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No matter how rich or accomplished, the average young woman never passes up any opportunity to sexualize herself. They can't help themselves.

Even random poses for photos are sexualized if you look closely by the way she positions her behind, boobs, or pouts.

iamoyindamola:
Ofcourse na wetin go cause the shakara be that
I have never seen an ulgy and broke lady doing shakara sapaand loneliness will deal with her severely

There are many on Facebook and even on Nairaland. All she has to do is put on wigs, do makeover, wear revealing clothes, post Photoshop pictures, then posture like a big girl by posting pictures of herself in exquisite places. Places she didn't pay to go to.

And she goes on multiple dates with men so she can snap pictures of herself and of food as content for her Instagram, Tik Tok, and Facebook to lure the biggest 'fish' she can. Why do you think most of them choose the venues of the dates?

If she can control the optics, men would salivate and throng after her even as ugly and broke as she is in person.

You really should understand how young women operate these days.

OasisX:


........absolutely.

You criticised Buhari in 2018 due to the hardship then went on to support him for the 2019 election and throughout his 2019 - 2023 tenure..
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I should know this since we had a similar point pop up last year and I dug up posts of yours to corroborate my stance. Heck! You were defending Buhari right up to the cash crunch period then switched when you thought it was to work against BAT. Right on this thread.

OasisX:


.....make una dey calm down, show a receipt of me defending Buhari for 2nd term.

Are you sure you want to do this? Are you really sure?

nkemdi89:
His people has finally gotten him, after that music and the popularity not much was heard from him , his career nose dived.

Not really. He got millions and cars from Akpabio as Governor, and the next thing he had relocated to the U.S. instead of building on the success of his hit song, album and cross-regional acceptability.

There were a number of then up-and-coming Akwa Ibom artistes in 2011 - 2012 he could have taken under his wings, including MC Galaxy, but he relocated abroad and was forgotten.

By the time he tried making a comeback, everyone had moved on. And he had no hit to match the "Akwa Ibom Ayaya" success. Same thing happened to Bigiano of the 2008 "Shayo" fame and Sean Tizzle of the 2013 "Sho le" fame.

Iyanya who released "Kukere" same time as Mish's "Akwa Ibom Ayaya" in 2011 from the same Akwa-Cross region stayed back and was a household name and mega star till 2016. He's made a comeback now.

Ellexy:
One year ago today.

The off-Nairaland virtual social circle of this page is smaller than we think. From screenshots over the years and months, it seems most of us interact with intersecting Nigerian social commentary pages.

Iyen Na Nice, Ade Damola, Kelechi Deca, Adeoti, "Olubadan-in-Waiting", Mazi Abe...

Interesting.

sageb:
I concur

BudgIT does this already. I subscribed for notifications about Akwa Ibom State and my LGA allocations since 2018 so get monthly notifications.

FAAC allocation.
ECAs.
Capital projects budgeted for at state, federal constituency, and LGA levels too, and updates about project implementation.


I follow all these closely so know them by heart and it's why I reel out these precise figures.

Today, hundreds of millions of men (single ones especially) would expend gazillions purchasing gifts for women who would at most offer them sex which is mutually pleasurable in return as gifts, and the foolish men would think the reward is enough.

If you are sure she won't get you gifts, don't get her gifts. And if she can't afford any tangible gifts, you are a fôôl for being with a brôke woman. Some would even send monetary gifts to women far away who would be sleeping with other men today.

Spoil only the woman who makes an effort to spoil you at intervals.

But beta males wouldn't heed this advice.

BlueRayDick:
Person wey dey deluded. Maybe him na APC ward chairman for for one LGA for Northern Kaduna sef; I no know.

The interesting thing is, the protests are starting and spreading in de facto APC strongholds.

The chicken would come home to roost. In fact, the chicken is home already.

Don't blame Buhari. Don't blame Tinubu. Pray for the President, but same you stated the below:

monerozi5590:
I don't want to make this points because some people here are very emotional and will start attacking you unnecessary. I have already told you the places I fault Buhari, insecurity and him not being proactive.

Jonathan crippled us. His corruption was on another level. Did you remember when Ngozi cried out about people coming to meet Jonathan at night for dubius import waiver? . Spending money recklessly as if he was drunk.

Buhari really tried based on what he met how he has managed it so far.

I bet you if Jonathan were to be the president right now, we would have even had it worse.

ToyinDipo:
Good instinct is based on some obscure knowledge base, there are some patterns that have been accumulated consciously or unconsciously in the mind over time, that it gets to some point that someone may not be aware of it, but when need arises, we instinctively adapt those patterns, without realizing, to formulate a solution.

Some make decisions basely on data(often more accurate but bounded), while others on instinct or mixture of both.

Instincts and intuition are two different things. The first is pre-coded into (sentient) beings and reactions based off some knowledge like patterns gleaned over like you've explained;while the second, intuition, is based on nothing but raw gut feeling.

The validity of that gut feeling we call intuition is what is being debated. But there's no scientific explanation for it.

chopnaira:
They should free the guy. Nigerian social media space has been so toxic since late 2022.

Iwobi was shit for most of the tournament. Fans complained, TV pundits did too, but the coach kept playing him.

We lost the midfield game yesterday so the attack couldn't master any counter as nobody fed them. Osimhen had zero shot on target.

Bombblacks:
Those examples don't even fall under gut feelings

Actually, they do. Gut feeling is having the urge or push to do something or some insight into a situation with no fore knowledge of it.

After all, most things we do as humans are based on the knowledge we have. And if you have NO pre-knowledge of it yet so certain about the outcome due to some inner conviction, it's gut feeling.

Bombblacks:
Spot on. Gut feeling when something seems off is just fear. it's your brain doing subconscious pattern recognition.

Fear? Gut feeling embodies instincts and intuition, and more.

Like encountering a tech problem you've never had before and without checking a tutorial, you fix it. Didn't learn it, never seen anything similar, but you know how to fix it instinctively.

Or like trying to prepare a certain novel native meal. The recipé is hazy, you've never done it before, but somehow you're led on to do it this way and simmer it that way, and it turns out to be a great meal.

Tell me how fear applies to both gut feeling scenarios.

Realmrsean:
they re all features of the brain 🧠 and mind.. nothing extraordinary..

Just like dreams

Maybe; then again, maybe not. Even evolutionists do not agree the evolution theory is absolute - they still debate it.

But scientists have made one submission which we all agree with - we only understand a fraction of how the brain (mind) works. We don't even know it's full capabilities.

It's like generative AI - cooking up a gazillion possibilities. It also has proven telepathic abilities where you look at a person and you communicate with eyes alone. Who says it doesn't have other abilities?
The abilities emcompassed in what we call "gut feeling"?

Until we understand how it works and have a full explanation for it, dismissing it is playing ostrich.

sageb:
Reigners church back then.
Alas! The case against the Bishop for building structure negligence was swept under the carpet by the powers in authority.

You know the story. Bishop Akan Weeks. So many promising young men and women died that day with no closure for their families till date.

Realmrsean:
this is an coincidence, you want to tell me all the times your guts feeling sets in.. something relatively tragic has happened in alignment to your supposed gut feeling?

That's the whole point. There's no scientific explanation for that gut feeling. It's even more puzzling when there's no precedence of such occurring to you yet you have feel a strong urge to do otherwise.

Just like that sudden urge to take a detour off a route you've driven for years without fail. You ask yourself why, but no explanation, yet you still feel that voice say, "No, go that way".

You can't explain it, I can't, science can't.

I'm barely even religious so it can't be attributed to being churchy or other such attributions to the divine. But we still can't explain what drives gut feeling.

liveLongNprospa:
If your instincts kick in, omo it's a very hard thing to shake off no matter who or what the situation will cost.

December 10, 2016. The bishop of a big church was being ordained. I had accepted an invite to be there so had rushed back into the city. A Saturday it was. The Governor was billed to be there.

I was all set to go but at the dying minute, changed my mind to watch EPL games. Funny thing is, the games do not start till midday and Barça had a game for that evening so I would have been done with the church attendance before then. There was no logical reason not to attend but I just had this gut feeling not to. Even ignored the reminders by the person who invited me.

Decided to go visit friends instead, and as we were bantering and trolling each other's teams, news filtered in of the church collapse by late noon. Several people died, including the person who invited me. At the spot. I'd have been seated beside the person certainly.

Joe and Lezz kept trying to reach me, and the later did late at night to confirm my safety since I had mentioned to them in passing when we chatted I'd be attending.

Gut feeling is something we can't explain. But it's potent. Very potent.

BlueRayDick:
The man was a pastor.

Dr Ola Brown who once flew with him in her tribute to him narrated how they flew together in a doggy copter and the man slept all through the flight while they were scared to death. The man obviously believed in the saying " when it is ur time, It is ur time"

I guess the PA doesn't and the man most likely felt he lacked faith.

Three human phenomena even the most ardent atheist has explanation for:

- Instincts
- Intuition
- Clairvoyance

There's no absolute explanation for these phenomena. Sometimes you just have that gut feeling there's no logical explanation for, and if you ignore it, you'd rue your mistake for life if you are lucky to survive it.

Odunayaw:
Didn't read any of the excrement.

Thought to dignify you as a human with this response though.

Be better.

You can't even read or comprehend to begin with. If you could, you'd be able to critique intelligently instead of having blind faith. Everyone kept complaining about the midfield. Everyone but you and your faux -patriotic cohorts who questioned the nationality of any of us who dared asked questions.

But you have less than the intelligence of a cuttlefish. A rodent would have realized the obvious faster than you.

Odunayaw:
That one de look for attention

You fickleminded nîtwit. You think I give a tuppence about you wishy nûmbskulls?


You wishy-washy simpleminded thing who thinks everyone who points out the flaw in a system is háteful.

Our midfield was as good as dead. Our players were bragging about winning all over social media. We the pragmatic ones warned about being complacent. You the happy-go-lucky ones countered us for pointing out the obvious.

Exactly what we pointed out happened - complacency.

It's the same way you have blind faith in public officials and call out those who demand better as a hatérs of Nigeria, even when the system has to be rejigged.

You deserve a high-five. In the face. With a plank.

If you are a Messi fan like me, after the devastating heartbreak of the 2014 World Cup final, no football result can shock you just as much.

Almost a decade of being hardened. Some sort of vaccine to the aftershock of football loss. A thousand AFCON final losses just feels like one of those things.

LordTheus:
It's gonna be a long night on Twitter, that's for sure 😂.

Ghana is going to get revenge on us.

I warned! Faith alone gives you nothing. Nothing!

Faith without work is dead. Our midfield was dead.

It's the same way we keep hoping Nigeria would get better when the system continues to reward Iwobi-esque public office holders and excuses away their many shortcomings.

DissTroy:
And this overconfidence from fans and players alike might be our undoing.

DissTroy:
Fans are completely fixated on the fun of trolling Ghana and South Africa all year long that we are looking past the actual game.

For us Twitter banter supersedes the possibilities of the 90 minutes on the pitch.

DissTroy:
Same Bible you pontificate with says faith without works is dead. To compliment the faith, do the work on the pitch tomorrow.

And the first thing is not looking past the match to make post-match celebratory declarations.

Cape Verde wasn't supposed to lose to SA based off pre-game analyses. A section of their media were already talking up plans to match up with us.

Still think I am a pessimist?

A pragmatic realist more like.

Mujtahida:
Pessimist, get behind me

Typical overly-religious Nigerian - wishing against wish that everything gets better when no plans have been made to make it better.

We are being outplayed. Our midfield is absent. But, hey, your wish would wash all of that away.

Everyone who complained about Iwobi on this thread has been proven right, again. Today especially.

I warned about being complacent and players already preparing post-match celebrations.

Mujtahida:
Na their house dem siddon abi? People that went to train after winning SA. Quoting scripture without seeing the practical reality of the situation before you. Are these boys the type of players who are not ready to do the work before you talk of faith without works? Abegi

We who believe will make that declaration NOW: Naija don win. That's my choice. You can choose to be careful and hesitant. I believe we will win. And we are not making post - celebratory declarations. No. That one is for you after we win. We are expressing the certainty of our belief NOW. Even if we don't win, nothing spoil but you see that believe, I believe am die that we will win!

If you don't grasp it, forget it.

DissTroy:
Most of you don't realize it but Ekong, our captain's name, literally means "war" in his native Ibibio language.

I repeat, Ekong means war!!!!!!!!!!!

liveLongNprospa:
Have you first admitted you made a mistake with your earlier post?

Have you admitted you have been comparing a Lieutenant to THE General?

Google-search "Greatest La Liga midfielders of all time".
Kroos is never mentioned. Xavi is always in top 2 on any list. Modric sometimes even gets mentioned in the top 15, but never Kroos. Not even once.


https://www.sportskeeda.com/football/10-best-midfielders-in-la-liga-history

https://m.allfootballapp.com/news/epl/5-Greatest-Midfielders-in-La-Liga-History/2792034


Do show any list where Kroos is mentioned and more particularly, any top 5 or top 10 list of greatest midfielders where Kroos is mentioned. Even one.
In contrast, all the lists always have Xavi on them.

Just about every radio station and hospitality outfit has been playing Tyla's "Water" since beating South Africa, and even more so today, the AFCON final. Everyone. If you tune in or linger for a few minutes, her song would come on.

Nigerians are petty.