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Audacious19:
Hello everyone, as a popular nl i had to create a new account for these, probably because of some insecurities on my path no need to hide that..
I need some contribution to this issue am confused on.
I had this contact on my phone, can't really place how i got it or when i got it, for over a month, i kept watching the profile till i decided to chat her up, the convo was not really smother cos of how i got her contact which i myself don't even have an answer to, am sure no one saved the contact aside me cos i don't usually give out the phone as it is my business phone, after much convictions she was calm we exchanged contacts and got talking on the phone, stuff were moving well between us, but we could not see then until December when her school went on break, she visited me but while on her way to where i was she had an accident so she told me, when i went out to meet her she was so annoyed that she wanted going back accusing me of being the cause as i could not come pick her up myself.
To cut stuffs short i appologized we moved on, spent the night together, she was making request for some financial assistance which i could not meet up to, cos i was at the middle of a biz which took most of my fund almost a million plus a day before she came, she was aware of numerous debtors owing me which she criticized me on, and i made paymemt for a new aparment..
She said no problems as i have help her not to long while at school, when she was going i gave her 3k to transport herself, the distance would not cost her up to 1k to reach her home and i could not do more cos i was broke then, after that day i started noticing some strange behaviours, from her which was sumed up at lack of commitment and intrest, i inquired the reason why but she shifted blames to me,that i was ignoring her cos i had my way with her already, after much diccusion she promised to change to which i never saw, during the Xmas period i once called her, immediately her phone rang it went off, i tried her other line she picked up, asked who i was which i never replied to but she noticed my voice,moved on with the convo after exchanging pleasantries i asked why she was acting like someone who never wanted to pick up, she responded "my sweetheart is not like that, he gave me the phone to answer your call, which sweetheart i asked she said the one i knw which happenes to be her ex, i asked if they were together she said yes, they made up and she never told me i asked my self, this was her ex she claimed she stopped communicating with since August, supried me said okay call me when you're done with you're sweetheart, after some time she called hurriedly and told me she was joking, excused herself on been busy with her sister, promised to call back which she never did, i called her two days later asked why she never called back and as usual blames was shifted to me, she apologized when i calmly explaning were she faulted, she kept saying her ex stuff was a plank, i never bought it but said OK, after that she pleaded for help on some cash to do her hair, which i sent something to her, she told me she was attending her cousins weeding and would be busy, but she would call me when less busy, i never heard from her that day, the next day i called no one answered, I went online and saw the weeding pix she posted but she never returned my call or left a txt, the next morning i saw her missed call but when i returned the call someone picked up and asked who i was, said she is her sister and would info her later, I never heard from her again until this afternoon she missed my calls, called back to give me numerous excuse on how she had been busy i tried to inquire if she was tired of the relationship she said no promised calling back but never did..
What would you advise me to do my pple, it's a new year and the boy is not getting any younger and besides i hate drama's.

Drama from runzgal bros, its their signature. Never follow a woman around. U don chop, its time to clean ya mouth

sinceraconcept:
you just see them laughing in wedding pictures,there would surely be problem in the marriage,they would never post divorce pictures online. any guy who is proud of himself would never treat a hoe like a queen,that's the reason why guys treat their wife or girlfriend like shit these days,it's always about the woman showing signs of cheating or the guy hears about the past philandering of someone he's been treating with respect and that is what any sensible guy can never forgive and since we all know philandering is addictive,they continue after marriage,other shortcomings are very much forgivable except cheating. people marry everyday and guys send their wives packing everyday also. if the woman already has a child,she never gets appealing to any guy again except guys that are willing to settle for less(except if the girl is a multimillionaire or high profile celebrity and even with that many guys would still use and dump her and that's why Juliet Ibrahim is thankful because Iceberg is willing to marry her,it's because she has a child already,she feels lucky) but men remarry all the time,men marry second,third,fourth....wife,men can even remain single again and bring in different girls and society wouldn't say anything but that can never be said about women. women should stop the comparison. if you feel like your guy or husband is cheating and cant forgive him,dump his ass but cheating as revenge or flexing doesn't make it any better,you turn to a prostitute and every guy would want to use you and dump you,if I hear a girl is promiscuous,all that comes to my mind is having my own share and never thinking of marrying her,lai lai. a cheating wife is very deadly because women are very easy to convince because women get controlled,that's why no sensible guy can forgive a cheating wife. its not good for husbands to cheat as well,it's very bad but a cheating husband is still not as bad because the husband's girlfriend would never control the man,because he's the man and has the control,no woman outside can tell a man to kill his wife,infact a man could send his girlfriends packing at any time if he thinks about his wife at home,a cheating man in most cases still very much love the wife but some circumstances lead to the cheating but women have fragile hearts and a cheating woman has already lost the love she has for her man. cheating is what no sensible man can ever forgive except they're lying to you.

Very immature

Divay22:
Some babe gat heart.. Like real heart not the ones of chicken..
Back upboyfriend, so the way you backup your files you're also backing up your relationship...

All u guys are suffering urselves breaking ur head over one silly girls remark. No be she sey worry herself. After marriage who no sabi go sabi and all closed eyes will open.
I know ladies that married their back up boyfriends and are happy. I also know those that married so called back up boyfriends and any time the man coughs the woman go get fever. All that matters is who takes the pussy home and keeps shinning it till time immemorial. All u small boys out there, keep washing and training dem.ladies for their husbands.

Bluffly:
It takes two to tangle. Such wives are harlots if not why can't she request the husband come and do the muscle relaxation. Such male doctors are criminals and the wives involved are harlots

Such things don't happen.

hooklover:
This is real life story.is not by firec to believe.

If only ladies can be sincere wat doctors have done to them all in the name of treatment u will be astonished..

Guy with all due respect such things like the op describes doesn't happen. At least not like that. I know cos I too have examined patients

neloyah:
This may be true,I've heard countless similar stories,but men are not the only prey...women are endangered too. The marine kingdom, if it exists, will definitely comprise men too...

Doesnt exist shit bros

predmine20:
During a night vigil deliverance session I attended not so long ago,something strange happen.

Thirty minutes into the deliverance a young fair lady came out and start confessing how she destroy the men that she had sex with.

She said her modus operandi is to upload her pix online through the various social media and gbam that was how she was able to get them.

She said she is from the marine world and their are many ladies like her that are sent out on a mission to destroy men.

She said the reason why they are using sex is because they know that sex is the only weapon they could use to destroy men.

So my advice to men is to be very careful when chatting online with ladies because some of them are from the marine kingdom.

Not all that glitters is gold,the way that seems right to a man can be evil.

We live in an evil world.

Men be careful after saying these she wept.

SUCH IS LIFE.

Hahahhahaha, church is the greated undoing in Nigeria and Africa

queenfav:
The woman is already a LovePeddler. What stopped her from screaming? I doubt this story sha, because a principled woman who values the sanctity of her marriage will simply call for her husband to come and open her up.. She kept quiet and allowed the Doctor to have his way not just once. The Doctor probably saw that she was checking him out and made his move!

Bros, any fool knows that u don't use dick to open any woman up before d&c. Thats why the story is false

delugajackson:
Shīt happens.

Sorry shit doesn't happen like that. It takes a mad doctor to do what the op suggested.

hooklover:
I have always heard of doctors sleeping with their patient but there are no evidence as ladies always keep it secret.

Yesterday I was with my married friend and as we were discussing I brought the topic up.

She did not hesistate in telling me it was true as she has experienced it in a hospital in town portharcourt..

She went for a D and C according to her with the husband to the hospital after 3months.

They discussed and agreed a fee of 30k.First installment of 15k was paid.

She was led to d operating room were the doctor undressed her stark naked.Before she knew was happening doctor brought out dick to insert.She tried resisting but he told her it was normal procedure to open vagina to relax the muscles.

After argument he had his way had sex with her and performed the d and c .

Cleaned her up and took her to meet husband and he told husband all was well and she should be back in a week time.

After a week she went for check up and he made love to her again in his office.

Shevcould not help it but sized the balance of 15k that the doctor was suppose to collect.

Thevdoctor did not even ask of the balance.


I begin to wonder if many ladies do enjoy sex with doctors or are forced against their will to have sex not just for Sand C but any other health matter.

Husbands are u safe with ur wife seeing a male doctor when in this case his wife makes love while husband is in waiting room...

Share ur your experience

Cock and bull story. Any doctor that does such will loose his license. Why do Nigerians listen to such lies, I wonder?

pocohantas:
She didn't notify you, because she did not want you to stop her.

I don't think it's always about doctrine, your wife is the typical Nigerian wife, the church is their only relief from the pains and challenges that comes with marriage.

Is she trying to conceive?

Well said bros, has nothing to do with catholic doctrines. The catholic church will not approve sef if they are aware of what she did

ManirBK:
Noted!!!

Lol, no vex. Buhari no need enemies. He is his own enemy

baybeeboi:
More names of dead people are still coming up from Buhari's appointment list.

Kayode Ogundamisi has added more names to the already published which has taken the number to eight (

Jonathan will be where he is reeling with laughter saying "I think they called me clueless. But atleast I get brain. This buhari and APC no get brain

mrlatjam1:
Seriously

Yes bro, really should be

Onijagidijagan:
it's my opinion but must you be rude about it? ask yourself will you be able to say this...if you meet me in person.

Will tell u so to ur face. What are u gono do? Beat me? This is a new year, learn to take things with a smile and shrug things away. U life longer doing so. Stay blessed bro

Onijagidijagan:
iceberg slim's hand on Juliet's buttock is not a good sign of loving a woman.

it means: I have used you and chopped you completely.

Kanye west did it to Amber rose and after their separation, We all know d result, fellow men started avoiding Amber rose not until she paid a younger and an upcoming artist below are pedigree for a relationship bf she could get one.


I'm i d only one noticing Yoruba demons always dating the most beautiful girls in Nigeria and around d globe?

Ur opinion bros, as long as the couple don't care what is ur headache with their issue. Besides u can't bring in a woman like amber rose into the gist bruh, that woman has no principle.

TheManofTomorrow:
I don't blame the man.
He believes the person is already predicting ills to his marriage. Little things like that speaks volume.

Only in nigeria men, grow a brain

surgical:
it is finished

...Finished again

GraGra247:
If you want to marry a Nigerian shine your eyes well well. Really look before you leap.

Well I could say that for any type of marriage at all.

Subject him to every possibly known test to confirm faithfulness and preparedness.
If possible hack him and read his chats and messages,e-mails.

Once confirmed go ahead & leave the rest to luck.

BS no advice u hear from people esp on social platforms will be right. Another thing u need to ask urself is if ur making the right moves? Discussing with friends about ur own issues is only recipe for disaster. Ciao

lilytender:
He won't go there if there is no promise of unlimited ogogoro. I hope he won't be vomiting in the toilet when results are being collated as he did during UN General Assembly.

At least a better case than OBJ who went to monitor elections but instead helped them to rig it

metroblogger:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/buhari-why-i-will-never-please-my-children-at-detriment-of-nigerians.html

Hahahhahaha, if Nigerians still believe this BS from this motherfucker then they are the dumbest fools in this planet.

lokobyforch:
Stupidity isn't punishable by death. If it was, there would be no FEMI ADESINA.

Oh how the giant has fallen. That man was larger than life while in his newpaper. The association with Buhari and APC has completely rubbished his hard built integrity. Let it be lesson to others. Hope he redeems his conscience cos it will cost him.

hypertension:
Why are you always "VERY IMMATURE" in this forum. I know out there you behave responsibly...or you dont have home training?

People like you should be banned from this forum. U create division with you very tribal comments.

I have many Igbo friends and im sure they dont even know there is a beef existing with the yorubas

Please grow up. Dont see this as an insult but work on yourself. Apart from kids, there a grown ups or matured people here.

Thanks in advance

Well.said bros. Kudos

sweerychick:
I guess both innoson and GTB have a personal issue

By the time this is done, innoson will own GTB singlehandedly

Sirheny007:
How about the American Consulate in Nigeria has promised that applicants for the American Visa will now get in Forty-Eight hours??


FTC Dedicated to NwaAmaikpe's Diary.
May you never run out of wits.

Its because u may find it hard to believe but Nigerian visas are one of the most difficult to get in the world

Won't happen

uboma:
I prefer the Sedans.


more balanced on the road when on high speed.

Cheaper to maintain than Crossovers and SUVs.

Ur opinion

Saintsammurai:
If you are not ready to wife her..
Then why not just tell her from the start instead of making her, to have hope of marriage?
why wasting her time?

That's the point. Men are different.

Saintsammurai:
Actually a woman is indeed entitled to the money of her partner by divine, physical and logical right..
Its not because of her vagina.
But once you claim to love a girl and you are ready to wife her, then all that you have is hers except if you don't really love her..

Big question bros "are u ready to wife her". Not every girl u love that u are ready to wife. Its a matter of perception

Alwaysking:
Mehn I couldn't believe some girls can be this cheap, imagine giving out your punny just for tantalizer meatpie and coke, when my friend told me this I just thought he was joking. or bragging foolishly I never knew he was saying the truth until he showed me her pictures and short clips of their sexcapades, I was gobsmacked because I thought she's responsible and won't be easily laid the first time my friend introduced me to her. I actually don't understand what girls of this generation are turning into, infact I pray never to have a female child because this is getting out of hand.

U should be flogged