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Chibuezem:
if men were decent, do you think onlyfan and wuukup will be lucrative... No The problem is simply Sin in us. If we had Jesus Christ in us living as new men all this stuff will simply die.... Where there's demand of sexual immortality, there must be people to meet such demands vice versa

Oga that men create the demand does not justify women providing the supply. Yes, the men who patronize these ladies of the night need to repent too but one does not preclude the other. The church is also complicit in this nonsense. They easily probe about pregnancy, HIV, blood group etc and can annul a marriage based on these but they will not annul the marriage if the man or woman has a reckless sexual history which is more dangerous than getting pregnant, having HIV or having sickle cell. Pastors need to stop joining people who have reckless sexual pasts and first require that they undergo spiritual cleansing and deliverance first before they can be joined to minimize the marital madness we see on a daily basis.

Avoid olosho una no wan hear. Strange women are the nemesis of all foolish men.

The police have arraigned 36-year-old lawyer Abasiesebanga Ikoiwak and five others over the alleged murder of her husband Godwin Ikoiwak. Mr Ikoiwak, 41, was a counsel at Akwa Ibom Ministry of Justice before he was allegedly killed in January 2022.

At the hearing of the matter before an Uyo High Court, a friend and classmate of the deceased in the Faculty of Law, University of Calabar, Sunny Anyanwu, said he told him in a phone conversation few days before his death that he and his wife were having issues over infidelity.

He said the deceased hinted that he reported the matter to his wife’s family who invited him to a meeting in their compound at Nung Udoe Itak, Ikono Local Government Area.

He said his friend honoured the meeting but did not return home alive.

Anyanwu, the seventh prosecution witness, also said the late Ikoiwak told him that his wife was having sexual relationship with her former boss, a legal practitioner.

He said Ikoiwak told him that his wife lived with a Catholic priest, Fr. Maurice Mbeke, in her teenage years as a housemaid and the priest impregnated her, adding that they had a child who was now 19-year-old named after his maternal grandfather.

According to the prosecution witness, late Ikoiwak did not know that the boy who has been living with him in his house for years was his wife’s son, because the wife said the child was her younger brother.


He said the deceased told him that each time his wife said she was pregnant, she would leave the house until after the delivery of the baby.

The prosecution team led by state director of public prosecution, Joseph Umoren, tendered the audio recordings of the phone conversation between the witness and his late friend as exhibit after they were played in court.

Mrs Ikoiwak is standing trial alongside her 66-year-old mother Margaret Umoh; her brother, Owoidoho Umoh; a Catholic priest, Fr. Gabriel Ekong, 51; and a medical doctor, Isaac Njoku over alleged false report on the cause of death of Ikoiwak.

The case was adjourned by Justice Bassey Nkanang for continuation on Thursday, April 20.

Source: https://www.qed.ng/akwa-ibom-govt-lawyer-godwin-ikoiwak-murdered-on-discovering-houseboy-is-wifes-biological-son/

Bluezy13:
All die na die.
Better than releasing an unwanted child into the society who will not only suffer but end up becoming an armed robber, a kidnapper or worse... killing and maiming innocent people due to negligence or inability to be catered for by his supposed mother/parents.

So it is better for the woman and the child to die troway in the name of abortion. Woman don suffer for this life. First den mumu. Den go open leg for fellow mumu. Dat wan go knack am to the fullest come full am with mayonnaise. She go come dey find as she go take do abortion. Many mumu like she go give am mumu advice and in the end she go kpai like chicken for wia she wan abort. So sad.

SundayNightGist:
This chat between a man and his wife whom he sponsored abroad to further her education is giving strange vibes.

I'm new to the dating game, but seeing these screenshots I'm tempted to ask:

Is it that women are naturally wicked or they are just users or whenever they don't love a man they must punish him?



Image credit: 6hStage. 👇

Serves this man right. All such men who think they can use money to secure a lady's loyalty deserve to suffer very very well. At this rate all stupid men go get sense. This is very good. Mumu think sey e fit use money buy loyalty. I say it again and again. If a lady is not loyal when you have nothing she will not be loyal when you have everything. Oh men, seek wisdom and in all they getting get understanding...stay away from strange women that will take your sweat and blood and give it to strangers.

Borntosmoke:
One girl just slapped me beacuse we had an arguments and I called her broke Olosho, my head is still ringing on how I'm going to deal with her. Because I don't like beating woman. My niggas have been telling me to beat her. But, I just dey pity her make I no kill person. I hate it when someone doesn't fear me. I'm looking for another way to deal with her. My Redpillers abeg give me advice??

Guy you too sef why you go dey find trouble...before you begin contemplating beating her be sure her boyfriend or maga is not a bouncer, weightlifter or assassin because na your body go tell you oh.

Chibuezem:
You bash women for being immoral but leave men out of it.... For one to escape the system of the world which revolves around sexual immorality, you must be adopted into the system of righteousness through Jesus Christ. In this you are empowered to live above lust...

This is not women bashing. The women that are bashed by the post know themselves and they need to repent. There are other women who have uphold the virtues of womanhood and are sterling examples for others to follow...but in the world of wuukup and onlyfans, ladies of the night think they run they world only for them to get a reality check later in life when the glitz and glamor is all gone. Na dat time den go come dey find who den go deceive. Rubbish.

greatiyk4u:
THIS IS LOGICALLY SOUND and a simple analogy of how a good decent church/religiously moral ladies are turned into hoes and end up constituting nuisance to the society

This is the making of
Prostitutes
Hook up babes
Runs babes
Home breakers
Husband snatchers
Adulterous women
Randy divorce hungry wives


Every potholes smarts small, after being ran over by many different cars, it GROWS and soon the CARS starts avoiding them for strangers with Cars that are not familiar with the area, most of them enter the potholes unknowingly and end up losing a lot of money to fix their damaged cars and in some cases their damaged health too.

Words of wisdom. Wisdom is profitable to direct. This is a message to all the potholes who keep saying all vehicles are scum after they allowed multiple trailers, trucks, mey barrow, molue, tractor, escavator and omolanke to widen their potholes to alarming proportions and then expect innocent tear rubber Rolls Royce Cullinan to run into their pothole and get stuck for life. Rubbish. As for me and my Lamborghini, Ferrari and Rolls Royce folks we will not ride on pothole infested roads. A word should be enough for the wise.

Negroid001:
I'm not religious, neither am i one deemed fit to preach about morals. Just completed payment for a neighbour's child tuition fee.
Am i banging her? No!

Everytime business goes well for me, i try to boost the effort of any struggling worth it person around me. I do it as often as i can, no strings attached and it could fall on anyone.
From helping with health bills to urgent requests and even ones i can't even dare to mention.
A random woman on my street paid my tuition from basic 6 till i finished my whole education without even flinching. I can't pay her back, the least i can do is reciprocate the energy she gave to someone that needs it.

I purposely put this here for all those claiming redpill this and that. Make una try dey help people.

If of a truth you paid that school fee and you have no sexual relationship with that woman then you have done exceedingly well. Dude if every religious and non-religious person acts this way our world won't be as messed up as it is today. Many of us complain about ladies becoming olosho but the truth is that many of us transformed the ladies we see today into oloshos because many of us have made up our mind to pound every hole that opens up irrespective of who owns the hole. You have done well.

LeoDeKing:
Fellow Nigerians, avoid "dem" like plague.

Both within and outside Nigeria, avoid "dem".

I no mention tribe o, but just avoid "dem".

Den know densef...werey pipo.

KnowledgePower7:
I asked a girl in my set at school to send me her nudes. It was a joke
She even laughed it off
Then I said I masturbate to some of her IG pictures.
Omo this babe just vex!
Talk say I committed spiritual rape on her without her consent
Guys which kind wahala be this

I tried calling her then found out she blocked me.
Which one be spiritual rape??
Person no fit do soapy again?

She is stupid. Does she know how many guys have masturbated to her picture already? If she didn't want to be a victim of spiritual rape why will she put her pics out there and make herself a target.

robosky02:
Men or women who marries who is available and not who they love?

There was a heated argument in my office where the men accused the ladies of dumping their love (men) who they probably have dated from campus and often marry older men who are ready on the go to marry them

On the other hand the ladies are accusing the men of dumpy them for high class ladies when they have suffered with them (men)

So ladfies and gentle men who is more guilty and what are the reasons


Let's talk about it

Both men and women are guilty of this shit. Foolish old men will use money and gifts to derail the dysfunctional brains of young girls and family members into trading true love for financial security. In the end, while chairman is away at work, the young wife will eventually go and spread her legs for the young man who didn't pay bride price, pay for wedding or buy her relatives any gift. Last last the mumu man go return to nairaland to lament while true love is dealing seriously with his wife's pot.

All hoes everywhere must be bashed into oblivion...they must be bashed out of the gene pool.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Oh he is immature because he said no to you. Mumu. No is no. E no wan do. Carry your kaya go front. He that finds a wife hath found a good thing. If you are a good thing men will seek you out but if you are trash you will become a fisher of men.

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call me for 2 days unlike before she calls regularly and I never call her too and she sent this to me last night what should I do ?

Though have not replied her or call her since that yesterday night.

Please someone with wisdom should advise me what to reply her ..tho I love her and I don't want to loose her ..but she offended me by dropping phone on me and she never say sorry before sending me this screenshot message

I bought easy buy solar for her which we are paying small small and also her phone get screen problems and I collect it to repair for her and I gave her my second phone Samsung to be using and is still with her that was what she meant that I should come and collect all what I did for her in that screenshot mesaage


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo

Ma guy this is a defining moment. This is the point where you become a houseboy till death do you part or a husband till death do you part. You did right by telling her you don't like it when she hangs up and you did right by not rushing to beg her like a fool, women hate men that do that and use their head like tissue paper.

Guy say nothing. Maintain your absolute silence. Collect all your belongings from her and return all her belongings to her. She will try to make you talk, maintain absolute silence. Block her everywhere but don't block her calls and text messages. If you act in this manner she will understand that you are not docile and subject to any female shenanigans.

Women have this secret respect for such men and often return to them but know this bro; people often lose what they are afraid of losing and people often gain what they are ready to let go.

Keep your feelings and passions in your pocket for now and be a man. You have done well by telling her what she can do and what she can't do so what you must do now is maintain total silence with respect to her, return her stuff, take back your stuff, block her on every social media and live your life. If she is yours, she will submit to you but if she refuses to submit to you let her go.

HanisahZuwy:
Please, I need a man. A real man! Where am I likely to see one? I'm very serious about this please. I want to know how and wherever can see one. I need suggestions on places where one can see them.

You go need enter Sambisa forest before you go see real man ohhh. Gulder ultimate search. Happy searching ohh. But know that a real man is looking for a real woman and if you are just another typical woman real men will avoid you like a plague.

anthonyuncle:
being engaged is well different from being married

Well if your marriage is according to Judeao-Christian rules, adultery starts when you are engaged not when you are married. If you are engaged to a spouse and you cheat it is adultery and it was punishable by death (Deuteronomy 22:25).

Negroid001:
Imagine what this woman is saying. We've broken up sha. Her husband called me and we had a deep convo.
Nothing wey this guy no do for this woman.
Felt cool at first, buh later realized it's nonsense. All because of d***

Say no to olosho. Olosho has no place in marriage. Blessed are you when you avoid olosho for you shall not share your sweat and blood with fools. Nobody spends the night in toilet and sleeps there. Toilet is to be used and vacated. Nobody puts valuables in the toilet. Nobody puts sofa and decoration in the toilet. Your stay in the toilet na like short let. Marrying olosho is like turning your toilet into your bedroom. We should stop dooming poor children to be raised by olosho. Olosho should remain permanently single.

nedekid:
Which wife? They were only boy friend and girl friend free to knack any how. Only pastor thought he was married.
Lesson here, if bride price has not been paid, there is no marriage to desolve in the first instance. Make them just find their way Waka.

Yes but paying bride price will not stop a cheat from sleeping around. The woman go still knack around even if the man pay bride price.

FreeStuffsNG:
The petitioner is the prime suspect who laced the woman with the magun that killed Ejiogbe yet he claimed to be a pastor and had the effontery to be seeking custody of the children when the state should be prosecuting him for murder.
Orishrishi

Can you prove the garbage you just posted? You think if the state prosecutors could prove your point the said pastor won't be arraigned. Make una nor dey spout nonsense na.

2canplay1000:
Pastors should learn how to Bleep well.. have bleeped so many church girls And what I have come to understand is that.. every Lady wants a church guy with asewo vibes.. if you can't make her orgasm no matter her spirituality she's going to Bleep a better dick.children of these days aren't like that of old..

Oga no matter how well you pound her pot if she be olosho she go still give another man the pot for extensive usage. Nothing pleases a hoe. Give her big dick and go out to work she will invite the neighbor with small dick to finish what you started. Give her money and she will remind you that her EXs can do better...Avoid hoes like a plague. All men should learn to distinguish between church girl and olosho. So many olosho have infiltrated the church to get married so beware and watch out.

Jennyclay:
The useless pastor should be ashamed of himself. He didn't even pay her bride price and he already had children with her . Yeye pastor that don't know how to perform marriage rites legally.

He also forgot that the lady has been the one responsible for the feeding of the children and their school fees. Even the Bible says any man that can't take good care of his wife/girlfriend is worse than an infidel.

That means, the pastor has done worst for not taking care of his wife and children!

Shameless men everywhere!!! Shior!!!

Your mumu nor gree you see road. If the woman was right and the man did not do his duties as a father would he be in a hurry to ask for custody of the children knowing fully well he will have to bear responsibility for those children? He is a clergyman and yet has to deal with a serial adulterer that has now costed him a suspension in the church where he serves. Yes, him not paying the woman's bride price is bad but that was a mutual agreement between the man and the woman. She could have decided to leave the man and return only when the bride price has been paid but she didn't do that instead she leveraged the fact that there isn't a binding marriage between them to legitimize her evil acts of adultery. To GOD be the glory, the idiot she was cheating with died on top of her. She can put that in her CV.

And that is what will happen to every foolish man sleeping with married women. They will die ontop of each other. I wonder what that idiot will tell God when he reaches the other side.

IyaebeTheGreat:
What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do"

He can forgive her and still divorce her na...both are not mutually exclusive.

saphiere:
I came to check the gender and wasn't disappointed.

Meanwhile,

I am not a tribal bigot. Some of you here can testify that I am a strong advocate for women's Right & advocacy. I advocate for equal rights for women in all spheres of life.

I have been involved in an inter-tribal relationship so there's no way anyone can say I am a tribal bigot.

But here is my piece of advice to the Igbos.

Don't ever as an Igbo stream the movie "Gangs Of Lagos"

After declaring you are not a bigot you went ahead to do exactly what bigots do.

Naijalarry:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RZox1Q1stM



Source- https://saharareporters.com/2023/04/21/nigeria-policemen-brutalise-imo-state-university-students-refusing-allow-access-their

Idiot talk sey no be dia standard. Nigerian police is basically a group of uniformed armed hardened criminals whose sole purpose is to serve the interests of the elite in Nigeria. If you see any good police man or woman, he or she is an endangered species and will quickly be frustrated out of the police force because it is brood of vipers seeking whom to devour.

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Dude. Indeed it is not easy and life can be tough but I assure you that many have a truckload of demons to fight and they are managing to take cumulative steps to move on.

First, you need to embrace God. If your problem pass you, you go need helper wey pass you ohh. Start drawing closer to God by praying and giving alms out of the little you have.

Second, draft a 10 year plan for your life. Don't postpone it, do it now. Ask yourself where you want to see yourself in 10 years time and draft a plan on how you can achieve it LEGALLY. Don't put falsehood, yahoo yahoo, ritual, kidnapping etc inside your plan oh. You cannot be asking God for help and be thinking of doing evil to your fellow man. WRITE the plan down and paste it on your wall where you live or put it as screensaver on your phone. Ensure no one else sees this plan.

Third, surround yourself with successful people. Listen to the elderly. Learn from the big players in life. Copy the habits of powerful people. Make friends with people of substance.

Fourth, open your eye, open your ears but shut up your mouth. Opportunities are everywhere, online, offline, in your neighborhood, etc. Keep your eyes and ears open to pick information relevant for business and success in any area. You need to keep your plans and life to yourself. Make a covenant with your mouth not to divulge your progress, plans etc to anyone.

Fifth. Beware of olosho. Beware of refurbished olosho. Beware of retired olosho. Beware of olosho disguised as a church girl. Beware of modernized olosho. To me ohh, although I don't consider it right, it is better to jerk off than to patronize olosho/girlfriend. Olosho will put you in trouble as you rise. Stay away from any woman that is not your wife.

This is my 2 cents. I wish you the best.

Senudi96:
In a podcast video that has gone viral, a young lady commented that she broke a 4yr relationship with a "faultless" man for no reason. The story flips as she concludes that she's better than the woman her ex later married. Watch full the video here-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU

This arrogant fool thinks she is better. I always say it. Stay away from these hoes. They never want to be groomed. They see commitment as a cage and they love wilding.

Elistho:
I was with my mum today when a couple stopped by to pick something, the guy had noticeable wounds and was limping, when he wanted leaving, he said, I'm not fine oh... My mum asked the girl if they fought again, the audacity, pride and strength of her "Yess" blew me off.

The little moment I waited for them to leave so we could start our gossip felt like rapture. I finally asked, did the girl use charm on him, my mum laughed at me with a "I don't know ohh" answer. The girl will fight him even when she's wrong literally all the time and he will beg that she shouldn't leave. Finished man.

She has him by the balls probably.

virginprincess:
I say Amen to your last prayer and it will not also be well with men who cheat on their wives.

It will never be well for married and unmarried women who sleep around causing trouble for the homes of other married women.

ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

His body odour. The monthly allowance is too small compared to the ones that she gets from Yahoo boys. The house is not big enough cos she is thinking of a mansion. His dick is big but not as big and long as Ahmed's the gateman. He is not as fair complexion as the next block neighbor. He does not eat pucci. He does not rim anus. He is too much of an alpha male to do BDSM. He doesnt want to be dominated by a dominatrix. He is too God fearing. He is too good. He is too caring and not man enough. He is too loving and chatty. He is...He is...He is... the leech has two daughters. Give. Give, they cry. Proverbs 30:15

Failure2019:
There's nothing I want more than a woman that'll obey me . I'm a hard-working man who wants to provide but I want the woman I'm with to bear my children , I want to make her wear clothes which I think look sexy, I want steak and blowjobs, I want her to worship me and I'll touch her whenever I feel like it even if we're out in public .

Lately I've been having thoughts of kidnapping a woman, brainwashing her and turning her lnto my perfect wife . I'd like to come back from work on a Friday and see my submissive wife along with beautiful kids .


I also want at least four kids minimum infact I'll push her to have as many kids as possible .

A brainwaished woman and a psychopath will produce monsters as children. Your fantasy is a cesspit of evil that will ultimately swallow your brainwashed wife, your kids and you.

micellgevity:
There is this neighbour of mine who has been married for some years without children. He confided in me and sought my advice on this issue that he was introduced to one beautiful widow who has three kids with a good job. He told me the woman said the kids' responsibilities would not be his as she has her job. But my neighbour is afraid. How should I advise him?

Your "neighbor" needs to investigate what killed the woman's husband make the same thing no go kill am. A beautiful widow can easily be a black widow so tell your "neighbor" to thread carefully before he walks into a slaughter house.