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mach7:
The Russian Ministry of Defense said that the Biolabs of the United States Military located in 4 cities of Nigeria, specifically; Lagos, Abuja, Zaria and Benin was the source of the Monkeypox outbreak.

Please this should be properly investigated, as I wonder why Nigeria will consent for Biolabs of a foreign power to be established on its soil.

https://www.wionews.com/world/monkeypox-russia-alleges-us-labs-in-nigeria-spreading-the-disease-482819

Why won't our animalistic leaders consent? In a few months some of us are planning to go and vote in another animal.

wealthyhenry:
Women who have had their genitals mutilated are known to have low sex libido and they hardly have orgasm during sex. They are also said to be real wife materials as they could stay for years without the feeling of sex. You coouod count on them to be faithful, especially when or if you travel.

What's your take on them? Have you experienced them and would you like to marry one and if yes, why?

Trash! Female genital mutilation is evil. How about we slice the cap off your penis so that your own libido can also be brought under control to prevent you from bitching around? I will never tolerate such happening to my daughters and anyone that attempts it on my daughters will receive a death sentence (even if that person is my relative)!

Islandlady:
Yes, he is my newly found crush

I love his drama free personal life!
No fuzz no buzz. . . Can someone tell me if he is married or not, I want to shoot my shot!!!

Seun I am a very beautiful and hardworking lady o

What happened to your old crush? Soon enough you will turn Seun into an old crush. Abeg leave am for us.

Is the mass loaded vinyl material available for purchase?

Is this vinyl good for soundproofing?

I need this stuff! How can I get it.

assinozick042:
Am planning on relocating to kano to start my own biznex. Drug biz, am into wholesale and retail

Drugs like Tramadol? Codeine? Or what exactly!

Focwireless17:
Please I really need help from naira landers living in Kano because I am planning on relocating there in search for jobs. I studied biochemistry with a 2nd class upper and I am ready to do any work at all.
Also willing to relocate anywhere so far there is space for me.

HELP A BROTHER

Can you speak Hausa fluently?

I got this from a lady in the social club i belong to, she openly narrated dis to us at our last meeting and varioius kinds of advice from my fellow club members have been flying here and there to her, I decided to bring it here cos I believe we still have good people with useful advice on NL, especially dis family section.
Pls ur advice would be forwarded to her.

This is her story:

"Pls I nid a 'very urgent advise' on dis mata. Mysef n my husband have not bn in talking terms for a long period of time. Instead of loving him more these day, its hatred dat feels my heart. I have just decided to keep to mysef 'cos am tired of giving my best to d marriage n in return receive disappointments every day. He's the kind of man dat believes that helping a woman in d house is bad and unheard of, no mata how stressed out I am, he'll stil find one thing or d other he'll ask me to do 4 him, sometimes even at odd hrs of d day, while i'm trying to sleep. Now I want to change my attitude to him too (bt i dont mean infidelity, not because of him, but God, who sees everything), I know I've bn a loving wife to him and all his people, am planning to start acting as it pleases me no more as it pleases him, because my niceness and pleasant attitude has not been yielded any positive results, instead he makes me sad all the time.
Recently, without informing me, I came back from work one day to meet his elder brother in d house, when i asked, he told me the brother was here to stay, not a visit.
We live in a 2bedroom apartment and my privacy have been invaded as i had to vacat the other room for his brother. (i sleep in the same room with my hubby, but the other room is where a few of my stuff areI did agree to move out, but i'm thinking of moving my few stuff from his room to the other, while i move his brother's stuff to his, afterall there has not been any sexual activities btw us for some time now, so I see no reason in sleeping in d same room wit him anymo. Pls help me wit ur advise, I don't want to be blamed for any action am taking"[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]



She desperately need our advice before she makes the gravest mistake of her life.

Thank you folks.

She is already making the grave mistake. She is internalizing the hatred. Soon enough the hatred will become unbearable and only a divorce will settle the matter. The lack of affection in her home is rooted in mutual carelessness and demonic oppression. I know some will ask how demonic oppression comes into this matter but the truth is that it is not normal that someone who once professed love all of a sudden becomes the source of hatred. She needs to turn to God, abandon all ungodly options demons are marketing to her and discuss with the husband concerning the issues in the home.

QuinModah:
Hope you training your daughters too

By God's grace, yes. I cannot bear to what my daughters being used like rag the way I see modern ladies get used. There is nothing admirable in ladies having multiple sex partners, aborting multiple babies, becoming public toilets that randy idiots use regularly to ease themselves and becoming a single mother with little or no moral value to pass on to the next generation.

Lalami3232:

Your wife must be a nairalander

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you disvirgin your wife, go for DNA test ooooo"

Confam bro!

Oleys:
A Nigerian lawyer from Imo state who is based in France, Obinna Nwadike has accused his nephew, David Anyiam Chiagozie, of destroying his 15 years marriage following his family visit to Nigeria.

https://olumuyiwa.com.ng/2022/02/11/how-my-17yr-old-nephew-is-sleeping-with-my-wife-wrecked-marriage-of-15-years-read-the-sad-story-of-a-man-who-returned-from-uk-for-brothers-wedding-pics/

...and this is how you become a stupid husband man...

jaszplus12:
I'd always loved her even before she was born. And when she came she was my third offspring.
Cute at birth and she grew up with great love and compassion at everything she did.
As a girl child I'd always expected her "firsts" especially growing to from child to preteen and adolescence...
About three weeks ago she came to me and told me she's having cramps at her lower abdomen...I was slightly dazed cos at 12 I least expected she'll begin to have these experiences. But I guess we don't know what to expect!
I was both excited and unsure...I prayed she was prepared for the new phase of life...
Today, just got back from work and I was informed she's menstruating!!
Again mixed feelings!
Well...I just said to her...now you're truly growing up!

I'll love to hear from everyone about how they felt when their daughter told them about the first menses! Please let's share!

Train her well sir. Train her very well. Because these days it seems the spirit of stupidity has been unleashed on many ladies. I hear relationship issues that ladies are involved in and sometimes I wonder if their brains were surgically relocated to their butts. Train her to be wise. Train her to be chaste. Train her to be focused and purpose driven. Train her to be a solution to her world and not another addition to the community of bimbos.

Chosen44:
Please guyz i want u to teach how to be wicked cos i am sick and tired of people using my niceness for weakness and stupidity...all my years of good na bad i collect, i want 2 be wicked walahi make anybody wey go do me collect,cos my quietness and shyness has made some gutter mouthed witches whose only fufilment and achievement is their guttered mouth...wow just writing this is giving me,inspiration,so how do i go about it?make i see anybody wey go con question me again like say dem dey feed me or i be their slave....

You need to be baptised in the fire of vawulence. Don't worry the comrades will soon be here to usher you into the association of savages!

Cheasystickylov:
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.

I am happy you realized how foolish it was to ignore red flags. No matter how long you try you can never make semo with ice water. Some women have no business in marriages but some of you dumbos manage to marry them.

Number 1. Secure your finances. If this woman manages to take hold of your finances you are finished. Remove her name as next of kin in all your documents immediately and ensure she has no means to legally tap into your finances.

Number 2. Stop reacting to her stupidity. Leave her be. She will soon ruin herself.

Number 3. Counselling is not what you need. You need deliverance. Demons are competing for the remote control of your wife. They are playing ludo with your wife's brain. Go for deliverance, fast!

Number 4. No matter what you decide to do next, make sure that you will never be a fool again!

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

If your story is all there is to it then go take your baby so that whatever is wrong with her does not impact the baby. Dude don't get a nanny. Instead have your mom or any other female within your family tend to the child. Forget about what people will say, it is irrelevant. Dude I don't know how long you can endure but give this another 6 months. If she does not return to you then move on please. Next time don't be blinded by passions and end up with a demented lady!

JasonEkanem:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/24/2023-we-will-bomb-terrorrists-daily-until-they-run-away-amaechi/

Bomb terrorists daily? Ode. What if they use human shields? You will bomb them all abi. Oponu. Instead of locating their sponsors and extermination them wherever they are you are talking of bombing daily! Mumu.

Malory:
Osinbajo just like Buhari has failed woefully. Let's give Peter Obi the chance to take us to the promised land

You want to give another liar a chance. Dude no politician can solve Nigeria. Nigeria should be listed among the clay institute's unsolved math problems. Nigeria is unsolvable.

GraciousGod190:
I don't know if it's the right section for this, I happened to visit a friend of mine and he wasn't home, so I stood by the gate contemplating if I should go and come back later or wait a little longer. Suddenly people started running to and fro, inside their houses. One guy even left his smart phone in the chair he was sitting opposite a provision shop. Ah, all this while I just stood there wondering what's happening, before some set of vans of police drove pass the narrow street. they didn't even stop they were going somewhere else.

This isn't the first time I'm experiencing this mostly when i visit the rural areas... Advanced men runs.... young teens runs...adults run....so I always wondered why do they always run?

Why not stand still like the way I did?

They are not law enforcement officers they are suffering enforcement officers...their job is to compound the suffering of ordinary Nigerians because they themselves were trained through suffering. In Nigeria there is the rich and the guilty. If you are not rich you are automatically guilty as far as the police is concerned. You don't need to commit a crime in Nigeria to be a criminal, just be poor and you are automatically a criminal worthy to be exploited, maimed, shot, manhandled, extorted and trampled on by the police.

Olam09:

This Bobby risky picture got me like Laughing to death.

Egbere meji

If you don't have what it takes to survive a nuclear world war or a conventional world war you need to prepare yourself. When martial law or emergency rule takes over the availability of food, water and electricity will determine who lives or who dies and not necessarily who has money and who does not. Persons who live on farms and have tailored their lifestyle to survive in rural settings will have a better fighting chance than city dwellers who can easily be cut off from food supply. Prepare for the worst, people! Hope for the best.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look how Christians will condemn the act but insult me when I call the flaws in their religion out..well y'all are the same..beings who can't think for themself..

If a Christian does something bad the Christian must be called out. If a muslim does something bad the muslim must be called out. If we keep condoning evil because the perpetrator is an adherent of our religion one day that evil will turn around and bite us. Evil is evil. How will 400 men cross over to a women's section, desecrate it, humiliate a woman and you will condone it as being good? If those 400 men are not appropriately punished, and I know they won't be punished, then Pakistan, a muslim majority country, is another passage way to hell no matter how they clad themselves in the self-righteous garb of Islam.

OfficialAwol:
Why are you taking it personal?

Taking it personal? You are providing ladies with the advice that will rapidly turn them into hoes and you will be part of the very same persons complaining that there are no decent girls anywhere and that they are all hoes. You are asking ladies to learn new styles outside of marriage while they continuously keep doing abortions and lack any capacity to bond with a single man since they have made a life out of sleeping with multiple men in the name of having fun. Folks like you are a menace to the society and you will be part of those complaining when you are forced to drink from the same water you have polluted.

OfficialAwol:
"I'm only interested in serious relationships"

Your best strategy as a lady looking for husband is to remain that baby girl who still gives different styles in bed and shows no worries about the future to your guy.

In other words, never cease to be a bitch and hope that a fool comes around one day and scoops you off your feet into a marriage that will likely not last more than two years...any lady with an ounce of commonsense will realize that this idiotic excuse of a man is luring ladies into a life of servitude as a certified hoe.

questioner:
I'd like to summarize my issue, Confused on the way forward.

1. I met this beautiful babe at a restaurant - pretty face, fresh baby skin, nice catwalk. She was damn proportionate, average boobs, average butt, avg hips, average height, angelic look, you can take her anywhere kinda girl.
She leaves the restaurant some minutes before I do.

2. While driving out, I notice she's still at the bus stop waiting for a bus/cab, so I beckon her and gave her a lift home. We exchanged numbers.

3. Called her two days later asking to hang out, she was hesitant but I persisted and she later agreed

4. We chill out at a bar in the evening but she wasn't acting too friendly, not answering my questions and just behaving hesitant.
Infact, a friend I met at the bar wondered if i offended her, I explained we just met and don't know her too well.
Luckily, it was one of those Real Madrid Champion's league match days where Benzema was rescuing Madrid from the brink, which made up for her boredom.

5. We were about leaving when she got a call from her younger sister who said she was nearby with a mutual friend of theirs, so younger sis (YS) agreed to join us and then I'll drop them at home together.

6. YS came into the bar and behold she was a stunner! As beautiful as the older sis (OS) but she (YS) had huge boobs and was tall - not kidding but video vixen stuff.
Almost every man around turned as she made her way to us. I mean Those boobs was bouncing as she came in
She also turned out to be the life of the party extrovert, came in with a big smile, greeting everybody on sight and immediately initiating conversations.
infact about 3 guys came to the table adjacent us, just to take her number while we were there.

7. So I ordered another round of drinks and meat and peppersoup and since YS was easier to talk to, I was more comfortable
asking her about what they wanted to take etc, which annoyed the OS who asked why I was talking to her YS while she was with me.

8. It came to a head, when YS wanted to request for an extra bottle of water , I couldn't hear cos of loud music, so I placed me hand across her shoulder to pull her mouth nearer my ears (innocent action, believe me) so I can hear her. I suddenly got a slap in the back from OS who warned me not to try what I did again and totally stopped talking to me - I wrote her off after that incident.

9. Shortly after that, we decided to go home, I managed to slip my biz card secretly into YS hands and whispered call me, she looked annoyed and said 'why?'

10. Dropped the girls home and practically forgot about them, I felt OS was no go area and didn't think YS was going to call back...

11. Some days later, very early in the morning, my phoen went boooom....YS was calling and asking why I told her to call me. I suggested we meet later in the day.

12. Picked her up (at junction some distance away from their house) and brought her to my place. While I was still thinking of how to break the ice, she was already stylishly bombarding me with questions.
Do you stay alone in this big house - Yes
What job do you do - Banker
Are you married - No
Do you have kids - No
You must be old O ? - Just 31+
What about my sister - Nothing between us, I have not spoken to her since that day and that was also the first time we met

She seemed satisfied with all my answers cos she relaxed and became very chatty

13. She came back to my place the next evening and this time around we got smashing, it was mind blowing, she was amazing, energetic and that her long legs were put to good use.
I would have called her a 10/10 overall and one for the long haul aside the fact that she said she dropped out of Uni while her older sis is a graduate

14. She later warned we should keep things on the low for now cos her sister might not be happy.

15. Everything seemed to be going well until bang...bout a week later, I got a call from OS, she was obviously trying to win me back asking why I didn't call her back and sh*t
I just responded politely but she wasn't deterred, she kept calling like every other day, while I only called back once a while
in fact, I had to lie that I had gone for a training and would be away for the next 3 weeks.

16. Problem is, the 3 weeks will expire this weekend and this girl (OS) has promised to give me what she failed to do weeks earlier.
Talking smack about how she wanted to spend the night at my place but she was so angry back then bla bla and how she's looking forward to me being back.

Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes

What do I do?

a) Do the right thing and continue with YS

b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS

c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them

Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.

But NL people, what do you think ?

As soon as I read the bolded I knew you were a first class 'simp'!

Dorwadora:
Well.... The law is not totally bad in my opinion.... There are some few immunities here and there for women with incest pregnancy, rape and medical emergencies.


The law is bad because

No man has the right to tell a woman what to do with her body...... It's a "My body, my Fuccking choice" world now

And the law is bad because

The Earth is already overpopulated with it's 8 billion.....

Thank you

The earth is actually under populated...many advanced countries have ageing populations and youthful populations are mostly concentrated in Africa.

HonNL:
BREAKING: Oklahoma House, on a 73-16 vote, PASSES #HB4327 completely banning abortion from the moment of conception. Huge WIN!



SOURCE

VP Kamala Harris reacts;



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0.5IQ Kamala Harris, spouting nonsense as usual. Elect pro choice democrat leaders that turn everything they touch into shit. Good on Oklahoma. Whoever wants to kill babies should go some place else!

Gireiboy:
Stop contradicting yourself bro, who is going to arrest does traditionalist?

Arrest wetin. If these traditionalists get arrested very often will you be hearing cases of ritualists every now and then?