PBAT needs to comply with that.

1Dray:
Sorry but Abacha was in charge in the 90's not in the 80's. Plus, even though I was in my teens, I was an active actor in my parent's business, I know how much profit my parents made in their business. I know how easy it was for my mum to throw around money given any opportunity. Can it same be said today? I know how very cheap virtually everything was back then. Today even the supposedly rich people with mansions, now resort to using firewood to cook.

I already said I referred to the 80s to show that we've had it rough before so it's nothing new. Perhaps the teaching of true history will make it easier for everyone to understand that life is in cycles. We should try to ensure that our cycles bring progress not devastation.

Yes, economically the nation did fairly well under Abacha. It wasn't because he had great policies. The economy was simply buoyant at that time. That's why his siphoning of funds and our huge investment in ECOMOG/ECOWAS had little or no significant impact on our lives. Our foreign engagements brought glory to the nation then mo doubts but if he had invested more in infrastructure, we won't be at this crossroad today.

For instance, the Lagos - Ibadan expressway and rail projects across the country could have been dealt with then. Instead, he was saving our money for us in his name.

1Dray:
Are you kidding me? I am talking about Abacha's regime, not Buhari's previous regime. Are you sure you are living on this planet then? I was in secondary school then, I never met someone in dire need then. People are now dropping dead due to starvation. He was just slaughtering desperate politicians and never starved the masses.

The essenco years preceeded that. I only alluded to the fact to show that we've been through bad times like this before. That was at some point in the 80s.

I was already a parent during the Abacha era. I know how bad things were politically especially the intimidation of perceived opponents and democrats.

Abacha, Maina, Idris (former Accountant General) and so many others are not Hausa Fulani abi?

Let's just say that the poor people who are more immersed in culture in all tribes are more trustworthy than the educated and privileged ones in society irrespective of tribe.

DNA verified?

Fugazy2023:
Invest some in forex trading and earn in dollars. I can trade for you and we share the profit 60% 40% monthly

Hmmm! Risky venture.

Gumi stirred the hornet's nest indeed.

1Dray:
That life was bad for you then wasn't my fault. Take your tears somewhere else. Don't vent your frustration on me. Life was super better for me and my family then. My parents were just business people for your information. There was no hunger and starvation like it now seen all over the place. Nigeria had never had it this bad. People now slump and die courtesy of hunger and starvation. People now experience extreme poverty.

It was hard for everyone then. We were not poor but equally felt the pain.

Are you aware of the "essenco" years when people queued to buy rationed basic commodities like milk, sugar, detergents etc?

Nigeria has come a long way. If we all choose to be positive, unselfish and focused, our nation will rise again.

Raskimonojendor:
Indomie generation pikins.

I remember the jubilation on my street when Abacha died. You would have thought Nigeria won the World Cup.

If Abacha was in power, there would be no Nairaland or Twitter in Nigeria for them to share their opinions.

Abi o. Obviously, those who were not old enough to experience the Abacha era can't understand how or why we fought so hard for democracy.

Same man still giving us alerts from money massively stolen from the treasury.

HitlerWasRight:
GEJ had a very poor showing in the SE courtesy of that thief Obi whom GEJ foolishly appointed as his SE campaign director.

SE PDP big wigs complained to GEJ that Obi was yet to mobilise funds for GEJ's re-election campaign for the SE.

Obi told GEJ that he will release the funds on the last minute to the polls which he never did.

Most SE PDP members did not do their ground mobilization because of obi's greed and centralisation of GEJ's campaign in the zone.


This is why GEJ has not been on speaking terms with Obi since he lost reelection .

Even the CPC wing of the APC warned their SW ACN counterparts not to celebrate Buhari's win as their doing but instead said it was a combination of voter apathy in the SE (brought about by Obi's greed) and the massive rigging done in the NW that saw Buhari through.

This is why GEJ never endorsed Obi but instead endorsed Tinubu in place of his own party candidate , Atiku for obvious reasons.


Obi is reaping his greed and theft of over #200bn earmarked to him as the SE PDP campaign coordinator in the 2015 elections.

No other individual has caused PDP so much damage than Obi.

Even Atiku choosing him as his running mate only saw to SE PDP working against Atiku .

The last elections, APC took Atiku's votes and allotted it to Obi .

PDP should make it part of their constitution to never accept Obi into their party.,

Ha! Interesting.

Hope he has learnt his lessons towards 2027.

Salewa97:
Land are very expensive in those area you mentioned.

It’s better you consult with local agents there.

An example for Agodi here. Bodija too go dey expensive.

Thanks

Very beautiful building on Alfred Rewane Rd. Congratulations to Mrs Alakija and FAMFA Oil.

3ple9iner:
This does not proof anything because the guy claimed that Deji and Dino paid them to burn the APC women leader in Kogi state but the house that was burnt was the PDP women leader.

Is he saying that Deji and Dino both PDP members paid them to kill a PDP member?

The way he went about exposing everything also makes it look like his goal was/is to implicate the duo, even beaten criminals don't say the truth that easily.

The inconsistency is too much but you can still choose to believe whatever you want to.

Thought so too. Was wondering why a criminal will confess about murder online to an unknown person.

Most disheartening! Since it happened in Lagos, hopefully he'll receive justice.

Offpointng:
I'll understand that of Aerodrome estate which is far better than Kolapo ishola.

But buying a land for 40m in both areas are far overpriced for it's worth

Aerodrome estate used to be the old airport at Bodija?

Salewa97:
Check Kolapo Ishola video below.

I prefer Kolapo Ishola than Lekki because Lekki is damn too dirty and smelling with bad water. It’s just a glorified overhyped place.

Kolapo Ishola is serene.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqC0C-ztNsc&pp=ygURa29sYXBvIGlzaG9sYSBncmE%3D

Please how much is land in Bodija, Jericho GRA, Agodi GRA and Oluyole Estate?

The governor should also support Nord to encourage local producers.

God bless JayJay and his lovely wife so much more.

grandstar:
Funny thing is thing I don't remember her though I used to be a TV addict in my secondary school days. I also loved listening to the news.

She was a presenter in the 60s I think. Pioneer staff in 1959.