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Maynman:
So have you encountered this being ?
Shameless liar?

Maynman:
Why then did you refer to him as “being”, stop assuming and repeating what they told you.

Maynman:
So death is a being, it is alive?
Seems you know a lot about death. Where does this being live?

Maynman:
You said we should be prepared to meet him? Why not her?

Maynman:
ready for “him”? It seems you have met the man. Does he have beards? Is he white?

Maynman:
Death will tell us, not you, or have you experience death? Or you are just repeating the pile of shit your shepherds told you, sheep?

Maynman:
Knowledge will answer your questions perfectly.
Which Bible are you talking about? Hebrew Bible? Christian Bible?
Who wrote the book of revelations?

Fools perish because they lack knowledge. Brainwashed sheep.

SocialJustice:
Nothing like hellfire. If a person dies believing they will go to hellfire, sure they will because their mind is that powerful to create it but it won't be long, they'll be reborn into this planet with no memory of their previous life.

Amotolongbo:
If there is anything like hell fire at all, it is the sun

AntiChristian:
Why is it that the Bible users can't all agree on something?

Hell!

JW- No hell.

Most others- Hell, Yeah!

Trinity!

JW and Unitarian Christians - No to trinity!

Majority others- Trinity! Yeah!

Tithe! And what not!

4tomandchi:
Jesus Christ says in Matthew 25:41, "Depart from me, ye cursed, into EVERLASTING FIRE, prepared for the devil and his angels." In Matthew 13:42, Jesus says: "And shall cast them into a furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth."

The big question here is Did God Really Create Hell Fire?

As we are meant to understand everything originated from God the Devil was created as Lucifer. Everything was good.
So where did evil emanated from?
Did God created Hell?
Is Hell part of God's architecture or it exist in another realm?
Will all souls in Hell be saved at last?

Please if you are led by the spirit give us some insight.

Maynman:
If heaven and hell mean something to you feel free to bask in your illusion.
The only reason you are living right is because of your fear for hell not because you want to live right for its sake.
Fear drives religion.

KiNg0G:
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Any yahoo boy when de find virgin to date nw simp.

Any man when dey use tourch light to find virgin to wife up, is definitely going to simp one way or the other.

The redpill says go for the best
Buh an OG says while going for the best, make sure you use your sense.

You all think we men are the only ones playing the game, this females are playing the same game against us and they are using our own flaws. hence the more they having power to challenge our authorities daily.

why you attaching so much value to her sex life?
Attaching so much value to her virginity, if she's a virgin or not.

Asking her meaningless questions how many body count, number of men she been with. (Like wattafûck)


she sees that bro, she understands those questions bro, hence she gets the message and send it to her friends that you niggas can't just do without that pûcsy..then she starts styling it for you

Imagine husband and wife go dey quarrel for house.

Husband : Oya pack your things and leave my house

Wife: okay I agree to leave your house, but you go give me my virginity back, because nor be like so you take meet me. meanwhile she don already born pickin.

Why won't she brag with her virginity to your face Gee, because she realised you attached so much value to it.


Even some men goes as far as to brag about their wife been virgins to their friends in the presence of their wife. and you expect this kind men not to be controlled by their wives
Damn.



Note: am not saying you should go for prostitutes, what am just saying is when a man place too much high value on an unbroken hymen, if you can't control yourself you are
most likely to simp.

#streetdrills

Promzy99:
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So, some of us guys are always trying to think that giving a woman money is a form of showing romance to her, right?


I think it is high time we know the consequences of giving a Woman you are dating or planning to date, some money.

Money is a resource that means a lot in a relationship and it should be handled with much care.

In that case, here are the four reasons why you should avoid giving a woman you are dating, money.

[b]1. She will use you.


Well, to say so, a woman will never take you serious if what you does is to give her money whenever she asks for it or even sometimes when she doesn't ask for it.

It is up on you to realize that the woman doesn't need you to give her the money always.

Stop thinking that giving her money is a form of Romance, and keep your money to yourself. That is why she will leave you once your money is finished. So to avoid being left in hard times, avoid giving her money.

2. She doesn't need your money.

I don't know about your aim if dating that girl but the truth is, if you want a serious relationship with her, then you should know that she doesn't need your money.

What a woman needs from you is your love and affection towards her. Those other things you are trying to do to make her happy are up to you.

She doesn't need you to use your money on her and that is why you should avoid giving it to her especially if you want something serious with her.

3. She takes you as a provider instead.


Well, if a woman finds out or learns that you are always aiming at giving her all she wants In the form of money, what will happen is that she will be thinking about you when she needs help.

That means that she won't give you her true affection. A woman who only thinks about you when she needs some help is not serious and you have made her to.

In that case, if you want her to avoid taking you as a provider and to take you as her lover, then keep money aside from your relationship.

4. It will make you poor.

Just come to think of it, you are always the one giving her money and it seems like she never cares to give you money when it is time.

All that happens is you giving out your money but she never gives you her money when it is her turn to help.

In that case, within a short period of time, you will only be poor and she will not have added any value to your life. So never give her money.


Hoping that makes sense to you.

Solacemk:
Hi Nairalanders. I need your help.

We are married for 8 months now but I'm starting to suspect her, it all started with calls she's making, though the contact name shows female name but she will move to the other room to receive the call, and sometimes she will not even receive when I'm around, i never asked her why but one day the phone was closed to me then a number called with a female name on it, she picked the call and started laughing then cut the phone she acted like it's her friend that called. Then after few minutes she moved to the other room and call the number again, after that i started having doubts, when she left the phone i picked it and open it because i know the password, i copied the number and checked it with Truecaller but the name that appears on it was male's name. Pls I'm really confused. Is she really cheating on me? Or it's just an error, should i proceed with the investigation or i should just leave it and forget about it. Please Brothers and sisters help me. I'm dying inside. I've never cheated on her since when we are dating. Please help a brother. Please jokers should keep off. Thank you all.

Phargbemmy:
My wife picked up teaching job at a school where my three children attends and of recent I noticed something between herself and a male teacher there.

I accosted and accused her while she denied anything between them. I approached the said male teacher on Whatsapp after I noticed my wive spending more than extra time most night chatting with this same guy, he even called her some few minutes to 12midnight one day whilst we were on the bed together.

I told the guy to please stay away from my wife as I do not want issues, my heart did not "approve" of their friendship. Went ahead to let him know I will inform my father in-law if such continues and the guy had the audacity to tell me to go ahead and report her.

I warned my wife and she promised not to chat with him again.

Just 5 days ago I saw their chats again where the guy was asking her what my wife is doing now and she replied "chatting with you and playing with my phone'.


People help me as I have been wanting to divorce my wife as this isn't her first time but the dad will always plead for us not to agree to a broken home.

What do I do here?

BadNews:
A Port Harcourt based woman, Efe Okoto Oruambo, has cried out for help after she was allegedly assaulted by her husband, Reports.

She Shared Photos of her back showing what looked like teeth bite marks, on a Christian marriage/relationship Facebook group on Friday May 6, alleging that her husband has been physically and emotionally abusing her.




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RightToReject:
My post isn't for people with a single-digit IQ like you. Now, scram and direct your further mention to small-minded elements like you.

Bumpkin.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

Discovery4today:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5084314411635992&id=100001724515650

arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

Cyntie55:
There is this guy, we dated for 2 years before he traveled abroad (Italy) 2019. Our relationship was going on well even when he traveled out, we were always calling each other on video calls everyday. I was so faithful to him.

Suddenly (last year March), he started avoiding me. He could go for months before he replies my calls or chats.
Atleast no matter how busy you are, you can always spare 1 minutes of your time with the person you claim you love.

Please note, he's always online, We do video calls mostly on WhatsApp and anytime I try to reach him on video call or send him a message.... it always ring and deliver but he won't pick or reply.

Here are my reasons why I'm so confused whether to move on with my life or not.

1) Although before he started avoiding my calls, he told me he was busy... that he was working on something (but he never disclosed the particular "thing" to me)

2) We were supposed to get married as planned last year August. But this is May 2022 and absolutely nothing is in progress about it.

3)I discussed with his friend about it and he told me he's in a relationships over there. (I don't know if to believe him or not, because he didn't show me prove)

Now, it been a year I'm enduring his character. I feel like I'm stuck alone in this relationship. Heaven knows I haven't offended him in any way. I wish he could open up to me and tell me what I was doing wrong so that I could adjust. OR he should just tell me he's in a relationship so that I could move on.

I plan visiting his elder sister this weekend and explain to her the issue on ground but on a second thought I think I'm too forward. I'm jst confused and I feel hurt.

Wetinberat:
Hi Guys,

Please do not mind my grammar, I just need you view on this matter.

I was returning a vaccum cleaner I bought because its pressure was not high enough. Being on the queue and right in front of me were two (A and B) ladies. One (lady B) was on the phone having a conversation, obviously with another lady at the other end.

When lady B finished on the phone, a conversation ensued between the two ladies, and I heard B tell A about her cousine sister she had been on the phone with. The cousine sister had been married for 5 years without a child. Thd cousine's husband had supported the cousine in the early days of the marriage, but he is now looking outside the marriage for Child. Lady B also revealed to lady A that her couine Kate ( not real name) was involved in a couple of abortion in her previous relationship before getting married to her husband. This was what caught my attention.

I do mind my business but that revelation caught my attention, it like an everyday happening we know, but a thoughtccrossed my mind. There I was returning a product I had bought, because it not fit for use/purpose. I had worked hard to pay for the product, its either I get a refund or its replaced. Its a just and fair process.
How then is it that some men are suffering what they know nothing about? All in the name of love? Some would say women are not product you buy, I agree. But making another suffer for your miss doing, I would say is too much a price. Isn't enough trauma for your the husband, Knowing one Nigga was hanging one of your leg in Sokoto and the other in Portharcourt? You were not careful enough, you did not tell him of your situation, got married to him, and now you are claiming he does not love you.

If humans can come up with rules to protect consumer's interest, I believe such should be enacted to protect individual's entire life in the area of Marriage. Families should begin stating the specifications of their Sons and Daughters prior to taking vows.- just so we know what is, and what is not.
You might say ' test before taking vows' how about those that doe not believe and adopt this idea?
Morality is nose diving and there is no hope for it, and it's seen as modernisation.

Wait oo! Wetin I dey talk sef? ��
I no know I beg!

Jmichael1:
Good day my fellow nairalanders.
please i'm not good in writting,abeg make una pardon me.i just want to go straight to the point..
i'm michael,the first child of my parents(all boys)as a 1st son,i took 90% of my dad character of wish i don't like 70% of them but i can't stop acting like him,i behave exactly like him in almost every tin
I have tried all i could to stop bt no way...
Please want do u guys suggest for me to do?
i don't want to live the kind of life my dad lived.
please i need your advice...

KiNg0G:
I pity nigerias, I was expecting a massive protest on our streets nothing yet.. everyone just in their house grumbling... and complaining..

imagine you having #1000 and buying kerosene out of it.with a whole #600.... just to be able to prepare rice.
hope #400 will be enough to get the other stuffs?

That's why I don't pity poor people...they can't speak up for themselves.. that's why when they die like fowl in the streets, because of hunger.....it doesn't bother me.. especially the old ones....

RightToReject:
The reason isn't far-fetched; women are the weaker vessel, and a vice like pretentiousness is chiefly part and parcel of what it entails to be the weaker vessel. Of course, men have their own vices too.

As a man, to prevent being meted out with a pretentious act like the one in your story, you must always relate with a woman on a defined philosophy, nay you must have a standard you operate on, and must spell it out to her from the inception of your relationship with her.

Servility is as bad as cruelty, say no to both of them. Most men's undiscerning ability, inordinate need for validation and poor concept of respect, which makes them to wittingly or unwittingly use servility rather than justness as the standard to sustain their relationship with women, especially small-minded women, pre-marriage, enable pretentious acts from women and allow them to fester even in marriage in most cases.

As a man, you must consciously make a decision never to put a woman on a pedestal, and don't expect her to put you either, even though that is their understanding of being adored and the surest way to have them walk and work with you seamlessly. Putting them on a pedestal means using servility to sustain your relationship with them, which is always catastrophic in the long-term. Of course, the need not to put a woman on a pedestal doesn't negate being courteous to her and loving her genuinely if she's deserving of love.

Unfortunately, any man that lives for women's validation cannot live on the above philosophy.

References:
https://twitter.com/DrTedros/status/1521809560587186176?t=dQS2bffo8Vbi8Jhy4nW_hg&s=19[/quote]Na this same idiot talk sey human-to-human transmission of COVID no dey happen for Wuhan until it was exposed that it was actually happening. Werey. Access to abortion does not save lives it rather encourages the indiscriminate killing of babies. What happened to the use condoms, hysterectomy, vasectomy etc... if you want to have sex and prevent conception do so with the current technologies. It is better to do so than encourage conception and then abortion. These idiots want the steady supply of dead babies for their evil researches to continue.