Romance › Re: What Could I Get My Girlfriend On Valentine's Day? by Dshocker(m): 2:44am On Feb 17, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote: I want a hunting rifle  As small as you are(midget), what you want a hunting rifle for, who you wanna kill?
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Romance › Re: Lady Threatens Ex-lover Who Married Someone Else After She Sponsored Him Abroad by Dshocker(m): 2:31am On Feb 17, 2023 |
Foodqueen: The guy went for a younger lover  Helllllo, are you indirectly accusing her of being too old?
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Romance › Re: Lady Threatens Ex-lover Who Married Someone Else After She Sponsored Him Abroad by Dshocker(m): 2:29am On Feb 17, 2023 |
Beebah321: Women don dey sponsor men? Wonders shall never end. You never travel go china, u go dey sponsor one ungrateful human being. My dear, what marriage promise cannot do, does not exist. Marriage na women number one weak point. |
Romance › Re: Cash Of 200k Or Gift Of 200k - Which One Is Better? by Dshocker(m): 7:28am On Feb 16, 2023 |
Reinamaria: Give me the 200k in cash, then buy me a gift of any amount. I'll appreciate.🌹 Wahala....
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Would You Advice Both Parties To Do In Such A Situation by Dshocker(m): 7:18am On Feb 16, 2023 |
[quote author=Hamachi post=120899824][/quote]I believe most organisations have dress codes, why did she dress to seduce.
Its her fault, she should rest in Jesus name.
Come to think of it OP, are you sure you are not the Ire, because you have big boobs? |
Education › Re: White SA School Kids Brawl In Viral Video, Boy Suspended (PICS) by Dshocker(m): 7:12am On Feb 16, 2023 |
Zonefree: Stop gender-shaming please. Man and Woman are equal. How are men and women equal? |
Family › Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Dshocker(m): 7:08am On Feb 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. Majority of Nigerian men enter into these same hypogamous unions for the sake of sitting as lords and providers to their women. --- some of them literally go out of their way to ensure the women have nothing to their name in order that they can beat their chests as providers ---- so how can any sane individual pretend the women are to blame? 
2. So she should sit back and continue as a dependent on her husband then?  Please don't blame me, i just stated the truth... |
Family › Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Dshocker(m): 6:42am On Feb 16, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: Even the story says that the man was always out late in the night drinking with his friends. That shows he was never a responsible husband. Some of these men always think that the grass is green at the other side. In my opinion, I don't think the woman lost anything good, cuz he was never a responsible man. She should give him time to return home, then if he doesn't, she will surely move on and be fine. Lol How can everything be fine, when Nigerian women are dependent on their husband. If she moves on, she will suffer financial consequences  |
Food › Re: Look At The Tomatoes I Bought For 200 Naira In Jos by Dshocker(m): 6:32am On Feb 16, 2023 |
obrien30: I bought a large number of tomatoes for 200 naira in Jos.
You won't believe it.
Things are cheap in Jos. What do you expect, na Jos get tomatoes for Nigeria |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Tinubu In Aso Rock Villa by Dshocker(m): 8:14pm On Feb 15, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Deji Adeyanju Explains Why He Criticizes Peter Obi by Dshocker(m): 7:03am On Feb 15, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo’s Wife, Ozioma Celebrates Him On Valentine’s Day by Dshocker(m): 6:56am On Feb 15, 2023 |
GOFRONT: Madam, after you have disgraced this man when he was alive, you are now here to celebrate Val with him.
I know Okposo wont survive the National embarrassment his wife has brought upon him.
Randy man But she forgave him when the issue of infidelity came up. |
Politics › Re: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri, Imo State by Dshocker(m): 6:52am On Feb 15, 2023 |
Jones4190: yes And you want progress? Use your tongue to count your teeth.. I would like you to research around the world and tell me where such system of government is being practiced and there was progress in that nation. |
Politics › Re: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri, Imo State by Dshocker(m): 6:44am On Feb 15, 2023 |
Jones4190: A local champion built his party ACN from the scratch, won 6 states, had 6 governors from 2 regions, 19 Senators including Ngige from the SE, and 50 HOR members, the Minority leader seat of the NASS, 136 House of Assembly members. Tell us anyone else who did it like him. Is that your yardstick you use in measuring a good leader If your ideology is anything to go by, then we are doomed as a nation. Only in Africa such nonsense style of leadership exist, where a wicked and greedy soul will use money to buy peoples conscience so they can do his bidding and the most painful part is that, all these are done with tax payers money. |
Politics › Re: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri, Imo State by Dshocker(m): 6:40am On Feb 15, 2023 |
In Buhari's voice APC, from top to burtum, from top to burtum...  |
Travel › Re: What Are The Existing And The Potential Tourist Attraction Sites In Your State? by Dshocker(m): 6:40am On Feb 15, 2023 |
Nigerian government, but state and federal has not invested in tourism.
Even the obudu cattle ranch can not be maintained by the Crossriver government. |
Sports › Re: Belgian Goalkeeper Espeel Collapses, Dies After Saving Penalty by Dshocker(m): 8:36pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
I believe he had a medical condition that he hid from the club... |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by Dshocker(m): 10:56am On Feb 14, 2023 |
sync: Dear Nairalanders, I’m in a dilemma and need your advice There’s this friend of mine who out of the blue contacted me last year October asking for a favor to come stay at my place a couple of days since she had an interview in Abuja. I allowed in her without hesitation since I thought it was just going to be a few days. Fortunately, she got the job.
When she got the job in October, she asked me to pls allow her stay for two months before getting her place. My people, it’s been five months already and she’s still not making any moves to get her own place.
The problem really is I am currently jobless. She doesn’t contribute anything to the house. I am responsible for our feeding, gas, electricity, everything! And I do not have money. The little money I have is from my generous elder sister who has been my helper since I lost my job. Weekends she sleeps all through while I clean the house. I also do all the cooking. She doesn’t cook.
I am a light sleeper so I get up at any slight movement. This lady gets up between 3 to 4 times every night to use the restroom thus keeping me awake all through the night. This really has a toll on me. During the day she goes to the restroom between 14 to 16 times. She doesn’t contribute to buy foodstuff but she eats 4 times a day
What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless! You have to tell her point blank, on how jobless you are and have no money. From the little money your sister sends you, you should started a business with it, no matter how little, even if it is a pos business. Not necessarily you must work in an office or white-collar job. |
Romance › Re: This Valentine's Day by Dshocker(m): 9:43am On Feb 14, 2023 |
[quote author=Festus30 post=120895039][/quote]So they are shaving, because war is coming 😂😂😂 |
Romance › Re: What Happening To My Boobs? (pics) by Dshocker(m): 9:04am On Feb 14, 2023 |
Lovilla: Ladies in the house whats happening to me? Have you had similar experience? How did u solve yours?
I am currently 23 and my boobs tend to be getting bigger since last 3 weeks.
What could be the problem?
How could i solve this issue? I dont want to have a big breast. Run a pregnancy test, e get why! |
Crime › Re: Lady Dies In Abuja Hotel Three Months After Concluding NYSC (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 8:20am On Feb 14, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: I Asked For A Val On Nairaland, Instead This Happen by Dshocker(m): 7:38am On Feb 14, 2023 |
SanctifiedSista: Hi guys Was I wrong to believe there are good, responsible men out there? I asked for a Val only for guys to reach out asking which hotel I prefer, one detailing how we shld spend d weekend, only one that was nice but he is a 20 year old
Still interested in a Christian, mature man staying on the mainland( no ikorodu,badagry and ajangbadi egbeda), has a sense of humor, financially established and cute Must it be guys, why can't you ask your fellow girls? |
Romance › Re: Three Things Women Should Take Note About Real Men by Dshocker(m): 4:23am On Feb 14, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Valentine Motivation e don tey wey I write on love content 😂😂😂
Three things women should take note about Real Men
Real men love intelligent women, industrious women & productive women aside fine face and big yansh what value can you add
Happy Valentine 😍😍😍 Bimpe who is your Val |
Romance › Re: Valentine's Day: What Is The Most Shocking Gift You Have Ever Received Or Given? by Dshocker(m): 4:08am On Feb 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Police To Invite Lagos Traditional Ruler Over Audio Threatening Voters by Dshocker(m): 3:16am On Feb 14, 2023 |
lhordspy: How is this intimidation? We should be learned enough to know the difference between 'Sensitization and intimidation '.
I listened to the voicenote yesterday. The man said:
“If we take the number of people here, we will not be less than 60, but only 20 have PVCs; what is happening to the rest?"
It is a community(ward) meeting and he has every right to question the low numbers of PVC holders. You people will understand what structure is in few days time. It is same in every state.
I spoke to my community Chief few days ago, and he said same thing. He said there was a directive straight from the state government that the number of vote you deliver will determine the level of infrastructure you will get in return after election. So this community head has every right to question why his people refused to collect their PVC to vote.
Leave internet and witness the reality on the street yourself. The structures are aligning.
Una go cry tire. If you call this sensitisation, then am afraid that the money spent on your education was a waste. |
Politics › Re: Adedibu’s Mansion Loses Shine, Followers Relive Ibadan Strongman’s Life by Dshocker(m): 2:55am On Feb 14, 2023 |
I don't know him, in as much as i just read how powerful he was with his thugs, assisting those around him with food and cash.
Well that is not what governance is all about, if this is how western countries ruled their people, then they wouldn't have gotten to where they are now.
Africa is so cursed that we behave like animals.
Monies meant for capital projects to build infrastructures are used in feeding only those around him with amala, haba.... Who do us this thing? |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Excited As Tiwa Savage Replies His Instagram Chat (Photo) by Dshocker(m): 1:44am On Feb 14, 2023 |
Beebah321: Who Tiwa epp? mtchewww  Comot joke, but she pass you in all ramifications... |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Receives Briefing From NNPC CEO On OIL And Gas (Photos) by Dshocker(m): 1:22am On Feb 14, 2023 |
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Family › Re: The Collapse Of Family Is The Collapse Of Society by Dshocker(m): 1:13am On Feb 14, 2023 |
atheistandproud: The collapse of the family structure in society will always predate the collapse of a society. This is usually one of the signs to look out for. In communities where the family structure has completely broken down, society deteriorates with it.
You can't fix this one with a swoosh of a magic wand.(donotcopy) This is because this problem is a oroborosian one. The breakdown of the family structure exacerbates the breakdown of society which in turn causes the family structure to breakdown even faster.
In Nigeria here, with the introduction of celebrity culture and the internet going into full swing at some point in the mid 2000s, it only served to worsen and spread(donotcopy) one of the worst tendencies that we have...the worship of money.
Throw Instagram in several years later and a corner has been turned. The first victims of this were unfortunately young people. The ladies in particular who were bombarded with images (usually enhanced or fake) of an unattainable life led by the 1%. They soon imbibed it and made it their standard.
Instagram celebrities like Linda Ikeji also added fuel to the fire. If he doesn't earn in dollars or in 6 figures, dump him. If he doesn't have a car, he's not your class(donotcopy). If he doesn't this, if he doesn't that etc. Soon the young men will fall victim and would now look to attain these standards set by Instagram celebrities and enforced by women. This is on top of the already bogus culture of bride price that extorts men.
If that wasn't bad enough, even people who were already married would choose to impose these standards on their long time spouses, both male and female.(donotcopy) Marriage is no longer about teamwork, it's now about getting one's way. If you don't have your way or you're not happy, DIVORCE!!!
With the hunt for money in full swing and a new phenomenon of divorce rapidly tearing through marriages, there's a whole generation of kids that do not know the comfort and stability of a 2-parent home. The single parents are too tired from working that they simply do not have the energy to parent their kids.
With poor leadership, ever disappearing jobs, zero opportunities etc.(donotcopy) There's only one way to reach these standards. Crime!
In many communities the glorification of crime, discouragement and suspicion of education, absenteeism of fathers (and mothers too), fewer opportunities, impoverished neighbourhoods etc. has become the norm(donotcopy).
Yahoo boys (internet fraudsters), 419-ers (local fraudsters), kidnappers, armed robbers, violent cultists, drug-dealers, ritualists, organ harvesters etc. have become role models for children whose parents have all but abdicated their responsibility.
Without the family structure to act as a buffer between these impressionable young minds and the cancer of societal vices, the hope of any future family structure for future generations tanks even further.
Because of the above, all of these things are factors that lead to a sort of trap that is very difficult to break free of because the young ones are, to all intents and purposes, born into it and will probably never escape it. What you narrated here was the same topic i had with my guys last saturday. I for one cannot and will never marry a girl that grew up with a single mother. And we are fast imitating and adopting the western culture to a fault and our so called celebrities are leading the way and their fans who look up to them adopts same principles as norm. |
Travel › Re: Couple, Their 3 Children Die As Car Rams Into Truck On Lagos-Badagry Expressway by Dshocker(m): 12:27am On Feb 14, 2023 |
Government is supposed to provide street lights on our roads... |
Crime › Re: Father Dies Fighting Daughter's School Bus Driver Who Allegedly Molested Her by Dshocker(m): 11:51am On Feb 13, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: I thought there is always a teacher in every school bus, and the teacher is dropped after all the children have reached their different homes? Arrest the proprietor and the teacher who left the bus. Never leave a female child alone with a Nigerian man, even if it's her father, but some people will not hear. Even with her father? 😳😳😳 Madam calm down. |
Crime › Re: Father Dies Fighting Daughter's School Bus Driver Who Allegedly Molested Her by Dshocker(m): 11:50am On Feb 13, 2023 |
TarOrfeeek:

Weak Man Weak decisions
Why heed to the Proprietors request for calm.
That was the wrong choice to make. U are a terrible bastard to call the late Federick a weak man. You come online and type rubbish, all to prove you are a strong man. |