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Cromagnon:
Wrong
Most women walk safely
They just scared cos they refused to stay safely in the cave and wanted To experience danger like the men knowing full well they are not equipped for the ordeal

That's a choice

You could've been a housewife but chose to risk it all on career

Don't cry now

Guys Have accepted our fate

Or you think we don't want sugar mummy
You think we walk Safely

No, we risk it cos the family must be provided for


Yet we all go out everyday
Ppl have car accidents
I don't see you ditching your cars



Anyone who paints all of something based on a tiny %age is fool

Yet we dominate
Victim hood will not help you


Yes they do
Otherwise you would not be allowed to own a phone
You would've been stoned to death

But we don't do that
But CNN propaganda Don dabaru una feminist brain



Are you a man
How do you know what men listen to

Not all men get to talk woman

If you Talk rubbish you will be shut up violently
So men only talk when it makes Sense

But women just run their mouth cos men made a rule not to hit women, yet feminists stupidly say men, don't defend them.

Very funny of y'all
Very funny indeed

@ bolded
It shows that you are very ignorant and poorly traveled with no empathy, only good for beer parlor talk.

@ red
You just confirmed your foolishness with temerity. You have no knowledge of how things came to be qnd lack critical thinking skills.

Why should a woman be a stay at home wife? Forsaking her identity and surname to be somebody's wife, putting her life,risking her body to bear his children and risking her financial future into the hands of a man who doesn't appreciate the fact that being a housewife is way harder than having a career. Into the hands of a man like you who doesn't know the true value of what a housewife contributes to the family by sacrifice herself.

Into the hands of a man whose still cheat on her, still abuse her, still run away and abandon her to fend for children.

God never intended for women to stay at home. Society didn't even intend for women to stay at home all through the centuries. In biblical times women never stayed at home. Even the Proverbs 31 women stayed at home. All through history only the wives and daughters of nobility and royalty stayed at home with the intention of rearing them to be beautiful and dainty so as to be auctioned off for marriage.
The working class husband's, wives and children worked for a living.

Women worked during world War I & Ii.
Women only had to stay at home after the war because many physically and mentally unstable war veterans returned and needed work, it was dangerous to keep them idle. There was also an economic boom post WWII with the addition of rapid industrialization and inventions in the last century. It was due to this that one person's salary was enough to look after a family. That is not the case today. I recommend you read history books and critically appraise them.

@ purple: Men are more likely to get into car accidents than women. Look up the statistics.


@ brown: The real person with a victim mentality here is YOU. Crying about CNN agenda and feminism. You are just angry as men because the power you wield in society is decreasing both in the home front and in the workplace. Feminism was never meant to replace nor emasculated men, but to make women treated like human beings, not property. Although I agree that the movement was polluted as all good movements are e.g EndSars, civil rights, ROE v WADE, black lives matter.

@ green: I don't need need to be a man to know what men listen to. Even AI can figure that out.

@blue: your mouth is smelling on this forum. As I have typed and proved. The only person writing rubbish is YOU so SHUT THE FVCK UP and logout if you refuse to learn something. I will no longer waste my energy to type to your replies or give the time of the day to a cowardly man who has all the smoke for a weak woman like me🤭🦋 but is silent like a 🐁🐁 in front of his peers. Good day

toujurs:
give him your money then, if that's a proof, if you know how tough life is right now. For a common man, you can swear your dad who is alive is dead, just to loot the pockets of emotionally weak people.

he didn't ask for money in this thread though.

I get your point.

Double0h7:
The point is that there’s no proof he has cancer! Not one piece of evidence to support his claims only endless threads and posts of begging for money but not one piece of paper showing his diagnosis or treatment.

I get people can be harsh on nairaland but do you blame them when people like op make it so hard to trust anyone on here seeking help.

Sigh.
Maybe I shouldn't be too trusting, but why will someone lie for 2 years about cancer for 2+ years.

Cancer is one of those diseases I can't even wish on my enemy and their family. The endless pain.

May our tongues and keypads not land us in trouble.

dkidd:
Don't beleive that guy joor. If it were true he would have posted proofs of it from hi very initial thread. No doctor's report or anything to show he's undergoing any for of treatment anywhere. Some people are very sick... In the head and i beleive the op falls into that category

it is well

dkidd:
Lol do u have proof of this Funmi

This

jeromestarks:
I live in abakaliki and I can confidently tell you that the only thing that N50 can buy in my area as food is a tiny sugar.
I can't even buy garri with 50 bucks.


What can it buy in your area?

two pure water

Double0h7:
Op is a scammer who cashed out on claiming he has cancer. Check his posts. He’s a small boy addicted to gambling or just a scammer.

ok. Please point me to the proof so I can verify

But no matter what. The way some Nigerians react when a person is down will make you wonder if they are animals in human clothing

Double0h7:
You know you could just use the report button instead of spamming the mods mentions. The report button is there for a reason.

Op died today. They will get what is coming to them.

Gbadugbakun:
Just know that no one would credit your account. All this una format don cast

Suicideboy:
Just find rope asap

Obainoman6:
Use sniper and end it quick.

I hope you are all happy as you typed this comment. Op is now late.
What will it cost you to show kindness?
May strangers not mock you in derision when you are down the same way you did to op.

Cromagnon:
agreed





agreed





no, you are



what is holding your hand
Are you a bad man
Did you report them and good men refuse To help?
Are good men wizards to know rapists by just feeling the spirit. ?
You go school na
Pretend like you learnt something there now

Pertend you don't know that The actions of rapists, molesters, pedophiles, wife beaters and so on affect how women will see all men. They are the reason the average woman cannot walk down her street safely at night. Let's not talk about kidnappers, ritualistic and robbers.

The same way the actions of a few scammers, 419ers and yahoo yahoo boys paint all Nigerians in a bad light to the international community. So why haven't you done anything to stop it? Why didn't you report the ones you know to the authorities, afterall you also went to school.

Mtcheew!!!

Talking as if the average nigerian man treats women with respect and values their opinion. They will only listen when it is from their fellow men.

JTCHI:
Does a narcissist ever know that they are one? Will they accept or defend themselves eventually you made them know about it?

Currently, am dating one now. Of course I have read about narcissist behavior but it is quite unusual we have gone far. I doubt she knows herself well cause I want to call her out a narcissist to her face. However, I need some reactions here.

they do to some extent. Besides l, they have no incentive to change.

Cromagnon:
You are a dumb person to compare minority with all men
It'd like me calling all women prostitutes because of few ones

I never said all men rape. I know they are in the minority, but no matter how much of a minority they are they are still too many. Theyshould not exist. Besides these minority are painting the majority in a bad light. Bad men thrive when good men keep silent.

Please where was this energy when ladies were complaining about the price of sanitary pads?

chiommy123:
He is tired of her. He should just say the truth

he is probably cheating on her too or mentally ill

Enemyofpeace:
I was wondering if it’s ok to finally invoice my kids for all the expenses incurred when I subscribed to being their mother?

they didn't ask you to give birth to them.
You can send them qn invoice to discourage them from having grandchildren, but to collect money from them? You are a joker

Cromagnon:
Men?
What%age of men rape?
Talk like an educated person now

This is a dumb question. No matter what number the percentage is, it is too high. Nobody deserves to be raped.

CareerBegger:
This discussion is not opened to fat face ugly auxiliary nurses.
Herbal doctor

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Zafsy75:
This Is A Multi Billion Naira Lithium Processing Plant In Nasarawa State, Nigeria .

●The Lithium Processing Plant Has The Capacity Of Processing 3000 Metric Tonnes A Day.

●Plant Expected To Be Inaugurated This Year, It Would Create Jobs And Positively Impact The Economy.

can it be used to make drugs.
Lithium cab be used to treat a psychiatric illness

Silentgroper:
Well ... Now I'm utterly speechless...

Please when I type stuff, many people will think I am an angry feminist and attack me, e get why I dey type am.

They don't know that I have seen and heard all sorts of things that people go through. I will continue to shine my eye.

If there is a population of people with with almost zero baby mama rate, it is the medical community. I can't speak for other professionals, but in my 14 years of medical experience, I have only seen two baby mamas (both grew up abroad) among female doctors.

woginid967:
The currrses must go both ways.


Many of our women act like they're wise.

They see a guy and want him to be theirs alone. So they ignorantly think pregnancy will tie him down.

Meanwhile they had all chances to use CD n pills but didnt

I have almost been a victim before but my ring is very strong.

The girl used her earring to peirce holes in my new condoms... So we finished one pack of condom one night.... Two weeks later she said she needs money for her health. I gave her 400k... Two months later she claimed she was pregnant only to check .. DNA as the baby was delivered(my friend owns the hospital andi spent so much on antenatal), then discovered it belonged to her pastor.

See your post is one sided.

Ladies are not ignorant

True. I agree. Many ladies are stupid to believe that a baby can trap a man.
They are also stupid because a pregnancy will trap a woman if a man wants to use pregnancy to trap her.

Mcslize:
Your kind are rare. Intelligent ladies like you are rare to come by. This is a lady with sound reasoning.

Ladies like this win my respect. They will give you good and sound advice that will benefit you as a man.

These are surely rare gems!

thank you. GOD BLESS YOU 🥰

Silentgroper:
and you witnessed it first hand

I work in Healthcare. I've seen things.

Have I witnessed an act of rape and sexual molestation? God forbid.

Have I witnessed the effects on the victims and their families? Yes.

Even children from 3yrs and above, both girls and q little boy who had to be referred. Not just hijabites and reverend sisters.

Manigie:
Lailai...... this one choke, sotey na slap wake you.
Indeed Nothing person wey dey look for kpekus up and down no go see for this life. See the 'orc' with muscles and chain for leg....

just thinking out loud.....which hole would you have dug into if something had happened in the night?

backyard

Cromagnon:
Stop going to men houses wearing revealing clothes

Eben reverend sisters and full blown hijabites have been raped before. Men should cultivate self control and discipline. Simple

Cromagnon:
why, that's what women are for

A mentality like yours is why many men will die alone in old age

beardedboy:
1. Eatery food is abundant. Moreover, most girls of today are terrible cooks. Finally, if you want to be a dependent wife (my money is my money but your money is our money) then cooking for your family is the least thing you should complain about.

2. Woman shouldn't pull her pant without seeing a condom. Moreover, there's female comdom so?!

3. Once again, keep your thighs together or prepare to get a job to feed yourself and the product of your recklessness/irresponsibility.

uncle! Did you read the title of the thread? It asked for women's advice not yours.

1. Poisoned food can be from any source unless you cook it. Learn how to cook so that your stomach will not be at the mercy of someone else. Learn how to cook and clean the kitchen after you do so. Wash the plates and clean your eating area. Learn how to wash your clothes especially your boxers.keep your home clean. Trim your hair and wash your pubes. Shower everyday. Don't wear the same clothes especially underwear for days on end. When going on dates look good, not like you are going for errands.

2. Woman shouldn't pull her pant without condom if she is not ready for childbearing I agree. But what about rape and coercion. What of men who deliberately impregnate women and fail to take responsibility. It is a man's orgasm that results in a pregnancy not a woman's.

3. Advice 3 is redundant because most ladies have a source of income that does not not rely on a man's third leg.

4. If you are a man and have kids, be a PARENT. Fatherhood is more than going to work qnd footing the bills. Assist the children with homework. Do activities with them.. Help them prepare for school.. Immediately you come home ask them ask them how they were and how their day went. Gist with them. This is so you don't die destitute and alone in old age when you and their mother are no longer on good terms.

Men please learn how to look after yourself. Cook, clean up after yourself, please don't sleep with a woman without protection if you know you are not ready to be responsible for her and the child.

Karen2024:
I'm so hurt! Ouch! It hurts 💔
Why are men so wicked?
Why are men so heartless?
After spending years building relationship and helping to shape him, he dumps you in just a matter of few seconds and pick up a lady who never contributed to his successes.
I can't bear it anymore...the 7th time I am hurt in life.
I can't just believe that men have human heart, they don't.

at this point. I would advise that you decanter men from your life and focus on yourself and healing

dhiqson:
We do
It just doesn't override our thought process


Can't say same for your gender

emotions always have some degree of control and influence on thought process

When agberos fight on the street, when men rape women, when men cheat on their spouses and beat their wives because she can't beat him back. When a man calls a lady pretty, asks her out only for her to reject him then he proceeds to call her ugly and sexual slurs. When a man kiss and tells. When a man drinks and drives.. When a man picks a gun or a man commits suicide.

Do you think that those decisions are not influenced by emotions? Men are poorer at expressing and managing their emotions than women and proceeds to shame women for expressing and managing theirs better. Men are the true emotional gender and don't want to admit it.

EreluRoz:
Here are the reasons i think older men are best for marriage;

- Communication: Communication comes easily with older men, you don't have to do much to pass a message effectively, they understand you better and could easily read your body language without having to do the actual communication.

- Emotional Reliability; Relating with older men is easy. An older man is wiser and smarter, he will apply his wisdom in every aspect of his life(financial, emotional and mental).

- Little Games Played; Older Men are more trustworthy as a result of their life experiences. This means they are often less promiscuous, he doesn't play games because he's already played games in his younger days. A young man doesn't know what he wants, so he's prone to stray and bring problems home.

- Financial Security; Older men are making quite sure of their own financial future before committing to a legal relationship. Money shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship but it is very important, older men already conquered that aspect while it is advisable for the younger ones not to mix business with pleasure.

- Confidence; Older men have more confidence, he's sure of himself and what he wants, he wouldn't be needing any form of interference be it from family or friends for whatsoever reason. They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out.

- Life Experience; Older men have a certain confidence and internal stability, they tend to be more evolved in all areas which makes them more attractive.

Note: Your idea of older(age range) could differ from my own

This goes both ways. It's the ripe setting for all sorts of abuse. Don't marry an older man without some type of game plan.