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Singapore has one of the lowest crime rate in the world.

Their is no homeless person in Singapore.

DoMeGood09:
The problem here was you acted desperate. Next time, do not be desperate on women. If a woman is beautiful, tell her that she’s ugly.

I told a pretty young lady last week that I cannot date her and she asked me why, I said to her that because she’s can’t measure up. Ever since then, she’s been calling me. What works for women is the opposite.

Shut up, shut up.... E be like say you dey watch too many African Magic Epic

Kobojunkie:
1. Women also do that which you have stated in bold up there there so why do you presume you are the first to think of doing such?,

2. I don't convince myself of anything of such nor does the word "luck" and "relationship" go together in my dictionary so forgive me for really not seeing whatever moot point you are attempting to make with this response of yours.

Something about your person attracted those 4 girls to you yo begin with and even with you saying you have cut them off, it doesn't mean you will not still go out and attract others like them , maybe with better ability to hide their flaws next time. Rather than stone the gals what you ought instead do is look inside of you to change whatever is necessary so you attract better women next time. Coming here to accuse them as though they forced themselves on you somehow ain't going to help you any.

Ntorr.... Women go lay egg for ya head.

bestdudes:
Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.

Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.

I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.

Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.

For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.

We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.

Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.

After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice

She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...

That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.

I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.

If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?

I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.

On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.

Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.

She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.

While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.

Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?

Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.

For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.

Let's move on

Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.

Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.

We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.

Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,

On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.

The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...

Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.

Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!

You don talk am finish, their shakara and their sense of selection is very poor and annoying.

Prospertochu:
My ex and mother of my triplets and I are separated. The children were with me.

Last week she called me to inform me that she is in the village and she wants to come over to see the children. I told her no problem my mother is at home with the kids she can come over anytime and she came on Monday while I was a t work. She brought foodstuffs and toys for the kids.

She texted me to asked if she can take them to her mother's place I said yes. She left with the 3 children. I expected her to bring them back today she said she is going back to Lagos tomorrow and this evening I came home I met my boys, not my girl. My mother said it was her brother who dropped them and I saw a big luggage with plenty of clothes she bought for them. I asked my mum what did the brother said about my girl he said my ex told her to inform me that she will bring her back tomorrow morning. I called, her number is switched off so I went at her mother's place, she said she left with the girl to Lagos yesterday.

I am very upset that she took the girl to Lagos without my consent and I want my girl back.

What should I do to have my child back with me?

By right, all the children are supposed to be with their mother.

You are making it sound like you own 100% right on the children alone.

Omo marriage is the greatest achievement of an average Nigeria lady....

These are the type of report Tinubu wouldn't want to hear...

They should also teach Biafrans on how make missiles, drones and iron dome...

So we would be able to defend ourselves from neighbouring enemies, just like the way Israel is surrounded by her enemies.

Worriedguy6699:
Covfefe2@gmail.com

Email me if you need it.

Na akamu wey hot you dey rub there?

duro4chang:
Look at the time you woke up to type this rubbish. Look at how Tinubu's matter is giving you sleepless nights. No peace for the wicked. May you continue to witness sleeplessness. May you continue to have unpleasant life. Tinubu is the next president of Nigeria.

The way Tinubu's health is and the way he is slow, due to age is the same way your life and destiny will be.

I don't support rubbish, all because he is from my tribe, you guys had the opportunity to gone for a more intelligent, capable and healthier Yemi Osinbajo.

Una dey come field old man wey get health challenges, haba.

duro4chang:
Look at the time you woke up to type this rubbish. Look at how Tinubu's matter is giving you sleepless nights. No peace for the wicked. May you continue to witness sleeplessness. May you continue to have unpleasant life. Tinubu is the next president of Nigeria.

I am a blogger and also a data analyst, so am practically online.

Romanoff:
Mama no know before she spoil the boy?

It pains me so much when i see mothers these days overlooking issues that they ought to correct in a child with beating.

I keep saying it, no amount of beating will make a child hate his/her parents when they grow up.

I still believe in the older ways used in training up a child, than what most parents are doing now, and giving excuse that this is a modern world of social media, that it is best you talk to them, that they will change.

When a child already knows that, no matter what he or she does, non of the parents will beat them, rather they will only talk...What do you expect of the child, because he or she is already fearless.

Nazgul:
By 7pm you can still find barbing shops operating around, or any kind of shop where you can plug your phone for a few minutes and give him a call rather than banging non-stop on the gate for 4 hours.

This guy, her problem no be how to charge her phone, she is complaining of her brother...

Nazgul:
Doesn't he have a phone you could have used to reach him to open the gate for you rather than banging on the gate for hours?

When next you have a visitor, family member or friends, state your house rules clearly on the first day of their visit, don't just assume they'll be nice, Nigerians aren't nice people, they're opportunists. If they can't abide by your rules, bundle them out of your house that very moment and stand by your decision regardless of how they beg or who they call to mediate on their behalf.

Believe me, when next they visit you, they would behave properly. 90% of Nigerians are mad, so you have to display your own madness so they can accord you some respect.

Try dey read, e get why.

Romanoff:
19 year old wey done dey smoke Indian hemp. You're not his mother, send him back to his mother let her carry her cross.

They are siblings and his actions can make mama die before her time...

Ok

Candidlady:



68 - 26
_____

Married her when she 19

The man was 61 when they got married
(Idont trust my maths)

All this kind of marriage can never work.. the parents of the girl must be something else and the man’s family sef get am for body


But watch how someone will counter this all thanks to ned and Regina’s union

No amount of money or length of dik can make me marry someone who is way older than me
allah ya kiyaye

Dedicating this ftc to all those struggling out there
Keep your hope alive
Drag some Canadian loud

So in other words, you value sex than money?

[quote author= post=118255557]Initial Gra Gra.
If you make profit from our population pay your taxes or getat.
Most of y'all cannot do without our darling nation,
Stop making initial yanga abeg.
You can't eat your cake and have it!


A better Nigeria all around is all we want at [b][/b].

Slow and steady we will get to the nation of our dreams.

God bless Nigeria.[/quote]Do you know how many that has folded in the past?

duro4chang:
Tinubu is my choice. The prayer of some people us that Nigeria will scatter

When last did you check your mental health, because it seems you need your brains to be examined.

PandoraObi:
if your grieves are unconsolable for you to bear approach fast moving trailers, stop looking for who to blame for your frustrations and disappointment, stop constituting nuisance.

But he just told you the truth, how can a matured man not be able to differentiate between good from bad

PandoraObi:
Abracadabra what they want you to see is what you see

U are funny, how does this old pics concern Peter Obi's visit to Benue?

Jeromejnr:
Saw the update earlier.

There has been a lot of UFO/UAP sightings lately.

Remember seeing some in one night back in 2003 in boarding school.

To kee you dey hungry me, will you shut up!

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Just like that?

MarieSucre:
You yourself are you a proper decent man. You can only attract what you are, is that not what they say. Check yourself and change your ways.

Be careful

pipsplus2020:
Perhaps you need to update ur Whatsapp

I have updated

Truth is that this woman is hallucinating on drugs

Omo ulcer killed him...

Gayism

Jeweltz:
Those of you asking what am I bringing. I give him peace of mind and be his support

We don't want support, you have to also equate to his financial level, else na Omo alata dey wait you.

Jeweltz:
Is any of you looking for a wife? I'm � beautiful, educated, respectful, submissive, Godly, know how to cook.

Only a guy living in Canada please, and must not be on student visa.
Men in Nigeria are Heartbreakers and liars

Even the girls on your DP are laughing at you