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DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me

Hungry kee you der

Bedtec:
What if the story is true ? Some people are evil

Lol. When someone plays the victim and puts a 100% blame on the person who can't speak for themselves, then that person is a liar. He painted himself as an angel, a saviour, and the victim, only himself

Nigeria:
You have a good partner, you have your family and your community, you have a well paying job with opportunity for growth.

Canada:

You will study and set yourself back 7 years. You will start your hustle from the bottom when you are in your 30s, you will have no partner, no family, no community. Solitude and isolation will be a challenge to overcome. By the time you start your first job you'll be making the equivalent of #400k (1,300 Canadian $).

The reality is that by the time you are in your 40s you will reach the equivalence of your life now at 27. You will be a Canadian citizen and you will have the opportunity to blow if you have the patience, discipline, and ambitions, but you will be a decade behind your current path. If it's citizenship you want then go to Canada, if it's a family, and good money then stay where you are.

These people won't rest with these fake stories just to bash women!

Lol! Check out this zero-wood script now, this one even woke up at 5am to trend


Chauvinists, misogynists, masochists, menists, food done land

prettysassygirl:
Men would say anything to get into your skirt, no be today ,they are always having marital issues and the wives don't want to always divorce them, this line can't get me period. This line has been thrown at almost every single lady,if u like u fall mugu that one concern you. It never ends well with all these emotional trauma shioor

Why do we fall for this bs! The wife is always evil and his biggest mistake but his marriage certificate is intact

For all op knows, wifey is on her 3rd child (twins and pregnant again) and she's at home while he is away for work! When he gets what he wants he'll disappear back to his state. This is the road to premium tears

I'm just laughing at the irony, he's having a (technical) affair with you but wants to convince you that he has never cheated on his wife. Lol! Continue, when it's your turn you'll understand the kinda man he is and the kinda woman you are.

Leave that woman's man alone until he is Divorced legally because the way you're going, you're walking into the mistress role with all this grammar. Life is simple it's people who complicate it. This is a married man and that's all you need to know.

This is what happens when you marry a male bimbo. Nonsense, I would never stand for such foolish talk, is he the only good-looking person alive?

F*** that fool and ask for your divorce before he transfers all the std, hiv, and all the evil spirits in your neighborhood to you.

I dated a guy like this, who spoke like that, and he ended up on my block list, because you can't turn a Fboy into a husband.

How do you know that's his side chick?

This is not how a relationship is meant to be, you can't buy love, you can't bribe love, you can't guilt someone to love you. It's meant to be easy, pure, and effortless.

I really feel sorry for you

You're dating yourself by yourself but you don't know it yet...

You intentionally picked women who are not fine... Pretty women are pretty with or without make. Make up on a pretty girl makes her jump from a 6/7 which is average beauty to a 10 which is "wow."

Either your wife is on NL already narrating this story or it's all clout chasing from the same op...

Stop picking your nose. Always use tissue and wash your hands after. Wash your hands often if you can't Stop touching your face.

ChybuzzDD:
When you can't take your time to read people's posts and understand them, please don't rush to give any advice. It's not mandatory you do

The op is in no way jealous of the child establishing contact with her real father nor proud.
His main worry here is that the wife didn't carry her along before, during and after establishing that contact. He had to hear it from an outsider.
That will give any reasonable and responsible man a serious concern.
How can a sensible person describe his reaction as pride??
Where dem manufacture una?
I hope you kids know that husbands are the heads of families and should be accorded that respect?

What you should be saying is that the man should forgive her since she has apologised.

Let's be honest though... he said himself: I was against the decision but I didn't want to say my mind first , I wanted her to decide first  to see if she is grateful for me to be in the child life and she said she will ignore him and block him because he doesn't deserve to be in her life. I have told her I supported her decision


How could he be against a decision but support the decision?

The wife knew that it would hurt his feelings and she just didn't know what to do. She prioritised her child and that was her mistake which she apologised for and explained.

We honestly need to stop with these tantrums when children are involved. Your wife lied to you and that is her ONLY mistake. She has apologized and explained why she lied, it's now left to you to forgive her.

You made the mistake of adopting someone else's child when that person was alive. That child has a God given right to know her biological father. You are her step father and that is an important role in itself.

Please stop making this about you and remember there are 3 other people involved in this. If you were a good dad to this little girl with conditions then you made a mistake. Don't break up your family, understand the situation without being emotional, and try to heal from the betrayal. And finally move forward with your family.

I wish you peace and happiness in your home. May God heal your broken heart, and give you the wisdom to lead your family once again. AMEN!

YES! for two driven, motivated, and ambitious people...

What a pointless endeavor

Richy4:
Your last paragraph almost made me go mushy .. Nothing will happen to u for now.. just keep the hopes up....If u argue too much for real, maybe it's time to argue less and let certain things slide...
We will all die someday, we only pray for postponement...

Lol. I wouldn't say that I argue too much, but I am opinionated, and I do need to let somethings slide. Guns are illegal where I live so... I might get a kick-in before I get a shot to the head.

I wouldn't tell someone I saw them die.
I had a dream that was a lucid dream about 3 weeks ago of my own death. It really freaked me out and it was so clear that I remember it clearly until now.

I fell asleep watching a true crime episode so I know that it was just my brain processing what I last saw before bed and the show was probably still playing while I slept so I was picking up on it.

I dreamt that I was shot in the head in the middle of an argument at home. I still remember the feeling of the bullet lodged in my head and I was saying my last prayers because the medical team were ignoring me.

I found so much comfort that God was on my tongue throughout the whole ordeal and I woke up feeling good. I prayed that when I do die may my prayers and the name of my creator be the last words I utter. It was a reassuring and validating dream despite the content of the dream.

SenecaTheYonger:
This one no even sabi life. She’s using the OP to pepper the other guy.

How can you not understand primary one psychology of women?

Op was just a marketing tool

SeaTrade:
And then she go now tell the guy to wait one side while she open her teeth and be smiling sheepishly for the guy that has been stalking her everywhere? Is that how noble stalkers are treated nowadays?
Not exactly

You don't get it... she's showing that other guy that her market is popping. That rich sharp guys are chasing her and disturbing her. That guy is going to work harder now and he will spend more...

She used you to shine lol

She probably told the guy you're some guy dying for her and you stalking her everywhere

Why are they calling you 'Mr' are you disturbing little girls? Ewwww! Respect your old age sir!

hearttoheart001:
. Like me being, the boss, authoritative, controlling, and domineering right?

No... you confident, self assured and being able to work without supervision

I think you're a good man but you have confused confidence and decisiveness with being bossy and overbearing. They're not the same thing

It's nice to have a man who wants to include you in the important decisions but we don't always need to be included. You can't ask for my opinion on every matter. If it's a good idea, and you're confident that it will work then you don't need to run it by her.

Women want to feel safe and if you are able to make smart, responsible decisions then you make them and own them. Everything doesn't have to be an us decision, it's comforting to know that your man has everything under control and that you don't have to worry about certain things. I think you just overdo on the whole carry her along thing... trust yourself, and she will celebrate your smart moves.

Favfables1:
Chief...
Can you show me just one place in scriptures where God gave man a wife after Adam??

I'm not Christian...

Like attracts like... soooooo, if you're woman isn't like this then you need to look in the mirror. God gives you your equal. Good men for good women, and bad men for bad women. It's really that black and white.

*argue with your keypad*

Palazee:
The man should thank God that he discovered the hoe he married in time

If na me i will take that ik boy out and buy him a drink

For those Bītches and SIMPs calling the boy names only

There is a shīt called consensual sex

The bītch could have easily said no but guess what she did otherwise

Am even sure she told the husband no sex too marriage

Don't be deceived

Authority: Don't be a SIMP

You think you've made sense but you come across as a weak man. This man disrespected your home, your trust and your intelligence and you would take him out for a drink? You sound like a child lol. What if you have children in your home and he is doing that in the same home where you're children are sleeping?

The woman is the worst but I don't think the friend rates you either so you begging bromance is weak asf! I'd divorce her and deal with him just for the disrespect.

I'm shocked that she is still in the room talking. People have no fear these days

If it was me, I'd be running down the street looking for the nearest bus to my village

realmatters:
. They are videos from MIT. CODING, data structure, and Algorithm.

Your brokenness is showing

Send him the $500 nah

Broke people living their fantasy online. When you log out and gari is staring back at you

That is an old man, and she looks embarrassed

realmatters:
. I have suffered, I thought I was talking to an adult with a ball. Go back to your book boy run along

You're such an idiot... so I should spend MY money to prove that you are rich?

Begging is in your blood so send that dm and let me bless you

realmatters:
. I like this... buy a bitcoin worth $500 drop the detail here, let a lucky winner claim it. There is a lot of visa agent on Nairaland so I ask them to plan a tour for you. I gladly fund your tour to the BAHAMAS. Please put your mouth where your money belongs. Where I come from(Anambra), we talk money, we understand money. Let do it openly on this platform. Again I can change your fortune for good, learn your place. I give you 30 minutes to do this.

Ok. Find your nearest bush and bury £500. Take a picture and post it here. I told you I'll send you a private plane so don't be ashamed just send a private message. Where I come from (Peckham) we bury our money where we shit. Let's do it here and now. I give you 24hours.