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A pal has been having stress with the wife (his wife is plain stubborn). She surprises me sometimes with what she says. Anyway ma guys is getting tired of her stress.
To give a short preamble; They got married 3 years ago, and have one issue. She was gotten 4 him by his family, they didn't know themselves b4 they married.
Presently, he has sent her back 2 her family 2ice already (which by the way I advised him to) so she could cool her head but it looks like this method is not working anymore. The first time she was sent home and came back she was really calm only 4 her 2 start again and the husband was forced to repeat it again in the hope that she calms down.
Anyway, I don't know what 2 tell the man anymore so am throwing this open question to u guys. What would ur spouse do that would annoy u so much an make u be pushed 2 send her home 2 cool off? What would she do that would make u send her packing?

OMG and I taught nothing would eva surprise me again in NL, I think I've just been proven wrong

if u cheat be ready 2 get caught

onila:
idiotic african men need to be beaten__

Kenyan women has shown us the way

words of a child

best u do what is best 4 u and not ur brothers

dacome:
i dnt c d relationship last

dont be too sure. When there is love and perseverance they could succeed. I know someone it happened to and they are now married. It remains the decision of both the couple. Parents or family can only try but can't influence the decision.

He borrowed 500 yuan three years ago from a friend's to buy a wedding gift, but he denied he was ever given any money.

"He was told him that if he dared to swear to God that he didn't owe me the money, then I would waive his debt," said Huang.

Xu made the oath, but was suddenly struck by lightning a minute later.

Fear has reportedly gripped senior top police officers, including

the Acting Inspector General of Police, Mr. M.D. Abubakar over the planned unprecedented shake-up in the Nigeria Police.

Saturday Tribune learnt that anxiety followed scores of petitions signed and supported with court affidavits as well as anonymous ones being received daily against senior officers by the Parry Osayande panel on re-organisation of the Nigeria Police recently put in place by President Goodluck Jonathan.

“We have scores of petitions flooding the committee on daily basis against the officers even including the Acting Inspector General of Police, Abubakar himself, most of the petitions were being directed against senior officers especially those in the ranks of Deputy Commissioners, Commissioners and Assistant Inspectors General of Police, detailing their various offences with necessary data to back up their claims against the officers,” a source close to the committee told Saturday Tribune in Abuja on Friday.

According to the source,”the panel has commenced work and the members are working round the clock to meet the deadline given to it by the President.”

The source disclosed that some of the affected officers with grievous allegations would be invited to appear before the committee apart from scrutinising their service records before a final decision is taken against any officer.

The source also hinted that the panel had been able to establish prima facie case against some senior officers, who might be shown the way out of the police.

Investigations from the various police formations across the country and the Force Headquarters, Abuja as at Friday revealed that all was not well within the rank and file of the police based on feelers from the committee.

It was gathered that while some of the concerned officers had started lobbying their godfathers to save their jobs, others had resorted to spiritual help from various sources.

A very senior police officer at the Force Headquarters in Abuja who spoke in confidence with Saturday Tribune declared that the imminent shake-up, if religiously carried out, would give the country the needed ideal police force.

I think people may lose their jobs

U 4get all pretty girls are insecure. I've met a lot and dated a lot of them too. It's sad but I retain my opinion that all pretty girls are insecure.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=864176.msg10138332#msg10138332 date=1328571212]I have a dictionary of pidgin English and your word no dey there[/quote]

arrived:
@Mynd, he be like say na juju you take enter higher institution.

everyone knows dat ur dictionary of piggin english has no meaning cos piggin english is something that is still evolving

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=864176.msg10135669#msg10135669 date=1328548899]Wetin pain me pass for the guy na the the no rubbing nyansh rule.
No mind Mrs Chima. Im no sabi warfi na im dey do am.[/quote]But ma guy dat one no be problem na. Even if the chick na born throwe dat one no be gbese. If dem pray finish, if in take 3 hrs 2 pray. When prayer finish, oga suppose tell madam. Eh! madam, God no go hear our prayer if we no thank am wella 4 keeping us alive 2 prayer 2 am. Tell am say oga God go dey vex say dey never collect dat something since dey marry, abi na man like u wey ur guy marry. If dat one no work, no be im wife wey she be. Oga suppose be smart about how 2 obtain d goodies.

did the OP say he also has a boyfriend. OP are u heterosexual or bisexual, abeg let us know.

slimyem:
itss your decision and yours only.
Ask yourself what you want,answer it and go for it.
Goodluck!

said it all

this chick Onila is at it again.

Look at this man. How can u expect 2 be sleeping with a chick and expect her 2 respect ya grey hair. Sorry, she will talk 2 u like ya her mate, which u became after u started bumping her. I see u are one of those men that expect people u feel are under 2 pay u homage. U better remove that mentality 4rm ya head cos it'll cos trouble 4  u every time and anytime.

4rm what u described, I think ya chick is one of the cool ones and I believe u are just lucky about that cos if she were one one those ones that will make u run mad, then u go smell am. Believe me, u won't just come here 2 complain, u go see am.

Hotstepper:
menn, grl as if u know, it is sooo true, mine is even worst cuz once i say no and offer to just be friends, they would be like "if am not gonna date u, i ain't being friends with u", i laugh cuz i don't kare, i have alot dat am finding a way 2 eliminate sum, 

funny but girls that wanted 2 date me and I've also refused 2 date act the same way "like big wide CuNtS"
Look ladies, it got nothing 2 do with the gender, its probably got a lot 2 do with being human.

MRBrownJ:
@OP
as much as this story seem to be real, i have some doubts about it. . . . . . . . .simply because TAM is a Brazilian airline and here in Brasil, racism is against the law and you can go to jail for that (extreme cases). so if that had happened in Brasil, this lady was breaking the LAW, let alone being an a[/b]ss.

@Vicjustice
you are right about that but shouldnt that person FIRST confirm that the guy smells before making such request? [b]i would surely get offended if someone qualifies me as smelly, simply because some black guys have never worn deodorant/anti perspirant in their lives.

The story is real ma guy. It happened and I only heard the formatted version.
Yes its just irritating when they generalize.

Vicjustice:
Well, no matter the year, racial disgust would never change. I remember witnessing a woman who refused to sit with a black man in an inter-city bus in Greece, and i've seen many others who refused to stay next to black people in regular commuter buses.
   Now, i don't know if all of these white people are really "racists": now, assuming you're a white (non racist) person, and you're in a bus on a journey that took 3 hours, and you sat with a black guy who talked very loud on phone, and yet had body odour, and you manage to endure that for 3 long hours, how would you feel to sit next to another black person next time?
   Well, as regretful as this may seem, let's not ignore the fact that there are lots of black (African) people who never used deodorant before. This is the bitter truth

They too smell, if u've gone close 2 one b4 u'll know. Thats why they almost finish a bottle of perfume b4 they leave their house. The main problem is not who smells or who doesn't, the main problem is the generalizing of a whole race. That one kills me

pervert

only Owelle Rochas would come up with that kind of excuss 2 move an entire University

Hello guys I just came across this story I would like to share.

A middle aged woman who flew economy class on a TAM Airlines flight going somewhere 2 the west kept on disturbing the cabin crew personal to change her sit for her. AS she was asked for the reason she wanted her sit changed she couldn't give a factual reason. The cabin crew personal tried 2 make the journey more comfortable 4 her by giving her extra blankets, and also extra wine an all but all these did nothing to make the woman change her mind. She kept on insisting her seat be changed. The woman made so much problems that the captain had 2 be involved in the whole thing only 4 them 2 find out the real reason 4 the woman's discomfort was cos the person seating next 2 her was a black guy. The lady also later insisted that the guy smells and she find can't and will not sit there anymore. The captain willing 2 please the middle aged lady asked the cabin crew 2 confirm if there where any empty seats still available. They found out the seats available where only in the first class. The captain knowing it will be a scandal if he asks the woman 2 move over 2 the first class after all the problem she had caused, quietly told the embarrassed black guy. Please let us upgrade u 2 first class, we have found a free sit there 4 u. The black guy, the captain of the flight and the cabin crews all got a standing ovation for that act and the way they comported themselves.

Its just a sad thing that in 2012 racism still exists. Do u guys have any such flight stories please share here.

Cowbell our Milk

but what are u doing dating or sleeping with ur employee