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trisha01:
Are there ladies who has not received any birthday gifts from their boyfriend or fiance and are totally okay with that? Please this question is for people who have spent 2years and above in their relationship.

I want to know if I'm alone in this. My relationship is 4years old and ve never received a birthday gift and surprisingly! I don't really care about that. At first I'm angry, then I forget about it.
I'm I okay?

you are low effort, better get another guy

pozehnani:
Hi young ladies in the house. Please this is to alert you guys on how people are being robbed these days.

My choir member ( a young girl) was robbed few days ago by a potential client. She's into catering and does breakfast for companies on request as well.

This lady met a guy sometime last month or thereabout and they exchanged contact. The guy was always calling her but she would tell him she's busy due to the nature of her biz. So, this prompted the guy to ask what she's into and she told him. Fast forward to a week ago, the guy said he wants her to cater for his staff breakfast at the office and asked for a quotation. She couldn't do the draft and send via WhatsApp as usual because the contract was a huge one. So they agreed to meet one on one to discuss better.

The D day came and she told the guy she would be coming with a friend, he said it was fine. She later got another of her friend to join them making them three girls. So they set out in an Uber. When they got to where the guys were ( Onikan police station in ikoyi) they alighted from the taxify and entered the guys car. Immediately they drove past the station, she said they put the car on child lock. She said it dawned on her immediately that they had entered one chance.

The guys were three in number. The guy immediately changed his tone and began to collect their stuff. He collected iphone, her friends iPhone and Android, their purses with cash in it, chains and even asked if she has an iPod. when she tried to ask what she did, the guy slapped her across the face.

They collected her friends' ATM card and requested for the pin. They said one of them would go and withdraw the money and if they find out the pin is not correct, they'll shoot them all. After she gave them the pin, they changed their mind and decided to drop them at dolphin estate obalende and sped off. She said by the time they could reach customer care line of her friends bank, she was told 5 withdrawals of 10k has been made. They emptied her account.

As I type this, I'm still shocked for her. Imagine robbery in broad daylight. Though it was on a Sunday and ikoyi is always deserted on Sundays that was why they were able to carry out their evil without fear.

Please be careful how and where you meet people. Some will pose as client. Just be careful. Not every one who claims to be a client is actually one.

I'm still shocked.

Ikoyi is not a safe area especially from onikan through awolowo road till bourdillon on Sundays,they rob people there too, they can snatch your bag especially during this December times and the police in falomo and onikan will do nothing . I too was robbed by one chance there in December 2018 on my way to work . Luckily i didn't come with ATM, I was with these killers until i saw a bloodied dagger in the back seat of the car , they only went with my phone which was what i had. Here's a picture of the man who was involved and his family supporting the act

NoToPile:
They will be absent and when the child has been trained to an enviable level, they will start coming out.E easy to train pikin? 20 years after you are now posting on IG.mtcheww

Good the girl knows who was there for her.


I don't see any scandal here, they all know he's the biological father shinkena.

more like sperm donor

Omooba77:
https://leadership.ng/endsarsengage-youths-to-avoid-protests-pmb-tells-women/amp/

that's the sory of pussy ass thing you expect him to do. He should fix the problem ge created, like a man

tiffanyfan:
He said gen is not allowed in his house, and no one dares to flaunt that rule.

hope you tap his light sha

Long and short of this write up, you can't keep it in your trousers. I like this lady already

Carchoice:
I and this beautiful lady had a thing going, one night after a very intense rough play that left her very satisfied, we both fell to the bed and smiling at each other. after some seconds she gripped my game pad and started stroking it, game pad was fully charged and ready for round two of game play when she all of a sudden, twisted and bent it so HARD like she wanted to break it, I screamed at the top of my voice, the next thing she did was to use that their vampire finger nails to pinch my balls so hard like she wanted to damage them, then she whispered softly to me;

“don’t let me catch you cheating” she kissed me after and said “I love you” and then rested her head on my chest while she continued stroking the game pad gently to calm it down.

Brother shaggi will not recover from the shock I got that night.

Sometimes it’s good to just carry your bag and run if you see a big fight coming. To save your strength for fight that will better your life.

I miss her shar, her skin like hot bread wey them chuk inside peak milk.

Must be the side effects of too many steroids in his food and supplements. Must have messed up his brain.

I need to unsee this

Blackpearlxx:
My partner has mastered the act of tracking my cell phone with spy apps and even tracking my calls ..it’s so unbelievable,he claims to do it because he loves me.

Mind you ..he has never for once seen or heard anything out of place,this has led to many fights..which he always claims not to do them again..but I eventually always find out.

This is someone that still keeps a very close relationship with his exes and most female friends of his and tells me it’s nothing to worry about and once initiated a party with I and his ex which I rejected.

It has come to my notice he has a thing for halfcast girls or light skinned girls...and can’t just let them be....I’m dark skinned and worried..I don’t know if he is just passing time with me .

Been a year now never for once have I asked him for anything as I take care of myself and pay my bills ..and sometimes he comes over to stay with me for a month or two..as he is yet to get his own place and wouldn’t want to stay with his parents or siblings.

Whenever I try to confront him ..it turns into something else and he starts giving me silent treatment..I try as much as possible to make him feel like a man and wouldn’t want him to feel less because he stays with me most of the time and doesn’t make any meaningful contributions.

I’m actually confused.

Run!!

bassdow:
Did you Notice a Very Very Large Chunk of those in Professions mentioned above, are WoMEN ?

including nepa staff and doctors??

Uncle buy small sense na!!

sirjamesjnr:
Boys & boys trapped in adult bodies like whatever trend is making the rounds. They very often don’t look far beyond the superficial. They are often quite ignorant of the old saying that beauty is only skin deep & ugly cuts straight to the bone. Men don't fall for a quick fix.
Makeup = beauty is the cosmetic industry’s gimmick to make money. Nothing more, nothing less. A quick fix.
Men that know their worth even in this day & age, see ladies with excessive makeup as an easy woman, one of low confidence, or even a hired woman (aka a prostitute).
Have you ever wonder why ladies with excessive makeup have their skin conditions worsen - instead of dermatologists promoting diet, supplement, etc. which may take longer but is more often bring out the good result they promote a quick but dangerous fix.

Makeup was limited to certain categories of women back in the day or not applied at all and yet women still found men, still got married, still had kids. So stop wasting that little fund, use it to improve your brain(Invest in Books), go for vacation, do charity.

Makeups a modern thing promoted by makeup companies. To a decent mind, you have no value with that makeup please stop.

One thing that makes me wake up in the morning staring at my girl is her glowing skin and a face without some stain(makeup)
It, not the right choice to FAKE it, do not impress any boy/boys trapped in adult bodies.

hey

To the man of the year,

Sirjamesjnr !!

The apple of my eyes.

My coronavirus vaccine.

My rock in sunshine and rain.

I consider myself fortunate to have met you and be in your life.

This poetry is terrible.

I wish it from the bottom of my heart. A wonderful, fun filled, birthday!!

I wish you accomplishments of milestones.

Unprecedented favour, success, health and mercy.

Happy birthday my love!!

Sorry I didn't call you earlier!!

I love you.

To the man of the year,

Sirjamesjnr !!

The apple of my eyes.

My coronavirus vaccine.

My rock in sunshine and rain.

I consider myself fortunate to have met you and be in your life.

This poetry is terrible.

I wish it from the bottom of my heart. A wonderful, fun filled, birthday!!

I wish you accomplishments of milestones.

Unprecedented favour, success, health and mercy.

Happy birthday my love!!

Sorry I didn't call you earlier!!

I love you.

Brandonx:
This is so unprofessional if you hurt my child in that process I won't take it likely with you .

That's how the test is done actually. It is called a nose swab and very uncomfortable.

Kenplay:
What happened to your old account

i deactivated it

Lush100:
My brother,
This statement is not true.
Sir, if a man is providing , a woman can still do that.
When I lost my job,
I was still providing for my family because of my savings (5M) was on a high side,
My wife still did this sex-denial stuff,
So it's not true,
You don't want the woman to contribute financially? That's a time bomb because if the unexpected happens, she will become useless.
The issue could be her orientation, her type of friends she keeps, etc.

Yh right!!

From Bae,

He helped me renew my international passport after it was stolen from me.

If anyone has lost a passport in this country, you'll know what's up. Quite draining on the pocket.

Love you always.

KimberlyWest:
Thank you. All he said are normal in healthy relationships. There's nothing strange or new there. But all these guys here who only brag about the numerous girls they're with, or the brothels they visit will still come and wail about not getting this kind of treatment.

oil dey your head

Weneda:
Let me teach you how to show love to a guy.
Some of you don't know how to show love to the guy you are dating. Some ladies think that the only way to show love to a guy is by having sex with him, that's why some ladies don't have anything to offer a guy except sex.
Sex is not a prove of love. Don't used sex to prove that you love a guy as a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the following ways.

1) Buy gift for him. You can give him gift of T-shirt, shoes, undies, singlet or even a phone if you have the money.

2) Take him out for launch and pay his bill at least once in 2 month it's not bad at all.

3) Send him some love text message occasionally.

4) Give him phone call daily at least once daily. Ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.

5) Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a week or once in two weeks, but not everyday like a house wife.

6) You can also help him financially when he is broke.

7) Take him out for shopping at least once in a year. You will not die.

Pray for him

9) Advice him

10) Help him to build a bright future.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for your guy, not
SEX SEX SEX.

Guys did I make make sense?
Kindly share this message at least to five different Facebook groups.
Don't forget to like this page.

it is well.

sirjamesjnr:
We tend to see it as FAKE AND QUICK FIX

you all are entitled to your perception. But it is what it is.

*Puts on red lipstick*

sirjamesjnr:
Boys & boys trapped in adult bodies like whatever trend is making the rounds. They very often don’t look far beyond the superficial. They are often quite ignorant of the old saying that beauty is only skin deep & ugly cuts straight to the bone. Men don't fall for a quick fix.
Makeup = beauty is the cosmetic industry’s gimmick to make money. Nothing more, nothing less. A quick fix.
Men that know their worth even in this day & age, see ladies with excessive makeup as an easy woman, one of low confidence, or even a hired woman (aka a prostitute).
Have you ever wonder why ladies with excessive makeup have their skin conditions worsen - instead of dermatologists promoting diet, supplement, etc. which may take longer but is more often bring out the good result they promote a quick but dangerous fix.

Makeup was limited to certain categories of women back in the day or not applied at all and yet women still found men, still got married, still had kids. So stop wasting that little fund, use it to improve your brain(Invest in Books), go for vacation, do charity.

Makeups a modern thing promoted by makeup companies. To a decent mind, you have no value with that makeup please stop.

One thing that makes me wake up in the morning staring at my girl is her glowing skin and a face without some stain(makeup)
It, not the right choice to FAKE it, do not impress any boy/boys trapped in adult bodies.

Women don't put on makeup for boys and boys trapped in adult bodies.

Women put on makeup for themselves because they like the way it looks on them and the way it makes them feel.

[quote author=OchoL post=96315845][/quote]she is a jealous soul.

All she can fo is type on twitter.

If only she could upgrade herself......

Davash222:
Keep shut!

go and wash your sugar mummy's panties.

Davash222:
The time you used in trying to check the source of Ned's wealth would have been used to check the source of your poverty.

Advice no be curse.

Damn!!

Davash222:
Our Nairaland feminist resident Doctor, DrfunmisticGlow don carry her yeye enter Twitter.

Don't be unfortunate!!

sirjamesjnr:
I think marriage is important for several reasons. I think at the very core of it is learning to love, learning to co-exist, and learning to communicate. You may say that you can do all that without marriage, and you may be right, but marriage can be a very rewarding and good way to do it. Marriage is a sacred contract to love and support each other forever. That means you cannot leave just because you feel like it, you cannot abandon your partner in a moment of need, and you must learn to communicate. Yes, people botch their marriages and they break their vows. That is not the fault of marriage. That is the fault of the weakness of people. People will say "I don't need marriage to learn how to love, it is just natural. " But you will not learn the true meaning of love until you learn to put aside your comforts for the needs of others. You might say "I don't need to learn how to co-exist, it is just natural. " But try living with someone every day and you will see that co-existing is an art that needs to be mastered. And you will not be able to do good in the world if you have not learned co-existing. Then there is communication. Communication is an essential skill for any person - and problems and solutions mostly happen because of and with the help of communication. And when you talk to the same person every day, you have a great opportunity to master communication. Also, you will get an intimate understanding of the opposite sex. (for straight couples obviously). Finally, you can inspire each other to grow and do something great by sharing your different perspectives, and your spouse is someone who is always there for you, which isn't too bad if you think about it. Marriage is a foundation of the family and a school of love. It is an opportunity to perfect relationship - that is - relating to others - and without good relationship skills making the world a better place is very difficult.

There is another reason why marriage is great. If you work hard on your marriage you will find that there is much more to the person you married. That they are full of surprises and will keep surprising you until the end of your days. You may realize that your love can grow deeper and deeper without end and that as you get to know your spouse deeper and deeper and begin to wonder just how deep it goes... There is quite the beauty you can find in each other.
Marriage is not transactional so as to say it favour women or Avenue for free sex for men, It is deeper than that.
What is your take on this? Let me hear from you.

Onr thing i know is that marriage tests what you are made of, ot brings everything to light.

Davash222:
Aside your smelly kpekus, what can you offer a guy to make him kneel and beg you?

boring!!

What i can offer to a guy to make him kneel and beg me is between me and the guy. I don't kiss and tell, nor do i reveal my secrets. Leatn and take notes.

You can't even troll with grace.

But then, what else is a scammer, beggar and gigolo like you with a community dick good for?

Davash222:
The Chinese lady is the reason the guy is building mansion in his native land. The lady is an asset not a liability like 99.7877% of Nigerian girls.

If I’m in his shoes, I’ll even prostrate to beg.

beg and grovel please.

That's all you are good for

Herrymax:
don't tell me this story i just read is true


see as man pikin resemble chimpanzee

something is up here.

Is it possible to get pregnant from a chimpanzee since we are related via evolution?

Or probably some congenital defects, but none come to mind, let me check my textbooks.

Either way I don't believe that backstory.