₦airaland Forum

247Hustler:
Alright. I sent you a pm.

Truth is i cannot connect you both, but below is a link to another truck driver that knows what he is doing in America.

https://fb.watch/h7FYTxwd2M/

1stGenAmerican:
No truck driver here in the US will make near that amount each month no matter how hard he or she works, especially with the cost of fuel.. There are also strict regulations as to how many hours you can drive and how many you’re required to rest and be off in each 24 hour period and it’s very well monitored. Truck drivers can make great money but nowhere near $30,000 a month, not even gross.

Well that is your own business and your believe.

My immediate younger brother drives one.

Hope it is not what i am thinking...

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

Braaaa, America versities can give you admission and the embassy will still turn you down, the changes of getting visa through school is like 30/100.

She doesn't love nor care for you, just sit back and watch her, i doubt she would get the visa, by then she would regret her life.

Use your head and move on & make sure you come back and tell us the outcome.

siofra:
It's as if I should pay their groom price and wed them

If I see your boyfriend walking around in this two piece vintage, I'll snatch him especially if he's tall

There's this guy in my church that always wears outfits like this, gosh! I'll just be looking at him till saliva drips from my lips. And he's tall with a beautiful afro☺️☺️☺️

Bye! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️

I think say you reject and rebuke Nigerian men, which one come be say you dey drool again, abi miracle no dey tire Jesus?

Oluwa Burna.

doggedfighter:
Our own Mallam here's the kindest person I know.

We buy from others only if he doesn't have that particular stuff.


He goes out of his way to please sacrificially.

Everyone loves to say hi and chit chat with him before going home.

He can give you his last change when asked for believing that when another customer comes change will come out somehow

People here trust him with the keys to their flats and gate .

Aside what he sells, he's a cobbler and mends clothes too. Though he mends rubbish sometimes

And he's handsome too with clear, shinny dark skin and luxuriant curly hair.

He's the darling of our crescent.

Sani you are the best !!!!!!

Give him a chance na?

Wahala

ritaprincess:
Good evening
I want to start a business this month, i already have a shop in a good area in lagos,and i have money to get some goods in the shop(jewelry business). But the money i have wont be enough to stock my shop the way i want.
I was advised by my friend to try one of these microfinance(lapo). She said they do give loan and the interest rate is okay. I dont really know much about them,please if you have experience with them or know about them kindly share

Young man, do not inject a loan into a new business, considering the fact that it is a new business and has no customer base yet.

These loan sharks will only give you a short term loan, which in turn cripple the business.

Source money from family and friends, with a long term repayment plan.

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands 😡🤬

So in one sentence; you are looking for love and equal right ?

Must you copy everything that the west does?

Soap operas has messed with your mind so much, Ndi Zee World

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

My brother nothing confuses a woman more than a dick of a broke man.

Most poor or broke guy's dick can make a woman reach orgasm.

Two corrupt parties not suitable to rule.

Hatrick01:
A friend told me that there is a community in benue state that offers thier wife to thier visitors.

Pls i want to know if it is true or just a kind of myth.

Why on earth would a man offer his wife to his visitor?
As kolanut or what?

And the woman will gladly accept to spread legs for the man.

Pls is this true?

I know your plan braaa, but unfortunately.

Before you get to that community, either you are kidnapped by unknown gunmen ☠️☠️☠️ or Fulani herdsmen 🐄🐄🐄 use your body to sharping their knives 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪

Love don't cost a thing.....

Even pregnant woman.

What women cannot do, does not exist.

advanceDNA:
This is not the time to look for unnecessary enjoyment..You just started paying your dues in life...pay the sacrifice needed to get ur good grades
..good grades can help u unlock some door when the time comes....this is the time to also pay the dues for discipline......u will need it in front...

Yeah.. friends make the atmosphere fun..make a few of them if u can... but u gotta learn to fly solo as well.....be happy on your own...

friends are just extra additions ....if u make the right ones they can help u up the ladder.... but if u need friends for party d enjoyment....nigga trust me...u are better without the distraction

Miracle no dey tire Jesus?

What shall it profit a man, you read all the books in this world and you ended up at the road side selling akara and puff puff

Wahala.

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

I believe you have room mates or hostel friends, you can hang out with, particularly during the weekends.

Because all work and no play, makes jack a dull boy.

Sheistoopretty:
That's not for Nigerian men, Nigerian men can be Poverty-stricken and still giving birth to children like rabbits

Just take a look around u, isn't it poor men who are having majority of kids? If u had said foreign men, I will understand

Nigerian men are just Us*less.......all of them

Including your father, your brothers and future husband.

25 children by the grace of God, from one wife

100% the wish of God

Na greed want carry Bola Ahmed Tinubu enter Aso Rock, not minding his health challenge to the detriment of over 200 million Nigerians.

We can do better.

Can you imagine, this is bizarre.

Father raping his own offspring at 4yrs, this is preposterous, i am shocked over this incident 😡😡😡

Jennyclay:
Another animalistic behavior from these nonsense men. If they like let them kill themselves, that's their own cup of agbo.

There's this lounge a guy took me to this evening, some men that sat close to our table started fighting, I don't even know what transpired one of them just carried wine bottle and break on the other one's head.. If you see fight, it was bouncers that came to separate them. I was just looking at them oo, in my mind I was just saying let them kill themselves, that's their own cup of agbo.

Shameless men!

I thought you've rejected Nigerian men?

Wahala.

ExAngel007:
Instagram model Mary Magdalene shares shocking video after massive implant bursts in one of her 22lb boobs


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/cdn-cgi/mirage/acbde276b5492690a3aca6c612b272112384cada260dbf39e2e7821531b25376/1280/https://lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/_medium_1675413240.jpeg

A Canadian model who is addicted to extreme plastic surgery has left many shocked after she revealed that one of her 10kg breast implants exploded.

Mary Magdalene, who is well known for showcasing her plastic surgery enhancements online - has spent more than $100,000 on surgery over the years and almost died on the operating table several times. Her extensive procedures have also left her with severe back pain, meaning she needs a wheelchair to get around.

In the latest setback, one of her 5000cc implants has now burst, leaving her with an enormous 'uniboob' and a saggy, empty breast next to it.

'My breast implant popped - again,' said the Toronto native, who is scheduled to 'have surgery to take them [both] out next week'.

'I'm going to go back natural in not only my boobs but other parts of my body, too,' she told her 163,000 Instagram followers.

She also revealed during a livestream that it didn't hurt when her implant burst, and she only realised what was happening when she heard a 'pop'. She went on to say that she's going to take out her 38J implants and revert to her natural self.

Mary's massive boobs have gotten her in trouble before.

Last summer she claimed her 22-pound breasts got her booted from a flight from Canada to Dallas for looking too explicit.?


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/2/instagram-model-mary-magdalene-shares-shocking-video-after-massive-implant-bursts-in-one-of-her-22lb-boobs.html

Very ugly looking being

Mercisharelove:
Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past.what matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

Just like that, wonderful...

Preciousgirl:
Hmmm
My boss gave me money and this yam to cook for him, but the yam looks weird
Is he talking to me in a coded language?

Hmmm

I pity you.

A thief shouldn't be complaining

EmiDon11:
that didnt work on mine

Give it 2 months trial

Hakkiim0:
I have try all what you said.
It does not work for me.

Were you expecting results overnight?

At least from 2 months

MenInsight:
I am going to share with you my experience with women and what changed to help me.

If you take to heart what I am about to discuss here, you won't need to spend much energy to get a lady, honestly speaking. I say this because what I have experienced in the last 90 days of my life has seen me getting comments from ladies, including the ones that didn't want me in the past.

Women are not moved by what they HEAR...period. The saying that women are moved by what they hear is false. It may have worked many years ago but currently, I do not think that saying still holds weight, and here is why.

I am more of a guy who lives in his own world, call me an introvert and therefore, I do things more in private and rarely hang out often. I did have some relationships in the past when I was in Benin, but not much. I relocated to South West and since then, I have been trying to make a name for myself.

Because of the challenges and time in making my life worth it, I didn't have time going to meet new ladies. At a point, I had to try to meet some ladies online and none worked out. I realized I was spending too much energy in trying to "win" ladies than was necessary and at a point, I became so drained, and disappointed, and gave up.

Why didn't it work?

1. Focusing on just one lady at a time. If you are always focusing on getting one lady at a time, the chances of that particular lady rejecting you are pretty high. The reason is that a lady can sense when you do not have a life beyond her walls and that makes you so much unattractive to her. When a lady sense that she is the ONLY one on your radar, you are clearly telling her that she has no competition and women love competition, they love the idea that they have to fight to win you from another lady.

I used to be that guy who would make the mistake of making a lady know she is just the only one on my radar. I did this ignorantly when I didn't understand the game properly.

There was a time one girl said: "I will have to find out whether you have other girls" You would assume it is wise to make her feel she is the only one but the moment you do that, you have increased your rejection probability by 1.

Instead of focusing on just a lady, try to have more options. Keep your options open. Women on the other hand ALWAYS keep their options open, so why should you do otherwise? The fact that a girl is talking to you does not mean she is not talking to 10 other guys.

A girl will be in a relationship with someone and she will still give her number to the guy she met at a wedding or any social gathering.. why? she is keeping her options open.

Also just focusing on one lady can make you look desperate at some point because you do not have a backup. Many girls on the other hand do not feel that way because they have quite a number of men giving them attention. One girl told me she does not date outside of the men she has in contact with. What she is saying is that she has a lot of men in a queue and would go for the next one that is available if the current one does not work.

2. Not taking advantage of my advantage: I said above that women are not moved by what they hear. That saying women are moved by what they hear and men are moved by what they see is not true. Women, just like men, are moved by what they SEE.

If women are moved by what they hear, I am good at that and I can tell you for a fact that you will end up wasting your time with little to nothing to show for it. Instead of talking, SHOW IT!

The mistake I used to make is that I didn't take advantage of my own advantage or showcase them while showing interest in these ladies. For instance, I rarely had my DP on my profile anywhere, even on WhatsApp where I interact with them. But in 2022, I changed that, and one of my female friends started asking for my pics whenever she sees one she likes.

To further prove this, there were these two girls I had an interest in but they refused.

Let's call them Girl A and Girl B.

Girl A was one I met earlier before Girl B but due to distance, things couldn't pan out well. The only thing she had seen was just some old pic of me. I rarely take pictures and when I do, they are poorly done because I am my own photographer with my hand . The life of an introvert is boring.

Earlier this year, I uploaded a recent picture and video of me at the airport in the company of a lady and a male friend. The picture was shot by my male friend and he did a greater job on my physique than I had ever done. I was well dressed of course but this time around it brought out my full feature, especially my height. But previously, you would think I am short because of the way I usually take pictures as I often just take pictures of my face. One other lady on my contact said she didn't know I was this tall. And women love tall guys.

Girl A on seeing the picture and video quickly wished me a happy new year. The last time she initiated a convo was in mid-2021. I replied to her 8 hours later and she responded by injecting a word she has never used in our chat before...

Girl B saw it but didn't say anything but I knew that she was troubled. A few days later, she started acting funny in my DM... Weeks after that, I uploaded another picture of me and she had to pick up her phone to call me at 10:45 pm. I didn't answer the call, waited a while, and texted her to know her purpose for calling to which she said she just wanted to say "hi". I laughed after seeing the reply.

Technically speaking, the lady in the picture that was uploaded helped boost my social image in the minds of Girl A and Girl B. Remember what I said about women wanting competition... They can't imagine a guy who was chasing them being with another girl. I am sure some men reading this have had those experiences too. They will reject you and still be mad or unhappy that you are with another girl.

I actually got some reactions from other ladies, including the ones I hadn't thought of. My closest female friend kept saying... is this really you?

3. Master The Art of Attraction, Make money and Look Good: Making money is good but if you do not spend that money on yourself to look good, your money is a waste. The reactions from these ladies mentioned above are made possible because I put in effort in taking care of myself. Previously, I just want to make money but started using it to show what I have got.

Instead of using money to give to girls, use that money to buy things for yourself. A girl will admire your looks more when she sees money on you but can't have it from you.

4. Never share your challenges with a girl you are wooing: Girl B from above was someone who made it known that is single and available to interested guys. However, she quietly withdrew because, at the time I was in contact with her, I foolishly shared some financial problems I had at that time. She felt I was broke and stylishly ported to another guy... but now she has seen different images of me and has been trying to use those cunning tactics that women use and want to come back to me. Obviously, the guy she went with has no plans whatsoever and he is likely tired of banging her.

When we started talking, she said we could see... when she ported to another guy who is based in Lagos, she said why should we see each other when I probed her for not seeing me whenever she is in Lagos but a few months after that, she was telling me she is in Lagos. I didn't ask her this time around. I simply told her to enjoy her stay.

5. Get another girl, take picture of you and the said girl, and upload it: A few days ago, I uploaded 3 slides of pictures of me and a new girl. Girl B viewed 2 slides as the first person to view my status and SHE REFUSED to view the 3rd one. In fact, she didn't go near my status after that till this moment. The next day, her message to me showed what I had suspected... she was not happy seeing me happy with another girl. Such is life!

What I have learned this past 90 days have showed that we can spend less energy chasing women if we play the card right...just by mastering the art of attraction because women are moved by what they SEE

Funny enough, after copying and pasting this, you still find it hard around woman, lakaka

Abi miracle no dey tire Jesus.

Labalaba23:
I love pussy so much. It's the only thing I want to see, eat, taste and feel. Pussy is sweet , no doubt. Without the warm hole and touch of a woman, I can't be okay. Yesterday, I spent over #150,000 to fly to Delta State From Lagos to meet a girl I met on Facebook last month. Yes, I can do anything to please a woman so far it makes her happy. As I got there, she told me I'm bigger than what she saw in my picture. I'm a bit overweight around 230Kg. She didn't let us have sex and I had to cry back to Lagos. Upon all my begging and crying she didn't open the pussy for me. Right now , I'm supposed to be sleeping but I'm thinking about vagina and dreaming about it.

What can I do to make this girl like me

Stop eating foods that contains goat sperm, it ends up messing with your mind and telling you are a goat.