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FRANCISTOWN:No logic at all. Why are you contradicting yourself repeatedly oga descandant of wisdom. You first said "do not say you are sorry" and at the end you are recommending that one says "babe, I'm sincerely sorry". Which is it? Dey one place na. And why would a king reduce himself to a fool by sleeping around with sluts? Kings are royalty and do not stain their royalty by frolicking with oloshos that are routinely used by ignoble, riff-raff and low life men. Kings do not put themselves in a situation to give excuses. Kings such as this are legend because they are seen as being god-like and revered by many but if you are going to do what every other man does then you are no different from a regular fool. "Crown" and "fool" shouldn't be in the same sentence. |
FRANCISTOWN:I hope you know that your wife can also apply this rule to you. Also do you consider it appropriate to share secrets of your nuclear family with your mother, aunts and sisters? Remember they are women too and sharing your nuclear family secrets with them can also lead to see finish. So if you are not going to "indulge" your wife in your extended family affairs you should also not "indulge" your mother, aunts and sisters in your nuclear family affairs. Be consistent in your logic. |
FRANCISTOWN:In the multitude of counselors there is safety Proverbs 11:14. Your wife or your spouse is the closest and most important confidant to you as a man. If you are a king, you will marry a queen and one of her purposes is to give you wise counsel. As a king you are not under compulsion to heed her advice but she is one of the counselors at your beck and call. There is a reason the queen is the deadliest piece in a chess game and it is most powerful protector of the king. This is because she knows that her fate is tied to the king. She knows that whatever befalls the king will her as well so she protects the king like she would protect her own life. The problem with most men is that they see themselves as kings but end up marrying sluts. They end up marrying women who feed their lust for sensual pleasure instead of marrying a queen who brings wisdom, purity and loyalty to the table. Stop marrying olosho and using her to generalize for all women. Not all men married olosho. Those that married women for their purity, loyalty and wisdom are the true kings who identified queens and married them. |
FRANCISTOWN:Kings are leaders and their authority is to the benefit of their followers. When the righteous have authority the people rejoice but when the wicked rule the people mourn (Proverbs 29:2). Yes, men are supposed to be people of authority but unfortunately many men use their authority for evil. These men use their authority to perpetrate evil acts like infidelity, oppression, extortion and violence against their spouses and children. This is what propelled feministic movements that were eventually hijacked by the ideological left to disrupt the fundamental kernel of society, the family. If all men were righteous kings no woman would be a feminist because no woman wants to suffer but when men become wicked tyrants they force their wives and children to defend themselves thus resulting in feminism. Love is not a feeling. Love is sacrifice, commitment and the will to lead. What you call love is sheet lust, infatuation or desire which is nothing close to what love is. |
FRANCISTOWN:No logic here. You are saying a man must be first treated as a king by his woman before he can treat her as a queen. Well the woman can also flip this illogical crap on its head and say the reverse. A better way to put it is that both men and women have to mutually agree on what it means to be a queen or a king and both parties should independently strive to meet the standards of royality. If a man is a king before he meets his woman who has been a queen before she met her man they can both treat each other in accordance with the states that they are bringing into the relationship. A slave that marries a queen will keep behaving like a slave and will compel his queen to treat him like a slave because that is who he is. A king who marries a slut will never be treated like a king because sluts are used to giving their bodies to ignoble men who throng taverns and brothels. If you want to be treated like a king, be a king. If you want to be treated like a queen, be a queen. You determine how you will be treated. |
Helpthesimps:Maybe it's because those men are busy at work trying to make ends meet. Also note that despite all the discussion and education regarding marriage and relationships the number of divorces, baby mamas, oloshos, wuukup specialists, adultery and domestic violence is rising fast. |
UncleHenrich:(1) What do you hate the most that affects other people generally? (2) If you could change something about this world to improve the wellbeing of others, what would you change? (3) What have you suffered in the past that you would not like anyone else to suffer? (4) If you are a Christian, what gifts do you have? (5) If you are a Christian, what would you change about the church to help the church achieve Isaiah 61:1-3? If you are secular try answering questions 1-3 and if you are a Christian try answering all 5 questions and you will find something to live for and die for. |
I remember back in secondary school, news got to my only boys school that girls in a far away only girls school raped their gate man. As soon as we got the news boys in the senior class trooped to the only girls school begging to be raped. This can never be the case if the genders are reversed, why? Does this make men fundamentally different from women, thus invalidating feminism?
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Wordsfrombimpe:When kasala go bux we no go hear am oh. One man marry one woman wey dey about domestic vawulence now na two men versus one woman...the vawulence is about to take steroids. Yeah she go dey enjoy the DP and the spit roasting but I assure you their fallen nature will erupt one day when the chemistry is diluted. |
Ninobraw:How do you define setback? Repercussions come in different ways. There are people with billions of naira but their children are in a psychiatric hospital. There are people with fame and power but are depressed for no reason. There are people with wealth and exotic properties but they are lonely and addicted to drugs. No evil goes unpunished. You will pay in this life and in the next. |
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nikky5:I believe they are hybrids, angel-human hybrids. I believe they are real and because they are hidden by undiscovered depths they are preserved away from investigative eyes unlike the land based hybrids like minotaurs, centaurs, fauns etc. |
jaephoenix:Na when we die we go know nau. Who nor know go know. Whether God dey or e nor dey we go know. Whether na Allah oh or na Trinity we go know. Na to fess die. Only that once you die laidis na to accept your fate because e go dey too late. |
Heroicvic:Yes. Die. The moment you die you will have definitive proof that God exists. The only problem with this approach is that it will be too late for this proof to be of any help to you. |
Wow. So Allah needs his slaves to sin so that they can seek forgiveness and he hates those that do not sin. Na wa oh. That's a psychopathic and narcissistic deity oh. |
Who has ascended into heaven, or descended? Who has gathered the wind in His fists? Who has bound the waters in a garment? Who has established all the ends of the earth? What is His name, and what is His Son’s name, If you know? Proverbs 30: 4 |
inforesource:The APC tricksters tricked the Obidients into playing the tribal card and they fell for it. Peter Obi is not an evil genius and he wasn't prepared to win at all cost. If he was ready to play the game he would have blocked APC's strategy to use tribalism. He would have hired a group of Igbos and paid them to vehemently denigrade, insult and reject him on all social media platforms whilst promoting non-igbo voices supporting him (like some agberos). We all know that the eastern vote was locked down already so even with the fake opposing voices in the east he woul have still won the east. The problem was the West and South South. This strategy would have given the gullible public the view that he is not a tribalist as his own people are antagonizing him. Secondly, if Peter Obi thought he won't be rigged out of the game, then he is a fool. He should have put in place a contigency plan for this. Either to mobilize resources to counter-rig or to use drones to capture footage of rigging in progress to be used as evidence in court if he loses. Then he should have planted moles in every electoral office to either counter-rig or collect evidence relevant for suing the winner. Third, Peter Obi would be an even greater fool if he lets his political momentum die with this election irrespective of the final outcome. Right now Peter Obi should have a dedicated website for mobilizing the youths in the country to carry out strategic coordinated action. These actions could include: coordinated national protests in conjunction with TUC, NLC, etc; fundraising to setup a foundation that addresses common problems faced by the youths and strengthening youths participation as community agents monitoring developments on the ground and drafting a long term strategy. He should avoid tagging with Atiku and the PDP they are bad market and he should immediately evolve into an activist if the worst happens and he doesn't reclaim his mandate. Peter Obi must learn from Tinubu. Tinubu did not start planning today. Tinubu has been scheming for decades. The time has come for those who mean well for this country to "out-scheme" the evil schemers in the country. |
Factfinder1:The church is a place full of people who have fallen short and who seek redemption of some sort. The church is not a gathering of perfect people. The real problem are the church leaders who are ignorant of Biblical principles binding on marriage or willfully misleading church members for vain gain. Match making is not bad if it is done correctly and led by inspiration, afterall that is what underlies decision making in Christendom. |
luizpippo:This is what happens when evil takes root in a man's heart very early in life. What we see today are the fruits of sexual immorality sown during adolescence. |
emexnaija:Why are you obsessed with money, gold earrings, cars, nice houses etc? Your answer to this question is the answer to your question. People are obsessed with what they desire greatly. If a man can afford it he will seek to fulfil his desires no matter how ugly those desires are. Some call it misplaced priorities but your priorities are the not the same as others. An elite Christian prioritizes supernatural growth and is hence obsessed with it. A rich hedonist prioritizes all forms of pleasure and will go to great lenght to satisfy his or her fantasies...anywhere desires lead, obsession is likely to follow. |
helinues:Your utility function is different from he utility function of others. Some value marriage and family more than career while for others the reverse is the case. People derive happiness from different things. As for you, your career is more relevant than a marriage and family and your career will remain a source of happiness even as you age but for someone else a career is only relevant up to a certain age beyond which family and marriage becomes the mot desired objective. Hence I will not recommend anyone adheres to your admonition just because it sounds right. |
This is so sad. Marriages are made for couples that fit each other but some ignorant teachers in the church preach that you can marry anyone in church that is considered "good". This is false. Eve was not necessarily created to be a "good" wife rather she was to be a "fit" for Adam. This should be the basis for marriage. If two people do not fit in purpose, destiny, assets and liabilities, it won't matter how "good" the couples are the marriage won't be sustainable. This is why as Christians we need to the help of the Lord Jesus to find that partner that fits us. As for the secularists they have to evolve a means of discovering who the best fit is for them and commit to sustaining the marriage. |
lavylilly:I have known my wife for over 10 years now and been in 7 prior failed relationships and these are the things I have learned: 1. The unresolved portions of your past will haunt you if you want a stable married life. Don't do today whatever your husband or wife in the future will not tolerate in the marriage because whatever you do today will tomorrow become a habit that will follow you into your marriage. Don't be the fool that says I will quit pimping, smoking weed or gangbanging when I get married. You won't. 2. Marriage is based on a contract agreed upon by both parties. If you are marrying for money inform your spouse about it. If you are marrying because of big ass inform your spouse about it. The contract of my marriage is based on the Christian faith and my wife agreed to it. So we hold each other accountable based on our Christian faith. Don't be the fool that plunges into a marriage without clearly specifying your dos and don'ts. 3. The choice of your partner and the rules of engagement in your marriage determines its longevity. As a Christian I believe that there is a woman crafted by Jesus to be a fitting helper of a man of purpose. Your purpose as a man decides your direction and the direction of your family while your wife, of all the suitable candidates, will be one that shares the same purpose as you and is a fitting helper. This is my rule for starting a marriage. To sustain my marriage, I have one rule of engagement: "Husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it and wives submit to your husbands as unto the LORD". Don't be the purposeless, aimless and directionless fool that chooses a spouse based on transient features that will fizzle away in no time. 4. Your partner is your teacher, your curriculum and your examination. Your partner is human, with strengths and flaws. If you chose right, you will choose a partner whose asset/liability mix matches your asset/liability mix such that the marriage results in at least a net zero surplus. Meaning at the minimum, your liabilities find solutions in your spouse' assets. This requires that you learn your spouse and leverage your spouse to convert your liabilities into assets all the while adhering to your rules of engagement in point 3. Don't be the fool that does not know his/her spouse else you may not be able to tell when your darling angel has morphed into a paranoid psychopath. 5. Accept that you cannot account for all marital variables. No matter how careful you are, no matter how tactical you are, no matter how knowledgeable you are, you will never be able to account for all the variables in life that have detrimental implications for your marriage. So prepare your mind for the unforeseen and decide on your exit strategy but as for me I fall back on my matchmaker, Jesus Christ. Don't be the fool that is unprepared for a surprise. Marriage is full of unexpected surprises. |
ExAngel007:Begging for sex isn't rape rather it is harassment. There is a huge distinction between these two and we should not be so quickly carried away by the desire to be the wokest that we slide into utter delirium. If begging for sex is rape then by the same logic begging for money is stealing and we all know that that is utterly false. Rather this is in the realm of harassment. |
Why is affirming a person's mental condition considered a cure to that condition? First it was transgender. Now it is transage, transrace and transspecies. A 12 year old can identify as a 30 year old and justify drinking alcohol, having sex and driving a car. Thus destroying the age of consent. A man of African descent can identify as a Caucasian of European descent and demand that he be handed a UK passport. Laidis naija go empy cos everybody go identify as Canadian. Thus destroying the relevance of passports and national sovereignty. A man can identify as he goat and justify having sex with a she goat while a woman can identify as a female horse and spread her legs for a male horse. Soon enough human/animal sperm will start fertilizing all kinds of animals/humans thus producing all kinds of chimera and monsters. They are so prosperous so they do not need God and their new deity is trans. Soon this perversion, which the Bible refers to as the abomination that causes desolation, will envelop the West totally. I pity the Christians there. The mass extermination of Christians may start very soon in the West. Christians beware. |
Reinaldo:You say "rig" like this was the first time an election was rigged in this country. When OBJ did do-or-die we accepted it as business as usual and now that APC has perfected the rigging approach and applied it we are crying wolf. The democratic system is dead and buried. What we have now is military rule by surrogates. Anyone who guarantees the interests of the military-industrial-political complex in Nigeria will become president whether you vote or not. The ballot box is a scam aimed at making you all think you choose your leaders. You either rule by the barrel of the gun, by wealth or by the masses and right now the masses have been blind folded by religious, ethnic and political affiliations. |
zaedinromeo:You did not add your phone number. |
Why do some single mothers derive joy from bring children into this world from multiple men and then expect another man to take responsibility for children he didn't father. What sort of madness is that? Why can't these stupid baby mamas ask their baby daddies for responsibility?
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EBUBS:I am contented already. I don't live above my means. I cherish the small things as much as the big things. I am easily satisified and I am only motivated to bear the cost of reaching beyond my bounds by the desire to be a blessing to others. |
Ilamina:Oh you don't like it. A time will come when you will miss it. You had better farabale and choose the one man among the many boys that will love you and seek your best interest... because husband scarce oh, good men are scarcer. |
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