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Female simps are called, pick-me-shas, Barbara the builders and fix it felicias. We cannot help them unless they want to change. When the student is ready, the master will appear.

purples25:
Good Morning.

Some women amongst us are extremely docile and emotional. It is always the case of chasing after men rather than the popular story of guys chasing after ladies, for them.

Some are simply just doormats. To add insult to injury, when they come out for help, they are heavily insulted by the other gender. Even when they ask for advice politely.

These are not your usual. These are :

-Nothing after seven years of 'faithfulness and paying the bills' type.

-Perfectly nice and good and for everything he wants, but trampled on and labelled as stupid and clingy type.

-The kind that the boyfriend has to bat away with a stick, literally. Ride or die abi ride and die types.


Anyone can drop suggestions here about what can be done about this. I think there should be more pointers to help over submissive women, just like how men have helped and raised over submissive men from the dust.

Women, lets help each other. Contributions on how a woman suffering from men due to her over submissive , 'simping' behavior, will be appreciated.

Thanks.

seanjost:
Candid advice please

I'm sure there's plenty of naija babes into BDSM

Cropophillia!!! <Pukes>

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

he's dead weight sis. Let him go.

Don't you guys have anything better to do than to engage in petty gossip?

What are the addresses of these places?

The one that vexes me is that piece of nylon called always that retails for 500 naira.
Pads should be free for secondary school children

Kingsuave:
Guys are woke now

who woke epp?

BaddieFreak:
Is this the FavDrOlufunmilayo on Twitter?

Sorry No!!

Dreamliner787:
Stupid bitch!!.. You just like your mother.. Shameless bitches!!

That's a compliment. Thank you.

BaddieFreak:
Wahala for NL guys ooo you go dey alright las las

They still pained you got a ride. They bitching and I'm here to see them wail.

Feed me your tears you fake alphas.

Dreamliner787:
God will punish you and your father.. wretched bastards!!

How uncivilized.

Most likely God is already punishing you and you father. Stop acting like a rabid dog on this thread

Dreamliner787:
Your daddy right? Don't worry everyone knows already, even his Godforsaken son

excuse me??

tyup:


Congrats girll and thanks for showing us clearly what you used/sacrificed in getting the whip. may it be tight for as long as possible to get more n more favour

Dreamliner787:
If truly na your car, why u no fit show us your face?.. shame dey catch u ba.. you are just another prostitute in Nigeria.. please get a better Job and prove yourself valid to us.. you are gonna get special prayers from me

So many bitter souls. Many Nairaland males are poor, angry and frustrated. Only small minded people allow thier jealousy to eat them alive.


Baddiefreak, congratulations on your new ride. May it take you places, assist you evade evil eyes and people with evil agendas. Stay safe. Use your mask and hand sanitizer.

PuZZyNegro:
So, there's this small rat that has been playing hide and seek with me.

I have made several attempts to kill it but it always finds a way to meander and escape from me.

I feel helpless seeing this rat get away each time I try to kill it.

Then it happened one evening around 7pm. I managed to buy Nasco cornflakes in this lock down period and the wicked rat still insists I cannot keep it in my house in peace.

I kept the cornflakes beside my freezer and within few minutes, I started hearing some funny noise inside the nylon. I knew then that my uninvited visitor has come.

I didn't want the hide and seek no more. If I decide to let it out to kill it, it might still escape. So, I remembered the saying "There are many ways to kill a rat".

So, I just opened my freezer, packed the cornflakes with the nylon and closed it.

Your guess is as good as mine. My sweet frenemy escaped from the nylon and ran under my plate of soup to take cover, not knowing that that part of the freezer is even colder than where I left it.

Good news: The rat died happily ever after


Somebody shout "Alleluia"

hope you washed and disinfected the freezer with bleach water after removing the contaminant.

You are exposing yourself to all sorts of diseases by doing this.

This is a health hazard. Imagine of this was a restaurant??

quentin06:
Every type of insurance is a ponzi scheme, you pay money constantly to a HMO and hope they give you back some of it, registering with an HMO doesn't mean health is free, you will still pay out of pocket expenses for certain test s and treatment.

You don't get to choose your doctors or clinic.
Pregnant women don't enjoy maternity care until the 2nd year of registration.

Doctors can't even give quality care, only the HMOs gain, patients and doctors loose.

Health care insurance only leads to rising cost of health care with decreasing health quality.

Speaking from a subscribers point of view.

I also share this view. Many HMOs don't even pay hospitals.
So when you as a HMO patient walks into the hospital, you will be given the cheapest available drug. Some HMOs don't even cover malaria injections only drugs, others will tell you that they only pay for 3 days worth of paracetamol instead of the usual five days because that is how long it takes to treat malaria.

A good friend of mine who is a nurse was given children's dose of antimalarial medicine in her HMO hospital. She had to shout and tell them that she was a nurse, and still had to shout at her HMO officer. I hope she stopped using their services

HigherEd:
https://davidolaleye./2020/12/06/nigeria-benefits-of-a-mandatory-health-insurance-scheme/

Health insurance in Nigeria is a scam. Take it from me.

It depends, each are equally lucrative as far as you are talenyed and can market your sevices well

HUSTLER001:
alright doc. I don't mind having someone inject me.lol. Loving your diary though

Thanks

swiswiioo:
Hello Nairaland

I made an account just to ask this question. I know it sounds strange and people like to post things to catch cruise but I'm in actual need of guidance. I don't have anyone in real life I can consult.

Basically, I can't feel content in a relationship if my woman is not being fed well and adding weight. Not only does it turn me on, but it fills me with love and happiness. I feel like it is my responsibility to spoil and care for my woman, and adding weight is a major sign of being well cared for. If my woman is not growing or even reducing, I feel like I'm failing as a man. She musn't end up extremely too too big, but definitely become big gradually over time.

I have dated a few girls before and they always end up becoming fat. I took them out often. Plenty pizza, icecream, big meals with cake and other desserts. I don't stress them physically so they can just relax and grow. While their added weight droven me crazy, they were often displeased and unhappy with it, affecting the relationship. Guilt would not allow me to tell them I very much like it and infact sought it out.

I don't know why I'm like this. It's like things would be better if I was a normal man that gets disappointed when his woman adds. I've tried to change this about myself many times but just can't. It's been part of me since I went through puberty.

I'm looking for a wife to marry now and I'm worried. I'm told I am a caring guy who will make a good husband, but I don't want to make my future wife miserable.
How can I find a women I can feed and spoil without guilt? How can I end up in a marriage where my wife can accept the fact I love that she has become fat?

Don't feel bad for liking what you like. It's your fetish, own it.

You guys forget that banky W had skin cancer at a point. And chemotherapy can mess with fertility. So please let's leave banky and his wife alone.

Blessing1142:
I totally messed up by falling in love I was confused by prove you love me I was stuck between choose me or leave me I am still a kid I didn't know much about my actions but now he impregnated me and traveled my family dump me already am left with my life in my own hands fading away am confused now I tried but am getting tired I can't keep up anymore what should I do please advice me.

you could look for a childless couple who is interested in adopting, then sign off rights to the child. In return they can sponsor your education or give you money to learn a trade You don't need to suffer alone for a sin 2 people commited.Abortion at 5 months is very risky for you.

HUSTLER001:
lol. And you be doctor oh

And my lifestyle is a busy one.

HUSTLER001:
I mean,am I not supposed to sit instead of lying on the bed?

i don't know, you do you. I just get up immediately after the meal and continue my work. Food will digest on the road.

HUSTLER001:
Lying down immediately after eating. Terrible habit.

it is? I thought one was supposed to rest to allow food digest.

Or do you mean sleeping after eating, cos that's bad.

just2endowed:
Eating meat or fish before consuming my rice or other food

Disrespectful

Oizee:
lol, have u changed now?

No. God help me.