₦airaland Forum

Who made them head of state? They are criminals except Obasanjo cos he handed over to a democratically elected government!

If you treat a girl right and she leaves you just like that prob cos she saw a new guy, many atimes they want to come back when they realise all that glitter is not gold. I have experienced it a couple of times but not as serious as this

pocohantas:
Regrets come when things are not going well. If the new guy is treating her right- maybe put a ring on it, she won't remember this OP.

So, all those petty formula of ignore her, wait for her to call na wash. People only come up with that because they are so deluded into thinking they are the only ones that can treat a partner right and they are also evil enough to hope the new partner fûcks up- hence the anticipated REGRET.

What does if she doesn't allow you to wipe her after sex mean? Cant she wipe herself clean?

Dont use God's name in vain

Igetmyown247:
I’m sorry but this crack me up so bad, lmao

When they say premarital sex is a sin you people will not hear. God is watching you in the form of a rat

Wrong advice. Nothing happened and it should remain so. He shouldn't repeat it but telling the wife is a wicked act.

msjanet:
Simply tell her, she might forgive you.

When you have a clock hanging over you head to get married or be displaced by incoming generations and you're there comparing yourself with a man as though both of you have same luxury of time, na Shiloh you go end up las las

Hustle hard my guys even if not for yourself but your children

Who said BBN has no use...making stars and marriage.

Supreme court should do right by Nigerians and sack Bubu. Bubu will ruin Nigeria that will require decades to restore.

Abaribe is a very wise man. This has been my position.

Reasons why Bubu is being tolerated
1) They brought him in saying he will turn Nigeria to Dubai. They are disappointed and most especially ashame.
2) Bubu does not respect rule of law and human rights. If you criticize him too much, they will find skeletons in your cupboard or put skeletons in your cupboard and deal with you.
3) Our southern leaders wants power shift at all cost so willing to do anything to please Bubu. How many big politicians in the South have said anything about Sowore apart from Ezekwesili?

Why will he budget more than 48billion when affidavit cost #2000?

He is doing it for politics. Bubu did same when he said he will continue to advocate the spreading of sharia law over Nigeria in 2001. He also said attack on Bokoharam is anti-North and that made him extremely popular. In the North, if you're a fanatic, your popularity increases. Had it been muric guy is a northerner, he would have had massive cult like following! This governor does not believe in Islam doctrines per se but trying to profit from religious fanaticism

If affidavit can occupy presidency then what shameful about his kinsmen?

Yet nothing to show for it. Incompetence in its affidavit form!

Supreme court has turned itself to a fraud!

You never know with the North

niaralandtopuser:
yellow fever in this modern age? I thought we got immunized against it?

Nobody said women should share bills equally.
You are only being asked to share some part. If all the stress you mentioned women go through
are more than men, how come men die more? Check the number of widowed women and you'll know how stressful it is to be a man

Shallypop:
That's d world women live now. There is nothing bad being your husband's help mate especially when he's financially down but these men now feel entitled to splitting bills. Some women share a larger responsibility in marriage. Imagine a woman going thru pregnancy, labour ,trying to get her body back, doing house chores, cooking, sleepless nights for new born baby, taking care of d child/children and these men expect us to share the bills equally. It's truly men's world.

Everytime she shouts she's 16 to make it look like she's too wise for her age. If indeed she's 16, she should be focusing on studies and not resident here. This place should be for 18yrs and above.

GrabHisBalls:
Why is a 16yrs old resident on Nairaland? Seems your mother has no idea of what you do with your phone and it's worrisome. You should be surfing the net over productive things, not here reading and replying adult contents. This place could be addictive and if you're not careful, you'll pay little attention to your books which are a priority now. I wish I knew your mum.

You have repeated your daughter's care severally. Did you abandon him when your daughter was born? Did your sex life reduce? are you saying you from your end there is no trigger for his behavior? Do you compare him, appreciate his effort or complain based on your supposed standard?
Also, note that the early period of marriage is the most challenging cos both couples begin to realize that the package they saw is different from reality. It takes time to adjust to reality and requires patience, understanding, and communication. Certainly, he must be complaining of something, what is it?

Zhuhilat:
Thanks all. I appreciate.

Truly speaking, i am just tired of it all.
I do not know how a very comfortable young girl, working in the health sector, traveling to different countries for conferences ended up here.

I feel like this is my life now, no light at the end of this tunnel

No my husband isn’t broke we earn really really well and i am not doing baldly either.

My biggest worry is for my child.
Also when is enough is enough?
I dont want to loose myself. I am just 26.

So sorry for ranting but it is better than talking to family members that will gossip about you.

Even in Imo state not every village agrees with Mbaise. This is due to our foolishness of seeing differences when we should be seeing commonalities

Chimookigwe:
Why then did they seize the properties of Easterners during the civil war?

Look at the names very well and forget the title.Rivers indigenous tribes history is no more than probably a 1000 yrs. They migrated from east mainly

Chimookigwe:
Not at all.
Since that boy ignorantly said they all bear Igbo names, I had to sarcastically reply him.

They are. We cant have people with little cultural differences claiming to be separate. How old is their history? Upto 2000yrs?

Amarabae:
Why all dis desperation to associate the Niger delta minorities with Igbo?
They are not Igbos pls.
Enough of all this unnecessary argument.
Thanks

Igbos cry because they are ambitious. Others tends to be ok with mediocrity. Wonder why the igbos are the richest ethnic group despite the Biafra war?

LegendHer0:

And what has being republican in nature got to do with measure of superiority? What is my own with Igbo being a republican and how does that fit into this discussion? What is my own about republican or not?

When you know all the roads in Nigeria are bad, why then is it that it’s only the Igbo man that cries most about marginalization? The government is trying to repair the airport runway in the SE, yet you people still cry marginalization that they are trying to close it down? If they don’t repair it you will still complain.

He is a member of the PDP so its conflict of interest. The report will not be seen to be credible

sonnie10:
And he couldn’t monitor the last election in Nigeria.
He has done this monitoring enough to be able to a have a strong organization that presents independent report despite what the electoral body says.
Such report could be used as expert findings during election tribunal.

He is a member of PDP so its conflict of interest! The report would not be seen to be credible even if it actually is

sonnie10:
And he couldn’t monitor the last election in Nigeria.
He has done this monitoring enough to be able to a have a strong organization that presents independent report despite what the electoral body says.
Such report could be used as expert findings during election tribunal.

You again?! You know; because you are at the receiving end, you dont know the effort involved.
Before you continue with this your constant
criticism, try approaching a guy you like and tell him how you feel about him then come back here to criticize. Again, who do you think you are!

Blackivy27:
What of another guy that was like,"you are so beautiful, if i were to say i love you or die, i would use my last breath to say i love you". All through i could sense the internal struggle in him to remember the words. He's my neighbour and 23yrs.

I think i have to stop being too nice to every tom, dick and harry. But i dont know how to say no

Guys my point again is pick up lines arent cool anymore. Its so wide spread that, women know the next word you'll likely say. Be ORIGINAL. You can aproach her. Just say hi and introduce yourself. Thats effortless and cool.

I share many similarity with the OP. Difference is I dont think anything is wrong with me...I love my personality!

I'm suspecting this your 'teenhood'....If you are actually a teen then you're too mature for your age...which may not necessarily be a good thing , I really dont know. Seems you got expose quite early even though not sexually like you claimed. Anyways, I see your inputs here and I say kudos

Blackivy27:
someone pointed out a fact to me. Im a teen and so are the guys. Things might change

To be honest, if guys are chasing frequently with a particular line....be grateful. Shows you're attractive most likely. Some ladies want to be chased like this. also know that this chasing is for a while. spoil my chance? Her dont know me, do her ?

Blackivy27:
Be careful honey. God might just bless me for all the sh!tty lines ive endured. And if bill will shine my shoe, that leaves you...

Dont spoil your chance before it has even been given to you.

who do you think you are?

Blackivy27:
If i had a dollar for every time i've been told that, bill gates would be shining my shoe.

English : boo are real
Pidgin: bu ha ri