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turmacs:
God I'm not asking for too much please, just mistakenly direct one of these dollar millionaire footballers to my Instagram page, let them see my pictures and fall in love immediately, DM me and toast me in Jesus name 🙏

U have to be beautiful, before they can admire you 👌

Just look at the person talking of fairness, rubbish.

Herdamorlar:
With the high rise in the prices of all the basic needs. I returned from work this evening and I tried to write all I needed and to my surprise, my salary has finished with no savings for me.

I just don't know what to remove from the list right now, are we really going to continue like this? Especially those of us working for private companies, these private companies don't even bother to increase the salary of their workers with the rise in all commodities in the country.

Why complaining, when you had the opportunity to vote right...

Tribalism will consume and destroy your future.

1Sharon:
Long story.

You evaded my questions. If you had 10b why would you want your wife to reuse nappies?

Don't ask me such question...

In other words, using napkin is a bad thing to you.

1Sharon:
Why should she agree? If you had 10b, why would you opt for that?

If you had 10b, would you even continue to keep using the same car you're using, if you have one?

A friend to my first boss, exports scraps to Europe, he owns one 1 car, and barely drives it, since his family are based in New York.

He resides close to his dump, or junk yard at long-bridge, after redeem camp, in the outskirt of Lagos.

Mind you, he owns a house in banana island, but barely stays there, unless his family are around.

So owning a car is not a measurement for being wealthy.

There are people out there that are prudent on finance, no matter the billions in their account, you can still see them eating road side food, and example of a prudent and quiet billionaire is Peter Obi

1Sharon:
What would you prefer for your own baby?

Even if i have N10b in my account, left for me, the traditional and cheaper way would have been my way.

But you know women, my wife wouldn't agree, so for peace to reign, i will buy diaper and sma gold, as far as i can afford it.

kettykings:
The south east is on another level. igbo land doesn't need Nigeria for anything whatsoever.
I hope the governor will use this and power Africa .

The energy God imbeded in igbo land is enough to power Africa and the rest of the world. We don't need Nigeria for anything whatsoever

Guy calm down, i am from the Southeast also, but i don't like your statement.

Udeter1:
Please this poverty want to finish me i need at least 5k to eat
Access bank
Udeh Terkimbi Thaddeus
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I am willing to donate casket, should incase hunger finally kills you ✅

Bloody yahoo boy.

ahnie:
So what happens to some parents using nappy(napkin)

Baby food can be alternated ja're....the mum does exclusive breastfeeding for 3/6 months.

Then improvise with pap and tombrown with enough grinded crayfish,fruit puree.

Women should learn how to be creative n learn ways of thinking outside the box.

As for soap they can always use native black soaps/,cusson baby soaps (I still use it as my regular soap)

For creams....okume Shea butter is also a good one.

Women of this century doesn't want to hear all these you mention.

As far as they are concerned, their baby must use baby diaper & sma gold

Godwin4444:
The most annoying thing about these people is that na dem call tinubu drug baron pass

Imagine a tribe who are d most jailed throughout d world n are d highest drug pushers calling someone a drug baron

These peoples relatives will also come online n call tinubu a drug dealer

Like seriously I wish we can add tribe to our passport so the whole world can know d real criminals


I notice one thing that since tinubu won election igbos no update us about his health condition again

Suddenly tinubu hands n legs no dey shake again

Igbo propaganda na grade A, I twale for una

Whether election or no election, Tinubu has been suffering from Parkinson disease since i have known him in 2002

jesusjnr2020:
Endtimes: Why We Should Pray More Fervently Now Than We've Ever Done

Prayer isn't meant to be a seasonal thing.

It ought to be done always, that is, in and out of season.

However there are those times that call for more fervent prayers than was usually done.

There were several instances that illustrate this in the Bible, but the most significant without a doubt was when Jesus was about to take the plunge for humanity. It was said that Jesus was so troubled by this, He prayed more fervently that even His sweat became as great drops of blood.

Luke 22:44 (KJV)

And being in an agony he prayed more earnestly: and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground.

This was the first time anything was said to have really troubled Jesus during the course of His ministry on Earth, but it shouldn't be surprising because that was the most important moment in Jesus' ministry. The moment He was going to fulfil the purpose He was sent.

John 12:27 (KJV)

Now is my soul troubled; and what shall I say? Father, save me from this hour: but for this cause came I unto this hour.

So such pivotal moments in God's grand scheme of things were observed to have required more fervent prayers than was usually done, which brings us to the purpose of this thread which will addressed in the next post.

God bless.

Only in Nigeria that end times are happening.

You are incharge, after serving for 2 terms?

Yaya Bello wants to continue 3rd through his appointee

Cjizzy:
My state Rivers state don dey cool down

Boys don dey commot hand for cultism especially in schools.

Story.... Guy it is not possible.

Jewessgratitud3:
It's amazing how I was contemplating making this post before a member here requested or should I say started asking me questions in that line and being a very free and open person, I promised I was going to post about it.

Well... Let me start from my background and up bringing which also contributed indirectly to my nonregrettable actions that has left me in this wonderful marital status.

I grew up in a Catholic christian home where good virtues moral values were instilled in us by engaging us in christian children activities from an early age. The Most social part of my childhood ( apart from school) was around the church then back home with close monitoring. So there was no room for nonsense even up to our secondary and tertiary level. the monitoring was topnotch. So we didn't really get to do shit like our mates who got exposed early to certain lifestyle,; dating number one.

We were overprotected and shaped with these guidelines that a mindset was formed that boy and girl relationship is a taboo ( and it's true). So we knew better than to toll that part.

In the long run, after I have come off age, it became very difficult to date. This was at age 21. Whenever I manage to give a man a listening ear and he mentions sex, I'll run without looking back because that was a danger sign we were taught to look out for. So i was always running away from men because of premarital sex. It got to a point, after looking like that's the only way to get a husband and I was already in my mid twenties, a time when a girl should be getting ready to settle down, I said ok, let me see if I can bend the rules a bit for this one. This man was a chronic responsible bachelor. So I felt it could work out since he's ready to settle down. He was in his mid 30s the and never married. We were in the same compound. So I gave in and we started dating. Mind you there was no pressure from both parents to get married. My parents will never pressure you to get a suitor.

Being a novice in the game, I never knew men could double date or even knew how to handle one when it happens. So, on this fateful day the randy goat came home with another girl. It was our last born that came and told me some girl came to look for him because everyone in the compound knows us together. I was heartbroken and right there I broke up with him without even finding out who or if what they both have is serious. Though I made him cry cos I started entertaining other boys that have been chyking me and bringing them to the compound but I never had anything with them or knew any of their houses. I was just using the to pepper him. Once they say hi, I'll drag them to the compound and we will sit on top of his car sometimes until he now confided in one of our neighbors who now told me to stop that the man is always crying. E never cry. I showed him two can play that game. He tried coming back but I bulshit him.

After that I locked up and never trusted any man. I began to see why my dad was being overprotective. I didn't date again for almost five years and then men were coming but that was when my own shakara increased. I mean responsible well to do men o. That was when men had good jobs from banking, investment and oil companies in ikoyi and vi both staff from five star hotel like Eko hotels and suites, federal palace cos those were the places I worked so I had many suitors and friends but the moment they mention relationship, Ill take off.

Part 2

It continued like that and I was enjoying my life with peace of mind that I forgot about time or didn't bother about it cos I don't care.

When I entered mid thirties, I said let me loosen up a bit but because Ive gotten used and enjoyed single life with peace of mind to that age, I found it difficult to commit again because anytime I tried, I'll start having anxiety. The thought of him cheating on me or even as little as admiring another woman will just make me unsettled and I'll think of aborting mission before it's too late.

So I said to give one man a chance, he too brought another girl in my absence. I found out from the sister and that was it. I called it off he begged and begged that the lady was forcing herself on him and sending him money bla bla.. he made a conference call with his family begging, my mind was made up I dumped him and moved on to a Choir boy Ive been admiring who was also trying to talk me into a relationship. I truly loved this guy and I think I was older than him in age . Though he refused to tell me his age but I was able to deduce from his Facebook profile cos he wrote class of 2006 while I finished 1999 but because I don't look my age, we just looked like age mate and we loved each other.

I met him when he just finished serving and was squatting. I was out of job then but one thing that made me stick with him was, even though he was not working, he shared whatever little he had with me. We were together when a very rich young pastor came asking for my hands in marriage. I told him about it and he started feeling sad that because he doesn't have a bearing now some guy wants to take me away from him. I on the other hand don't really fancy the pastor but wanted to force myself and see if it will work but it wasn't working because I didn't have feelings for him. To now make matters worse, he started showing stinginess. In the three months we courted, we didn't get to sit together because he's a pastor so we only see in church, stand and talk very briefly and disperse and each time he kept posting me about money I asked for to enable me travel for Xmas and the day was fast approaching. It was my Choir boyfriend that wen to borrow money from one girl selling recharge card to give me to travel. Now coupled with the fact that I don't even like him, i just texted him to look for another sister. The highest he ever bought me was two two hundred naira recharge card a stinkingly rich ajebota pastor for that matter ( 2014) but he would always call me.

Lastly, in 2016, my bobo got a job in Chevron with a nice apartment in lekki. Before then we had a small quarrel and we're not in talking terms because I requested for money for hair to attend my twins introduction and he told me no money but he didn't tell me he was saving for an apartment. Even then, how much? So, after months of not talking, he called and invited me over to see his new place. A surprise I guess. I got there and we had a nice time. He tried to make it up to me. He gave me his short and polo to wear that day and took me to a pepper soup joint. **Smiling**
later we got back and ad I was about to shower, I saw a used shower cap in his bathroom. He now handed me a new one from his wardrobe where there were many more. I asked him who used the one in the bathroom, he said baby don't start again. I held my peace.
The following morning he did something that I can't say for sure what really happened.

I slept over because there was no way I could go back from lekki to the mainland that day. That night he came to disturb me and I told him you know we can't be doing this. Please let wait till everything is formalized. When he wouldn't let me be, I left him and went to sleep on the floor. In the morning he woke up and was saying you, you, I was just looking at you as we were talking someone knocked on the door. It was a ladies voice. My ex went to meet her and they were together for almost 30mins before he came back inside. Me i didn't talk. I suspected he went to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left only to come back and it has come down.

We prepared and left together that morning for work. When I got home, I called and told him off. Na small thing dey vex me. He didn't believe it. So many things on my mind that made me take that huge decision. Men are not worth my type.

Since then till date, I stopped anything relationship especially if it's not a born again and I must like him. I faced my God ever since and decided to give myself peace. I can't stand a cheating partner. Disease dey town and I don't want to end up a baby mama.

Now, with the way things are, no jobs, the few decent men can hardly fend for themselves let alone catering for a family, I just decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Make person no come enter from fry pan to fire. Some family men now are dumping their family and running away from their responsibilities leaving the women to carry all the burden. So tell me what will make marriage enticing to me again? Abi na domestic violence? Biko Biko.

Na wa oooO!!!

Sorry if i may ask, in both relationship you had, were they sexual?

Nigeria has one too many problems to be addressed.

Houseofglam7:
🫤

Why this emoji?

Have you done abortion before, yes or no?

Happy birthday to you.

So every woman here on nairaland has done abortion and can be termed abortionist 🤣🤣🤣

Ikaeniyan0:
How this issue take concern samkleff? jealous boy

Because Davido attacked him few weeks ago...

I would love to date her...

Nsogbu Akalia

pocohantas:
Shallipopi should go and talk to his younger brothers. Oba of Benin should tell his council to curse them.

If 1st semester is like this, how 2nd semester go be? People doing cultism in 2023 are stupid sha. Men dey find money, you dey do cultism.

Wasn't it this same school they killed a Kegite leader earlier this year? They should shut down the school for 1 year. Let their heads calm down.

If you like shut it for 100yrs, cultism will never stop in that school.

You see places like Rivers state, Edo state and Delta state; Both mama, papa, brothers and sisters are into cultism.

Does Kaduna have crude oil, if no, then why build a refinery there?

Nigeria is not ready in anyway possible to grow, we are just deceiving ourselves.

Romanoff:
Are caterers, bakers and shoe makers a joke to you?

I know three women on IG that make shoes.

I thought you've gone off nairaland, because i rarely see your comments.

All these are effects of bad leadership...

dominique:
And Beyonce that has been singing since before Taylor was born is worth around $600m. E be things o.

You should worry about yourself fess!!!

Do you have up to N100,000 in your account?

One thing with fishes are; The bigger the fish, the less taste they have.

Anny69:
I agree with you Siofra. Evil runs in men's blood. Especially Nigerian men. They're very evil. They do all sorts of heinous crimes. Evil men everywhere. Whenever women are murdered gruesomely by men all the lessons available are for women and not for the men committing the crime. Always blaming women! It’s never “men stop killing women” but always “women be careful” like the careful ones aren’t also getting killed. They claim women are greedy for money but which gender is killing women for money? I'll tell you for free: Men.


Men change. Change your ways. Wicked men everywhere. To born boy dey fear me. Women fear men. Fear men. Fear men.

You see the reason why you should vote right and make Nigeria to work.

Because the more the economy collapses, the evil and terrible people become, out of frustration.

In Nigeria currently, millions of people don't know where their next meal will come from.

pocohantas:
The man that killed is not after money.
It is always the woman. I wonder when you guys would advise yourselves for once.

The girl in the story clearly broke up with guy, but no, you didn't read. You must blame women.

Everytime, yenyenyen money. Someone that came to pick her with motorcycle (OKADA) is rich? Y'all keep projecting your inadequancies on women. This is a broke man. Any man can be violent, rich or poor!

The matter tire me

Beautiful the way she infused hip-hop and rap to the song.

OP for the fact that she has fair skin doesn't make her beautiful, she is just a normal looking girl.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Lami why are you trying to run away from your homely duties?

Their job being secured isn't the problem, but the impact they drive in.

Currently Nigerians are in pains, the economy is in a critical condition.

If Nigeria was working, Buhari ought to be arrested to give account on how he tumbled Nigeria economy from fair to worst, billions of dollars were stolen, yet nobody is asking questions.

mariahAngel:
Adding salt to plantains balances the sweetness, and gives it the umami taste.
It doesn't affect anything, as long as it's moderate.

U can find out from a dentist.

Besides i don't know the taste balance you are talking about, and if you look at it, too much salt is not good for the heart, especially if you are hypertensive.