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Mental illness is worse than physical illness.

I would guess that he's struggling with bipolar. I might be wrong about it but he is displaying the same kinda traits that a someone I know has when they stop taking their medication. The psych docs come back with a sectioning act and they let themselves into the property and strap them to a bed and take them into hospital. After 6 weeks they're a different person but then they'll neglect their medication and the cycle continues.

pansophist:
It's easy to fall in love when you're young. Then, parents are responsible for you, and one still see the world in fairy tales. But as we transitioned into adulthood, love now means responsibility.

Because when a girl tell you now that he loves you, in your head, what you'll hear is "can you take care of me permanently"?

The baby is communicating with another dimension

Why is this on fp... am I meant to laugh at domestic violence?

This forum is really gone to the dumpsters.

Kc and Jojo, all my life

You took me back to my first love.

Back when we believed in love

pansophist:
Yes, thats how I relive childhood memories, it's inexplicable. Westlife reminds me of love between me and my childhood sweetheart. We use to sing that song to each other, it's evergreen in our heart unto this day. I re-experience those beautiful memories when any track from the "coast to coast" album is played.

Music is a time stamp, nature's magic to back travel and feel younger one again.

To be honest those titles were given to him on a silver plate so I don't feel sorry for him. Imagine bringing yourself such shame at such an old age! Dirty pigs! I hope every pedo is shamed on earth and may God forgive their evil souls in the end...

I still listen to DMX... you can take the girl out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the girl

The track Damien 1 2 & 3 still hits me...

EndRape2:
You are the most foolish human on earth,
All your words shows you are senseless , you sent your back to the east so you can have access to other girls, yes girls are many very many, three are even small, more will come for you, until they run and destroy you.

Nairaland has become a dumping ground for foolish people

I've never seen you quote a post properly, is it that hard for you?

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

socialmediaman:
That’s your personality so keep being who you are. There are people like you everywhere. Also people do that abroad a lot so it’s a mature thing to do

LOL! Which abroad do people let others take advantage of them for the sake of peace? What's mature about being a doormat?

Maybe it's a personality trait, you're agreeable and aviod confrontation. If it doesn't effect you and you don't become resentful then I'd say carry on. But if it's putting you out or making you feel some kind of way then stop it.

I'm stubborn and I don't enjoy peace at my expense so I fight for my rights and I give people their rights. If I do you wrong then I will be the first to say I'm sorry but if you do me wrong and you don't fix it then we're going to have problems until you do right by the situation and I think if it becomes a habit then I will abandon the relationship. Life is hard enough without you adding your issues to my plate.

He wants his money and the pics were his collateral

If you were a woman then nairalanders would tell you to run away but because you are a man they are now telling you to beat her!

LOL! Such a simplistic crew we have here

GboyegaD:
Keep whining and not take action. It isn't by prayer sis.

Same can be said for men!

GboyegaD:
We give it to both but most importantly remind the ladies that they are the ones who are at the receiving end since a man can't get pregnant.

That's the problem... this double standards. The responsibility falls on both shoulders no buts or ifs. To each their own but where I come from, the unfortunate man will suffer greatly and for those reasons it's not common for a man to abandon his responsibility. He can marry her and do right by her and her family but if it doesn't work out then he can divorce her but at least that child is recognized as a child born in wedlock and their father is known by all. Baby mama can never be our title (amen)

GboyegaD:
Perhaps you haven't been informed, pregnancy is the result of an act. If you don't want that to happen to you or any female in your family, then teach yourselves not to engage in acts that results in pregnancy.

How about we give men this same message instead of advocating what the op is advocating which is to give the man a free pass.

QuinModah:
After wifing a woman you go see thousand of terrible characeter resurrected in her....

Go close to your married gees and they will tell you the torment they endure during marriage.

When a man pregnates a girl, you take responsibility AS LONG AS YOU ARE FINANCIALLY READY AND THE CHILD IS YOURS.... you mustn’t wife her.

Impregnating a girl doesn’t mean you must wife her.

You can only be trapped by a lady when married to her.

Ladies know this cos they have expiry date and they weaponize you with guilty card game when it’s marriage time.

I hope you will stand proud with your chest when your man impregnates you and refuses to marry you.

This probably a guys moniker anyway

I feel sorry for the guy who tries that shi with me or any woman in my family because the men in our family don't play them games.

Degunners:
OK will try this. Thanks

The underlying issue seems to stem from low self esteem and self worth. You're trying to impress people and appear more than you are which is something you could work on and change.

The problem isn't the debts because you will pay them off but then you will borrow again. You need to get to the root of the problem which is "why do you do this?"

You need therapy to understand yourself and once you get it then you'll move past it.

Some women use sex as a weapon to control their husband but a lot of women just lose the urge for it.

Child birth, financial struggles, emotional neglect, all these dry up her sexual appetite. Sex involves mental attachment for women, it's not just a physical activity for them.

If you went into marriage for sex then you might be disappointed.

during the night, she would scream and cry... While i hold her hands and cry with her

That made me cry...

All Praise belongs to The Most High.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. May Allah give you and your beautiful daughter many more happy, blessed, and guided years together. Amen

Happens for a week once a month... mine is linked to my ovulation period. It's an intense longing and I just melt and become all mushy when I see a baby. Then the feeling goes away until the next month. I think it's nature's alarm clock. I gotta use my brain though because I don't want to get pregnant because of a feeling that will disappear.

SultanOfAbia:
If beards are so evil
Jesus would have shaved his beards naa

Do you honestly believe that the guy in that picture IS Jesus

justagirltoo:
All these women this, women that... It is not by force to end up with a woman, you can always choose to be with your fellow man... Since y'all have low body counts.

They're are the only virgins left so they should give their virginity to all these willing gay men instead of monitoring adult women's private parts

TheGidRedpiller:
Men Take What Is Available To Them As Long As They Have Nothing To Loose, For Every Asset A Woman Hopes To Sell, There Are Corresponding Men Hungrilly Waiting To Buy It.
My Point Exactly; If A Woman Hoped To Be A Thott, Men Would Buy It, If Another Woman Hopes To Respect Her Pride And Sexxuality Until Marriage, There Are Still Men That Would Buy It!!

It Is Based On The Woman's Life Choice, Men Will Go With Anything Processed For Them, Women Are Just The Ones Who Prefer To Wh0r£!!

Since we ALL get the D either way then what's all this hoha all about

The virgin gets her man
The sexually active gets her man
Why are you disturbing us with this captain obvious sermon and you think you're making some new discovery

TheGidRedpiller:
Oga stop deceiving yourself because of a hole. MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME!

Whether you choose to believe this simple truth or not, the fact still remains.
Men are purchasers, we are the ultimate risk bearers, it is unwise for us to invest our quality resources on something that has long lost its value!

You can't prefer a 2nd handed product to the original one unless you don't have choice.
A key that opens any door is a master key, but a door that opens to any key is useless!!

So, for your simple mind, there are some holy back up women waiting for you after you fvck 100s of women and your mates fvck 100s of women? Lol! How are you guys not understanding the math here? Virgins who are your mates are finished because you fvcked them! This is absolutely hilarious. If men get to fvck whoever they want, where are these virgins kept that you intend to marry?

If men won't so bad at sex then women wouldn't have a count. For men who do nothing but fvck, these nigga can't fvck! But my bc is 3 and I married number 4

ENGINEERG:
The work is the stress, and no one enjoy work or stress too...

Nobody is forcing you, stay by yourself and enjoy your life if that's what you want.

Abugab:
Death truly has forgotten this old man.
Imagine all his grand children have grown old and have all died.
Last doctor visited died in 1971.
Where are the GUINESS book of records guys, this man should be the oldest that have lived after Methuselah

That was 50 years ago... what if that doctor was in his 50s when the old man was his patient. My doctor is at least 20/30 years older than me. The old man could be in his late 80s or mid 90s. I very much doubt he is 179 because the oldest person who holds that record has the documents to prove it.

He is not certified or recognized as the oldest person in the world but we'll take his word for it

Yes. If you are willing to put the work in because it requires work!

emmanuelbrown26:
I don't blame u joor, I only blame your poor insight to understand what led to this.
he said that he married and angel when it was rossy.
When d angel starter twitter and joined some feminist groups, d angel changed.
That means d wife joined a bad gang

I don't blame you... you take every bs you are fed and become the defender without ever thinking. You're a cognitive miser

Our father gets all the money and he looks after mama. It's a respect thing, mum would be offended if we told her this is for you. It has to go to the old man either way.